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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm sleeping with my ex AND his cousin

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I was in a relationship with a guy for roughly 3months. A week before we spilt up, I kissed his cousin. It was nothing special, just a kiss. We arranged to meet up, but then both of us backed out of it. When me and my boyfriend (his cousin) spilt up, his cousin and ... (260 words)

He's ready for sex, but am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months already thats half a year. we really know each other. i really love him and he has shown me alot // he shows me he cares and that he loves me. were both virgins. iam 16 and he will be turning 17 in a couple of months. ... (232 words)

I'm hesitant about my feelings, but should I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what should i do i like this guy but its like unknown territory the way i like him...he knows i like him should i ask him out? ... (29 words)

She's cheated on me at least 8X, doesn't want sex with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a little problem i've been dating my lady for 25 years in that time she cheated on me at least 8 times that i can remember she would kick me out and have another man in my bed.I Feel that she's the only one for me and i can't get pass that i know i can get other woman ... (134 words)

We make plans, and then he doesn't call..what is up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help with the senario!? What should I do/ What's going through his mind... - I'm 18 he's 22 -I'm going to college out of state in 4 months -We met, didn't want anything serious to begin with but things changed.. now we have been exclusivley dating for a while. -He's said I l... (187 words)

Should I leave my married man?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice asap I grew up swearing that I would never be involvewith married man im 19years old I met my mm a year ago he is 32 years old I got pregnant right after I started talking to him I have a3 month old little girl with him that has his last name he says he loves me ... (168 words)

Any ideas where I can meet lesbian girls, other than gay bars?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i wrote the other day about being nervous about going to the gay/lesbian club as nobody knows that im a lesbian except my two best friends anyway, we went to the gay bar and to be honest i was really disappointed. its the only one in our city and it was really small and... (164 words)

College Bound, Should We Break Up??

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I met this guy when I was 16 and he was 18 on the internet. We were friends for about 2 years,and always liked each other. We began dating and have been together for 7 months. I love him alot, but he lives in the north and i live in the south. We have been through alot, ... (224 words)

We both had a great time... so why have I not heard from him?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with this guy for 3 years. On and off. I recently ended the relationship just because it wasn't going the way i wished it had gone. So we took time apart... a month or so... recently we agreeed to be friends and we went to a movie and a few drinks. One thing led to ... (129 words)

Does a leopard ever change his spots?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going out with a guy for a few months until I found out that whilst he was with me he was also someone I'm friendly with. She did'nt know that I was with him. We had a major fight over this and I didnt speak to him for nearly 2 months, but we've began speaking again an... (155 words)

My wife lied to me about her sexual past until 12 years later...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife lied too me about her sexual past before we got married, she told me only one partner, too find out 12 year later she slept with four other men when she was a teenager. but she did come out and tell me because it was bothering her for so many years, but im very upset ... (174 words)

His constant cheating is breaking my heart...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's character towards me changed since two weeks, i find out that he is cheating on me. what do i do? i came to his house and saw a girl inside his car, i called him to let him know that am around he just shouted at me that i should have called him before coming ... (197 words)

Advice please!!! What does he want from me!???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the long post, I don't know how else to give a better idea of what I'm dealing with than to tell the whole story, lol. I have been in a "friends with benefits" relationship with a guy for about 8 months now. We'd been "seeing" each other, and had started a sexual... (709 words)

How to get closer to this friend...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a small pickle. Last year I was in a situation with a friend where we became so incredibly close, and did everything together, and feelings built up until we kissed then after a while she decided she didn't like me that way and went out with someone else. I fell so hard ... (256 words)

How do I deal with my husband's incessant stroppiness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been married for 18 months and have been with my husband for appx 4.5yrs, we have a son of 9 months and my husband is so stroppy, moody, and appears angry most of the time, i am struggling to cope with this. i nearly died last christmas following a burst appendix and ... (246 words)

My mother wants me to buy my brother a gift, but hasn't offered to pay for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try and keep this short, so here's the summary of the story with my mother. She has borrowed a lot of money from me, and we're talking over 10 000 dollars here. She promised to pay back parts of it already, which she didn't. I have so stopped lending money out to here, ... (443 words)

Help!!! I don't want to blow my chances with him!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right this is the situation, 2 years ago i liked this guy and asked him out he said no because he didn't know me very well. over the past 2 years we have become closer and i really like him again but the difference is i think he might like me this time, does anyone have any... (83 words)

My crush on an older boy...?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this boy, and he says he loves me. i've known him for about 8 months and only see him at church( that's where i met him) he's 5 years older. he told me a week ago that he likes me and admitted to loving me. today he smiled and reminded me that he loves me. i like him a ... (115 words)

How can I tell if the relationship is completely over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend broke up with me and he says he needs time to get him life together and finances. He is broke and struggling to make ends meet. He says it wouldn't be fair to me for us to stay together because he can't put all the effort in a relationship. It's been two weeks and ... (136 words)

Worried that feelings for my ex may affect future relationships...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex girlfriend for two years in university, we finished after the end of it as we grew apart. She was my first major girlfriend, it was love and it was all entirely genuine, although its all finished now, and has been for maybe 10 months or so. Since then I'v... (176 words)

How can those feelings just be forgotten because I happened to discover their affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age - I found undeleted texts on my husband's phone that showed he was having an emotional afair with a work colleague. I wrongly thought that it would stop as he seemed to be genuinely sorry. Six weeks later I found another batch he had forgotten to delete. 'Luckily' she mentione... (207 words)

I loathe myself and it's become a real problem in relationships! Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Yes, I know I sound like the 13 in a dozen girl who says she hates herself and the sane part of my mind knows I have no right to complain, since I am wealthy enough to have my own computer to type this behind. If you read through this you'll have my undying gratitude. To c... (343 words)

How to rekindle old spark in my relationship?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i rekindle my relationship? Im back with my boyfriend after almost two months of being apart. The reason we broke up was because our relationship became a routine , and he said he had stopped loving me. He was the one to look for me and all that i was having doubts ... (170 words)

Wanting to move to next base with him but he doesn't seem to want to know... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this boy for quite a while now, and I just can't stop thinking about him. He really turns me on and I just can't stop day dreaming about us doing something really naughty together in the shower, his room, changing rooms etc god! i don't know whats ... (224 words)

Is his friendship with her MORE than just being friends???

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's best friend happens to be a girl. She has been tagging along on all of our dates. They have friends for along time. And the other day I called her to ask if she wants to hang out. We met at the mall and as soon as she found out he wasn't going to be there she ... (94 words)

To like or not to like... that is the question!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok I'm not sure what to do a while back my guy friend told me that his friend liked me and I thought about it and realised it could be true he chose to sit next to me in re despite having a choice: me or a guy, I sit next to him in English twice a week, he chose his locker next ... (271 words)

Would it be wrong to ask my ex to have my baby???

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i are still good friends our relationship died but not our friendship. we are always there to talk stuff over and that i want a baby and i asked my ex for the following reasons i no he has no std's i no he would respect me and my wishes i no i won't feel guilty ... (184 words)

I am tempted to contact him out of my loneliness..

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, Well, I am lonely again. I am alone at home and my sister went out of the country with her kids and I am stuck here due to my job. I feel soooo lonely. I can't help it and I am trying to resist the temptation to contact my ex. The last time we talked was 3 wee... (203 words)

Help me to understand boys better!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I asked a question earlier this week asking for advice in a slow relationship and I received wonderful answers. Brief outline of my problem: Me and this guy have become very close, get refered to as Bf and Gf all the time. Spend all our time together. Im really enjoyin... (271 words)

Will I EVER find a decent partner and should I give up on these dating websites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel very down right now. I am in my mid thirties and feel like I am deluding myself that I will ever find a decent partner. I could write a book on the rubbish that I have encountered with men particularly in the last 5 years ago or so. I wonder if there has been a huge ... (510 words)

It's all so childish!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all im really annoyed and i need some calming down/advice. Me and my ex boyfriend were with each other for just over a year and split over a year ago. I got with my new partner 5 months ago after speaking with him for 2 months before that, it was pretty much love at ... (447 words)

How can I give a better blow job experience?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a good while now. About 3 weeks ago I gave him a blow job for the first time. Since then I have probably done it three other times. I keep saying I have no idea what I'm doing, I'm horrible because I still feel inexperienced. ... (148 words)

I don't want to become a selfish lover...

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 27 year old female. i enjoy sex just as much as the next person. my problem is that i come very quickly. in about 2 or 3 minutes of intercourse i have orgasmed. after orgasm i dont feel like sex anymore and my boyfriend is left to finish himself off. obviously i dont ... (82 words)

Although I like him, I don't know if he deserves my time if he comes back.

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started hanging out with this guy I've known a few years. We've always been acquaintances but really hadn't seen each other in a long time. We started talking via Facebook and he asked me to hang out with me one night, and I obliged. We went to the movies, and ... (611 words)

My legal rights???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - If I have been in a relationship for 5 years and we decided to call it quits, what are my rights when it comes down to having our access divided? We were not legally married but have lived together for that long in the state of Indiana.... (48 words)

Could there be another girl on the scene that he's not telling me about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for the past 4 months or so. At the beginning of the relationship we were so happy and had so much fun being around each other. We had lots of sex plus it was in fun, exhilirating places. He has been acting very strange lately and won't call me for days ... (102 words)

Secret crush... should I ask him out?

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13 June 2010 (F) age 26-29 - so there is a new kid and my class, and i have a huge crush on him, I told one of my friends who told every one else and i said it was not true, after that he stopped making fun of me, should i ask him out?... (48 words)

Should I admit that I've never had a proper relationship but have always slept with prostitutes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Assuming have stopped going and you are STD free (have been tested) etc, ALWAYS used comdoms etc. Would you admit if asked about previous relationships on a date that you have pretty much only ever slept with prostitutes? Been single and never really had an intimate relatio... (94 words)

Heartbroken and pregnant at 16...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 7 months ago, i moved to the Dominican Republic with my mom. i fell head over heels in love with a boy and we were " together " for 6 months, just last week i find out he has had a girlfriend the entire time we were " together " to make matters a lost worse i'm 2 months late, i ... (321 words)

How can I overcome my insecurities about his lies about drugs and other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, im kind of new to this website and internet chatting but needed some advice. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been caught out lying to me numerous times about a drug problem that he's trying to overcome. But now i caught him out lying to me about being ou... (137 words)

Is this considered part of an eating disorder?

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13 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - okay, well this isn't a relationship question, it's on diet and I really need help from any professional or not even a professional! Anyway, basically, our end of year ball is coming up and I have a black silk dress I really want to look good in! My BMI is around 19 (I'm 5'6... (270 words)

I'm 15, he's 18 and we want to "explore"

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heei, im sophie and im 15 i have a bf thats 18 weve been going out for a year now, we are very much in love. But we have a problem he really wants to explore with me, but we are both very worried about the age difference, could someone please give us advice ? Thank you xx... (61 words)

What he says vs. what he does

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a real pickle! I dated mt ex for almost a year when he unexpectedly broke up with me saying that he felt too much "pressure" for commitment. Fast forward 7 months later (now) and we still carry on as we did before we broke up, however when I ask about what's going on... (178 words)

Can the morning after pill make my period 2 weeks late?

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13 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - hi, i last had my period may 1st i took the morning after pill just after my period but now its June 13 and still no period..is there a chance the morning after pill made my perios 2 weeks late!!... (40 words)

No birthday call from my wife's son

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13 June 2010 (M)

age - My wifes' birthday was Friday and as of Sunday morning is still waiting for a call from her son. I hurt for her and feel a bit helpless as neither one of us inclined to bring it up for fear of alienating him and his wife. I just don't understand how one can't make a 2 minute ... (108 words)

She'll be heading to Australia and me to France. Can this work out?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so first time doing this here's my question. I'm 23 and the girl i'm seeing is 18. We hooked up on New Years when i was 22. She's really mature for her age though sometimes it apparent i'm the older. At the start i wanted it kept on a pretty quiet whereas she wanted it told ... (411 words)

How do I attract his attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I have this boy on facebook and he lives round the corner from me i see him at least every other day.I often get told that i am funny,bubbly,outgoing,pretty and that i have a beautiful figure (i dont really belive it though) Anyway i want to know how to attract his atte... (145 words)

Wife seems to have lost interest in me. Is it time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age - wife not interested in being touched,held,hogs,kissing,sex asked her to talk to doctor and she throws a fit. moved out of bedroom about 6 years ago,said i made to much noise. everything i do is wrong,anything i get for her is wrong is it time to split...life is ... (69 words)

What should I make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya me and my girlfriend have been together for 5months or so and she has been off with me this week, infact didnt really want to even know me. I got rushed to hosptail on the thursday night and let out on the saturday morning. I told her i was coming out she said o right ... (135 words)

Something changed since I lost my virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity back in january and my discharge has never been the same. it's extremely thick and basically a solid and is sort of cottagecheese-like. when I clean it up, it is SUPER dry and uncomfortable down there. sometimes it becomes ridiculously it... (160 words)

My feelings have changed, but I'm afraid of scaring a friend away

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Have been talking with this guy over the internet for over 2 years. We have become very good friends in that time. We e-mail each other daily just with updates on what is happening, or going on in our day. We talk every night via messenger (written and video)for hours.... (256 words)

Should I leave town or try to make it work with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have a weird situation. I'll try not to draw it out too long, though. J* and I had been together for 2 years. We lived together and were engaged. (I am 21 years old.) We'd had our share of problems before; once when we were dating for 3 months I got really s... (1356 words)

My b/f's closeness to his 17 year old daughter makes me uncomfortable

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a 17 year old daughter who asked him to rub fake tan in her back last week when her nan was in the house and she was off to a friends house so i couldn't see why she couldn't have asked one of them. is this normal or am i being pathetic by feeling quite ... (175 words)

Why is my ex being such a jerk to me and my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I broke up with a guy I had been with for about 4/5 months, a year ago. We didn't have a clean break-up really. I was very upset and he kept messing me about. I totally got over him though and I can now see that he wasn't a good person and I should have taken my friends' ... (224 words)

If I move in with him, what is the fair way to split the bills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Recently we've been talking about me moving to live with him in the house he's been paying on for 15 years. Should I pay rent to him, plus half of the monthly utility and food bills if I move to live with him? I would ... (179 words)

Kept a secret and now he's very angry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There was something in my mind, and I can’t stop thinking about it. I really need help now. I really need an opinion to do to solve it. Here’s the thing, lets just see that you just hurt someone that you love. He love you damn much, he trust you, he sacrifice everything for ... (369 words)

On a break, got drunk and had sex with another girl. What about my ex g/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 11 months. We have had 3 breaks since we have been together. The first one was for 2 weeks from the 2nd of January to the 14th of January this year. The second one was about 4 months ago and she and another guy kissed. I asked if ... (155 words)

Has anyone had an ectopic pregnancy that can relate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, This question is kind of medical but sensitive too. Last year I became pregnant, I didn't know that I was until I went to a and e in excruciating pain and heavy bleeding, and I found out then that I was having an ectopic pregnancy, and my tube had ruptured. I had to have ... (260 words)

My mum doesn't love me

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand why she doesn't love me but i know she doesn't. As a child growing up she would hit ONLY me, she once hit me with a sweeping brush over my knees. I have older brothers and she never hit them. She always said she wanted a daughter after having 3 sons then i ... (481 words)

My ex and I are friends but he doesn't want me talking to my current boyfriend!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - here goes, i was with a guy for nearly 3 years, we had our ups and downs i ended up cheating on him when i went on holiday to essex last october(i live in cornwall), then eventually we broke up in april this year. i confided in the guy i cheated on my ex with and ever since we... (234 words)

Help! Why does he keep coming back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend 2 years and within that 2 years we have been on and off, he keeps dumping me and then running back telling me hes made a mistake.. an that hes goin crazy without me.. why does he keep running back? and its not for sex.... (51 words)

Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. She was angry and told her she... (489 words)

Dumped without a reason...!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - yesterday i was dumped without a reason... i wasnt that upset but i did cry for like ten seconds and then i got over it. i got different answers from different friends some said it was because he fancied this girl i got jealous of who is supposed to be my best friend and the ... (160 words)

Help with domestic violence...

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello readers. I would firstly like to thank everyone who has given me excellent advice in the past. I am very grateful to the people who care enough to share their stories and wisdom. At present I'm finding it very hard to break the Cycle of Domestic Violence that I was brou... (720 words)

He is in love with me, but I am a lesbian! He continues to insult me and my girlfriend, is he worth keeping as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, hey everyone. I just want to say that I've never asked something like this, and this is gonna be a pretty long question, but here goes... Before we start, I'm fifteen and the guy is eighteen. So I was seeing this guy for about two months a little while ago. I didn't wa... (788 words)

I kissed my friend and after two days he hasn't contacted me! I'm really worried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, there's something which keeps bugging my mind and I'm not sure what I should do. I have a male friend, who is really just friend, but I admit that there is a special feeling between us. When we talk it was almost like flirting all the time, like when I asked him if I can ... (338 words)

Why do I keep pushing people away???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I've had this problem before but it eventually went away, it's just dealing with it while it's here which is the problem. For some reason I am very agitated and have started to become aggressive to people I know, even my closest family, the only person who I ... (137 words)

I'm dating other men while in a serious relationship! Can I ever be faithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old, Ive suffered from depression all my life. Last year i decided to seek help as it got out of control. I was put on anti-depressants, and went to therapy weekly. I stopped going a couple of months ago. The thing troubling me, I am unable to maintain a stead... (190 words)

"All women do on computers is chat with other guys", and so I am not allowed to buy a laptop!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, The other day, I mentioned to my partner that I want to buy a laptop, but he is not happy with this idea, as he says I will only use it to chat to other guys because that is all women do on computers! I have tried to convince him without much success but he says with... (98 words)

How do you chat up guys?

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13 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, thanks for your time!! I'm 18 and have recently started going out with friends alot, I was wondering ... How do you chat a guy up!? Is it different to how a guy chats up a girl?? What should I say?? Thanks... (44 words)

Will telling him I am bisexual ruin our friendship?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Nobody knows im bisexual and im attracted to my best friend. I don't know what to do while nobody knows im bi and my friend is completely straight,for what he has told me. I dont like holding secrets from my friends, especially my best friend. I want to let him know, but im ... (61 words)

Boy trouble and need opinions peeps!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've already asked this question but i just want more peoples opinions :) okay it started with me liking this guy lets call him "bob" he was perfect for me and i really liked him but i never talked to him, time went by and i found myself talking to him. my love for him grew... (167 words)

In love with my online friend, but don't know if he is gay too!

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I currently play an online game and here I met someone. he is one of my best friends. We talk almost everyday on skype, and i started to feel incredibly attracted to him that I can get him out of my mind. i do not know if he is gay, but he has been so nice to me and someti... (106 words)

I want to get out of an abusive relationship

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship and living with my boyfriend for the last 7 years,he is 30 I am 24. the past 3 years have been a living hell, he makes my life well miserable. he is rude, mean, selfish and arrogant towards me and other people, including friends and family. I... (306 words)

I think my girlfriend needs to change her medication

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3-4 months, At the start of the relationship she told me she was going through depression but was on medication for it. Having know people who have it I know its a difficult time but I was impressed she was doing so well. So we started ... (190 words)

He proposed, but he's not the man of my dreams. Do I compromise, or wait for someone else?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there is a guy who proposed to me few months ago after being close for over three yrs... everythings going on well but since he is my first cousin i am afraid to proceed any further moreover he is a business man whereas i am a medical consultant. i always dreamt of having... (73 words)

I'm falling out of love with husband and into love with someone else

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 12 years, but only been married for 9. We have 2 children together. When we met each other, he was dating someone else. He started cheating on her with me, then I became pregnant. He told me that he wanted to be with me and not her, so we ... (259 words)

My husband is becoming increasingly abusive

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am worried about my relationship with my husband. About a year after we got married I got a call in the middle of the night saying my husband had been arrested at work. It turned out he had a warrant out for his arrest. I had just given birth to our daughter and so my ... (696 words)

I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. We never had sex until a year after started dating. I didn't want to at first because I wanted to wait until we get married, but he couldn't. Somehow I could understand that and so we started to have sex. We even move in ... (268 words)

What to do with my best friend dating my brother?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So let me tell you information first: My best friend of almost 20 years is married but her relationship is rocky and they have been talking divorce for 2 years now..and then they try to work it out ( a lot of back and forth). They have a two year old son. She tells the tw... (475 words)

How can I stop myself from being clingy and pushing my boyfriend away?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is turning 20 in July and i'm 18. To keep the story short i will just say that he doesn't know where he wants to live because he doesn't want to miss a big opportunity. He has a choice of living in the state we both live in, or a state which he used to live in ... (315 words)

My girlfriend makes excuses not to have sex with me!

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and i have been together for three months now and at the first month she told me we are going to have sex in two months time and its two months and she tells me that she is not used to me and we met every single day and kisses.what should i do? ... (55 words)

Birthday, money and friends....

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my birthday is in a couple of weeks and i am going to turn 14, i have invited my friends for a sleep over but im not sure what to do before that. we can't go to the cinema because theres nothing on and we can't go to a restaurant because they expect me to pay for them but my ... (82 words)

Boy trouble! Please help!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay it started with me liking this guy lets call him "bob" he was perfect for me and i really liked him but i never talked to him, time went by and i found myself talking to him. my love for him grew even more and i became more and more obsessed with him trying to always talk ... (156 words)

How can I get my friend's trust back?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so i said to my friend i wouldnt tell something to anybody the a couple of days ago i made a mistake and told someone. my friend found out and so i lost his trust..i really love him (i'm a girl just so you know) and i want to fully regain his trust. any ideas on how i ... (64 words)

She wants me to pay her bills yet we don't even have sex!

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - if im in a relationship with my girlfriend, and she wants me to help her pay bills, but doesnt want to have sex or sleep together, what is my best resolution??... (31 words)

I love my boyfriend and my mom won't let me go out with him

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for two weeks and he been asking if i could go out on a date, and i know him very well he was my friend at first then i heard that he likes me and i started to know him first. Then i started to like him and not we're boyfriend and ... (170 words)

I never see my boyfriend anymore and I am starting to feel like money is more important than me!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 37 and I am 27. My parents dont like him. But the real problem is for the last 4 weeks I have not seen him. He says he loves me and everything but I may not hear from him for days. Then when I do hear from him it is because I am calling him. He says it is ... (152 words)

What did he mean when he said I should "sleep with my shoes on"?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my friends asked me if I wanted to go to a party. We were around a few other people, and one of them told me to sleep with my shoes on. I have no idea what he meant. I have not gone to any parties, and I am 15 years old. I am now honestly a bit scared to go. If ... (92 words)

Should I feel ashamed that my girlfriend earns more than me?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend is a system analyst and makes more money then me. Should I feel ashamed? I feel almost like I've been de-masculine-ed... (23 words)

Romantic birthday ideas?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been together for 6 years... I need to make her birthday this year extra extra special.... anyone have any good ideas to do that are super romantic. I'm trying to plan an all day type of birthday filled with tons of things to do. But i want it to be ... (64 words)

Should I end this now before it gets any worse?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. I’m in process of separation and divorce and about two years ago I meat this guy at work –we start sleeping together .I’m very much in love with him ,he told me that he loves me too but dosen't want a girlfriend. There is big difference in years between us ,however ... (297 words)

Should I start dating my ex again?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf of over 4 years broke up about 6 months ago and went on a break (my choice to break up due to fighting). Since then she has dated another guy for about 2 months. They broke up about a week ago and i started seeing and talking to her again about 3 weeks ago. Since ... (414 words)

How do I let go of my married man when we work together every day?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair with a married man for 8 years. At first it was very innocent, lots of flirting, kissing and up until a month ago everything but sex, we've recently engaged in it. My feelings for him are so strong, and I know he doesn't feel the same way towards ... (231 words)

Should my boyfriend take his ex wife to court?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am asking this question on behalf of my boyfriend. My bf and his ex wife have a custody agreement over there 3 year old daughter. Now she has been withholding information from him. She has physical custody and a joint legal custody. She is threatening to take him to ... (153 words)

Why is my ex girlfriend so cold hearted?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there ... once again im back here for advice ... if you have read my past posts you would know my background story to just refresh it .. my ex gf of 11 months broke up with me cause she said she didn't love me any more and said she wants someone better . there not... (369 words)

Should I follow my heart and committ to the other woman, or do the right thing and try and save my marriage?

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13 June 2010 (M)

age - I have been married for 21 years and together for 28 years and i have 3 children. I got myself in a real difficult situation. About 3 years ago i meet this women she is married with 4 children. Our kids go to the same school and we are both into triathlons and enduranc... (825 words)

I've fallen in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do about it

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do about it. This friend and I have always been close but I always thought it was just platonic between us until he had problems with his girlfriend. She was unsure whether she still wanted to be with him and ... (489 words)

How do I deal with my step-father's porn habit?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was using my step-dad's computer and saw a bunch of porn sites in his most visited, along with a bunch of websites intended to hook people up with with other people for sex or webcam chats. I'm not sure what to do with this. I know most men look, but he's in his 60's and ... (281 words)

Did I handle things in a mature way

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13 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1327 words)

I think he is lying to me about this other girl! What should I do?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i think the guy i like (and i assumed the feeling was mutual) is lying to me. i asked him specifically if he knew a girl by the name of ----. i don't know her personally, i only know she is a very nice girl.. he said, very convincingly No. clue number 1. the first time i was... (394 words)

I love my friend and he doesn't know and I need help

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am 24 yrs old and i really bout this guy Ive known almost 4 yrs. I feel in love with him a little bit after i met him and see at the time he was with someone else and I was shy and kinda scared to tell him how i felt for him, and i figured he was thinking he didnt like me ... (293 words)

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm in middle school I really want this girl I'm very very popular with the dudes at my school and the girls except I find it really hard to talk to this girl that I've been crushing on sense the 2nd grade. Sometimes it feels like she kind of likes me but I'm not sure what ... (67 words)

I want to go out and find myself a decent guy!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm unlucky in love and relationships basically and have no idea how to change this. I'm 26 and i have been in 3 relationships ... the 1st lasting almost 2 years, 2nd lasting 6 months and 3rd lasting 6 weeks. All the relationships have had problems via distance or difference of ... (262 words)

When my boyfriend drinks, he tells me he doesn't love

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost four years now he starts to drink and then he starts to talk down to me he tells me he doesn't love me and then the next morning he loves me again he's never apologizing even when he knows hes wrong. My question is how should ... (65 words)

Fiance says I'm not romantic enough

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13 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this is continuing on from this dilema: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-wont-chat-to-me.html my fiance finally spoke to after abit of grovelling. the first thing she said was "your a twat" then she said "i shouldnt have asked you in the first pla... (248 words)

My husband left me once before for a another woman..is history about to repeat itself?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have found out that my husband of 22 years is involved with another woman, I have found out that he calls and txts her numerous times every day, I'm not sure if they have a physical relationship. Her husband has confronted my husband 2 times at our house, my husband denied ... (101 words)

Is it unrealistic for me to be waiting for that one special guy?

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Dear Cupid, I'm 17, 18 in a few months. Never had a boyfriend. have however dated two guys unofficially, where we both liked each other and were looking to take it to the next level but were getting to know each other more before rushing into anyt... (421 words)

My boyfriend picks on me all the time!

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13 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do about my boyfriend, he picks on me constantly and accuses me of cheating alot. we have been together 3 years. from the start we have had so mnay problems, from him talking to other girls but never cheating and then me ending it and him begging for me to ... (301 words)