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*oving_wife91
writes:Please Help me!! I feel unloved and alone in my marriage....let me start with some backround....please read everything and help me..i dont know what to do....ok.....well let me start by saying im 19, but married last year to a forign 14-15 year old man.... i had a really bad childhood and i already felt unloved so when i meet him he was WONDERFUL!!! everything was great for the 1st year, but for the last few months...hes mean,unloving,yells and out sex life is pretty much done with... we make love not 1-3 times a month and he looks like he dosnt even enjoy it!... now that i said that i would like to give you some examples....1. on our honeymoon i cryed for 6 hours non-stop..because his parents came with us (he hasnt seen them in 9 years) and they offered me a fruit, but i didnt want it because i wasnt that hungry and i would be eating dinner soon... when we got back to the hotel... it was on! he yelled and yelled and yelled... i feel like crap... was that my fault? should i have took it to be polite??.2.valentines day... i went out of my way to make these days great! i planned for weeks... i asked him if he wanted to plan dinner or dessert... he said dinner, well i thought we would try to make this nice since our honeymoon was awful! but he didnt even make a reservation and we ate at kfc... it was ok though i wanted to have a nice night, i asked him if i could go home to change into something nice.. but he wouldnt even take me... then i got home and set up the table which took weeks of planning.... he wanted to eat in the bedroom... i said ok, then when i tryed to make love to him... he fell asleep!!!!Those are just a few examples.... i could think of many more but you guys would be here all night...i dont know what to do... i love him... i only have him.. im not close with family and i have no friends... i really really love him.... hes not mean all the time... but has been for the last few months... am i a bad wife? should i ignore it???? please, i cant talk to anyone about this....i really do love him... but i feel alone, im scared to talk to him about this because if i do he yells at me... i feel unloved and ugly.. i want to change everything about myself so he will love me... im crying and typing this... i spoke with him last night and he said he said sorry.... but he already said that... im 19 years old! i cant deal with this..... but divorce is NOT A CHOICE.... hes the only person i have... without him i cant live..... how can i make him happy???? thank you
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reader, Sara456 +, writes (16 June 2010):
Have you tried to talk to him about this? You need to communicate for a successful relationship.
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reader, Loving_wife91 +, writes (16 June 2010):
Loving_wife91 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i mean hes 14-15 years older...not old lol...
hes not mean all the time...but i just cant take it...i dont know what to do.
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