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writes: Met this nice guy. Spent a few days together. I could see he liked me, but nothing really happend. We just had a few nice dates. He texted me every day since our last date then suddenly I haven't heard form him in 2 days. i texted him pretty casually saying wozzup? and stuff and he never replied. This is weird, right? I wondered what happened. Should I call him/text him again, or just leave him alone and see what happens. What a weird situation...
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reader, akimduong  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I met this guy for 4 months. We went on a couple of dates. But 2 weeks ago he asked me to be his gf. But after we slept with each other twice, things were still going fine. Until couple days later, he said he was relocated at work. And he's always busy or tired. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks. He use to txt me alot but now, barely. Haven't heard from him for 3 days. Should I text him or wait for him to make the move?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 I agree with the others. Two days is NOTHING. And if all you said in your text was "wozzup?" and nothing else, that's not really giving him anything to respond to.
Leave it alone right now, and see if you hear from him in say, another week or even two weeks. If not, you COULD (assuming you still want to) send another text saying something about what you've been up to since your last date; and that you enjoyed the time you spent together. Let him think YOU'RE busy, too (even if you're not). After all, if he's dating others, then for all he knows you might be doing the same. You have a life of your own, same as he does, right? That's how it should be.
Then see what happens.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Leave him along and see what happens. I agree it is a weird situation but he also has your number. He may also have a girlfriend. Let it ride.
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reader, juno*  +, writes (15 June 2010):
i say leave it because you dont wanna look desprite, because no guy wants a clingy girl.. let him come to you.. if he doesnt he is not worth it ;)
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