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*elle2472002
writes:ok, I am with a man of 8-9 years and we have 2 kids. He is really friendly and approachable. he has a million guy friends he knows, I mean everywhere we go some dude pops up and knows him. he even was friends with homosexuals in the past, which i havnt seen or heard from since we been together. for some reason i get a vibe from him when he like meets other guys. Ok, so this morning a comcast guy comes here, and he says homo all over him. and for the record i have no problem with homosexuals, they're actually cool peoples. but, the guy is like overly indulged in his conversation and when my man squats to sign the paper, i caught him looking at his ass! my man called me honey and asked for a pen and the guy was like "oh, are you talking to me..i'm honored" or some dumb stuff along them lines..hes on the way down the steps to leave and he comes back and gets my guys number. Now they both work at the same place and does to opposite different things and never met so they had something to convo about. this is not the first time i suspected gay play with my guy, he had a friend a while back that did anything for him, from lend him money. let us borrow his car, i mean what ever we needed he was there. but barely said 2 words to me when around. now am i being paranoid, or is there something not right?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Maybe before your time he was bisexual and leaned more towards the same gender, then switched back to women because he saw himself with a wife and kids....that's if he's older than you. Is this the first time something like this has happened? I can't say whether your husband has sugar in his britches or not..it's hard to say. It could be like I said and his past is coming back to tempt him.
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reader, nelle2472002 +, writes (25 October 2010):
nelle2472002 is verified as being by the original poster of the question In addition to this, iwatched body language while he talked and it was the same body language he did when I was around wit the guy who loaned us everything we needed. It was a body language a person meeting another person he or she is interested in and is kinda figgety or nervous..I just sense a difference from when he's around real friends which is layed back compared to this body language. I just feel like there was just a pickup in my own home...smh
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): If you are sensing something, there's probably a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): From the information you gave us your husband is extremely sociable. He probably has tons of business, personal, and random contacts. Sounds like a hes made a nice network for himself. Can you please share something else that would *actually* suggest he might be cheating on you w/ another guy?
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reader, raiders +, writes (25 October 2010):
 I honestly think something is up, my gut feeling tells me there is more than what he is telling you.
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