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writes: Well Me and My Boyfriend Have been together for 11months.. And are very open with each other. Yesterday my mom was out partying with a friend and i had the house to myself. I asked my boyfriend to come over and hang out. i had noooo intention of doing anything with him in a sexual way. He simply kissed me on the cheek. I asked him if he loved me. and he replied " of course i do, with all my heart". So i kept kissing him.. i noticed he kept flinching and kept acting nervous anytime a car would drive by or a gate would close. I begged him to calm down, and he said he was nervous because if my mom caught us she might say to end the relationship. i told him, she would be upset, but she would never be able to break us apart. That would be his and my desicion, not hers. So i begged him, if he loved me, to give me a small hickey on my neck. Just to calm him down. he didnt even make one, my neck was just super red. when he was just about to leave my mom was knocking on the door to come in, i told him to jump the fence and get out of here that way if anything happened i would get in trouble, not him. When she came in she asked about my neck and i told the truth, at that moment my moms friend called the house saying, someone jumped the fence from your house. She told my mom that she stopped him and for her to get over there a.s.a.p.. I was sooo nervous but forced my mom to take me that way if anything happened i would be able to get in the middle and protect. She yelled at him, how stupid and much of an "a"hole he was. And how im stupid because if we ever had sex i would go through with it and i would be stupid enough to get pregnant.. it hurt. i couldnt believe what my mom was saying about me. so i got out of the car and started yelling how dare she! and my boyfriend hugged me and told me to calm down and get back in the car..so as the rest of the story.. it was horrible.. i want my mom to trust me and for all of this to go back to normal..how do i do it?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 I bet you're sorry you got caught..Well, your mom lost trust in you when you invited your boyfriend over when she wasn't home. At least you told her the truth, good thing you didn't lie otherwise she would be even more mad..I don't agree with her saying those hurtful things but you know she said them out of anger. She's your mother, she's just trying to protect you. Now, I would let her blow off some steam before I approach her for a mother to daughter chat. Start off by apologizing for your actions, that you didn't me to break the trust between you two, that you won't do it again, and that you aren't doing anything sexual, and if you were you would ask her to take you to get birth control..and lastly, that you will never have your boyfriend in this house without her present ever again. And mean it! Mom's definitely know when you're bullshitting them. She's not going to give you trust overnight, it will take some time before you redeem yourself.
If I were you I would most definitely not being bringing your boyfriend home anytime soon..In fact it would be best if you went over to his house.
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