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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Alright.. I'm male. 14. Been in a relationship for a year and a half. I'm abit freaked out because.. well with everything. My girlfriend and me have usually been great.. you know happy couple, she's always been the random (abit childish) but happy one... i've always been happy but sensible aswell but still support her randomness and join in:) but we haven't been doing so well lately and she appeared bored with what we have/had. Today she suggested we 'take a break' and of course as of facebook.com (awful site) now everyone in my school knows and assume we've broken up altogether. I'm not even convinced we HAVEN'T broken up forever as tv programmes like Friends etc. show 'breaks' as a bad idea to me, but i just want her to be happy and if this does that then on a break we must go. I'm also scared that if we do go on a break.. what if my feelings go? I don't think they will but.. what if? I mean i've had my doubts of the relationship for a year and a half but i've always stuck with her because i ALWAYS remember i love her.. but sometimes i convince myself i dont ... i guess im just stupid but i'm scared... what if we break up? We've been together almost as long i've been at secondary school.. i wouldn't know what to do without her.. To quote a crap film "she is my life now" .. but unlike twilight I mean it. I don't want to go to school tomorow everyone will ask.. and i can just see myself screaming at my maths teacher and walking out of school if i do (i've always hated that darn teacher).Sorry this is such a long read, I'm just so messed up inside.
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reader, Sara456  +, writes (16 June 2010):
You both have a lot of growing up to do and many changes lie ahead. I think a break would do you both good and it sounds like you need it.
And if your feelings go, there will be someone else. When one door closes, another one opens.
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