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writes:i am single and the man i started seeing is married but is here working in my state.he says his wife wont come down and see him and she dont really have much to do with him when he is home.before we started having sex, he was my customer at a dealership service dept, we hit it off from day one.before we had sex we agreed that there would be no strings and no bull that he wasnt going threw another divorse. we agreed.for 9 weeks we have been having the most intense sex im talking sweat for hours,but we never just layed there and talked after.he never walked me to my car nothing,just sex..then couple weeks ago he started being very gentle,when i walked in the door he would hug and kiss me,walk me to my car,wanting to lay and talk,and want to see me everynight,we became friends, but when i ask not to see him for lil,but then relized i made a mistake,well he wont have nothing to do with me. he said it would be best for both of us not to see each other. did he fall for me and i hurt him or did i confuse him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): I guess if you don't want to hurt anyone because you are only there for sex, you should stay away from taken men. You are hurting their wives and their families; they are someone.
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reader, MAGGIE2010 +, writes (31 October 2010):
MAGGIE2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for responding to me, but the whole problem is i dont want a relationship,i dont want to be hurt or to hurt him. that is why i choose taken men,cause i know they cant get attached,but this guy was differant than i have ever had or been with,he was everything i was ever looking for and he was me...he hunted,fished,loved to swim and boat,loved to travel and work, and most of all he is the only one that i have ever felt a connection with when having sex,the sex was just out of this world,I dont now if it is him or the sex i miss.or i just miss him.i dont know,he will not return calls or text mess.he shady buttoned me last night and it made me mad so i texted him a pretty well known how i felt text,told him if i was the friend that he said i was then he must not have the balls to tell me what had happen,and that i thought he was a better person then this but sex must have gotten in my way of good judgement,then i text that i guess i wasnt worth an explanation. nothing it has been 2 days and nothing.I dont know what he is thinking but it bothers me,not that i am in love but i thought of him as a friend and i dont want to just end it this way and not ever know what happened.I think i desirve that at least,but apparently he dont. its been 2 days and i deleted him out of my phone.Guess i was nothing to him but a bootie call.. but i do miss it,i ask him if i could be with him one more time before he left for old time sake because he would leave and i would never see him again,still no response.what do you think.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 No, he didnt fall for you, when you suggested you take a lil break, and then changed your mind he realised he was in a situation that could get messy and so he ran!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): He's a married man. He made it clear he wasn't interested in leaving his wife although he mentioned that she doesn't do anything for him. Well, obviously she does if he doesn't want to leave her.
He probably started feeling guilty about the affair and decided it was best to end it.
Does it matter much anyway, if all this was no-strings-attached? I say move on with your life, find someone to date who isn't already married. You'll get much more satisfaction out of that relationship, anyway.
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