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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy who has a creepy obsession with a close friend of mine. He's head over heels for her, but she simply isn't interested. Well a little while ago I was at her house, we were just chilling. She got a call from the guy that likes her and his friend. After we all joked around on the phone both of the boys, who already had her on FaceBook, added me on FaceBook. While the guy that likes her hasn't talked to me much, his friend won't leave me alone. Every time I'm online he has to start chatting. Every five minutes he's calling me. It's been less then three days and he's called me over 30 times. This is just ridiculous! He keeps telling me that he likes me and that he wants a chance. And I'll be dead honest with you guys, I'm shallow. I mean I definitely appreciate personality but there has to be some physical attraction. On top of this, I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend and I went through a bunch of issues but I still care for him. My boyfriend's also a recovering heroin addict. Considering what he's going through, I'm not really in a position to leave him. So what do I do? I've considered telling him off, being a complete bitch, deleting him, call block, ect.I really need some advice, I just want him out of my life.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Block him on everything and ignore him completely. He will then be out of your life.
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reader, Nime  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 I'm assuming you've been ignoring all his calls. Whatever you do, don't pick up on the 31st call, or he'll have learned it only takes 31 calls to get you to pick up.
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reader, loriewilliams +, writes (25 October 2010):
 I just read your delima... You are the answer to your own question. A little tough love, only YOU can get this creep out of your life. From what I read, & personal experiences that I have grown through, "IF YOU REALLY DIDN'T WANT HIM IN YOUR LIFE, HE WOULDN'T BE!" The reality that I have identified with is, You like the attenchion this man gives you or else you wouldn't be playing cat & mouse. I wish my life was so easy. Number one rule: "BE TRUE TO THINE OWN SELF" & everything else will fall into place. Remember the xreep will be in your life until YOU decide he wont. May God Bless You
Lorie A. Williams
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): haha im for hire as ur bodyguard!! I took this question as more of a "wanted" and so I'll highly advise you call the police and block his phone and facebook or he will become wanted and I'll hunt his ass down. This isnt extreme measure youre taking as youre simply protecting your own personal well being and you must do whats necessary in such cases and you can never be too careful, esp with idiot men like this that you dont even know. Best to your bf in recovery and also with this.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Have you tried telling him you have a boyfriend, have you told him 30 times a day is just 29 times too many?
As for the creepy guy who has an obsession with your friend, tell her to tell him the same things!
And if that doesnt work block them on facebook and your mobiles!
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