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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My daughter and her female friend are much closer than I think!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age - My 18 year old daughter just moved home for the summer, she has been away at school for the last year. She asked if she could invite a friend home for the week and we said yes. She seemed like a nice girl , friendly and they seemed to get along great. We have a family room in ... (138 words)

I'm VERY afraid of sex. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This has been a very big problem for a while. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years on and off. We haven't had sex yet and my boyfriend would break up with me every year or so because of it (before he matured). Now, he is supportive and patient. He says he loves me... (362 words)

I dreamt he gave me a ring... what does this dream signify?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age - I know a guy who I have a crush on. I can tell he has feelings for me. I dreamt that he gave me a ring. It did not feel like a wedding ring. Can someone tell me what this dream means as it is really frustrating me. thanks... (58 words)

Does my crushes mom know that I like her daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Friday night, my crushes mom stopped by my house to pick her son up. Her mom and brother were talking to my parents and I. When it was almost time for them to leave, the topic of Dragon Ball Z came up because one of the voice actors has the same name as I have. They were saying ... (260 words)

My man wants me to be okay with him cheating on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been in a long distnce relationship for almost 2 years now. We hardly get to see each other. And we both get up set at each other for that. Recently he told me he has another girlfriend just to occupy until we move in together. They starting dating ... (171 words)

Am I being unrealistic with regards to his offer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age - My partner has let me down on quite a few occasions and has always promised that he would make it up to me in one way or another but that never really happens as he hopes that I will just forgive and forget. He works abroad and I only see him every second weekend where I ... (301 words)

My ex boyfriend is playing games! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I probably already know my own answer, but I am confused. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 4 1/2 years. I am 48 yrs old, was married 26 years. He is 52 married 3 times and insecure. He left me for a woman 10 yrs older than him and they broke up because ... (507 words)

Am I experincing a female orgasm? Females only please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have/had never had a vaginal orgasm before with my last boyfriend. However, I have this new boyfriend and every time we have sex and im on top my vagina starts making a weird noise thats not queefing (I know what that feels and sounds like), this is different and while its ... (164 words)

I'm falling for my fiancee's cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, i think i am in love with my fiancee's cousin, she is 8 years younger then me but very mature for her age, me and her are into the same kind of music, tv, movies ect. and over the past year we have become really close we talk a lot online and text each other a lot and ... (222 words)

What can I do to be there for him after the death of his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three months has just lost his best friend to cervical cancer. It's been very sudden and he's devastated. I'd do anything to make him feel better, but don't know what would be better, to spend time with him or give him space? Talk about her or try and take his ... (68 words)

Is it ok to cheat if he isn't satisfying me sexually.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok to cheat if he isn't satisfying me sexually. I love him but we don't have sparks. but I am settling because we have a baby together and I'm 19 he is 25 and he knows I am settling but he is so in love with me he is ok with it. I want to have sex with some1 else I don't ... (101 words)

Desperate to win him back... but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently started dating my best friend but we broke up. During the break up he sat holding me and saying how he didn't want to lose me but he wasn't ready for a serious relationship, he also kissed my cheek. He said he still liked me in that way but he told my friend t... (265 words)

Ghosts from my boyfriend's past relationships are destroying me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

7 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - OK, here’s the rundown. I am a very insecure and jealous person. I’ve been this way as long as I can remember and while I’m able to function normally in society (hold a job and progress in it, have normal, fulfilling friendships), I’m allowing these qualities to destroy the ... (558 words)

I love my girlfriend but she can be a bitch!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend. but sometime she can be a bitch. when she is watching TV she cant listen at all. if her parents are talking she tells them "shutup! im watching tv" and turns the tv up louder. when i try to tell her something she just puts her index finger up and keeps ... (276 words)

Why do woman stay in unhealthy marriages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have met a woman and we fell for each other pretty hard I know it was wrong, but it's what happened. She had him move out and we started dating. This was definitely more than a fling. I have never connected with anybody like this before. We have all the same goals in ... (268 words)

I don't know whether to believe what he's saying or not... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so it has been since 2 weeks i have known this guy. First of all we agree that this was just for fun. It has nothing to do with serious meeting it was more like fun type. Then i started to talk to his guy, we pretty much got together talking all the time and talking every ... (230 words)

Would my devout christian friend have sex before marriage through pressure from his mates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your advice. I have a friend whos a devout christian hes always stood by his religion, jesus is everything to him, he doesnt believe in sex before marriage and is a very true guy. Well i think he is. hes always been generally quiet and a nice guy however hes in a band ... (253 words)

Loving someone verses being loved...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Me and my bf have been going out since last year January.(I'm 19 and he is 29) He is head over heals in love with me and I'm a bit colder. I didn't feel such a big spark in the beginning and I still don't actually but I love him, we have the same interests and we want the same ... (216 words)

Love in trouble!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 4 months and he was supposed to move and now he isn't. His mom kicked him out because he was dating me. She told him that he would move and start going to school the next day or he could pack his bags and get out of her house and ... (138 words)

Does she not want to be with me or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old. my girlfriend proposed me 3 months ago. so we are in relationship from last 3 months. she always says that she loves me a lot. i also love her a lot but she never talks much with me on the phone. she never messages me and never gives reply to my messages. when ... (236 words)

Having sex early on the relationship verses waiting till later...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I posted on the forum about this, but I did not get any responses yet, so I guess maybe this is a better place to post. I was wondering what your opinions are on having sex early in a relationship versus waiting until later? How do you feel that it affects the r... (59 words)

Does my boyfriend want to have sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 13. And I really like my boyfriend. We were kissing in the hall in school and he touhed me. And it didn't bother me, until I thought he might want to have sex. So then I thought I might be paranoid but then he touched me again when we were playing a game. Him touching ... (80 words)

Girlfriend is making me feel inadequate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - dear agony aunt my girlfriend keeps perving on other men especially rugby players. i'm no rugby player as i'm currently holding on to a few extra pounds from christmas. i now feel completely inadequate and even fatter, my only way to deal with this is to comfort eat, mak... (64 words)

Is it just signs of stress or could I be pregnant???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago and i know that its over. but i have been getting this really strange feeling in my body.... i mean my mom questioned it and asked if i was pregnant but see she doesn't know that my last boyfriend b4 this one cheated on me and gave... (192 words)

He's a player and I'm the nice girl. How do I make him fall for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet this guy in december. Fell in love with him at the moment. But my problem is I'm a good girl just started clubbing and drinking and I'm also kinda shy He's a player. He got out of a 4 year relationship and he really liked her. We made out like a month ago but the... (175 words)

How can I bridge the gap and get closer to my dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right first, background info. My parents got divorced when I was 9 (I'm 15 now), I wasn't eaxactly happy about it (who would be?) but I wasn't completely cut up either, I mean the pair of them argued pratically every single day, so I knew we were all going to be better off for ... (500 words)

He went MIA while overseas, and I thought he could be dead! Why does he joke about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy I've yet to meet but we're both in love with each other. He's in the military and is overseas right now and I havent been able to talk to him as much as i used to before he left. This morning I got a text from his friend saying ... (169 words)

How can I loose my bellyfat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what can I do to loose my belly fat? I am only 22years old and I am married. my husband is only 25 and I think he might get fed up with this. please help by telling me what i can use/do. ... (43 words)

I want to marry her, but she only wants a "friendship" where I do all the work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am very much in love with a girl and i would really like to marry her one day. but for now, we are just "friends" if you could call it that. its a very one-sided friendship with me making the effort to keep it going and her not really caring. if i do try to live my own life ... (97 words)

He cheated, treats me bad, yet I can't make myself leave. So I got another boyfriend on the side. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

- I could really use an outsiders point of view so please if you have time take a read..... I met a guy about 9 months ago after coming out of a long relationship. At first he was everything I needed, fun, exciting, nice but I never saw much of a future in it as I had just co... (589 words)

How do I make him show affection??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend never tells me he loves me. Or hugs me or kisses me. I mean he does tell me he loves me but i have to say "I love you" and he says "I love you too" and he hugs me when i walk up to him and hug him. It just feels like im doing everything but how do say something... (84 words)

I like my mates girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - me and my mate have been good friends for a while now and both have the same interests. i hardly have any friends and dont want us to fall out. i was going to ask this girl out but then found out my friend liked her too. so i left her alone. ever since they've been going out ... (82 words)

Step-sister making moves on me, but I only see her as a sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, first I gotta give a little background. My mum died when I was real little (I'm talking like 2) and my dad remarried within about a year and half or something. The woman who he got married had a kid too, lets call her Steph, who was about a year younger than me. They've ... (378 words)

Why has he started acting like this after 5 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 years now and im now 16 so we have grown up together and recently we have just argued constantly and my boyfriend is just a year younger so i have just left school and now its harder because we hardly see each other everyone says i ... (251 words)

Still can't forget him after two years...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I wrote on here a couple of years ago when I was about to leave High School and didn't know what to do about my infatuation with my form tutor. We were great friends and he helped me through some personal issues. Fast forward to now and I have had no progress. I miss him... (179 words)

Very underweight and concerned for my health...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my weight is starting to scare me. i am 5'3 and my weight can very from 79-92 my doctor told me that my weight will get better when i start my peiriod but i did start and for that first month it whent to 100 now it is a couple months after and i can not keep weight on or ... (110 words)

How do I talk more openly about sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you wanna talk about sex like for fun or to turn some one on or get turned on your self how do you bring it up all of a sudden? I was wondering cuase i love to talk about sex with my boyfreind but i can only think of the same stuff to start it any ideas? Also how do i get ... (135 words)

My dad's new wife don't like his kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my dad he just married this women (names are changed) dian she i asian(not that it matters)she has three kids 2 boys 1 girl they are all above 14. and my dad has 4 kids with my mom. me and my 3 other brothers and sister. Well dian she does not want me and my 3 other brothers... (247 words)

I need help with relationship between 2 people from different countries!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age - "OPs Own Title" I am a man who lived and worked in foreign country for many years. While living there I met and fell in love with a young girl, who said she loved me also. Over the last year, we have traveled and enjoyed each other, I proposed and she said yes... I applied... (220 words)

He slept with his ex and now she is pregnant, I am so hurt and confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend slept with his ex who he cant stand while i was pregnant with his baby and now she is pregnant. he said its not his and i got to get over it but i cant. he said he was confused as we were having problems but i cant get past it. i told him he must have a dna test to ... (114 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant after 14 days of my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - it's possible for me to get pregnant after 14 days of my period?... (13 words)

We have fallen in love but she is pessimistic about our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have met a girl through Orkut and fell in love with her.She also loves me but we havent met yet and she resides in some other city.We usually sms each other or call.I really love her and i think she also does love me the same but she is bit tilted t... (161 words)

Are there any men in their early 20's who know for a fact they would not cheat on their partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any men in their early 20's here that know for a fact you would never cheat on your signifiacant other? How do you know you would never? Do you try to stay out of situations where you may be tempted? (Like going to bars stc without your s/o)Even if you were very ... (69 words)

How can I talk some sense into my friend? She is having sex but not using protection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right well this question concerns my friend, not myself (And I'm not just saying that.) My friend is the same age of me (15) and has recently started having sex with her boyfriend (Whose the same age) but she says she's too embarresed to buy condoms or the pill or anything... (145 words)

Why did my male friend ask my best friend who I fancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - One of the guys I hang around with sometimes asked my best friend who I fancied. She asked him why he had asked this and he said no reason. Do you think he was just curious or could he like me? I've been thinking about it a little and come to the conclusion that if I was to ask ... (117 words)

I'm beginning to doubt this older guy's intentions. Does he like me or is he just using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to an older guy online. He is someone I've met in person before, so not a total stranger, but I never knew him very well in the past. Anyways, after chatting with him online I started to like him a lot. It seems he may be returning my feelings also (!) as he ... (286 words)

How long after your first Depo Provera injection did you wait to begin intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies: Just had my first injection of birth control Depo Provera a few days ago. I'm still a virgin, but I'm curious as to how long it usually takes the shot to "kick in" so to speak. For those of you with experience with Depo Provera, how long did YOU wait after your first... (85 words)

Is there any chance for me and my teacher to be together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, and I think I have a crush on one of my teachers. (he's around late-30s/early-40s). I wouldn't be interested in having a sexual relationship, but how reasonable do you think it would be? I know it's not very normal, and I'm not crazy enough to expect anything to ... (63 words)

She wants to be in the UK, I want to stay here and we are both having to compromise! What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have been together for nearly 2 years. To but a long story short she moved here from the uk, a year after i moved here from the uk. We got together when i was not in the uk and did long distance for a year. Horrible! She has never liked being here, and ... (284 words)

What can be done to make it seem like I am not so needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok! So here is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. He was the one pursuing in the beginning. Months went by and we had fun. There were a couple of incidences where I got drunk and caused a fuss and he forgave me. However, now it's come to... (244 words)

She has become distant while getting divorced. Should I wait it out, or see it through?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm writing on here again because I've been seeing someone for the last two months and after things took a turn to become serious I'm now getting bad vibes from her. She is in the process of going through a divorce, (been separated since September) and we haven't spoken since ... (122 words)

Will we get a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age - Hello, I have written before and still need some advice. I dated a man and we really hit it off. The relationship progressed with little or no major conflict. At the time I was divorced ten years and he had only been divorce for about one year. We had a lot in common in... (579 words)

Did he join a dating site, or is it just spam?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age - If your man checks out an online dating website, can they get your email address or addresses without joining this site as a member? My guys says he is just getting spam from this website. But he is getting 5-6 emails a day from this site. I wonder if he joined as a member ... (74 words)

How do I win my girlfiend back after drunken kiss with another woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need to know how to get my girlfriend back after I drunkenly kissed another girl at a bar. I didn't call this girl, didn't text this girl, didn't even know this girl. I got extremely drunk and acted like a total idiot and lost my girlfriend's trust in one night. The worst ... (449 words)

Why has he changed so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were going out for over 4.5 years. Over easter weekend we were going out clubbing together since first time before christmas. We have pretty busy lives he works 5 days a week and works in a bar at the weekends so every friday night i let him out with the ... (818 words)

I left my ex for his best friend, but now we want to get back together I'm worried what everyone will think of me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy for 3 years from the age of 14 until I turned 18 we were happy and he did everything for me he was amazing, I then realised I needed to get out there and experience new things, I then left him for one of his best friends. It's been 3 months and I ... (109 words)

I feel like a failure as a parent!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age - I feel like a failure as a parent. I am a successful business man, volunteer firfighter and little league coach. I have been open with my kids (20 yr old son and 17 yr old twins a son and a daughter). My wife passed away when my twins were 3yr old. I remarried when they were 14 ... (301 words)

How can you tell if it is love or your only with them because it is comfortable?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if you're still in love with someone or you're just staying because you're comfortable because you've been with them so long?... (25 words)

I have tried to distance myself from my friend but I cant seem to get over her, should I just tell her how I feel despite the fact she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys and girls, i really need your help ive been friends with this girl for quite a while now and yet we've only met once, despite the fact that she lives approximately one hour away from me and on a more serious topic, already has a boyfriend. Going into the friend... (407 words)

He is not sure if he is "in love" with me anymore, how can I get him to see I am still the same person he fell in love with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So I've been with my bf for 8 years now. He's 31, I'm 40. Last week he told me he loved me, but wasn't "in love" with me anymore. He says he loves me and wants me to be in his life, but isn't sure if he's "in" love with me enough to stay together. But tells me "you're my best ... (153 words)

Forgot my pill, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just an enquiry - basically I'm on the pill and have been for a few years now - I forgot to take the pill after a night out and it slipped my mind as I was on my period shortly after. Now when I finished me and my boyfriend had an accident and didn't think too much of ... (204 words)

He's gay, but his dad doesn't know and has banned me from staying because he thinks there is something going on!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my friend is gay(lets call him alex) and he is going out with a guy that lives quite far away and every few weeks he's boyfriend (lets call him danny)comes to stay with him, anyway when danny comes to stay i usually go to stay round alex's because me and danny are re... (212 words)

Should I contact my ex now he is single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was very close friends with a bloke I went out with for a period of about 3 months around 3 years ago. We were close friends before the relationship and close friends following it. However when he met a new girlfriend 2 years ago things became strained between us as she ... (323 words)

My ex contacted me. What could it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me. After one month of NC she contacts me saying she's been missing me to death, has been thinking about me a lot and even asked if I am. No indication that she wants back though. What could this mean?... (45 words)

My husband's lack of romance and affection is so neglecting for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do about a man who just does not show his feelings of love/acts romantce/flirtations/etc.... I really am lacking attention!! So I guess I knew what I was getting into ten years ago when we got together... I was a newly divorcee... And somehow I landed right int... (220 words)

My dad was such a jerk! How do I deal with this and stop my annoyance from consuming me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Grrr.. In so frustrated at what happened last night after going for a meal with my family! It was my boyfriends birthday and we decided to take him out to eat, I said it'd be my treat because my bf always pays for everything when we go out. Now my dad really took advanta... (235 words)

How do you cope when you find out your crush doesn't like you back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay everyone, I need help. See I'm pretty young, and I've never been a person to let my emotions get the best of me. So recently I started liking someone after about two years, and through therapy. This person I liked was a GUY! Yes shocker. Everyday after I began to like him ... (137 words)

Suddenly , 4months into our relationship, he now lets me know that he has a child!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay Im in a four month relationship. I am 20 years old. I found old yesterday my boyfriend has a five year old child. I am blown away by this and devastated. I feel too young to be with someone who has baggage but I also feel tricked that he waited till feelings were involved ... (141 words)

Is my internet boyfriend better as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For almost seven months now I’ve been in an internet/long distance relationship with a man 3000 miles away. Back in March, he came to visit me for a week and it was the best week of my life (we did everything we could possibly do in a week together). We know each other inside ... (487 words)

My girlfriend got drunk and took her top off with a group of other people. Should I be worried??

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I recently attended my best friends wedding. After the reception, everyone was pretty drunk. And myself along with several other people (two who were good friends of mine) continued drinking and partying in the hotel (we had the whole floor booked) Anyways, ... (325 words)

Pregnant girlfriend...adoption, abortion, or keeping it.. I need advice when none are options!

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, so i have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and two months. This past week she took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. We discussed our options with ourselves and somewhat agreed that we were going to keep it. The next day i discuss it with my parents and ... (263 words)

How important is the "spark"? Can a relationship work without it?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about the "spark." For those of you who are in good stable happy relationship, do you still feel a spark after years and years of being together? I am wondering how important this spark is. I'm with a guy and we have admitted to each other that there... (217 words)

What do you do, when you're in Junior High and your boyfriend wants to do more than you feel comfortable with?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf keeps wanting to go far butvi just laugh it off what should I do? I mean he's a great kisser and super sweet and lots of fun but I don't want him to go that far with me we r still in jr high :/... (47 words)

I would like to know if online dating has actually brought up good kinds of dates for those of you who have used the service

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I would like to ask advice from those who have had experience with online dating. After being in a "serious" relationship for a couple of years and suddenly finding out that my boyfriend was a liar who kept things from me, I was crushed. This breakup is impac... (322 words)

I feel like I've missed out on so much life and all the experiences in college I could've had!

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I met when we were two years old; became inseparable best friends after that. We started dating when we were 14. We got married under our parents' permissions at 17. We had our first child that same year and both doing college and work full-time (obvio... (404 words)

Does the other man ever end up with the wife?

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a very picky man. I dated a lot of woman and I for some reason I fell for a married woman with a child. We fell for each other, she is in a very unhappy marriage. She immediately kicked him out of her house as soon as we started our relationship. We connected in a way ... (255 words)

If a guy seduces you with words looks touching and looks at you in these ways what does it mean?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my coworker when I came to new location 6 months ago...aww 6 month anniversary was June 1. I don't know how long we've been flirting subconsciously but in the last month the flirting escalated. He was making sexual suggestions to me and it seemed that I wanted him. It ... (312 words)

Broken up but still living together

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago. The worse thing ever is that I still live with him. We've been together for 5 years and lived together for 3. We usually do everything together whenever he gets off work early etc. But I can't adapt that he goes out somewhere ... (189 words)

I'm 13, he's 18 and I don't know how to proceed because he says he loves me.

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so confused. i know this boy that is 18, i'm 13. tonight he told me he loves me. out of the blue. i like him a lot and have for a long time, he is intelligent and very mature for his age. we met at church and i told him i wanted the pastor to talk to him first and that ... (111 words)

I want to enjoy some good sex but with him I can't!

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have been with my boy friend for a year and a half now. I am 18, and we are a good ways apart and he's the 3 guy I have had sex with. The first time the guy was so small, I didn't even feel anything, even though it took forever to get in! The second time, he ... (521 words)

How can someone be in love with a deeply selfish person?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is smitten with someone who cares only for herself. It's pretty clear to me that her girlfriend is a narcissistic con-artist but somehow she doesn't see it. My friend does have low-self esteem, but her girl is rude to her, rude to her friends, never pays for anything, ... (129 words)

What do men find sexy in a woman?

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7 June 2010 (F)

- I am newly divorced, 35 years old and have no idea what men think sexy is anymore. The last couple of guy I was involved with was kind of REI, so I got used to wearing outdoor hiking clothes, and basically dressing down. Now I'm working in an office where there are available ... (101 words)

I'm too scared to tell anyone I might be pregnant

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Haaay, I'm 15, and My Boyfriend is 14. I'm not sure but i think i might be Pregnant. I dont have the guts to talk to my parents and i even chickened out on talking to my brother and his girlfriend incase im not pregnant i dont want them to knwo ive had sex. i dont have a job ... (96 words)

I'm leading a double life: sleeping around yet implying I want to be committed. Why can't I be normal?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's the thing, I can't talk to any of my friends or family about this because I have lied to them and made my life to be something more honorable than it really is. I have a hard time NOT sleeping with guys when I get the chance to, not any guy, but the guys I'm int... (398 words)

Can I get pregnant by something on my panties?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, me and my boyfriend had just recently (less than a week) had a sexual intercourse. i had told him i didn't want to have sex because i didn't want to get pregnant, and we had talked about anal sex but i had read on here that sperm can still go in. so anyways, we were both ... (190 words)

I often feel really guilty after orgasming, whether it be from oral or masterbating

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, I've noticed that I often feel really guilty after orgasming, whether it be from oral or masterbating. I feel like I've got better at dealing with it (physically - I used to just tense up and freak out), but the mental problems are still there. I know that this som... (158 words)

I hooked up with my new friend's recent ex, do I tell her or not??

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I hooked up with a new friend's ex-boyfriend the other night. They dated for about 6 months, have been broken up for a few (3-6) months and she does still have feelings for him (he broke it off). I have been friend's with this girl for a few months (after they dated) and she ... (298 words)

My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems except with her parents. She told ... (274 words)

It means he's not too sure about me..what now?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of almost a year often talks about our future together. The other night we were talking about 2020 and he was describing where he sees himself and then saying what we'll be doing etc The only thing is that he's told me that he doesn't see marriage within ... (206 words)

How can I give my girlfriend more pleasure, through playing with her breasts..?

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Two questions, I thought they were close on subject so made one post. My girlfriend used to be rilly ticklish almoast everywhere when we started dating and now she is only ticklish on her feet, back of the legs, sometimes her back, and her arm if I rub my finger up her ar... (164 words)

My bf doesn't treat me as good as he used to! Has he lost interest?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend does not treat my like he use to he ignores me and does not make me feel loved like he use to is it because he lost interest in me?... (32 words)

Move in with him and set a time limit for marriage?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27, my boyfriend is 26 and we've been together for almost a year. The relationship is serious and we've been talking of living together. I believe that a woman should not live indefinitely with a man unless they're planning to marry. I told him this and he tells me that... (337 words)

A lot of relationship problems! Please help my hearts breaking!

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The father of my 18 month old daughter left me yesterday saying he needed to get away from me to better himself yet today he says he thinks hes made a mistake and wants 3 weeks break and then to return home. Hes been unemployed for basically 3 years and so have i but i recently ... (381 words)

Should I hold out and wait for this one guy when so many others want to date me?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i love this one guy but he left for basic but I still really love him. But there are a lot of other guys that want me but i dont know what to tell them because I dont know if my guy is going to stay with me.... (51 words)

I feel more comfortable dressing like a guy

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Um, I hope this question is appropriate for this kind of forum, but it's the only site I can really find that seems reliable. Anyway... I'm confused. I'm a 19 year old girl and consider myself as such. I have crushes on boys, though I've only dated one. However, I'm mor... (162 words)

what age is to old when it comes to the matters of the heart?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone.. okay for the year i have been talking to this guy. I am really feeling him. I am 22 and he is 41. Now my question is what age is to old when it comes to the matters of the heart? Also i told my close family about the new man in my life and the feed back i g... (140 words)

She's not that interested in me..so should I just cut her out of my life?

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a simple yes or no answer. The thing is, for a couple years ive been mad about this girl and ive talked to her on a couple occasions about it, but she is never really that interested, not only about me, but the whole my liking her thing, she just didnt really seem to ... (100 words)

Husband cheated and says I treat him like a convict

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married with 2 kids aged 2 and 6. My husband frequents pubs and night clubs with his friends. I accidentally discovered that my husband paid and slept with the pub hostress after he got high and drunk. He promised not to drink again and will not do any other unfaithful ... (124 words)

Feeling bad because I think this guy I hooked up with, was my friend's territory! What should I do?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so a little background: My friend met this kid -lets say his name is Noah, two nights ago. They didnt talk much, but did exchange numbers. He called her yesterday and asked her if she (and friends) was up for anything that night. We were supposed to go to a concert but ... (263 words)

I am in love but she doesn't know it

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hy I am a 20 years old student from Bulgaria. From almost two years ago I've met a girl, and we are very close but she likes me more like a friend. Here in Bulgaria girls are very complicated and easy. For example I know a lot of girls who have boyfriend from a few years but ... (1628 words)

Why do men find fake women such a turn on?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A question for men about lads mags...I'm just curious as to why so many men find the kind of women in mens magazines so sexy? I mean, typically, the women you see in these magazines, have fake tan, lots of make up, and fake breasts. What exactly is so attractive about that ... (116 words)

Can sex be SO great for guys that it is worth being treated poorly by a girlfriend?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can sex be SO great for guys that it is worth being treated poorly by a girlfriend? One of my guy friends has a GF who treats him like garbage -- she's always hinting for gifts and spends a ton of his money, she complains that friends of his have better bodies than he does, and ... (197 words)

I don't know if I should approach him, or how

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7 June 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Hi all! I've got question that bugging me quite sometimes. How should i start?! You see, there is one guy that i interested with but how could i tell if he's into me. The reason that he manage to grab my attention is because i onces notice that he stare at me several time ... (610 words)

How do I stop my Dad from making trouble over this?

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7 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the other day i had a argument with my sister so i went to my mates and we ended up staying at this guys house who i like we both slept in his bed but we didnt have sex with him. my dad and mum found out and my dad is really angry he thinks that i had sex with him because we ... (146 words)

Ever since the baby sex is terrible!!

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfreind had our baby 2 years ago and since then sex has been terrible , she use's all sort of excuses and when we do have sex she wants it over quick as possible. She says its because she feels her body is not nice looking anymore . What can I do ? ... (55 words)

She's telling other guys she loves them

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is sort of a long one, but I will try and get straight to the point. For 9 months me and this girl have been very close. We do things boyfreind and girlfreind do but she's always dating another guy. And whenever she's about to dump the guys she promises she will be ... (168 words)

Not Your Typical Obsession With Wife's Past - Any Ideas?

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7 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm haunted by one night of my wife's life when she had sex with a total stranger. I never did this, and girls that do have never been my type. My wife did not tell me about this until we were just about to get married. Before I was going to ask her to marry me, I wanted to ... (249 words)