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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I move on again from a second heartbreak from the same man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 34 year old woman in love with a married man. We have a very intense past relationship from about 17 years ago. I found him on FB and initiated conversation at first trying to be platonic. 2 months later we were texting/calling and seeing each other 2-3 times a week. ... (107 words)

Laughing before/during/and after orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 27-year-old and married guy. Whenever I have sex with my wife and when I am about to cum, I start laughing! I can't control it! It continues during and after (for like 3 minutes) I cum. I love the feeling but I dont like the way my wife looks at me as I laugh. She ... (75 words)

The "boyfriend/girlfriend" to "friend" transition. What is the best way to go through this process?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, not been around for a while, but after 8 1/2 months I'm single again. Mine and my ex's relationship was pretty good to say the least. This is the first serious girlfriend I've had if you don't include the 2 year long distance relationship I had from 2005 - 2007. My ... (259 words)

How do I keep from flipping out while he's gone for three months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 3 years is working abroad for the next 3 months and i'm really worried he's going to cheat on me. he's never cheated on me before but he was a bit of a whore before we got together and most guys can't last 3 months without sex, right? i think what worries me ... (89 words)

I'm 15, so that means I'm more likely to be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i had sex with my boyfriend the 3rd of june, my last period ended may 19th. anyways my boyfriend didnt pull out during sex, i dont know why he didnt! i'm so worried that i could be pregnant now..isnt it 2 weeks after my period the best time for me to get pregnant? ... (82 words)

Why would she let me take her shirt off in the first place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out a couple months now, I'm not really into having sex just yet but i still want to have a good time while making out. One time in my basement as we're making out I take her shirt off, and she takes off mine, and I start to go for the bra. ... (111 words)

My husband backhands our daughter. Should I leave him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have 3 children together. He is great with our 12 year old daughter and our 5 year old son but is very mean to our 15 year old daughter. Let me also say that our 15 yr old has a big time attitude as well. They clash big time with each other. He tells her to ... (204 words)

Why does my girlfriend just want to be room mates now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years; working on 5. We dated and spend time together (and still do), slip sweet (and sometimes spicy) notes into each others wallet/purse to be found at the most inappropriate times (lol), and even stayed over night at each other's ... (495 words)

Why could I not cope with my partner's sexual past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age - I could not cope with the threesome my partner had with his ex wife and her female friend and have ended my relationship with him because of this. I could not get it out of my head and kept thinking of the three of them together. Now that I am alone I have no sense of relief ... (120 words)

Why am I still crying over my parents breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my mum and dad split up when i was 10 because he was cheatint its never sorte of bohered me because i know they both love me but suddenly its affected me all of a sudden i just feel down and depressed i just want to cry abotu ti all the time, i just icture my dad at home but i ... (83 words)

First time sex and really really worried

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 16. Not had sex before. But have had oral sex. Am seeing a really nice girl who i met on holiday at the moment. Shes had sex, she knows i havent, i feel she could be the one. The only thing is, i keep making up excuses why not to have sex because ive got it stuck in my head ... (156 words)

Did I cause a problem and could my friend be mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend's boyfriend had put interested in women on his facebook page and I thought that he meant like he wanted to meet other women- he had prior to that interested in men and women and said he was single on there- I misunderstood and told my friend via text and voicemail. ... (146 words)

Is he confused because of his recent divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a divorced man and I'm also divorced.He's been very much after me till I agreed to start going out with him. We started by exchanging emails and phone calls daily and progressed to going out and travelling together for some days, when we slept together. He phones ... (188 words)

This girl won't let my boyfriend be. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - All right, well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 9-10 months now and I love him more than anything in this world, and I'm sure he feels the same way. The thing is, me and my boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship. So I guess it's more of an online ... (232 words)

Do you think I should give him the benefit of his efforts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age - Hello, It is now just over a year since I found out about my husband's emotional affair with another woman (texting/phonecalls/declarations of love and promises of future physical relationship when the time was right). He has done EVERYTHING in his power to make amends a... (156 words)

Is our custody arrangement damaging my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i really need advice for my question. Basically, I have a 2 month old son with a man, my ex, who I am not in a relationship with. However, he is a very good dad to my son. Unfortunately, me and him do not get on and argue when we are together which is not good for the baby. ... (309 words)

Be a single mum to 3 boys or lose my daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I'm hoping someone here can help me. I am in a relationship for the past 12 years. The early years were turbulent but we stayed together and now have 3 young boys. They are great. However ... I also have a daughter in her 20s from my marriage years ago. My partner ... (376 words)

I used to be skinny, now I feel like a whale!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always felt uncomfortable about my body. I used to be skinny, and now that I'm married I feel like a whale. And my sisters and parents make these comments. I remember hearing how ppl who were over weight said that it hurts to hear ppl say I look big or what not. I'm 5'1 ... (196 words)

The memories we shared makes me want to go back to my abusive ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts.my ex is playing games with me and make my life miserable.iv known Owen from prep school.he has been my first everything.in 2006 WE CHEATED on each other.we apologised and things wer ok again.one nite we were making lov and i was ontop, he pushed me ... (112 words)

Depending on where you live, is there a preference for a certain hair color?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is sort of for curiosity sake: Since there are so many people from all over the world here, do you think certain places prefer certain hair colors over other? For example there is the notion that men in greece go crazy for blondes. Is this just a stereotype? Or is it true ... (83 words)

He cheated so I don't trust him especially when he said "one night stands are ok"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well this is kinda really driving me insane lol Im 17 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now.. i love him very much i used to think he felt the same until HE CHEETED ON ME! he addmited it to my face cause i caught him, i was heartbroken but ... (339 words)

Am I a fool for not having more sexual partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This might come across as being a confused question. I am in a loving gay relationship for one year and a half and my partner has alot more sexual experience and has had many relationships with many people, some that weren't sexually intimate other long term ones were. So... (412 words)

How did a back rub turn into him just rubbing my bottom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Hello, I am a 30 year old woman with a question about men. Okay, I have had this real stressful day and my husband tells me if I will get naked, he will give me a back rub. He spends a little time on my back, neck, and shoulders, but then starts to spend all of his time,... (106 words)

Am I just scared of getting hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my ex and I had a lot of problems for two months, which ended in me trying to end things because he wouldn't support me and because he lived sixteen hours away from me and couldn't find the time to spend the one weekend a month we had promised eachother. However, he ... (245 words)

Do you think highschool sweethearts can actually last into a great marriage anymore these days?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think highschool sweethearts can actually last into a great marriage anymore these days? Why or why not? Im asking becuase i am with mine, we are now in our early 20's and i was just wondering if we actualy stand a chance to last or if we are just being unrealistic in ... (71 words)

Long term relationship but no sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well, I just started dating this guy. He's amazing. He thinks I'm amazing. I can see this relationship lasting awhile. But, I'm a virgin, so is he. I don't wanna have sex for a long long time. Is it possible to have a long term relationship with someone you really care abo... (83 words)

I asked for a hug but she said she wanted to take things slow

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i asked a girl out yesterday.I flattered her for a few hours and then askec her out and she said yes.Today we wnet on a school trip andi went around with her.I asked her for a hug but she said she wants to take things slow.This is where i get worried.Doesn`t she like me? ... (93 words)

Ask again? Or let him of the hook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! Since a week or 2 I have been dating a guy and I really like him. His sister is a good friend of my best friend and she basicly set us up. He is my first boyfriend, but I don't really know if I can call him that yet(afterall, we've only been seeing each other for 2 week... (210 words)

Loving someone vs being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Me and my bf have been going out since last year January.(I'm 19 and he is 29) He is head over heals in love with me and I'm a bit colder. I didn't feel such a big spark in the beginning and I still don't actually but I love him, we have the same interests and we want the same ... (214 words)

Is this just puberty, or am I addicted to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was younger I was touched by one of my brothers(I was 5-6), I nearly slept with two boys at the same time and me and my cousin used to touch each other. When I was 6-7 years old I said to my aunty that this man was handsome(he was about 40). Now i am 15 years old,... (208 words)

She's pressuring me to move in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I have been dating this girl for nearly 6 months. Since the very first week or so, we have spent our weekends together. Few months back, we discussed the idea of living together, to which I made clear that I was not ready, however, hope to be ready in the next year... (235 words)

We had a fight, but he doesn't seem to be making any effort to make up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Over the weekend my boyfriend and I bumped heads pretty hard and things are not so good. My boyfriend is cleary disturbed and bothered by what happened. We have been together for almost 2 years and have plenty of great times together. I feel he wants to be with me more than he ... (296 words)

Does it seem like subconsciously my feelings for her are affecting my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I broke up 2 months ago after being together for a year. As of late I haven't had any motivation or passion for anything and am feeling like I'm losing my grip on my life. An example of this is a vacation I went on recently. It was a week long and by the ... (220 words)

I want children but he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have had a lot of issues in my womb and fallopian tubes. I suffer from endometriosis, and have had one of my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed due to a large cyst. Also I underwent another operation to remove a cyst on the remaining ovary. Everything is okay for now, ... (149 words)

Did I ruin it by having sex too soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, there is this guy i really like, ive known him for a long time but never really knew each other that well i just knew him through my brother... about two years ago i was rely drunk in a club an he was there and we started kissing, after that i never really seen him or ... (320 words)

I feel I've lost control and he wants to make me feel badly about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi can anyone help i have been in a relationship for 7 weeks, we have had a few arguments, name calling etc, and we both decided we were being defensive and agreed to get on and be happy together. then last week it was my birthday he did not even send me a card, cancelled ... (381 words)

B/f wants me to terminate my pregnancy but continue to help him. I'm very confused!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 42 in a comitted relationship and just discovered im pregnant, shocking to say the least after having spent 15 out of 20 years trying for a second child i had long since given up hope and resigned myself to being infertile. Problem i have is my boyfriend and intended hus... (358 words)

Does he think I am too desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I will try to make this as short as possible but I need some external advise because i am very sad and confused. He used to work with me and we always get along very well. During the last three months we become closer and we talk almost everyday. It is difficult... (257 words)

We are not dating but he was my first, is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy for a month in hopes to get over my ex of almost a year. After me and the guy broke up he started coming over to see me and we began to "mess around" this has been going on since 10 months and last night we finally did it. Is this wrong? Were not even dating but ... (72 words)

Is it strange for me to fantasize about being raped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for me to like rough sex? I've always liked to be roughed up during sex. ( slap, grabbed and spanked ) Is it strange for me to fantasize about being raped? ... (39 words)

How can I achieve a female ejaculation again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I was wondering if anyone had suggestions on making myself female ejaculate? I used to be able to but haven't been able to in many months. I have my boyfriend hit my G spot and I try different toys and I masturbate to make it work and nothing works! I've been doing all the ... (84 words)

She doesn't want children but I want to have them one day, am I just wasting my time with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - so i'm with the girl of my dreams, and a brief conversation we had one day is kind of bugging me. Were both in our early 20's, so this isnt anything to necessarily worry about any time soon: she is crazy about one of her sisters children- pictures on her wall, phone, always a... (277 words)

My girlfriend has stopped talking to me, her best friends, she has deleted her Facebook.....Is there anything we can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My (currently long distance) girlfriend started to be very distant with me. At first I put it down to stress from university. I spent her birthday weekend with her, and she seemed to have a good time. However, there was still a lack of emotion or affection. On getting home, I ... (289 words)

Is he a user and abuser? Or a heartbreaker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for 5 years now. 4 years as a friend and 1 as well an online realationship. Things started in 2009 march, i'd just gotten over someoen who never liked me and well this online guy was alaways there to help, always caring. we expressed emotions for each other ... (259 words)

He looked at porn right after we made love - whats wrong with me?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently posted on here as i'd accidently discovered my fiance had been looking at porn on the computer..only one site had come up so i tried not to let it bother me as you all said and put it down to a one off. But earlier curiosity got the better of me as last night aftwe ... (212 words)

How do I act when I see her at this party? It is only the 9th day since we broke up and I don't know how to behave around her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there my ex girlfriend of nearly 1 year broke up with me . were got a party to attend on Saturday as we are mutual friends with the birthday boy . well on that Saturday it would be the 9th day we're broken up . my question is when i do see her how do i act? what do i s... (138 words)

Not desperate for sex just want to know what the hell I'm doing wrong - am I missing something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship now for almost two and a half years. Its a long distance relationship in that my boyfriend lives four hours away and so we meet on weekends or at worst every second weekend. Okay my problem is that there is no sex in our relationship now befo... (382 words)

He wants me to give up my only "me" time or its a divorce!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 13 years (married 8 years) and at first was very happy. He is a good man, with good values, but lets me do everything around the house and with the children while he pursues his rugby and associated social events. I have had horses all my life ... (537 words)

What could be wrong with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - aaarrrgghh panicking! my gf has been getting abdominal pains after sex, it happens often, she also feels the need to pee a lot aswell. its worse after she has a squirting orgasm, depending on how intense it was at first we thought it was uti because she didnt drink much... (289 words)

We text each other all the time but he never makes the first move to ask me out on a date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a very brief time (3 weeks) and we constantly text each other. He seems to be doing the chasing in terms of texting BUT he won't ask me out and I keep dropping hints!?! We've been out on dates/hung out twice, both times initiated by me and he see... (192 words)

I met mr. right at the wrong time! Are we holding each other back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone here felt like they met the right person at the wrong time? I have been with my boyfriend since highschool and he was my first everything. We are now in our 20's and i feel as though he would be perfect to spend the rest of my life with but at this time in our lives, ... (169 words)

Should I go to the BBQ knowing his ex will be there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I have never really completely trusted him. I usually do whatever he wants to do, he's extremely outgoing and has lots of friends and admirers. I am a little more reserved and with fewer friends. I have been insecure ... (219 words)

He gives his ex all of his money and forgets about me and his son!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i need some advice please, me and my fiance have been together for 2yrs, we have a 5month old son. the problem is he doesnt provide much for him. ok, he buys milk and food for our son but all the materialistic things (cot, bouncer, feeding equipment, sterilizer, bott... (416 words)

I don't want to end the relationship but I want him to stop being mean and texting other girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i have quite the problem and i have no clue what to do about it...my bf well hes a jack ass but he can be so sweet too... two weekends ago i found out the three times during our relationship he texted a girl he had sex with before dating me talking to her all sexual ... (161 words)

My boyfriend says if we have a baby he will settle down with me and stop hanging out on the streets, what should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18 and wants to have a baby but he is alway out in the streets he say's if we have a baby he will settle down with me. What should i do?... (42 words)

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I've been in a relationship with the same guy now for several years, but it never seems to be leading anywhere. I find it difficult to discuss our future with him. He's so laid back about it.. like we have unlimited time.. but I'm pushing 30 and need to k... (665 words)

She gets mad because I don't agree with her

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. My gf gets mad whenever I don't agree with her. She looks at it in a disloyal way although I'm just trying to say my opinion. I told her, if she wants to be with someone who always agrees on her opinion, she should just get with someone else. Besides ... (115 words)

Why is it that when men don't get their way they always go off in a mood?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it just me or when men don't get something to do with sex they go in a mood and blame their partner. My boyfriends likes bum fun, we tried it but it really hurt me. but he doesn't seem too realise that cause of the pain i dont want it. and he always texts me asking me for ... (89 words)

Feeling let down by friends, how can I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm moving away for university next year and two of my friends are moving to the same city, though we're all going to different colleges. we agreed to live together as it would be cheaper and we'd get a better apartment that way. I started looking and found some really great ... (164 words)

I feel alone but I don't want to leave! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, could someone please give me some advice here. I have been with my partner now for 2 years. I moved area and job and all my friends to be with him. he has 2 children from a previous marriage. He sees them a lot but they are not easy kids. they want constant attention and ... (355 words)

A crisis of faith

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm on my gap year and during it i met the most amazing girl and we are coming up to our one year anniversary, and for our anniversary (in a month and a half) i named a star in the sky for her. I sent it to her early because im going to New Zealand in a couple of d... (354 words)

2 questions about my relationship: Is it wrong due to our age difference and why does she not get horny around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i actually have two questions. one is im 17 gonna be 18 in september 5 and my girlfreind is 15 gonna be 16 on september 1 is there anything wrong with us being together even with the age difference? like honestly where i live its legal even if we did decide to have sex (we deci... (172 words)

I'm sick of her walking out on me when I am just trying to be a good father to our 2 young kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello cupid ughh got a big problem messing with my life right now. ok so im 21 and my gf is also 21 and we have 2 kids togther one age two and one age 1 and me and her cant get along anymore at all because we have no freedom me and her spilt about about a week ago because shes ... (288 words)

Unsure how to support my friend who is potentially very ill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I could do with some advice. I have a friend who recently had an eye test which showed up something not veyr nice. My Mum is the dr who saw him, and in her clinical opinion, and that of the other person she asked, the only reason for this anomolie is some sort of space ... (196 words)

How should I play it with this girl I like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Normally, you do the 'hard work' yourself and get a girl eventually. My mum works at a school, and she works with a girl called Amy. At first I thought 'Mum, don't try and find me a girlfriend, that's not cool'. Then I looked at her Facebook page. She is hot! She's currentl... (121 words)

Is he into me, or is he just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have not been interested in a guy in over THREE YEARS so I'm a little confused as to how the dating game works. This is pretty darn detailed, but if you don't mind a story I want YOUR analysis on this guys actions, and if maybe I just have it all wrong. As for the names I ... (552 words)

I want to go from being best friend to her boyfriend but I'm afraid of losing her as a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a problem .. i really love my best friend and all of my friends that knows about her are saying dont go for it , thats why i keep on telling people that we are only friends and nothing more though i really love her!! well even she started saying the same thing to our f... (226 words)

Is masturbating bad for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I masturbate alot.. but i'm only 15. I masturbate about 4 times a week, and just can't stop because I love it! But is it bad for me? Is it going to cause any problems?... (38 words)

She compares me to her ex......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there My current gf tells me all the time that I don't compare to her ex in any way and that she regrets having left her for me. It makes my self-esteem very low and she hurts my feelings with it. When I tell her she replies "well, it's the truth" but why is she with ... (106 words)

Why is this girl acting so nervous around me?

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever I talk to her she looks very unsure of herself and doesn't say much other than yes or no. I have talked to her while she's at her locker and she has dropped her books 3 times so far as if I've startled her. She never tries to prolong conversations but she does smi... (270 words)

Why do I get crushes?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why does this always happen? I have noticed that whenever I get to the comfy stage in a relationship (i.e. after a few months when I know that they love me) I start getting crushes on other people. Well, not exactly crushes, more like I will start wondering if someone at ... (275 words)

I still want to be her friend but don't know how to go about it now

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a huge tangled mess. Months ago, I asked a girl out. She said she wanted to say yes, but couldn't, because she had a girlfriend. But we didn't stop talking after that and became closer and closer friends. I never properly got over her, but accepted that nothing cou... (241 words)

Does my ex want me back?

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex got in touch maybe 6 weeks ago 6 months after we ended. We were meant to be 'friends' but I never made effort to contact her after the relationship ended as if hurt and I was crestfallen about it (she suggested just being friends). Anyway, she got in touch, asked how... (118 words)

My friend is very "dippy" and it is getting embarassing, what can I do to help her?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My problem is that a colleague of mine who is also a friend is a bit embaressing to hang out with. Now I'm sure you'll all have a go at me for being nasty and saying I'm bit a true friend etc ... So please just read my situation because I want to help her. S... (450 words)

After all this talking on the phone, texting and talking online I still cant tell if he likes me!

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - one day me and my friend and her boyfriend and his friend went out after days i been told he fancys me which i did too but he asked my friends boyfriend for my msn so we can get to know each other, i didnt mind so he add me but its been 2 months now and he just ask me for my ... (164 words)

My last period had a strong smell, what caused this?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is about the menstrual cycle.....most the time i have my cycles there is never a real odor to it but this last past time the odor was real strong....what do you think could of caused this strong odor... (40 words)

Trying to open up but I get stuck in the door.

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend now for over a month and am upset with him for the first time. We had made plans to spend the evening together and I was catching up on homework so I could give him my attention. When he finally called me 3 hours after he said he would he asked ... (400 words)

One Sided Friendship

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some friendship advice. My friend spends all her time with her boyfriend, and a lot of friends are getting mad at her for it. Yet, I tould her I wanted her to be happy, yet I still want to feel like we both are putting in effort to our friendship. Well we had some... (92 words)

Could my friend have HIV?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help for my friend. She has been dating with this guys for 4 months. Now they're broke up cause she found out he's using drug. (like cocain, weed, rock) everything. She's honest and clean girl. She don't really know him for long time. That's her first bf. She's 20 years ... (134 words)

I love 2 very different men!

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I love two very different men. One is my boyfriend guy #1) of 1 year and 3 months, and we are very serious. He has talked about marrage and having a baby and getting a house. We have a great sex life, i can always talk to him, hes my lover, boyfriend, and be... (309 words)

Is this an indication he is thinking long-term?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I've been dating for the last 2 months has started asking me about what I'd like to be doing a few years from now... would you take that as an indication that he could be thinking about the idea of us being together long term?... (47 words)

I want to pleasure my boyfriend but I get all shy..any advice?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a sort of new relationship, we've been together about 2 months, and we are begining to try new things sexually (we have not actually had sex yet). I feel guilty because he is usually doing things to pleasure me, and I would like to try things to pleasure him. My problem ... (86 words)

Will I always have to wonder if he's over his ex?

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem that I need some help with. I've started dating a great guy with a everything I have ever wanted in someone. However, there is just on thing, he broke up with his ex 7 months ago, and since that time he has been in close contact with him and still sleeping t... (140 words)

I always go in this rage of jealousy- throwing his stuff away, confronting people.. heeeelp!

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I need u guys help. I need to stop jealous for no reason to my boyfriend. We been dating for 4 years and we fight like every week for same reason. That's jealous things. I don't like any girl look at him or talk to him. We have all different kind of story. Like he ... (268 words)

A pimple? Or something else?

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8 June 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Hello, Ive noticed i have a bump on the underneath my shaft, about halfway up. Its underneath the skin, and at first i thought it might be a pimple forming because it was small and hurt a bit, but now it has gotten bigger, but no whitehead has appeared, ive tried squeezing ... (88 words)

I am scared my boyfriend is going to rape me? Or become abusive?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I am 13. So is my boyfriend.. I am about 8 months older. And he asked me to make out with him. And I said no, I personally think its gross. And he answered, "Why?" To me tongues are NASTY. "I will make you try it!" "No you wont" "yes"... (173 words)

We're going to be living far apart -- should I try to keep it as an LDR?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am currently in a relationship with a guy I really care about (we've been together about 5 months). In a couple of months I am moving to a new city very far away and I am concerned about trying to work out a long distance relationship. There is no chance for me movin... (123 words)

It must mean something if he replies, right?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so around 3 years ago i met a guy fell madly in love he was my first love, he had only been single 6 months previous to getting with me he was with his ex for 4 years. he stayed friends with her throughout our relationship and she started causing complications which led to ... (181 words)

Getting a wierd vibe from my ex

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, Today in school my ex was like not exactly creeping me out but like just in werid..way..i dont know. So like im walking to class and i noticed my ex was there with her friends im like crap...so i just pretend everything was normal and ignore her. And like i had this ... (372 words)

Dating my friend's crush? How do I let her know and not lose her??

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have had a few fights with my longtime best friend. Most of them about boys. But recently a boy who my friend likes started to txt me and I am now begining to have very strong feelings for this boy. I want to tell her that me and the boy just want to go out but I don't ... (91 words)

What kind of signs am I giving off?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Just a quick question. There's this boy in my life who I find attractive and he finds me attractive back (though I'm taken for but he's gone for work - I am NOT cheating). He's stayed overnight at my house twice in the same bed, nothing happened except cuddling ... (91 words)

Why don't I have the courage to leave him?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - last year my life turned up side down my husband of 15 years started using drugs I thought i can help him but i don't think his worth all the trouble. why don't i have the courage to leave him. when i try to leave it very very hard ... (49 words)

Shocked he reacted this way! What happened?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for almost 6 months. We've gotten close enough to talk about moving in together. Last Friday, I was at his house, we were sitting outside talking. Having a few drinks. He starting asking questions about my past. Anyway...I knew we were headed to ... (162 words)

One way street ends up a dead end!

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to an older man of 17 years, who he has been previously married for almost 20 years. We have been in our relationship for almost 7 years. He has two adult daughters who hate me and are not afraid of showing it. I have a son who is 10 yrs old and looks at my ... (329 words)

I lost my bestfriend over a fight, I've tried everything for her forgiveness but her brushing me off is just killing me inside...

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel replaced by my other friend all because of this one fight but i've done everything to apologize and i still have this feeling. when i ask her to hang out she just gives me an excuse and i hear that she went to hang out with my other friend and its been the same thing. i ... (82 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me in the past, but I'd rather bury it. Why did he have to tell an ex-friend of mine about it?!?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I be upset that my boyfriend told his female best friend that he cheated on me??( i already knew, cause he told me)..whom by the way, me and her fell out so we are not cool anymore..i dont know if i should be upset or not..I guess i dont want everybody knowing i was ... (58 words)

Is my vagina not prepared for sex?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I had sex today with my bf and he didn't seem to enjoy it ( well the traditional way of it) and he wanted to do it from behind, I didn't feel good too, so what could be wrong? is my vagina not that prepared for sex ?I am 20, I lost my virginity a year ago and the previous ... (81 words)

Why do the nice guys always end up hurt?

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - quick question to everyone of all ages i want to know why all the mr nice/good guys always get stuffed up by the girl in the relationship? ive been reading a lot on this site theres quite a lot and from my own experience . i know im not perfect but im consistent but heres ... (510 words)

How do I introduce a vibrator into sex?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we are madly in love, We have amazing passionate sex which feels great! BUT he just doesnt really care about me orgasming, he does want to try though. but hes impatient and cant keep a hard on and use his hand on my clit at the s... (184 words)

I might be pregnant, but the test says no! How long do I wait to seek a Dr's opinion?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry if this is TMI but I started my last period on May 8th 2009, which was earlier than usual by a few days. I have a 28 day cycle and if things are as they should be I should have started my most recent period on 5th June, but so far nothing! I took a test and it was ... (176 words)

Confused over marriage, please help?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 8 years. We are 27. Both of our parents have been divorced. Regardless, I feel the need to get married someday! He doesn't. He thinks marriage is a piece of paper, a legal document only and doesn't mean anything. He said he is 100% committed to ... (105 words)

Is my friend lying, or did she miscarry?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i wanted to ask this dumb question , my friend told me,i just wanted to hear what you have to say. well she thought she was pregnant once right? well she got the idea that if she "ran,jummped,did cart wheels" she would loose the baby but course she was mybe like one wee... (122 words)

Is my husband looking to cheat?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says that I am the love of his life and I love him too but he has "in a relationship" on his facebook profile and also states that he is interested in women. Can somebody help me with this? Does this mean that he wants to cheat on me?... (51 words)

Loved by my GF but I don't feel the same. Is it time to leave?

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years with a brief split (three months) about halfway through. When we first started dating, she was very depressed, but now she is much happier. She tells me she loves me and I know she does. She is already planning ... (125 words)

Is my ex boyfriend gay???

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend now has his naval pierced, nipples pierced, wears toe rings, wears capris and has gotten a new tatoo on his lower back "tramp stamp". Is he gay?... (31 words)

What does this phrase "get with" mean?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello just a quick questions. What you you define "get with" to mean? As in "it doesnt mean i cant get with girls" Does it mean sex.... or just messing round and hanging out kissing etc. I always thought it didnt mean sex but i wanna be certain! thank you!... (56 words)

My boyfriend's in jail now I've met someone else but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend... help!

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have recently turned 17. I have a boyfriend who's in jail at the moment and has been in for about 8 months. Problem is i love another guy. I have no clue what to do and its really frustrating, i know my boyfriend loves me so much as he rings me every day to say ... (85 words)

Why would a married man make it very obvious he is attracted to you, create sexual tension, but never say anything?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - All married guys out there, I need some help please! I have become very attracted to a man I have known for some time. He is married (I am divorced) and I gather his marriage is not too good lately. I know he has had an infatuation, or massive crush on me for a while,... (335 words)

I haven't seen my girlfriend for 3 months! What's the deal???

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8 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Here’s the deal, me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 beautiful years, Both in our early 20s, Both work (although she commits more hours than me), but for the last 3 months I haven’t even seen her and its not just the visual contact that’s been on a... (227 words)

He's away on holiday and I feel he doesn't care for me any more... help!

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted previously about my bf going away on his lads holiday and that I wasn't sure if I could trust him. Its all getting on top of me now. He kissed a girl on holiday a few years ago while we were together which always springs to mind whenever he goes away. On another... (241 words)

Help!!! Do I still have a chance with him or should I just give up and move on?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I recently asked a guy out and he rejected me. I started crying and felt so depressed. Before I asked him out my friend told me he likes this girl since the 6th grade, but she has a boyfriend and goes to a different school. My friend encouraged me to give it a shot ... (241 words)

Should I write to my ex to find closure?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused and hurt... A long time ago, about 4 years ago, I met an amazing man. I was 16 and he was 18. He was my first and really true love. I would have died for him a thousand times over. He went into the military, and we began having huge issues. One of them ... (402 words)

What do you do when your family doesn't approve your relationship?

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8 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for over a year long-distance (I'm American, he's English). We have yet to meet, but will be shortly (I'm flying there). We have literally everything in common; I have seriously never met anyone like him before. He's the type that makes me blissfully ... (221 words)