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writes:Me and my girlfriend were together for 2 years with no major problems and they were the best two years of my life. We broke up about two months ago because she had a lot going on in her life (fire school, preparing for college, etc.) Even though we broke up we still had sex occasionally. However I recently found out she also had sex with two other guys. She did this because she was pressured but she needed to know what else was out there. We were each others first and first real relationship. Now she feels absolutely disgusted with herself and she didn't know who she was. She realized all she really wanted was me and she regrets it with all her heart. So I got past all this and put it behind me because I wanted to start something again. But the problem is she still wants to be friends with one of the guys. What should I do and how should I feel? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): I agree with Caring Guy.
Ignore her words and look at her actions. It's not a good set of signals.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 June 2010):
Let this one go, trust me on that. She's not got a clue what she wants at all and is in no way ready for a relationship. The best thing you can do is not bother with her. Don't go back to a girl like her who has so much going on. She claims she was 'pressued', and needed to 'know what else was out there'. I say she wanted to have her cake and eat it, and she still does. Let her go, focus on your own life and move on from her.
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