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writes:I have been with my bf for 9 and a half months, a couple of days ago I performed oral sex on him for the first time (we has previously done other stuff) at the time it was like he was encouraging it (I started by kissing him stomach and got lower, he started moving his trousers lower and unzipped them, then was stroking my hair/the back of my head while I was doing it. Then a couple of days later he went home, to play a new video game he got the day before instead of coming to mine for an hour after the cinema. Is this normal behavior for a 17 year old boy, or is something likely to be wrong?
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reader, Will9444555  +, writes (25 October 2010):
Well I think he is being bad to you. I never really touch videogames, though i have many, so it might just be my opinion because I hate COD and I hate fifa but I still think he is an appaulling boyfriend. Just have a go at him for it and if he is dismissive of you then he is not worth the effort
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reader, bad romaance +, writes (25 October 2010):
 if its fifa 11 which i think it is ... dont stress it its just like a drug to boys they play it for hours on end
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Boys do tend to obsess over video games regardless of their age :) I wouldn't worry too much about it just yet. Unless of course it starts becoming like an addiction.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 This is very normal for a teenage boy - most boys love video games, and if they have a new one he wont be able to keep himself away from it! My boyfriend is 27 and when he gets a new game he cannot wait to play it, so I think it is normal for all boys to get a bit excited about a new game and want to play it whenever and wherever they can.
You have been together over 9 months so it is pretty clear he is not using you, he would have tried to make you do much more much sooner if he was, and then you would not have seen him again. So he is just being a normal boy, who is excited about his new game and wants to play it.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, soon567  +, writes (25 October 2010):
I think your ok here. I think what you want to know is you gave him a bj and a few day later you two went to see a movien then he had a choice you or a video game. The video game will win every time. He'll be back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): I think you are over reacting... boys are just like that! Sometimes, especially at that age they get all zoned out on their computer games or sport or whatever, it's really nothing personal against you. He will without a doubt not even realise, it's normal for him. If you are confused, remember you should always communicate, communication is so important. I don't think anything is wrong at all.
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