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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need help in helping a friend move on!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dears, I'm not necessarily new here, as I have been anonymously answering and asking questions for about a month now. But anyway... I have a problem - well not my problem but it's a friend's problem and I have taken it on as my problem because she talks about it a lot t... (843 words)

Could I be afraid of a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I need some advice or maybe some pointers in the right direction. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months this Thursday. I had a trust issue with him, but I'm learning to trust him now. I think I may almost completely trust him but a little part of me is still a ... (685 words)

I'm just not sure about giving her the space she wants!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try to make a long story short. Dated a girl in highschool (13 years ago), always missed her, looked for her throughout the years...no luck. I decide to move back to a city I've lived before and before the move we got back in touch-I finally found her! The love of my life.... (566 words)

When a guy calls you at three in the morning...?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and he's called me at three in the morning, twice. I tell him everything, and he knows that I like him, and he tells me everything too, but we're not best friends. When he calls, he doesn't talk about anything sexual, and we just make fun of each other and we ... (99 words)

He's planning out our lives together and I'm only 18 yers old!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I have been in a relationship for a month and 1/2 now. I am going to be leaving for college soon while my boyfriend is gonna be back home. He will be going to college soon after my freshmen year but we are going to be attending two different colleges. ughh, ... (136 words)

His ex has a new and improved face!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, here's a question for you. My boyfriend's ex, with whom he was in a 4 year relationship with, has had major plastic surgery on her face since they broke up nearly 3 years ago. She has a new chin, and most recently, a new nose, a la Michael Jackson. She wasn't very attr... (166 words)

Should I learn to trust him again and will he ever change?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex is always trying to meet girls online and has been since 2008 when he was deployed. I didn't learn of this until a month after we started dating, in late 2009. Throughout our whole relationship, he was always on online dating sites trying to meet girls, the only time he ... (325 words)

How can I stop comparing myself and hating my looks?

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21 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I can't stop comparing myself to other women. I hate the way I look, just because I see other women daily who have the body I wish I had. I don't know, I just can't. Especially because I see how men react to these women so positively. I'm not fat. I have small breasts an... (157 words)

Abortion or single mum?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i found out i was pregnant 3 weeks after my boy friend and i broke up. but is decided to call him and let him know about the pregnancy and he told me to abort it.i dont feel like aborting this child and i dont want to be a single mum please help what can i do.am in a dilema ... (68 words)

At the point of break up, psycho ex back in the picture...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I first my boyfriend, he would rant on and on to me about his ex, calling her a psycho. I felt it was okay, since we were just friends. Overtime we started to develop feelings for each other. He asked me out, but I always had that weird feeling in the back of my head. ... (348 words)

Age difference...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - problem!!! hes 18 and im 15 but im turning 16 right after he turns 19 ... and i was wondering whether it was a bad age difference you know... is it really? like im too mature (from what everyone tells me ) and so is he. no sex involved cause im not having sex till marriage.. ... (62 words)

Where has she disappeared to?

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well there is this girl, we dated for 2 months... this was because i had to leave the country. the day before my flight (she came to see me and we had sex) i was supposed to go see her later that night but then earlier that day a few friends came over and we had a few drinks... ... (124 words)

Am I being too fussy?

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21 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I could never date a non vegan, it doesn't matter how nice they are I just never could! Am I being ridiculous? Also why do people resent vegitarians and vegans? I have a few ideas why but would just like to know what you guys think!... (46 words)

Is there a manual for dating a librarian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am on summer research at a school far away from mine. I regularly use the library here, and have noticed one of the librarians who checks out books is very nice and also attractive. I would like to approach her and ask her out or just become friends, but am ... (99 words)

I just feel so left out of everything and I really don't have any friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm new here and I'm hoping to get some kind advice. I have a huge problem with relationships with friends. There are so many people in my school, but I feel so left out of everything. When I'm around people, they always talk about going somewhere, like ... (269 words)

How can I understand him?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, I'm really infatuated by this boy right now, but I cant seem to understand him. Sometimes I cant help staring, and he responds by glaring at me with squinty eyes and a mean look. Other times if i start accidentaly talking too loud, he'll pretend not to hear me and ... (132 words)

How can he do that at his age?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age - How is my lover of 62 able to keep an erection for up to three hours?... (16 words)

Do you think that he'd ever see me as more than a friend or sister?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this guy friend that I love to be around. We tell eachother we love each other because we are extremely close. But he calls me sis and i call him my other brother (kinda as a joke and because we are so close). Anyways, lately i've been getting incredibly jealo... (109 words)

I look pregant but I'm not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ive just had my first period last week, and havent had sex for 7 month. 5 month ago i took 2 pregancy tests which both came back negative so im definately not pregant, im very skinny and im 6 and a half stone, im a size 6 in clothes and have a loverly figure, but recently... (201 words)

Why doesn't he text me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I started seeing an old flame again from last year. Things didn't work out last year but he kept contacting me for the whole year. (I was going away to school). I would ignore him just because I didn't have time 'to entertain him'. We just recently started seeing e... (290 words)

Should I meet this 43 year old online friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

21 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - On wednesday I'm supposed to meet up with a 43 year old man off this chat room, I'm just not sure if I want to. We first started talking when I was 16 and he really wanted to meet me and we would talk fir hours on the phone an skype etc, i decided recently to get back in cont... (184 words)

I broke up because of his flirting but we're both hurting!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend just broke up almost a week ago. i ended it because he was flirting to much online. since then i have been miserable and i really wanna talk to him but idk if he wants to talk to me. he talks with my brother over the phone and on IM about how i am the love ... (128 words)

"We're on a break"

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Mod note: Posters original title I have been with my girlfriend for seven years, and they have been great, hard at times but good has always out weighed the bad. Recently ww had a talk about her being unhappy and wantinf a break. Last week we decided to go along with her idea... (171 words)

I have dug myself a hole and I don't know how to get out...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off I'd like to say that I am here because I really need help. Despite your moral opinions of my situation, I'd appreciate it if you could keep your advice as constructive as possible. I currently go to college in Connecticut right now. I have been seeing this guy ... (975 words)

Is it time to end things...or keep trying?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age - I need advice. I have been with my bf for almost 4 years. We are both in our late 40s and care about each other deeply. However, his family (his kids, his parents, stepparent, siblings etc) don't treat us all that well. You would think by now, they would treat us like family, ... (317 words)

He flirts right in front of me!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal to see ur fling chatting up a another girl and exchanging numbers in my face?? and he knows that i love him, why would he do that?? and right now im feeling so depressed about the whole thing, he wont answer my calls.... (46 words)

He loves me so much it almost makes me sick

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so, i've been a relationship for a month and 1/2 now. my bf already says that he loves me and that he wants us to spend the rest of our lives together. he dropped the L word within the 1st 2 to 3wks of the relationship. he's soo in love with me that it sometimes makes me sick, ... (169 words)

Not sure how I feel about my ex...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how I feel about my ex lately. I thought I loved him but now I'm not sure because if I want to get over him how could I love him? How can he say he cares so much about me and how I complete him but his actions don't match his words? I know it's over...I just don't ... (179 words)

Was my drink spiked?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was at the bar and I got really messed up. I ended up making out with 2 guys (I can't remember making out with one of them, my friend told me about it) and i have a boyfriend who i have never even come close to cheating on before, so this was completely out of charactor for ... (199 words)

Can you look at your man the same way after that?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 3 years just came out about being bisexual and a crossdresser. He is a very manly, rough type, not feminine in any way. He has been faithful but is asking for a man to join us in the bedroom. I'm not against it, in a way it has been a secret turn on that I ... (128 words)

Why did he keep the naked pics?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Y does my ex keep naked pictures of me in his cell phone if we r no longer together?... (19 words)

Shd I stay or should I go?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I stay or should I go? My husband and I have been together for 6 years, married for almost one. We both work, but I bring home double his pay. This is not something I ever bring up, but I know it crosses his mind regularly. I try to let him buy expensive things so he ... (480 words)

Egoistical girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

21 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months and she has a big ego! when i first met her, she just recently broke it off with a guy she was seeing. we started talking and ended up liking each other a lot. however, she indicated that she needed space and does not want ... (365 words)

Am I finally going to find someone who wants me for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hullooooo Just a little curious is all... I've only ever been in two relationships. One went for two years and the girl I was with never wanted to be physical (not sex, lol, I don't plan on having sex for a whiiiile yet), but just cuddling, holding hands or anything, and... (241 words)

Is it ok to want other men to find you attractive if you are in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are best friends and we are very open with each other. He has told me on a few occasions that his friends think im beautiful. I am very flattered by this. The truth is although I love my boyfriend very much and would never cheat on him, I do like attentio... (159 words)

Would it be weird to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I'm fifteen and I work in my dads shop and this girl whos 21 works in there aswell, we really really get along and we flirt all the time and I'm starting to like her a bit more than a friend, would it be weird to ask her out ?... (51 words)

My husband has been sending emails to an exgirlfriend on Facebook!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - iv been with my husband 4 years now and just a few weeks ago he got in contact with a ex girlfriend on facebook, i found emails they had been sending to each other saying they still loved each other and that he counldnt wait to see her again and that they will have to meet up, ... (108 words)

Not much experience with boys, but the little I have tells me they are very confusing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this Guy have become really close and we spend all our time together there. We have been really close for about 3 months. I really like him and from the way he acts I think he likes me to. Constantly flirting, texting 24/7 and around him Im always very natural - the re... (368 words)

Is my relationship pretty much over?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my relationship pretty much over? I dont know whats going on...my boyfriend is 31 and I'm only 21...and we've been living together for the past 8 months, and we've been dating for a little bit over a year. and all we've been doing lately is fighting. He doesn't want to go ... (134 words)

No sex for 8 years, I'm going crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm lost i have been with my "man" for 12 years. we have a child together, a nice home, a buisness and a good relationship. problem is we have not had sex in 8 years! yes8!!!! no kisses no touches no nothing...it wasen't always like that the first 4 years were incredible we wer ... (190 words)

She said she'll leave my bff for me!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im 25. my nieghbor who i have had a crush on for about 3 years seduced me and we had sex. she is amazin in bed and freakisly hot. shes really sweet and a great girl. she asked me if i wanted to go over to her house and watch a ovie i did. its been a week and we are pretty ... (124 words)

Am I desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - look, i like this boy but i moved far far far away....and theres this other boy who just doesnt want a girlfriend because of his studies...my friend reckons it is just excuses..but i dont know...im planning on meeeting with this other boy tomorrow..and are plannng on "gettin ... (54 words)

He's got pictures of local, naked girls on his phone!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend left me on saturday, reasoning that he can't trust me after finding out that i kept a secret from my past. Yesterday he came back and i accepted him back coz i have a weakness for him. Today i learned that he is keeping pictures of naked local girls in his phond ... (76 words)

Girlfriend or the guy: which should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have the guy, and he's practically perfect. He flirts with others, but Im willing to give it a chance..maybe. My friend who just recently broke up with him, still loves him. She wont talk to me anymore. At one point in time, she was my bestfriend, then we started drifting ... (181 words)

How can I ever return after experiencing abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I left my husband and now he wants me to come back. He's been abusive and I'm having a hard time feeling reassured that things will be different. He told me that I should stick with him in good times and bad and let go of the past because after all he stayed with my through ... (111 words)

My boyfriend plays the blame game all the time! I think he needs counseling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need a bit of advice. i'm not sure whether the word 'defensive' describes my boyfriend, but it's the only word i can use. he always plays the blame game with me and i'm just finding it really hard to communicate with him. whenever me and my boyfriend argue (... (376 words)

I just want my life back when I felt totally loved

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having alot of issues with him lying. He has finally come clean about alot of things.I already knew most of them so I was not surprised.We have been together for 6 years,so we decided starting over would be a good thing. I thought things were going okay and I caught ... (424 words)

There's another man and she says she's distracted by him

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - we met at the bus stop her car wrecked,my liesence suspended. shes alot younger by 10 yrs but we began to talk nand then see each other,we're both adopted and though we're very diffrent we loved each other and began to plan life together. we'd been together about a year and ... (325 words)

What else can I do to please him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to try oout some tips on giving my boyfriend a blowjob even though I don't really enjoy it. If this doesn't work, what other ways are there that I can pleasure my boyfriend. Other than handjobs obviously. I dress up a lot for him and we try out karma sutra together. ... (81 words)

Out of the blue, I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Is this a phase?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP! Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years, he was my first pretty much everything and iv only ever been with him. I have always been more dependent on him and was always all about him and so in love with him while he was always more independent and it seemed like he would be ... (173 words)

How can I flirt on webcam?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I flirt on webcam? Riiightt.. I want to flirt with a guy on webcam, and like, i know how to flirt in general, but how can i on webcam? I wanna like, Take my top off and just be in my underwear NOTHING else is coming off! lmaoo.. but how can i be really flirty and make ... (68 words)

How can you love someone but not BE in love with them?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - yes, what is the diffrents in someome thats been apart from you said that they love you deeply but there not sure if they are in love with you? my boyfriend and I have a five year relationship living together and the other four living apart about 45 min away. He tells me that ... (113 words)

He treats me like a princess, but always wants sex and calls me a tease...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now. im 16 and he is 19. we have had sex four times. but we hang out almost every day and he alwaaaaays tries to start it. i usually let him touch a bit and then just say stop but it always takes a lot for me to get ... (214 words)

What does it mean when a girl sighs or breathes deeply around a particular guy?

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* So there's this girl and I think she likes me. Among the usual things (eye contact, glancing, shy when I talk to her .etc) she sometimes sighs or breathes deeply when she passes by me or is in my vicinity. She is also clumsy .eg. dropping her books ve... (74 words)

How do you forgive when you know you'll never forget?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you forgive when you know you'll never forget? i know 'time heals all wounds,' but i am really struggling w/ day-to-day relating and dealing with my partner. i am angry and hurt and i don't trust that he's not stuck in the past (stuck on at least two exes). some d... (247 words)

How do I get him to stop his sarcastic comments?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you do when your boyfriend (of 7 years) won't stop with the sarcastic comments? He has comments about my stretch marks, saggy chest, belly, mommy pouch, butt, ect. (We have two kids, I am 26 years old) ALL the time, sometimes they sound sarcastic, sometimes they d... (135 words)

Should we try marital counselling again?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been separated for 3 weeks (married 2 years). For the last 6 months of our marriage it's been terrible. During that time we went through marital counseling and honestly it was not effective. My husband wants me to return home but I just can't. I'm ... (280 words)

Weird grinding noises when I sit up!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - recently had a baby, got terrible back pains throughout the end of my pregnancy and now that i am trying to exercise again (baby is over 2 months now) i hear a weird clicking noise come from my back and it makes me wonder if there is something wrong with my back even though it ... (85 words)

I have difficulty expressing myself in my workplace...help!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a problem in experessing myself expecially when in my working environment. it's as if i have this fobia of receiving a response i might not know how to rspond back.my colugues bad chat me most times and pretnd to be k with me. what to do?... (48 words)

Problem bonding with my newborn son...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I had my 2nd baby nearly 4 months ago now. My oldest is nearly two. the problem is i'm worried I havn't bonded properly with my newborn. I think part of it was to do with the fact that all through my pregnancy I was told i ws havng a girl - and allthough i didn't care a ... (322 words)

Will he ask me to marry him one day?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have been with my boyfriend for a year and half. We are expecting our first baby together and looking for somewhere to live. we are excited and very happy. he was slightly drunk the other night and he said to me he is thinking about marrying me, i laughed it off because i th... (151 words)

Just curious, could an affair ever be justified for purely sexual satisfaction reasons?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please understand that I love my husband and have not cheated on him. The reason I am asking this is because I feel so conflicted at the moment I need impartial advice. I love my husband. He was my first (not only) lover and when we got married I thought I'd never want anoth... (349 words)

Is there a future in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks, I have posted most of this in a diffrent question but from the advice that I took (with many thanks to all the people who took the time to reply) I find myself in a diffrent problem. I have known this woman online for 4 years, she is happily married with a 1yr old d... (599 words)

Why does my boyfriend act like this around me?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have always been very close and share a deep bond. He is very loving and sweet. He has problems of his own though. He is struggling with a bad drug addiction and is staying with his dad who is very nasty to him. He is however not a bad person at all, and ... (138 words)

My period was late by a week, could I still be pregnant?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my period was late bout a week then it came...i thought i was pregnant, could i still can be? cause i haven't been using protection ... (25 words)

I recently found out he cheated on me, should I give our relationship another chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I have recently found out that my now fiancee of 5 years cheated on me 2 years ago in a one night stand. We went through a really awful rough patch for most of 2008 and this is when he cheated on me. We decided to have time apart when he went away with the RAF but ha... (163 words)

I'm desperate for sex after an LTR without it!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I split with my partner earlier this year after nine years because of total sexual incompatibility which just became such a big deal. My partner no longer wanted sex - it was never a terribly frequent occurence and oral sex (either way) had always been 'banned' - but I loved ... (276 words)

I don't know what to do..I don't want to hurt anyone...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay,so im 17 and i have this huge problem. 1-i had a boyfriend...we dated for about a year but during this year we boke up three times and ended up getting back together...i was crazyy about him.oh,and the times we broke up...he actually broke up with me because he had prob... (225 words)

I don't enjoy giving oral sex, is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't enjoy giving my boyfriend a blow job. Is that normal? Last night i kept trying and then gagging within a few seconds. He knows i don't enjoy it and can't understand why. Last night he told me that i should enjoy it really which made me feel like there must be something ... (94 words)

I think my parents know that I had sex with my bf....what shd I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Here is the thing, I've been happy with my boyfriend for now almost 8 months. He is the most wonderful guy and has never pushed me into something i didn't think i could do. I made the decision to do many things with him that were harmless but very fun for us. Though everyone... (237 words)

My cousin accidently groped me, now I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! Well, recently I've gone on holiday with my cousins and we had I great time! We were on a waterslide and I was racing with my older(18 y/o) boy cousin, to see who could finish first. At the end there is a big plunge into the water and my cousin grabbed my swimming ... (169 words)

How do I get over my obsessive crush like Robert Pattison??

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year married womanwith a one and half year old kid. I have been a fan of Robert Pattinson since I saw him as Cedric in the Harry Potter movies.I amin love with his mannerisms,his smile and his marvellous eyes. My crush attained its height when I watched him the ... (152 words)

I know I should let sleeping dogs lie, but why was my husband sweet talking other girls in the beginning?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Silly id be asking now but, its a question about my past i ocasionally find my self thinking about when i first started dateing my husband. He had a dirty habit of sweet talkin girls. He would have me on the phone and like as if i wasint there he would tell them how perty they ... (240 words)

How do I make my husband want to have sex?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey every one ........... Need a lil advice on how to make my husband want to have sex with me. its bin 2 months now that i try to make the moves on him and he rejects them ive gone as far as going oral and he brushes me away by saying oo babe control your hormones. I... (185 words)

Will I never find anyone on the same wavelength as me??

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am an attractive 42 year old who has had quite a tough life and been married twice to men who treated me quite badly. I am currently going out with a man who is very kind but I dont feel we are on the same intellectual wave length and I just dont feel that I love him nearly ... (239 words)

New relationship, advice please!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with this guy for a little bit short of a week now. I know that seems like a short period of time, and it is. But I feel like I shared a lot of myself already with this person, and of anyone else I feel like there's this amount of trust there I ... (248 words)

Having to distance myself from my best friend

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I fell for my best friend (female). She sees me as a brother - despite, which, she has occasionally behaved much more like a girlfriend than this although I stress we have never been intimate, to the extent that many of our mutual friends thought that we were a couple or that ... (192 words)

She let her ex stay at her house!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girl freind for 4 months now, She did tell me during our initial days that she is still good freinds with her ex, on saturday her ex and a few other common freinds had dinner while i was with my freinds watching a game, the following day i was so eager to ... (265 words)

What should I do? I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help, me and my bf have been going out for somtime now and i kinda like his friend, his friend knows that i liked him because i told him one day, i want to go out with him but i want to stay with my bf to help what should i do??... (54 words)

Should I move on or let him take his time?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I NEED support + help! i am so in love and well alright well first of: he broke up with me and told me that he thinks he's hurting me too much and that i lie alot just because i dont want to talk about my past...second he tells me that he wants to get back but also doesnt becuz ... (289 words)

I have feelings for my best friend! How do I tell him?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I developed an attraction to one of my best guy friends. he has a girlfriend but i think he likes me too. how do i find out and how do i tell himi like him?... (35 words)

I'm always worried she doesn't love me!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm always not sure if my girlfriend loves me, I know she does! That is the sad part, she loves me so much but my insecurity is driving her nuts!! How do I just chill out and let her be. I really love her and we are special but I'm screwing this up!!!... (57 words)

Should I go out with him again if he asks?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me last night on facebook and he wrote the following message to me: Um (my name)??? i have a problem real badly um three days ago I asked out(girls name)and she just now said yes Note: This was DURING our relationship. Then he wrote another message... (179 words)

I'm thinking of getting my belly button pierced, opinions?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been wanting a new piercing for a while now, and I was recently considering my belly button. I'm on the thinner side, so I am a little worried about the future (for instance in ten years if I get pregnant will the hole stretch and look awful?). I've had mixed suggestions, ... (63 words)

Help! Is this at all normal?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for men to get angry when we females refuse to have sex with them?... (17 words)

Fiance's tight vagina makes sex great with her, but now I want to last longer so that she finds it more satisfying too!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance has a very tight vagina, almost that of a virgin. She however is mother to 3 children, 2 of whom were C-Section deliveries, obviously leaving her with a very tight vagina. Furthermore due to the C-Sections her vagina has minimal scarring from the stitching involved ... (124 words)

How can I get over him- EG stop bringing him up in conversations, or being reminded of him?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with this guy for about 3 years and then we broke up suddenly.weve been broken up for about 8 months now but We still had a relationship somewhat though but we did not have the title of boyfriend and girlfriend. I just ended things for good with him ... (182 words)

It was my first time and I was bleeding alot, should I be worried??

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 18 and I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time but then during the sex I was bleeding alot. I used a condom but I'm afraid, am I'm going to get pregnant?... (36 words)

I want out, but he won't let me leave!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in this 6 month relationship at this moment. My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot lately. He tends to freak out over the smallest things or nothing at all. We started good until he accused me of cheating because someone else told him I'm cheating. I never cheated and ... (274 words)

She won't do any more physical stuff with me!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have a pretty physical relationship but of course it has died down some. I made it very romantic for her one time and since we both are completely free from our parents sometimes we have to go to the back of the car. After the SUPER SUPER ro... (84 words)

Dreading my doctors appointment...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well, I'm on a birth control pill to regulate my period, apparently my prescription expired which means I'll have to go in for a physical. And I'm dreading the appointment where they have to check you down there. I'm so uncomfortable with people seeing my body. My mom said she ... (91 words)

Feeling lost...and don't know how to deal with this guy...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am apple and im 19 years old i am feeling so lost inside right now. there was a guy (let call him beb) he was my classmate in elementary grade 3 till 5th grade he left in our country when we were 6th grade and his family live in Wisconsin this guy had a crush on me but i ... (432 words)

Is he still a virgin?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So the other nite I had sex with a virgin...When we were doing it I felt kind of bad bcuz I wasnt a virgin. Knowing that I was taking his virginity was bad enough so I punkt out and stopped after while...So is he still a virgin?(if he didn't cum)... (50 words)

She won't have sex with me!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, me and my girlfriend are having relationship problems and i need your advice. Me and her have been goin out for 5 months and i have been waiting for her to want a physical relationship with me but everytime we engage we only get as far as makingout, i have given her oral ... (156 words)

Best friend to girlfriend?

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been bestfriends with this girl since 7th grade and we tried dating in 8th but it was too weird...we were texting one night and she said "sometimes i wonder why we never tried to date again,i mean you'd be the perfect guy for me cause i trust you and i know you but idk? ... (93 words)

Help! My wife found out about an affair I'd rather forget, how can I get her back now?

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - F*^ and ! Sorry for my language but everything is horrible. The woman I had the affair with some how found me on the internet and sent me a message. Say how she wished the night ended differently and how even. Though it was only a couple mintues she enjoyed it. My wife read ... (250 words)

My parents have caught on that I'm having sex and it is making me paranoid..!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating 9 months and were in a good relationship. My parents are like catching onto sex and don't want me doing stufff and I told them I dnt do it but I do. And I know I don't wamt to stop. But anyway I feel so embaressed and uncomfortble with them ... (136 words)

People are saying my new boyfriend speaks bad about me behind my back, what am I to believe?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my name is courtney So this is really hard to explain! I went out with this guy 5-25-10 then i broke up with him a week later! i felt bad part me still liked him part me said not to! when we broke uo he cut himself cuz me! his name is eric. well anyways we are goin bac... (153 words)

Does he not want to take my virginity because he thinks I am not the one?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is not a virgin, but he knows that I am. He is about five years older than me, but I don't know how many women he's been with... We sleep in the same bed, and we'll make out and get close to going all the way, but he'll stop and say we shouldn't go further. I ... (190 words)

Due for an arranged marriage, fell in love with the guy, and now he wants me to leave him!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - im 26 years old, basically im afraid about boys and i hate marriage then i accept my marriage before one year my parents also looking for a guy finally i got one he started to talk, he said he was having one previous love and he cant forget her she married and settled i said ok ... (187 words)

I'm 18 and have never had a girlfriend!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, so I have a serious question about my personal life. Idk, but I find it really hard to find a girlfriend. I am a really good looking guy, and I realized that I am 18, and never had a girlfriend. Problem is, I dont even have any girls that I am friends with. In my ... (320 words)

Should I date my teacher?

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i have had a crush on my teacher for a while. she is right out of college i believe shes 23 im a 18 year old senior entering my last week of school. i guess she noticed i liked her and asked me to have sex after school. i did and it was amazing. im not inlove with her just ... (126 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for more than a month, but he's shy! How do I make the first move?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on a double-date with my boyfriend and my best friends' boyfriend. Their relationship is going SO much faster than ours. They're already saying they love each other, they've tried to kiss before, etc. And here we are. Me and my boyfriend finally had our first hug la... (143 words)

My father is retiring, and I want to make something special for him. Suggestions?

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21 June 2010 (F) - my father is a city driver..it may appear like an easy job but it really isn't..it aged him before his time with the traffic and stress and not to mention sitting down for 10-12 hours a day with only a few minutes here and there to stand and get up. He now has problems walking ... (312 words)

Should I forgive boyfriend for lying about drinking?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i really need help. Me and my boyfriend had been dating for about 10 months and he is about to leave for the marines. Well the weekend before he left, we were in a little argument over something he did but nothing huge. recently we didnt even say i love you or anything in ... (298 words)

My boyfriend hides how he feels from me!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and everytime there is something or something bothering him or when he is in bad mood he never tells me what is wrong. This causes me to constantly worry about him. It really concerns me that he never tells me how he ... (112 words)

Could this be cancer or am I pregnant? Help!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I need YOUR help and adivce desperately...Okay, so a little over two weeks ago, I noticed a small bump on my cervix and ignored it. The next day, I had sex with my boyfriend and about two days later, noticed the bump was gone. At that same time, I had a lot of pain ... (189 words)

I think I love my best friend's sister!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I should start with some history. My best friend and I have known each other since first grade, so that's an accumulative total of 12 years. He is my very best friend, I'd do anything for him, and I see him as a brother. His entire family loves me, and I do mea... (383 words)

How should I ask boys out?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't get it ?! Girls are not suppose ask a dude out but if it gets mii a date then I will but HOW?... (25 words)

I'm scared that I'm either going to go crazy or just die from a broken heart!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so lost I don't even know what to ask. I am about to go crazy because I've been so sad for so long. Loneliness, feelings of worthlessness, and sadness are destroying me and I don't have anyone to talk to. I don't want to burden my friends and no one in my family cares ... (905 words)

I'm so crazy for her it hurts

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, a few weeks ago I joined up on a sports team for the summer, just so i had something to do. I met this really cute and nice girl (i'll call her jenna). we really clicked; we had a long conversation and i completely fell for her. she's extremely gorgeous with long brown ... (128 words)

We're sleeping together, but he's with someone else!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I been working with this company for a year…my coworker are really cool…One of them has become my closest guy friend, his gf broke up with him after 4 yrs in November of last yr…I was there for him through those tough times. In February of this yr I started to notice he flirted ... (270 words)

How do you get better at sex?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and it was okay but he is kinda taller than me and kinda bigger than me and he is a good guy but my question is How do u make sex better the second time because i get horny around him and its hard not to want to do it but i ... (109 words)

Should I just let him go and ignore my feelings?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - it feels like everything in my life is going wrong . and im so unhappy . i believe this is from me not being with the person i love . me nd my ex boyfriend broke up months ago . nd we still had a thing going on . but now we dont talk at all . i have so much love for him . its ... (234 words)

He is way too into me. What should I do?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, recently this absolutely divine boy and I got together. He's what i've always dreamed of, but he's two years younger than me; we met at our mutual sport and now I feel like he's being a little crazy. The whole relationship deal started pretty slow, but then he was begi... (133 words)

I'm falling for my teacher! What should I do?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am falling for my teacher. he is 23 and i am 17. we will both be 24 and 18 respectively this year. i dont know what to do. i know it's wrong but i really like him. we have had some deep conversations and we really connect. i just dont know what to do. my feelings are ... (74 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i think my girlfriend is cheating and does not really care bout me bcuz she changed from wen we first met. she doesnt call me really. she goes days sometimes she ignores my call. sometimes when were out ad people ask if we are together she says 'no were friends'. she dosnt let ... (216 words)

How do I approach an 'out of my league' girl to go out with me?

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so i like a girl that is 2 years older than me and maybe a little out of my league. we are kinda friends. we talk some. i want to know how i should go about trying to get her to go out with me... (47 words)

Do men ever fall in love with their booty calls?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys ever actually like their "booty calls"? Or even fall in love with them?... (15 words)

I know I should leave him, but how can I do it?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I don't know what to do with my relationship. I don't feel i am getting my emotional needs filled at all. He seems very selfish to me a lot of the time. Sex is very very one sided. I don't think i can come and i never have so far, but he seems to have just g... (802 words)

I've had several girlfriends, yet I'm too nervous to ask them out.

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 14 yrs old. I've had 9 girlfriends and I'm never the one to ask the girl out. The girls always ask me before I can ask. But I'm nervous to ask them out? Is this a problem? ... (43 words)

A man is as loyal as his options? Opinions, please!

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21 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have a question of opinion here. Do you guys believe that people are as loyal as their options allow them to be? Otherwise, in most cases, will someone leave the person they are with for a "better" catch? I personally believe that most people are opportunistic and the only ... (214 words)

Breaking up without hurting him?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I need advice on breaking up with my current boyfriend. We've been going out about 2 months, and I just don't feel like it's going anywhere, and also I'm moving in a couple of months so we will be pretty far from each other. I need advice on being as nice as possi... (84 words)

How will I know when my new boyfriend is ready to kiss?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my bf have been going out for a month and 17 days i love him alot and i want to go to the kissimg stage but i dont know if hes ready to kiss yet. how will i know when hes ready?... (45 words)

I'm in love with my female boss!

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 year old female and I'm stupid in love with my also female boss, My first though when I get up in the morning is for her, the same goes when I go to bed. At first it wasn't so bad to work with her and work around my feelings, but now, but as time has passed and we have ... (107 words)

I'm destroyed by jealousy, and broke up with her. But I wish I had her back.

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am totally devastated. I love my girlfriend so much, but I have dumped her. Cannot tell why... A jealousy story, something that happened between us recently and that never went out of me. It's still inside, painful, pushing me to do things I do not want to do. I get crazy ... (161 words)

I'm embarrassed with my voice...

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 15 and i'll be 16 in march, something is bugging me but i guess its not really serious. Well everyone i know says my voice sounds like im around 10 years old is that normal? My boyfriend said he doesnt mind and that he thinks its cute, but im self conscious talking on ... (95 words)

Girl trouble! Very bad!

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21 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - This the first time this has happened to me. So me and this girl have been good friends for about 6 months. Well just out of nowhere about a week ago she says she likes me so we start going out. four days later she says “so what do you think about us going back to how we ... (101 words)

Used me as rebound girl for 5 months? Is this good revenge on him?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does he really want me or is he still hung over his ex gf? When I first met boyfriend, he would rant on and on to me about his ex, how she was psycho and all. I felt it was okay since we were just friends given the distance between us it would be hard to date. But we started ... (252 words)

My best friend practically ignores me online now. What do I do?

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21 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well right now i feel so sad because me and my best friend used to talk every day on messenger cause she is in mexico and i came to the united states when i was 6 years old but i go every year. Well the problem is that since she meet a boy she started on ignoring me. Every time ... (234 words)