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writes:So I am dating this guy and I want to take it slow with him but we are both very hot for each other, but I still want to take it slow and not have sex, we've been dating for only a week. He invited me to his house to play guitar hero, but I'm afraid that if things get very intense, we end up having sex and I'm scared I won't be able to keep my commitment. So, should I go inosently to his house to play guitar hero and if something happens dare to say no or should I just avoid it completly. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Just dont be alone with him, other than that you will be fine. I was at a friends house and my ex shows up( and I had a bf at the time) for a while all 3 of us were playing Nazi zombies then my ex tells me to sit on his lap. So like an idiot I did. Then he was felling me like crazy. So I did back and next thing I know we were in my friends room having sex with my ex. So yeah video games can lead into sex.
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reader, cca9130 +, writes (25 October 2010):
cca9130 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks! those answers are really good :D
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Avoid it completely if you aren't sure if you will be able to say no. Or don't shave your legs or armpits so you wont be comfortable being naked around him, or write something nasty with pen on your belly so you won't want to take your shirt off. Or only go to his house when you are on your period...? Or wear some ugly underwear? That way it will be a lot easier to say no...
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reader, PLAYFUL  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Well if u go to his house take friends more then one and don't go to his house alone you will cave and take it fast a week is to soon and that may be all he wants so go out for more time and do it when your ready ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Never pegged playing Guitar Hero as a sexual thing. An intense gaming session should be fine, and there is that lovely 2 letter word of refusal
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 I didn't know Guitar Hero was such a turn on, maybe I should buy one.
If you already know that you can't keep a lid on your raging hormones then don't go over to his house. Or bring a friend, and leave with that friend..Little secret, after only dating a week that's way too soon to jump in the sack..hold out about a month. Just to see if he is really into you, and not just after sex.
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