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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend brok up over 2 months ago an Im really having a hard time coming to terms with it! I do miss him very much but when we were together we would argue over the same things day in day out... i felt he put me second, he was always out with his friends.. he didnt want to go out with me just sit in all the time.. same stuff every day we would argue over! When i was with him i knew i didnt want to be with someone like that, and after 2 years together i just had enough, but now im worried he will never find anyone else which is upsetting me and making me think i should try again with him!Now hes gone i miss him but when i was with him i knew it werent working! i dont understand why im feeling like this..please any advice will help thank you x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): The answer that you want to hear is that you're still hurting and need to move on but what you should consider is if it wasn't working before, ask yourself why it wasn't working and what you or him could have done about it at the time and also why you chose not too. You initially got together for a reason too so should think about that.
If your missing him because you miss the company or are feeling sorry for him then thats no reason to get back with him as you will be wasting both of your times, but if you miss him because you have feelings for him still then think about your relationship before, what you or him could have done differently what things you and he thought were wrong with your relationship (be brutally honest) and what you can do to sort it out. Splitting up is one of the hardest thing anybody can go through and emotions tend to take control over rational thought. I would think about what I have said but don't rush back into things so that you are sure that your not just being emotional and are thinking clearly.
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