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36-40,
anonymous
writes:oh my, ok so i joined a new school in kickboxing, co-ed, anyway i love it and am very focused when i go, but at the same time, there's this girl who i don't see every class (regina) and since the first time i saw her i noticed she keeps licking her lips at me, like slow, tip of the tongue running on upper lip, then a tongue extension and retraction on the bottom lip, and makes rather intense eye contact while doing so. i notice that it happens frequently and consistently with me, and i haven't seen it happen with others. is that enough to deduce some sort of attraction? i mean, it seems super sexual, like so intense that i have to look away every time. also, she laughs A LOT, and VERY hard, which i notice is her personality, but with me it's like i don't have to do anything, i am not even TRYING to be funny when she laughs. anyway, so i started trying to be funny, and she again laughed very hard, while calling my jokes corny... what the ?one time we were doing partner stretching where i had to lean on her back while she sat upright, with her legs crossed, and push down on both her knees. when time was up, i asked her if it was a good stretch and she groaned a "yeah" and when i sat down in my spot across from her she looked at me intensely again and rolled her eyes. another time i was pretending to kick another girl, an older woman who definitely flirts with me nonstop (it's easier to tell because i am not attracted to her lol) and i would inhale and exhale deeply with each kick, and she looked at me and went "ohhh yeah", and then regina looked at her half laughing and half nodding and then nodded "oohhh yeah." when i asked what was so funny regina didnt say anything and the older lady just laughed it off.now, i've been told i read into things too much (shy nature i guess) so plz don't spare my feelings if i am going too deep.anyway, i am super shy, i am mid 20s, never had a makeout sesh with a guy or girl, and so am clearly an inexperienced virgin. i'm reaching a point where i can't stand it anymore.i neeeeed something, i need to break out of this bubble, and watching porn isn't enough anymore. so as for this girl, is it something worth trying to pursue? i mean, it's just the lip licking and laughing, but i notice we've been opening up to each other more (ppl there say she seems kind of closed, except to certain people that she knows a bit better)every time i see her i quite literally want to pounce on her. or back her into a corner and devour her. lol. how likely does it seem that she's attracted to me? i feel like each scenario is somewhat ambiguous. if it doesn't seem likely let me know. if it does, what am i supposed to do?again, super shy, inexperienced, virginthanks a lot for your time guys
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Dude, there's no 100% guarantee of not getting rejected unless you flippin' ask so stop looking for one. There's always a risk, but its worth taking in this case for sure.. She may be interested in you that way or that may just be her personality- so find an excuse to see her outside of class and ask her if she wants to go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just realize that when i said *rolled her eyes* i meant lick her lips...
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