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I hate porn! Is it true all men watch it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 21 year old girl, and I HATE porn. I really, downright hate it. I think that, because of it, I may be doomed to stay single forever. I had a boyfriend until recently. He watched porn, but I just had to deal with it and it killed me inside. He knew I disliked it, but... (300 words

My husband doesn't love me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Please Help me!! I feel unloved and alone in my marriage....let me start with some backround....please read everything and help me..i dont know what to do....ok..... well let me start by saying im 19, but married last year to a forign 14-15 year older man....i had a really b... (480 words

How can I make him happy???

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Please Help me!! I feel unloved and alone in my marriage....let me start with some backround....please read everything and help me..i dont know what to do....ok..... well let me start by saying im 19, but married last year to a forign 14-15 year old man.... i had a really b... (501 words

Help! I have a crush on my boss and it is clear he has one on me.

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15 June 2010 (F age - I have a crush on my boss and it is clear he has one on me. I can tell by his body language and the way he looks at me. he is very relaxed around me. He stares at me and gives me second looks whether me sees me in a crowd with the rest of the staff. I feel my body language ... (209 words

Sex isn't such a big deal... right???

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - When sex pops up in a conversation why is it that I am not such a big fan about it as my friends? I haven't done it yet and i'm 18 years old. I just chose not to have it and i'm fine with it. But i have a boyfriend and i would like to have sex but at the same time i really ... (173 words

His first love is his Playstation... then me!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - He doesn't seem to want to be with me any more. He would rather spend time snuggled up with his playstation controller than with me. He takes it so seriously as well, swearing and getting mad at the game - it almost makes me jealous as he never takes me that seriously. His ... (97 words

I feel he's stifling me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating *Brandon for almost 2 years. He's quiet and sometimes open. We can tell each other everything but lately I haven't felt like i wanted to kiss him or be really affectionate. It doesn't seem like a big deal but he's always kissing me and ALWAYS on my back and I'm ... (173 words

Do I pursue him or am I wasting my time?

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15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really like a guy and I've liked him since 2009. The problem is he's 3 years older than me and doesn't seem to know i exist. He's seen me around a few times but still he doesn't smile at me or wave or anything. we talk on face-book but in real life it's as if I'm invisible. i ... (156 words

Does he only want to be friends with benefits again?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok so i got a text from my ex bf and he wants to get together again to hang out...We are friends at this point. anyway the last time we hung out it was like friends with benefits... what-ever its great sex! So the last contact we had was that i told him that I enjoyed the sex! ... (126 words

How do I tell her I think she's "the one"?

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for around 6 months now, and she's amazing. We're really into each other, and I've never felt so much for any girl in my life. I believe I have finally found the lady I want to take my virginity. My main concern is how do I bring this up with her... (160 words

Why did he even call me???

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15 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - My bf from long ago (24yrs) called me several months ago because he was having trouble in his marriage and wanted advice. I helped him suggesting books and such and then after several calls told him I didnt feel comfortable helping him thru this because it was obvious we s... (187 words

Me and girlfriend are on a break.. concerned.

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15 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright.. I'm male. 14. Been in a relationship for a year and a half. I'm abit freaked out because.. well with everything. My girlfriend and me have usually been great.. you know happy couple, she's always been the random (abit childish) but happy one... i've always been happy ... (308 words

Why does it seem like he doesen't care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - i had a miscarriage about a month ago. It really upset me and i feel so alone, my boyfriend neva seems to talk about it. But he is fine talking about his mum having a miscarriage. I asked him why this was and all he said to me was is cuz he is wierd. I need to know what people ... (77 words

Against abortion but can't parent a child right now!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - i would like to let everyone know that i'm not 13-15 but im unable to change it on my profile, i am 21. i am 6 pregnant by my ex. we were together for 2 years and when i told him about the pregnancy he said he didnt love me anymore. he has been both emotionally and ph... (184 words

A virgin and embarrassed by it???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi this is probably a stupid question but i was just wondering whether anyone has actually been too embarrassed to tell someone they are still a virgin, i'm 19 and probably going to be a virgin for a while as i have am battling an illness right now but i wanted to know if ... (68 words

Is he just lonely or does he really miss and love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my ex were together for a year before we split up and i moved back home to the other side of the country. soon after the split we got back together LD because neither of us could afford to move close to the other. our problems got worse when we were LD. whereas before he ... (423 words

Do you think my friend is trying to set me up with her friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Do you think my friend is trying to set me up with her friend, and should i meet up with him/them ?. She has said quite a few times that he really wants to meet me, and she said he is a nice guy, and that he is six years older than me. She has just got a new boyfriend recently ... (182 words

Lost and in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. We love each other and have been through a lot including break ups that are slowly getting more frequent. (this worries me) In the beginning he was completly enamored with me. I took his virginity. He took me places bought... (232 words

Fallen in love with my best friend...

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - First of all, I'm sorry this is sooo long! Guess I just needed to get all my thoughts out. I've fallen in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do about it. This friend and I have always been close but I always thought it was just platonic between us until he had ... (575 words

Should I drop a bombshell and tell him I want to be with him for ever?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - In September 2007 I moved to this other country (Place A) to go to college there. December 2007, 2 days before my flight(I was going home for Christmas) I met this guy at the club I always went to with my girlfriends. We went outside, started discussing politics, everything ... (1633 words

Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks everyone!... (56 words

What does it mean when a guy won't give out his number but will ask you for yours?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy won't give out his number but will ask you for yours?? I saw this extremely hott guy checking me out (he looked like a model)at a bar... he kept looking at me and smiling and we started talking, he seemed real sweet and nice, then he had to leave an... (285 words

Help! My ex broke my heart and keeps calling me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years and he broke up with me because he said he needed space and time to him self.. I was sooo sad and depress I was really sad..  He said he wanted to live life and enjoy being 21 and we lived togetheir so it hurt me alot waking up every ... (488 words

I hate that I lied to my mom, might be pregnant and can't enjoy sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old girl and me and my boyfriend have been dating for eight months. It started out rough with me and my boyfriend because my parents weren't a big fan of his because of thingsthey heard and family history but I finally got m parents to realize how great of a kid ... (411 words

Am I right not to trust my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've now been with my boyfriend for 9 months and over the last few months, I just don't trust him. He has this "good friend" who just so happens to be female. And I don't have a problem with that, but, he actually told me early on in the relationship that they had done th... (336 words

My boyfriend would rather drink than take care of his family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Thanks for taking the time to read this. im 18 years old, 5 months pregnant with my first child i never planned for it to happen this early on in my life but it just happend and once i saw my baby moving around on the screen i knew i couldn't get rid of it, its apart of me an... (317 words

I'm engaged but in love with another man!

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am engagged to be married this year,but i have developed feelings for this married man that was just my friend at first, i never expected to like him but I do now i thinnk i am in love with him we have decided to stay clear of each other but everytime we see each other we so ... (136 words

Help! How can I help my friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys i am 13 and ive been irresponsible by having a child a year ago and my best friend stuck by me and so did the father but now she's pregnant, i mean she loves being around my baby girl, Freya, but she thinks shes ready to have her own but i dont. She is very responsible ... (119 words

Am I crazy for wanting this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - This may be long and i truly apologize for it. Ive posted question about this guy before...we had worked together and i flirted with him but didnt know if i should make a move or not then it just kinda grew and we were very close..then my bestfriend got upset...she didnt like ... (737 words

Why can't I orgasm after masterbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My problem is I cant get orgasm or cum while masturbating what is the reason?? Or it's something natural??... (19 words

Is the honeymoon over? How can I bring it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi. me and my boyfriend have been together 3 months. its a very loving and close relationship, infact we both agree it feels like we've been together 3 years rather than 3months. anyway, the past week has been difficult. i know it cant all be perfect all the time, but i had ... (231 words

I think my boyfriend isn't interested anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - iam in a relation with my boyfriend for 3 month and we had a very good relation actually he loves me from last year in school and now he isnt calling me or saying nice words (he usually does) i think he doesnt love me anymore he dosent let me feel that he loves me :( plzzzz... (73 words

Is fourteen too young to lose your virginity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old girl. I met my boyfriend a year ago and have been going out with him since but we have broken up 3 times but got back together. It may sound like a childish relationship but i no that its not. Iv had silly little boyfriends in my past but this boy is just ... (454 words

Should I have sex with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - i want to sleep with my ex-boyfriend soooooo badly...its been 9yrs or 10yrs...he wants to also..we have been conversating for about 4 months now....should i go for it.....???? ...we were young and immature when we were together back in the day....now that we are older and more ... (67 words

If I was open about liking girls and boys with my classmates, will I be a target?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - If i tell everyone at school i like girls aswell as boys would i be brave or stupid? i cant decide all these questions are in my head and its confusing me i just want to be myself for once i have too pretend to be someone am not and i hate it i have lived with it for 3 years ... (131 words

My girlfriend flat-out lied to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have been with my girlfriwend for almost a year and I love her like no other. We are both divorced with children and I now live with her( I moved in to her house a month ago). We have had our moments and fights about stuff like her most recent past before meeting me (she had ... (430 words

Is 18 too young to buy the sex toy called a "bullet"?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

15 June 2010 (? age 30-35 - Is 18 too young to buy a bullet? As in the sex toy. I feel like dildos and vibrators are for much older women - but I've never had an orgasm :(... (32 words

I'd like tips on how to make up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I was hanging out with this guy off and on for 3 yrs. We never but a label on what we were. I mean it was like we were bf and gf. Anyhow he's mad at me and not talking 2 me now. We've been through this before him getting mad and not talking 2,but eventually he would talk 2 me ... (249 words

Is my husband lying about having affairs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Okay, straight forward, here it goes...Husband and I have been together for 5 years...Where he worked there was a woman who would come over to the house when we had barbeques and stuff...fine. She came over with her boyfriend at the time once, fine. My husband would tell me ... (375 words

My husband wants a three-some. Is that normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband of 15 yrs and I always had great sex. Two years ago he made a statement that upset me. He said he wanted to have another woman join us because he has been with the same girl for 13 years. He says he loves me and just wants to add ecitement to our sex life. Is this ... (67 words

Is this love? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Can you love someone even though you don't talk to them hardly ever anymore? I feel like im inlove with my first love, i can never seem to get over him as soon as i see him i go all jellyfied and i feel like im inlove once he told me to jump off these garages coz we was sitti... (136 words

How can I help him open up to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is there a way to get my boyfriend who spent eighteen years in prison that will easily get him to open up and share emotions . I want to know if there are things I could learn to help guide him to open up and share his feelings and emotions verbally. He only shows me this ... (138 words

Why do some straight women read/write male-on-male fiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello there, I'm a 23 year old woman from Indonesia. I am single and heterosexual, I can tell, because I don't feel like it with another women. A pair of breasts is more than enough. I am also very into guys, and Dear Lord, some guys are made just for temptation purpose, ain't ... (730 words

He won't let himself cum because I can't cum. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have something that is bothering me. I have been seperated from my husband for about a year. I have recently had sex with someone whom I used to be partners with and we have a long history. The sex is fantastic and I enjoy it completely. I do get wet and I do want more ... (133 words

Does she like me or is it wishful thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ive been liking this girl for almost 2 years now I asked her out before i even got to know her 2 years ago and she regected me... Recently we have been chatting loads and she sits nex to me in class quite a lot even though she doesnt have to. Since i last asked her out sh... (134 words

Help! Should I be trusting my boyfriend?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im utterly confused over where to go with my relationship of 9 weeks. Im only 19, so many of you may think im too young to be thinking as serious as i am but ive been in a abusive relationship before and i cant do that to myself again as i ended up in a mental health hosiptal ... (253 words

Should I be concerned about how close they are?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. He has always had this bestfriend that is a girl. They have been in school together since elementary. But they hooked up more than once in high school. Well lately he has been talking so much crap about her. And he ... (179 words

Is this worth sticking with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay so i have a problem and need advice.. i met this guy about a month ago and we've been talking everyday and have hung out about 6 or 7 times .. hes brought me around his friends and has me over his house to meet his mom. now he knows im a virgin and we've only gone ... (381 words

I want my family back together! Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a 2 year old son and have been living together for 2 1/2 years. For awhile it felt like we weren't in love. I moved out this past weekend and now I'm missing him like crazy. I can't stand being away from him and I think he ... (137 words

Why is he talking "crap" about me after we've had sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I slept with a boy I know on Saturday (we were both drunk). Everything was fine and we were talking afterwards. The next morning I was a quite off with him, but I was planning on apologising about this. Today at college however, his best friend came over to me and was telling ... (141 words

Looking for sex tips to impress new boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hi cupids ;) well tonight I'm going to have sex with my new boyfriend and I realy want to impress him, problem is he is alot more experienced than I am?! Can I have some tips?? Much apreciated we use protection etc so pregnancy and sti's aren't a worry!... (51 words

How does my former classmate feel about me now, ten years later?

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I dont know what to do about this guy. I had a crush on him from when i was 14-16 years old at school. Back then, i never knew how he felt about me, but, he used to sit at my table everytime we had a class together, and once, when it was breaktime, we were sat in a classroom ... (1163 words

He's cheated on me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years we moved in together after 3 months and everything was going well. He was posted to Afghanistan as he is in the forces so for the next 12 months I was on my own with no family or friends around to help me get through it. He would ... (213 words

Can this relationship turn around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I almost broke up 2 weeks ago. I managed to convince him we should stay together. The 2 weeks following were very strained and draining. He then said again that he doesn't think he's right for me. In my anger of how much he has hurt me in the past month, I told ... (188 words

Am I pregnant and how do you act after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - 1. I had sex without a condom but he didn't cum inside me...I started my period when I was suppose to but its like nothing...like barely anything is there....could I still be pregnant or is my body just reacting to the sex? 2. how do u act normal or make things not so aw... (100 words

Is he really interested? Do I text too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Been on three dates with this guy. Had a brief kiss on the second date (dinner at his home) and a long kiss on the third date. He is planning to come to dinner at my home and stay the night because he lives 1 hour away. I text him everyday and sometimes he does not text me ... (101 words

Relationship help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age - Hi I had a private mail... Subject: relationship help...., from on 11 June 2010 (4 days ago ) Hunny if you read this I could not answer as you had not put a name' I would like to help...Hopefully you will read this and we can go from there with love Mandy xxx [Moderator's ... (87 words

I'm so confused and don't know what to do...

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15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and one of my guys friends have been hanging out alot lately. We never really have before and all my friends think it's weird. I fell down the steps at a hotel ( we where there for a trip ) and I had been sitting in the stairwell for a good 15 minutes. Then I heard ... (238 words

Is he just scared of being hurt again,,,?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - First I need to give a little background information. I reunitied with an old male friend about 9 months ago. I have known him since I was twelve as he was friends with two of my old teenage boyfriends. He actually introduced me to my first husband at the age of 14. We were ... (661 words

Getting too close to a married friend helping me through my divorce - how do I stop these feelings?

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15 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for almost 15 years. My marriage has never been great and I've FINALLY built up the strength to leave my husband. While parts of me love him, I have never, nor will I ever be IN LOVE with him. I have great friends who are helping me through getting out. ... (348 words

My girlfriend had sex before we met!

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - HEY. Me and my girlfriend is together for 2 years and got engaged some time ago [e-mail address removed]. My problem is that I cant deal with the fact that she slept with four guys before we started dating. When I think of this I get so angry that I dont get a shortnes... (78 words

My brother's ex wife moved in with me and is expecting my baby, am I a bad person?

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15 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - My brother and his wife split up last october as he was being unfaithfull and they are currently going through a divorce. His wife didnt mind as they both decided that the relationship didnt work. However we all stayed friends and carried on seeing each other at weekends etc. ... (199 words

Do you think there will be any chance of us getting back together?

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I had been with a guy for nearly 4 years and a couple of months ago he broke up with me. Two days later he decided to start seeing a 17 year old girl (he is 22) who I had previously asked whether he had feelings for. He assured me that he was madly in love with me and that ... (224 words

My friend is calling my lover what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - My query is that i have a lady who has twins with me,before i got her she had had 2 men before and she had 1 child baby boy.after some time, she started telling my friend all the weaknesses we had,but i suspected that she has had sex with him because my friend now days doesn't ... (102 words

I want to suggest fooling around how should I approach her?

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have this friend who I've known for a few years now and I'm pretty sure that when we first met we both had crushes on each other. Nothing ended up happening and by this point we're good friends. We both just graduated college and she is now deciding which grad school to ... (181 words

I'm falling for my boyfriends best friend, what should I do?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I find my self falling for my boyfriend’s best friend, what should I do? I just recently started dating my boyfriend “bob” , he is really good to me and every one continuously tells me how lucky I am to be with him and how jealous they are of the way he treat me. His best fri... (429 words

My girlfriend and her many exes

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - "OP Own Title" I'm a teen lesbian and I really dislike my girlfriend being friends with her considering that either they are in love with her or wouldn't mind trying to make out or kiss her. She recently was told by an ex that they were I'm love with her and she said she wasn't ... (161 words

Ex boyfriend saw me and ignored me, how can I get him to be civil? I'm so upset.

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - so, saw my ex boyfriend at a bar we frequent, it's been about a month since we last spoke. and he completely ignored me and left within 5 minutes of me being there...it was a bad break up, he dumped me by text. i got mad, said some things, he said some things back, all very ... (362 words

We use the pull out method for birth control but now I'm worry I might be pregnant!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Possibly pregnant-but don't know how to find out.. I'm a 20 year old university student who recently had intercourse with my boyfriend. Due to medical issues I can't take birth control and he can't use condoms. We have been using the pull out method(yes I know there ... (171 words

How do I stop myself thinking paranoid thoughts when my guy is genuinely busy?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I have been in this relationship for 2 and a half years now. In march this year we had a huge fight I went all quiet and started doing other things which never involved him. He would text me and phone but I kinda shut off not wanting to talk to him, then we had a nice chat ... (175 words

Are all guys straight forward or are some shy too?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi i need some advice on guys! Most people say that guys are simple and straight forward, if they like you they will show it or they will tell you or tell someone (e.g your or his mate) People say they dont mess around and say they dont when they do because they;re shy or ... (301 words

He seems to have just vanished, should I text him again or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

15 June 2010 (? age 41-50 - Met this nice guy. Spent a few days together. I could see he liked me, but nothing really happend. We just had a few nice dates. He texted me every day since our last date then suddenly I haven't heard form him in 2 days. i texted him pretty casually saying wozzup? and stuff ... (85 words

He wants to give me his virginity, but is having problems getting it up..

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Am 29 and he is 27 and a virgin. we have been going out for two years now and we had never slept together. recently he said he said now he is ready to take it up and have sex with me but everytime we try he cant have an erection. we tried everything but to no avail what could ... (63 words

I feel distressed that I misunderstood her text and now she won't forgive me..

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, I am young man of 24yrs and in a relation with a lady for 3yrs now. I left town for work in another city for six month now. But we do communicate on phone all times. Last night she sent me an SMS which I replied the following day. Some few minutes later she calle... (166 words

My vagina has this smell which is making me uncomfortable..

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have this ugly bad smell at my vagina, dont know why but i have it. I shower atleast 2 times a day when i have my period sometimes more, even if i take a bath. After intercourse i shower before intercourse i shower after intercourse the smell is really bad is there anything i ... (146 words

How can I make my not so innocent husband see I'm completely honest with him?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband had an affair for 12 months with a woman from work. I knew what was going on but hadnt had it confirmed by him. He wasnt nice to me at all, putting me down and pushing me away, however I remained the supportive wife allowing him to do his own thing and encouraging ... (521 words

My guy friend acts weird--does he like me?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, is there something my guy mate isnt telling me? A bit of background info....We don't talk a lot, there's a group of 4 of us that usually go out into town at night. He's always acted strange with me, he's known me for quite a while and he only knows the other 2 through ... (458 words

I can't deal with him leaving me , so I call him constantly!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - im 16. have been with this guy for 1 and a half years and we have had sex alot of times. now, he have abondoned me. i feel so lost and awful. i try to resist myself from calling him but i cant. i keep calling him and he's giving me cold treatment. i cant stop crying. ... (57 words

Online communication is great! In person it is almost non-existent!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I really like this guy, and I think he likes me back. I’m worried that I’m getting my hopes up over nothing so could you tell me what you think, please? We started off as mutual friends just speaking on msn but we’ve grown a lot closer recently. Things have really changed ... (314 words

Is this light period, my period- or a sign of pregnancy?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so me and my fiance have been using the pull out method for aslong as I can remember,were not trying for a baby but if it happens it happens,we would both love a child and be very happy,anyways I always have a regualr period and came on my period on the 21st may then I came ... (102 words

How do I tell my boyfriend I need space without hurting his feelings?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and we've become extremely dependant on eachother. We're with eachother 24\7 and if we're not, we constantly text. But now i feel like, if i've text him just to say hi or whatever, he'll strike up a conversation about ra... (127 words

Am I wrong to be sad about the way my husband is acting?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have this problem me and my husband is getting along well,he recently started a new job. But he and the lady that works together is getting along but too much if you ask me,we went to a bbq the other day she where there he looked at her the whole night not once did he looked ... (433 words

Will my future husband be able to tell I'm no longer a virgin?

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Feeling very guilty. Hi,I had sex with a guy few months ago, am feeling very guilty about it now.getting very scared to marry. I had sex only once for few minutes and i did not bleed.will my husband come to know that i have lost my varginity when he will have sex with me?? is... (102 words

Could this ruin our friendship?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi guys, im quite confussed on the situation me and my best friend have gotten into. i have addmitted to her that im bi sexual and she said that she has a curiosity for hooking up with girls aswell. one night her mum said it was easy for girls to hook up and she completly ... (95 words

I don't trust my boyfriend's best friend!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and i'm still really jelouse when he goes out with his best friend who i don't trust.. i know this is pushing us apart how do i learn to stop being so jelous and trust my man?... (47 words

Are we still together?

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i just recently had a discussion about where we were standing in our relationship. she told me that for a reason she can't really explain she sees me as more of a friend than as a boyfriend, more so than she has in previous months. it seems to me that this ... (784 words

Is there still a chance for a relationship?

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy around a week ago. he gave me his number and we met up three times. During the first two 'dates' he was very polite and we kissed only on the cheek and were just friendly with each other. On the last date (today) he told me he liked me and we ended up in bed t... (143 words

Does he want a relationship or not?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, I met a man at the end of last year. He was eight months separated from his wife, with divorce pending. He is a loving dad and misses spending every day with his children terribly. He did try and work things out with his ex wife (she cheated) bu... (454 words

Is it possible to do this while sleepwalking?

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well basicly last wednesday i discoverd a sex site in my fiance's name, emial adress, pic and even his regular password(all of which i knew). obviously i confronted him, and he said he knew about the site and had been trying to get rid of it for ages and that he didn't create ... (213 words

He thinks I'm cheating!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi Everyone. Am so sad, confused, annoyed and upset. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Am 21 years old and he is 29. We are great together, we enjoy each others company but there is an obstacle that is bringing our relationship downhill. Its about our ... (306 words

Are warts contagious?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently discovered he has a wart on his thumb. Shortly after without realising he fingered me. Will i get warts in my vagina? please help!... (32 words

Should I forgive my ex?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend (whom is my ex now)at the time were perfect in the beginning. the thing is he left his ex to be with me but something was telling me that him and his ex were def more than just friends afterward. id ask him plenty of times and he'd always say they were just ... (200 words

She's much younger than me, is a relationship possible?

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - please help me! i am in a big confusion recently i fall in love with a girl, who is 10 years younger than me. please suggest to me that i am in a right way? it is possible for this much age difference? please reply. thanks in advance... (74 words

How can I start a conversation with her?

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - There is this cute girl that walks her dog by my house every day and I just dunno how to approach her. I was hoping someone could give me some tips since I'm kinda nervous about approaching her.... (39 words

Should I trust her?

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15 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - 2 years ago i started playing a game, Lieange.Well i started it to stay away from my bad habbits, gambling, going to casinos and stuff like that. I just felt that i need to replace that "hobby" with another. Im not the kind of guy to look for girls over the net and such, but ... (533 words

How can I get him to give our relationship another chance?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am reposting this in hopes for a males perspective and honest advice! There were a few incidents in the beginning of our relationship where he flirted with others in my presence. On facebook there are pics of him and others, some are recent and others are from his vacatio... (569 words

My boyfriend doesn't see me as part of his future!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age - I just listened to a voice message left by my boyfriend. I have been bothered by the fact that he doesn't ever talk about having any kind of future with me (this has bothered me for a while). I guess I know why now. He's apparently not planning one! I just don't understand... (268 words

It is hard to date when I have herpes

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - i dunno what to do. well first off i have herpes. but no one knows not even my friends. so when i meet guys i sabotage things really quickly, before it can get to point where id have to tell him and hed be gone. so wherever i meet a guy, example we dance xchange #s go on a date ... (135 words

He kept asking me to repeat that I loved him, did he not believe me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hopefully you don't find this a really silly question but I'd like to hear your views. I have a lot of trouble expressing my feelings. I grew up in a house where we never hugged or said that we love each other. I'm now in a relationship with an amazing guy, my first ... (234 words

Is it normal to get dry after having an orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 June 2010 (? age 30-35 - I was having sex with my fiance, and yes, I was incredibly turned on. I was incredibly wet, even through the many different positions. I had two orgasms, back to back after we had been in one position (a variant of missionary,) and then I got very dry. Now, my boy and have our ... (257 words

Why did I cheat on the perfect wife?!

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - I need help! I got married when I was twenty one. To my beautiful, caring and amazing wife. But a couple months ago I did something terrible... I cheated. I was out of town. My job causes meh to be gone a lot more now and I. Was having sexual urges and I met a woman at a bar... (327 words

I'm so shy that I can't open up to my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi,i made up with my ex recently and the problem is that i dont feel him as much as i used to but he's deeply in love with me.we send each other lovey dovey texts and he calls me daily.yesterday he told me that he loves me via phone conversation but i wasnt in a position to ... (123 words

I want to be with him but my parents don't approve!

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15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well it all started when i saw this guy in the cafeteria. I didn't know anything about him, and my friend had told me his name and few details about him. My friend was friends with one of his friends, and began to talk about how i liked him. They later on gave him my number and ... (536 words

Could I still get pregnant while on birth control?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay, i am 15 and am on birth control (mononesa) and it is one of the 21 active pills, then 7 inactive pills, or "sugar pills". i had sex while on the INactive pills, (not on my period yet) and i was wondering if i could get pregnant from doing this? also my periods have been a ... (67 words

He said he's not sure that I am "the one" for him

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for close to a year... We already live together with my son. I am going through personal issues... I believe I may have depression or BPD and am in the process of being treated. He's very busy both working and going to school full time.... ... (164 words

I'm in love with my ex-wife!

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15 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - My ex-wife and I have been divorced for six years , now. It was a nasty, bitter divorce with a custody battle. For years we've fought more than we've gotten along. Recently, her and I were at our kids' birthday party and I was shocked. We were talking and she just seemed so ... (262 words

Why would my girlfriend say this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

15 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello everybody, I have a question... I've had an on/off relationship with this girl for a few years. The last time we broke up I thought it was for good since at that time we were planning on getting married. We started seeing each other again a few months ago and just ... (220 words

I feel like my husband doesn't love me!

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok well my husband is a wonderful man who I love so very much and he claims to love me but actions are so much more believable if you know what I mean. First off when he goes to work and comes home and lets say the computer is acting crazy it's all my fault no matter if I h... (220 words

How can I choose between two men that love me?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - well i've been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months now. he spoils me and only wants to make me happy. hes like my best friend. we never seem to run out of things to talk about and he accepts me and loves me no matter what my hair and makeup looks like. the thing i don't really ... (400 words

Cousin issue but not probably what you think just help

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15 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - im really freaked out my girl cousin is 12 an i dont know if she wants to do it with me i sure as hell dont wanna do it with her. im asking you if you think if she wants to have sex with me here is what i notice. every 2 weeks my mom and i go to my grandmas place i see my ... (240 words

I love him but my mom doesn't approve!

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15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok. well me and this guy are talking and people are telling me that hes not a good guy but they just dont know the real him he will be 18 in a couple of months and my parents dont know how old he really is. he tells me he loves me and i love him. my mom doesnt approve what do i ... (95 words

My best friend is so self absorbed!

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey there, please read, sorry its long. I need your help. my friend since childhood, I'm 22 now and so is she, we've been friends since we were five, isn't that great of a friend anymore. Somehow I didn't see it before but as of lately I realize that she's very self absorb... (480 words

What you need versus what is the right thing to do?

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - so doing what you feel like you need to do versus doing what you feel is the morally righteous thing to do? What is your outlook on this?... (29 words

My husband never wants sex!

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15 June 2010 (F age - hi I am freaking out bc my husband says he loves me and is good in ALL ways..BUT he ignores me with sex.......makes no advances he admits he masturbates a lot and has done so since he was younger we had a great sexual relationship in the beginning and for a while thereafter... (230 words

My ex still wants to be with me but also wants to be friends with one of the guys she had sex with!

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend were together for 2 years with no major problems and they were the best two years of my life. We broke up about two months ago because she had a lot going on in her life (fire school, preparing for college, etc.) Even though we broke up we still had sex ... (169 words

Its not possible to make a clean break!

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok cupid I'm havin a problem. I've heard of the clean break but its not gonna work for me. When you've already said that you would be friends with someone that you went out with and you want them back what should you do. She's single. I'm single. But she doesn't want a ... (106 words

Do girls like gingers?

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15 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - hey im going into high school coming up i was wondering if girls like freshmen that are also gingers just a random question? also because the girls in middle school never liked me because im a ginger and not a jock. so i never had a girlfriend is that also lame?... (51 words

Virginity and experience--does it matter?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - alrighty...i guess this would count more as a poll, but i just kinda want to get an idea what guys/girls think. Guys: Would it matter if your girlfriend/boyfriend was a virgin (i mean this in the sense that she hasn't done oral, hand jobs..pure in the real sense of the wor... (261 words

Trembling before orgasm?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello! I just was wondering because it is something that I noticed and I'm hoping that the men and women can help me with this. Right before he is about to come, literally a few seconds before he starts trembling. Is that normal? Just wondering! Thanks! ... (57 words

How effective is Plan B and how do I know if it worked?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My fiance and I had sex a couple weeks ago and he didnt pull out when he was about to ejaculate. We of course know this is a really bad method for preventing pregnancy but he doesnt like condoms. I have tried the pill and Nuva Ring before but I dont like them. The next mor... (150 words

Gaining complete closure?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I've had very strong genuine feelings for my teacher for almost 2 years now. I have never told him or given any indication that I do have feelings for him. I've acted like a normal student around him, merely showing him respect and friendliness. He seems to be fond of me... (434 words

Four years between us and lots of confusion

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15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys, I was wondering if you could help me out? I am in a sport that's co-ed and multi-age. Basically I am on a team with boys/girls, and anyone from thirteen to eighteen. I have a dilemma though and it's been going on for quite some time. Recently myself (14 years old) and ... (141 words

My man doesn't think I'm hot anymore!

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My man thinks im not hot anymore weve been married for 4years and havent had sex for 2years i even got on birth control he still wont touch me unless we break up and he comes back crying and baging me 2 give him a chance cause i feel bad cause hes in tears then we might have ... (102 words

I like my guy's older brother! How do I find out if he feels the same?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about four months now and we are very happy, however he has a much older brother (14 years older in fact) and i've developed a crush on him. We harmlessly flirt but i want to know if he likes me too, how do i find out? i want to get him alone ... (75 words

Should I tell this girl my real age?

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15 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - my sister is 17, and she used to be bisexual, but now she only likes girls. i'm 14 and i'm bisexual. i like both and i can't change it for now. my sister always tries to get me with her friends and there's this one she tried getting me with but the part i'm confused about is.. ... (116 words

Would a man want to be with a girl who has stretch marks?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - im currently 18 years old, and have stretch marks on my buttock and upper thigh. I am super self-consciene about it, I cant wear cute bikinis. I am currently dating this guy and we talk about getting married in the future. He tells me he loves me and everything and has even ... (124 words

My friend has gone into overkill in expressing her feelings and its really starting to affect our friendship!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so i'll try to make this short. I was hanging ou with 2 of my friends and we had a great time (non sexual) and fell asleep together. we're all bi and the friend that i have feelings for also likes me, but we decided to stay friends. That issue's resolved, but then there's ... (348 words

I don't know whether to give up on my ex or not?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't understand what is going through my ex's head! He broke up with me over 2 months ago, claiming he needed space and wasn't ready for a serious relationship... for a period of about 5/6 weeks after this he did not initiate ANY contact with me. Having all this time... (308 words

What are the thoughts on being involved with someone who isn't single?

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Is she into me? Hi there, thought id gather some people's (objective) opinions in a matter. This really cute girl at my work has only started work here for a few months now. When we first spoke she seemed to give off the vibe that either she was shy or slightly promisc... (231 words

I'm sexually attracted to my girl cousin!!!

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 17 and a lesbian...I was tlking to my gf and I was joking about how she's always actn like she's flirting with her cousin and she told me that like 3 of her cousins said if she wasn't related to them shed fuk em and she was like WTF....and I'm frm Europe and kissing ur ... (157 words

Obsessed with the idea that he might leave me

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello, Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. Everything is going great so far. He is a lovely man, and I absolutely adore him. We get along really well and have lots of fun together. He tells me he loves me everyday and has said he wants to spend the rest of ... (264 words

Messed with my head over and over.

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15 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was with this girl for a year and a half, we both liked each other a year before we got together. we were both 16 so quite young. spent a lot of time together. everything was going fine, no arguments, nothing, i don't think i was in love or anything along those lines, but i ... (903 words

How do guys move on so fast?

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I decided to try it out again..only to fail. I thought we were doing good,but apparently, he didn't think the same. He had been telling me he loved me, and wanted us to work out, and then the next day, he dumps me again...I found out that TWO days later, he had been ... (166 words

Casual sex with friend. Mistake?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have this guy friend and we are extremely close. We actually know EVERYTHING about each other, including all the really personal inner-crazy feelings and how and to what we masturbate to. It was a really flirty relationship and we had talked about hooking up a few times but ... (447 words

No sex for four years -- will it hurt now?

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi every1..i am 19 and have been going out with this guy who is 42 n we r very much into each other so on monday he asked me if i would go with him for a weekend to gold coast.so far we had not had sex n if we go away together then i know that we will cos he turns me on.i am ... (132 words

I'm worried I might be getting my hopes up over nothing

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I really like this guy, and I think he likes me back. I’m worried that I’m getting my hopes up over nothing so could you tell me what you think, please? We started off as mutual friends just speaking on msn but we’ve grown a lot closer recently. Things have really changed ... (317 words

Husband in rage, sometimes implies that he will hurt me..

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15 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok so.. Been married for 3 yrs.. I have 2 kids by him.... He has been physically abusive in the past... Last time was new years.... But lately he been saying alot that if he goes back to jail it wont be for domestic vioelnce it will b for murder.... But wen he calms down ... He ... (78 words

Does this story make sense?

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15 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - i was talking to my wife and we started to talk about your first times. i knew my wife had sex with 2 guys and I really do not care. she told me that before she had intercorse a boy next door,3 years older, fingered her and felt her up for 3 years but never had sex.i can not ... (85 words

It makes no sense...does he love me or not?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend took care of me after surgery changed bandages and drains and still does my laundry and grocery shop and makes special trips to carry stuff. He holds my hand a lot hugs me a lot for a few minutes cuddles after sex for an hour. He takes me out cooks and calls me on ... (203 words

What can I do to sort this out?

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15 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am having problems with a friend and I don't know what to do really. We became friends almost 10 years ago when he started dating my friend,and I started dating his. Last year we all broke up, and since then he's just been really weird with me. I heard some rumours of s... (200 words

How do I "break myself in"

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15 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm just about 19 years old and I'm very confused as to whether I'm a virgin or not. I have have two boyfriends, and I've been seeing quite a few guys on different occasions and we've fooled around....so it's not like I've had no sexual experience. I'm ashamed to say t... (465 words

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