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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I deal with this breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age - Hi! I feel in love with a guy this last spring. He broke off with me and I thought he was afraid of commitment. Maybe he was so I wrote him emails without any answers. He finally mad me angry so I told him off! Then I decided to let him have his way and gave him his freedom! ... (102 words)

Intimacy is becoming an issue for my long distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a long distance relationship, or i say i did have one. But things have never been to intimate between us. Last night he said he was feeling frisky and wanted me to do thinks for him, even if it was just prance around in my knickers. But i did not want to do that, so this ... (132 words)

How can I pick myself up and move on after this "friends with benefits" mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for almost two years and has had a miscarriage this year for him. The relationship is only a friends with benefits type situation until I got pregnant and had to have surgery cause I was pregnant in my tube so my baby died. He has flirted with other ... (132 words)

Will this new "open" thing be good for my long-distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I'm kinda seeing (J) and I have opened things up for the summer because we live over 3000 miles apart. I'm not really liking this open thing but, my ex, (K) recently was talking about a hook up possibility once my new job starts in a couple weeks. The issue is that I ... (154 words)

How can I handle my girlfriend's trust and anger issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age - my girlfriend of 8months appears to have trust and anger issues.I am a photographer.i mostly shoot with models or i used to.after 2 months and me moving to her city,she tells me she hates me knowing these models and hates their pics.Ive NEVER cheated on her.she assumes things ... (142 words)

He keeps joining dating sites even though we're engaged and I'm pregnant, am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So... I'm almost 8 months pregnant. I was just engaged on mothers day and my relationship was a fairy tale.. i never imagined things could be so good but i also knew it was too good to be true. 2 days ago i caught my fiance signing up for dating sites.. 2 and then the new ... (241 words)

I love him but he neglects me, we have a daughter and I want her to have a mum and a dad, but this relationship is making me miserable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i tell him it's over? we've been together for 3 years his daughter was born one month when we started dating and he told me he didn't know he was having a kid with his ex...that she lied to him about the abortion.. we have a 3 month old daughter together.. which he didnt ... (336 words)

Nervous about first-time sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this is a question to guys and girls. I am 18, and still a virgin. I have this fear when I am going to get to the moment of having sex, I'll be too excited and cum too quick (maybe even before sex starts?) idk, help me out, does that happen? I am not certain this will ... (68 words)

How do I cope with losing my job and friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So the summer started, I graduated High School a week ago, and now my probably best summer in my life is ruined. I lost my job 2 days ago, I can't pay for gas/insurance starting next month. But wait, thats not it. I lost all of my good friends. Friends I used to go out with ... (185 words)

I am not in love with my boyfriend anymore and madly in love with another man, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i just need a pick me up to cheer me up . . . Simplest way to put it is, i have been in a relationship for 6 years. I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend but i dont want to tell or hurt him. I am madly in love with someone else. He is from Canada and i am from the UK. ... (137 words)

My long-distance partner just told me he is going to get an escort to deal with his sexual frustration!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age - In LDR for six months, together years. Boyfriend lost his job had to move for a new job. I make special trips to see him 5 days a month. He wants me to join him where he is but I can't leave my job to go with him because he makes no promises of any kind for the future. In those ... (134 words)

He keeps leaving me hanging but also leading me on, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so this guy and i have this thing going where we like each other at different times because sometimes i'll text him and he won't text back while at other times he'll text me for a whole day and night and into the next morning. We do this thing where we text for a weekend ... (268 words)

Been together 3 months and he's starting to irritate me, should I just call it a day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I met by boyfriend 3 months ago. We get on well although we have never been out on a date. He just comes to my house and we hang out. He calls/texts each day sometimes we talk for ages. The problem is that recently he has ... (159 words)

Everyone is laughing at me because I was set upon totally unawares...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and two girls were playing strip poker in the basement of a party and we were getting down to no clothes. The two of them lost their bras and then they decided I should lose my shorts, cause that is all I had left. So they tackled me and one sat on my chest while the other ... (202 words)

Ex and I slept together just like old times... but he has a girlfriend! What to do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boy friend broke up about 1 month ago and now he is seeing someone else but the other day we meet up for the first time since we broke up. we went to dinner and then the cinema it was like we was still together having fun laughin joking around with each other.. that ... (106 words)

My friend doesn't want me to go to strip clubs but why???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a question... the situation is my friend gets mad when i go to the strip club... im a virgin but i still go for lap dances... there's strippers that would have sex with me though or at least a bJ and some werent even going to charge.. theres one at this club i like ... (176 words)

He doesn't seem to want to make time for my any more...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months. he works at nights but whenever he has days off he gets up does what he has to and goes off with his mates. I feel he doesnt spend any time with me at all. he's a bit broke at the moment but he stays out till 2-3 in the ... (132 words)

I'm done with my friend's emotional games!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok i have this close friend that was my gf but she broke up with me for this other guy..... well i stayed freinds with her and eventually she broke up with that guy, and weve been talking a lot recently she told me i should marry her i said ok after a long series of whys she ... (294 words)

How can I get my self esteem back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my self esteem is so low at the moment. What can i do to make myself feel better please!xxx... (20 words)

Weird question about my friend... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't seem to define this relationship I have with this girl and its starting to bug me so I thought I could ask for some help because I don't want to tell her about it since i think it would be weird after. Basically she's my best friend but I've realized recently that we... (224 words)

Why should my brother get all the attention???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a problem with my little brother. He's like 12 and im 14, and whenever my girl who is friends see him, they say "awhhh he's so cuteee"... then they forget about me, so what the freak? how can i change this? This girl that i like saw him and when she brought him ... (66 words)

Did I do the right thing? If so why does it hurt so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been crushing on a teacher of mine for maybe 2 years now, and well, I haven't done much to hide it, and he hasn't done much to stop it. In fact, we're really close like we talk almost every day and we completely understand each other (btw nothing illegal happened ... (137 words)

I'm married... but I love someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 16 years. I have been horriable about staying faithful in my marriage. I cheated within my first year. I thought that the fling was just something I needed to get out of my system and stayed faithful for a couple of years. I had a couple of children with ... (465 words)

Why didn't he tell me he would be there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There was an event at where I work and a guy a like was apparently going to it (you had to be asked by someone at my work to come, and I KNOW he didn't know anyone there) but didn't even tell me. He invited himself to come (which was acceptable but not really encouraged). It ... (114 words)

Should I act on these thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a young woman and i have always been aroused by the thought of getting a strap on and having sex with a gay male. I am worried that people will think im strange especially my mom who is highly religious and gays are not accepted in her eyes or the church. should i act o... (69 words)

Should I call it quits or work on a relationship that makes me miserable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old woman. I have met the 'love of my life' two years ago. At first things went smoothly and we enjoyed the same things. As days passed things started to change. He does not respect my privacy. He asked me to give him my email password just to snoop on and find ... (162 words)

Why is he blanking me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - on the boy i likes birthday i put happy birthday on his wall but a couple of days later he asked me whether or not i liked him on facebook chat. everyone in the class believd he liked me, he always talked to only me and ALWAYS stares at me in class but he replied after that he ... (120 words)

Is there anybody out there like us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my best friend are extremely close to one another. I am a straight girl and he is gay. We do every thing together and are happy with life. Everybody including his mom say we act like a couple. His mom swears that we are in love but in denial. We just laugh and look at ... (432 words)

We have reconnected but he's in a relationship, should I pursue him or back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok... So I've known this guy since middle school and we recently started talking, it had been years since we've seen each other (we're both 27 now). I just recently found out that he's been in a relationship for 5years and they have 2 little boys that are 3 and 4. We seem to ... (208 words)

How can I keep this from my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had broken up with my ex 6 months back.After which there was this guy in my life whom i got intimated with :( I know it was a mistake.I've stopped talking to the guy but its like i have to see him very often at meetings and gatherings. How do i deal with this?I love my ex a ... (98 words)

He said he would book a hotel in the city, I checked and there was no booking...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and have been in a long distance ´fling´ for almost 5 months now. My fling and I live about a 3 hour planetrip away from each other. We met at a conference, both there on work related business and we ´clicked´, the conference was 3 days and we spent a lot of time tog... (540 words)

Are double standards ever fair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. You can all probably imagine... (252 words)

Am I more than just his home help???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he is 30yrs and we are close. i clean his house, wash his clothes even underwear. he gives me money and buys me presents. he even made a spare key 4 me so that i can go to his house at any time cause it is close 2 my home. he is single and lonely. i want 2 know if he loves ... (108 words)

Sex positions for female stimulation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm definitely what you'd call adventurous in bed and willing to try pretty much anything. But my favorite position is missionary and I'm worried I'll be seen as "boring" or something. I can orgasm from penetrative sex better than anything else, but only in missionary and ... (153 words)

My boyfriend says he's not a sexual person...is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating long-distance for eight months. We're finally going to be living in the same city. We're both in our 30's and haven't had sex with each other yet. He wasn't bringing it up, so when I finally did, he said, "We can have sex if you want." I ... (140 words)

I like him, by my self-esteem is pretty low just now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, recently ive fallen for this boy, im 14, so is he. i want to ask him out, but theres such fuss around it, it will spread and become embarassing, and my self-esteem is really low at the moment, from arguments at home to my looks, which is really stupid. ive modelled bef... (91 words)

He accuses me of having lost it with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid me and my boyfriend having been going out now for a couple of months he's my first boyfriend i never had one before he nice sweet and loving to me.well yesterday we decided to have sex like he knows it my first time he's my first ..so were done afterwards he's like o ... (109 words)

The condom came off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Im so worried i am pregnant; well i am 16, and i have only had sex once with this lad from where i go on holiday, who i am in a relationship with. We had sex again the last time i was there, (about 4 days ago) and at first it was fine, we began missionary posit... (196 words)

Can a man last too long? What can be done if you have this problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ladies...how long do you like your guys to last in bed? I'm in my first new sexual relationship in a very long time, and my partner says I have the longest staying power of anyone she's been with. Most partners she was with she did quickies only, because they would last ... (275 words)

My b oyfriend has anger towards me for my past.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OPs Own Title"My boyfriend has anger towards me for my past. Most days are wonderful - we have a great time together, enjoy doing the same things, and want the same things out of life - marriage and children. But, the anger builds up (he says that he thinks about it all the ... (563 words)

Reaching a point where I don't know whether I should continue my relationship with my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - "OP Own Title"I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 5years now and it seems like throughout the whole time we have been together a reoccuring fight stems back to her clingyness. Just yesterday we had another one and we talked about breaking up and I haven't seen ... (918 words)

Just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, now I'm wondering about FWBs and other things!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of two years... It was me that ended it but i didnt want to. I just didnt feel it was fair to keep going with it when I wasnt in love with him any more. I know Im not ready yet but when do you think is a good time to move o... (199 words)

My girlfriend is distant because we never go out and do things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is really distant and does not seem all loving and affectionate as she was before. She said that she loves being wined and dined and my financial situation does now allow for that now. I love her so much and would hate to lose her because of money! What do I... (63 words)

Why does she essentially require that I have an erection during oral sex?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have a pretty good sex life but it's not without some quirks. I've always enjoyed giving her oral sex. She claims that I'm the first who has been able to bring her to orgasm this way. The problem is that she essentially requires that I maintain an erec... (169 words)

I want to get past this infidelity but don't know where to start.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i am a 25 year old male and been with my girlfriend for 1 year 6 months. we was going good until while i was away at work for 3 weeks, found out that she had a party at her mates house and met a guy and they talked all night. i found this out by a friend and not by her. wen ... (218 words)

Is he being really friendly or flirtatious? He has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, there is a boy in my life of whom I am very fond of and really fancy in all fairness. He has a girlfriend, of whom I am friends with, not really close friends, but a friendship is there. A part of me loves liking him, and the other thinks of his partner and hates ... (223 words)

His past sex life has recently started bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It has recently started bothering me that my boyfriend of two years was with other women before me when I've only ever been with him. I don't know why I suddenly feel like this. I honestly didn't use to mind. It's not like I didn't know and I used to always think that an ideal ... (249 words)

Should I wait for him? He goes through girls like it's his job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old. Me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up not too long ago. He moved 100 miles away and he doesnt have a way to come see me. He goes through other girls like its his job. We talk on the phone all the time, he says he still loves me and always will. He also tells ... (163 words)

How do I take the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Much true. I've been married for almost 15 years, but have never been truly happy. I am very much an optimistic extrovert while my husband is a pessimistic introvert. Our bad times far outweigh the good, but we've continued to try. I'm finally to the point I want OUT! My ... (370 words)

Is there any way I can break up with him without telling him about the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I'm going out with this boy and he's hurt me in the past, so I'm going to break up with him, but at the same time I'm going out with this other guy on accident. so how do I tell the first guy I want to break up with him without hurting him since he knows that the other guy ... (107 words)

Would a guy make out with a girl he did not like or find attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod Note: OP's own title] I saw a friend of mine for the first time in years. We basically picked up where we left off. We spent the whole day together and even planned on doing future activities. Well the end of the day comes and we are sitting alone. We became affectio... (246 words)

I'm 25 and a virgin, I don't want to abandon my morals but I'm feeling so frustrated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and still a virgin I'm so fed up really feel like i'm going to die this way. I don't go out much so I find it really difficult to meet someone. I've chatted online to some guys and some I really like but they seem to be after just one thing. Don't get me wrong... (117 words)

Why is being such a lazy lover? What can I do to improve our sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Ive been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years but pretty much the whole time ive felt really unwanted sexually by him. By no exaggesation, he has given me oral sex 3 times without me having to ask him, and then push the point, for it. Wen ... (265 words)

After 4 years she said I wasn't the one, but she is all I ever wanted! Will she come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - We dated for a year then asked her to marry me . she said no but said i could move in to her house. lived with her for 3 years .then she told me to move out because i am not the one . she gave me a month but i moved out to a friend right away. she is 35 i am 38 .i still want ... (340 words)

He cheated on me with his ex, but says he didn't come!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. my partner of 3 years had just recently cheated on me with his ex gf. they never had sex but did other foreplay type things. he reakons he didnt come when she gave him head could this happen? and also i need advice on what i should do... thanks very much... (53 words)

How do you tell if a friend likes you as more than friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey how can you tell if a guy is getting jealous? I dont mean your bf or husband or anything but just a guy that may like you, such as a friend that might get jealous because he likes you? How can you tell? Any behaviour or anything? What are the signs?... (55 words)

Why did he make a facebook status like that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is in a band and is on tour right now.on his facebook he made a status "young, thin jennifer love hewwit". this makes me jealous and unsure why he would he would do this. i dont mind him thinking celebrities are hot and all but for him to make a point and make a ... (87 words)

Will my heart ever mend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ever had your heart broken so badly it hurts physically inside too, like you have had it ripped out without painkillers? I have. My ex destroyed me, my self esteem, my confidence and faith. He led me on for years believing he wanted me, wanted to be with me, loved me and ... (292 words)

Are all cheaters the same?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi just after a few opinions pls 1.how do you tell the difference between a man who is in a relationship genuinely unhappy but confused and cheats. and a man who is using you because he can and cares nothing for you. because i dont believe all cheats are insensitive selfish ... (99 words)

My friend died tragically, and I can't move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone please help me...I miss my best friend ever,she died in a tragic way,until now i can't move on still keep thinking of her...wishing that she's still alive until now,i keep on dreaming of her that she's crying,we both cried in my dreamed...why do i keep dreaming of her?i ... (61 words)

Can you still love someone even if you don't see them for ages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you love someone you don't see for ages? Me and my ex broke up when he moved away to live in another state.. I'm just wondering if it's possible to love someone you dont see? Is it alot easier to get over them? We still talk (he always iniates convo) but I mean one da... (85 words)

Why have I started feeling uncomfortable around my cousin now that she's pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a 16 year old cousin that is 8 months pregnant.we use to be really close but ever since i found out that she was sexually active (and doesn't plan on stopping any time soon),i feel so awkward and uncomfortable around her.why is that and how can i be comfortable around ... (54 words)

I still love her but I'm finding it hard to forgive her, should I give her another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in and out of a relationship with a woman for 2 years now. She is 24, and babysits as her job. She has some college and says she wants to become a nurse, but she seems to rather want everything to be given to her instead of working for anything. I am 21 and in the ... (1596 words)

I'm 13 and scared my mum will find out I'm masturbating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 and have been masturbating for a while now...im scared though that my mom is supicous of some thing and if she catches me im teriffed she will take it badly and get mad at me i read about how its natural for some one my age but still :( what do i do ... (56 words)

Why won't she let me get close to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm sorry this is so long, but i really need help, thanks :) basically, for the last 8 months i've been seeing this girl (we're both 19). its not really a 'relationship' but when we go out we always hold hands, hug and kiss each other. the problem is, ever since i met her,... (624 words)

Have I blown my chances with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So i work with a girl, we've been very good friends for a long time and we had been growing close but i hesitated to make a move before i was more sure so after a night out she offered me the chance to crash at hers. I said no thinking it meant just that - sleeping in the ... (120 words)

How can I get him to put more effort into our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, and it hasn't even been very long, but I just feel like he puts NO effort into communicating. I set my alarm so I get up super early to talk to him (in his evening, because of the time difference) I send him little notes... (162 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me! How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my boyfriend just broke up with me because of my past. he has been getting mad about the apst like ALL the time. but he says to me and others how he loves me and that he wont break up with me due to the past. well today he went out and got drunk with a group of ... (367 words)

How do I make my goal of going to college a reality? I feel like I've run out of options!

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know if this would even qualify as a dear cupid question but I have no where else to go to ask it so here goes. I'm going to college in 2011. I plan to go to college right after graduation. I'm from a single parent home and college is unheard of where I some fro... (238 words)

How can I handle the attraction I feel for my female teacher?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I am attracted to my female teacher. She is amaaazing and beautiful and I can't seem to be able to stop thinking about her. She's constantly running through my mind.. It is so distracting. She's 26 and I know I could never be with her , but I can't ... (155 words)

Will he ever be ready for a relationship with me?

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18 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Hi there I was wondering if anyone had an opinions about my situation Im 21 years old and am head over heels for a guy the same age as me. He has been messaging me all day ever day for atleast a month now. I spend a couple of nights a week with him (yes i am sleeping with hi... (195 words)

I think he was with someone else, but he denies it! What should I do?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be a little on the embarrassing side for me but i really need someone thats been experienced to let me know the real deal. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we do have sex every now and then. but just the other night we were laying i... (352 words)

I'm 21 and have never had a boyfriend!

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old female who is pretty independent. I constantly feel different from my peers, because I'm just not similar in certain personality aspects. Every female friend I have seems to be obsessed with men. I love men, I enjoy discussion and thinking about them, and ... (972 words)

My boyfriend is friends with his ex, and I think he still has feelings for her!

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. He broke up with his last serious girlfriend in March of last year, rather, she broke up with him. They dated for 4 years, though she cheated on him numerous times throughout the relationship. She is currently dating the ... (206 words)

My step grandma goes through my things, and then I can't find them!

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i dont think my parents (dad and step-mom) are grown ups. my step-mom's mom (my grandma) comes over and cleans our whole house, ever room (even my dads). and she reorgainies everything in my room. and if i make my bed, she'll remake it. she also pickes up my sister and brothers ... (136 words)

Bad breath during pregnancy?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am pregnant by 16 weeks. My husband often complains that my breath has too much odour. Sometimes it is odourig too much. I have also noticed same. I regulerly use mouth wash. But after 10 minutes it starts oduring again. Before pregnancy it never happened like this. Is it ... (59 words)

Fun on vacation with her but now what?

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About a week ago i went to Panama City with a few friends from College and met a really good looking, down to earth girl. One of my friends and i started talking to her and her friend on the beach(we initiated the conversation.) and ended up getting their numbers. Later that ... (171 words)

About to get married and still unsure!!!

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm engaged and getting married to my girlfriend of six years in about a month. However, her behavior in the past six months have really worried me. One personality trait that I have always despised all my life is close mindedness. She has really started to show ... (218 words)

What does "i need a lil space" mean in a long distance relationship

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship and been together a month and a half things have been going so well. however tonight (6/17/10) he told me he needs a lil space, thats hes depressed and doesnt know what to do and he will talk when hes ready. he has been a lil ... (117 words)

Her parents don't think I'm good enough!

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I have one complicated love situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for several years now. We love each other a lot. However, there exists a problem with her parents. There are two main reasons that they don't accept me as below. 1. They think I am n... (180 words)

I feel used! What should I do?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really dont know what to do , 8 months ago my husband cheated on my with my bestfriend , i knew in my heart something had happened , he lied and lied about it , everytime i asked he would put me down for even questioning him , he made me feel like everything was my fault and ... (248 words)

Should I tell him?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm twenty-one years old. On my spring break vacation my friends and I met this cool group of guys, including "Joe." I was also hanging out with another guy I met, "Mike." Mike was the one I was "in love" with all week. Joe was cool- I spent one of the last nights with him, and ... (193 words)

Is he telling me the truth?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a long distance realtion ship my boyfriend moved away about three months ago ,i have seen eachother periodically since he has moved tho. he told me that he wasnt gonna watch porn or anything cause he wants to save him self for me and i agreed to do the same , we have ... (155 words)

Am I a bad parent for not allowing my child to visit her father?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an issue with my ex husband, and I need some advice please. He is in and out of my 10 year olds life. He calls when it is convenient for him. ie once or twice a month. A few years back he took her and my eight year old and hid them from me for a couple of days. I am so ... (214 words)

Should I be concerned?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past couple of weeks I've had an abnormally excessive amount of vaginal discharge. I know that discharge is a normal thing, and I consider myself sexually healthy (I'm not sexually active and haven't had any problems down there), but I've noticed lately a lot more ... (146 words)

Crazy dream is bringing back feeling for my ex?

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Last night I had a dream that my ex girlfreind was sleeping over (my mom doesnt let girls sleep over). She was sleeping on an air matress in my brothers room which was weird aswell. Her freind that I really liked was also sleeping over but on a trundle. All that I remember ... (155 words)

Which signs show that a man is intrested in u?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how must i know if a guy has feelings 4 me.he is my brother in law and my sister past away last year,so i have a feeling that he has some thing 4 me.which sighns must i look 4.pls help... (40 words)

Should I break up with him and find someone new?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have a question just like most of us girls want to ask. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He seems to me like he dont really care but heres the question. My boyfriend has lied to me about his ex a few times and has cheated on me once. He tells me ... (150 words)

Need help with self-confidence and self-esteem, please?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm probably one of the most insecure girls in my city. I am not content with anything on my body, face, and I am constantly bringing myself down. I want to regain my self-confidence but I have no idea how to do so. Any ideas? ... (51 words)

Anger management problems?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my 17 year old brothers a nice guy but he has no idea what to do with his anger when it comes to girls! hes not violent, and he doesnt yell, but he just shuts down and says that theyre lying when they say they want to work it out and he leaves! it hurts the girls he dates. I ... (107 words)

Stress Causes Your Period to Cease!

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a boyfriend and we do have sex. and we do like often. im on birth controle and hes had a condom on. while doing it my mom called and said she was on her way home so we had to stop, soo he never even came. when we were puttin our pants on he asked me if i was still ... (144 words)

Strong fear of sex, should I see a doctor?

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18 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - hello every one Im very scared of sex and felt that i would not get married , because i cant take my clothes off in front of my husband and made him touch me , then i feel disgusted of the sez,, knowing that my mother does not speak to me about sex when i try to ask her she ... (150 words)

What causes someone to become a masochist?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have come to terms that I am a masochist. I thought that I had biastophila but I do not want to be the inflictor, but the one who it's inflicted on. Am I considered damaged if I'm like this?? I wondered if there is a connection to this from when I was younger, I was a... (115 words)

Why does my hand go numb during sex?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just Wondering but why does part of my hand go numb when im having sex ? is it an orgasm or what cos i dont know what it is really haha.... (31 words)

I can't get the thought of her one night stand before we were together out of my head, and its killing me!

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my fiance in college at the end of my freshman year. I noticed her from the beginning. I had a crush on her the entire year but she had a boyfriend that went to a school nearby who she had been with for 2 years. They went to high school together in one of the smallest ... (489 words)

How can I convince my fiance its time to move out of his parents house?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age - i am a 20yr old accountant. who lives with her in laws. my fiance will not move out of his parent home because hhe feels he'll be miserable. we've been fighting an awful lot lately and its mainly because i want to start apt hunting. i feel its time to start a life together ... (165 words)

I'm confused, does he love me or not?

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi peeps :) First of all Im 18 and Bisexual.. So there is this guy (hes 17) who I met in Facebook I added him because I was looking for a new friend around my area (we just moved in) and also I want to be more fluet in English. we meet up and i can say that it was love at first ... (481 words)

How do I approach her to see if she's ready to take our relationship to the next level?

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - NEED TEENAGE GIRL ADVICE Hello, first off I'd like to explain my story some and then get down to the question. Ok, so me and my girlfried have been dating since I was 13(16 now) and me and her have been talking about having sex for quite some time now. Me and her both are wil... (111 words)

Was moving in with him a big mistake? Can our relationship be repaired?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. I moved in with my boyfriend about 3 months ago. And we have been fighting a lot. We are always arguing and sometimes his sex drive is too low. he is always grumpy and yells at me for almost anything. I know he loves me but I'm getting tired of all the fights. ... (126 words)

What effect can not having a proper father figure have on a man?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the effects on sons without proper father figures? My boyfriend's father was abusive and he is constantly searching for father figures in his older friends, he told me. I wish I could help him and be his friend but maybe that is not a role I can fulfill. Men, and ... (169 words)

I think I'm getting vibes that he likes me, should I just go ahead and ask him out?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked a boy I'll called J for about a year now. He got vibes that I liked him since the beginning so I had to admit it.. But ever since our relationship has been so complicated, and when I asked him how he felt he couldn't reply. He flirts and hints that he likes me alot ... (167 words)

He's my first boyfriend, how do I go about becoming more intimate with him?

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 16 and have been denying my true feelings my whole life. I'm bi-sexual but I mostly like guys. so about 8 months ago I got sick of hiding everything so I came out to my close friends..I didn't tell my parents because I didn't feel that it's any of their business. Plus ... (244 words)

Am I just her rebound, or could this relationship have a future?

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18 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - so i've been exclusively involved with this woman for 8 months. we have recently for the past month have been intimately involved. the last time we made love we were at a resort for the weekend,after we have made love we sat had some wine smoked a cigarrete and out of the blue ... (191 words)

I want to talk to him, but I'm so shy! Any advice?

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18 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So... there's this guy that I like. I actually met him last week. But, he's my dad's friend's son. Here's what happened... I was with my dad when my crush's parents came up to me and just started talking to me. They had asked for my name and age and said that I must be Roger's ... (438 words)