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*heerwhore23
writes:1.I had sex without a condom but he didn't cum inside me...I started my period when I was suppose to but its like nothing...like barely anything is there....could I still be pregnant or is my body just reacting to the sex?2. how do u act normal or make things not so awkward with someone you had sex with? We use to be super close and we still kinda are but its like still awkward ..btw he's not my boyfriend..more like friends with benifits [Moderator's note: Two questions from the same user have been merged.]
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reader, src5404 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Do not ever have sex without a condom. You may not be pregnant this time but a male's penis produces a natural lubricant just like a girl does. Only the male's contains some amount of sperm. So don't listen to guy that tell you you can't get pregnant if he doesn't come inside you, they are wrong. You are too young to be having sex especially with someone you not dating. Please be careful in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): I'm all for giving impartial advice, but you are between 13-15 and not at all old enough emotionally to be having sex, which is evident by your question (s) Apart from it being illegal, which as yet, no one has made reference to, giving advice as though you are in your twenties and grown-up, even though you have been a willing participant. The reason it is illegal, is because a young female of such an age is NOT considered yet to be experienced or mature enough to be making the right decisions long-term with whom they have sex with.Case being, your second question - how do you act, make things normal after sex. If you were a little older, you would be less likely to be feeling like this, but you are not older, and you are feeling awkward. SEX is not the same as shaking hands, and should NOT be given away as if it was a handshake - friends do not have sex, and the fact you mention friends with benefits, concerns me further. Too much emphasis on sex, and NOT enough about why sex should be part of a loving, stable relationship.As for question no.1 it is highly unlikely you are pregnant, but that is NOT a 100% guarantee, watch for your next period, and any doubt, or you miss it, you need to take a pregnancy test.Periods can be light, scanty, or very irregular at your age all due to your hormones not in a set pattern yet, usually settling down a bit more by 17-18 as you mature. If you don't know the basics of SAFE SEX, using condoms to prevent pregnancy and STD's, OR you do, but you and this boy haven't bothered to follow the basics - then you are clearly BOTH NOT old enough, or responsible enough to be having sex.I'm sorry, I am being a little to the point, only because I would like you to think about who you give yourself to, and how precious sex is with someone very special, not just any boy. Think of it as a rare gift, that not anyone can have, and boys will respect you for this, those that don't, or those that push, ask or demand, are NOT worth you anyway.JIlly x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): I know this isn't what you want to hear but of you don't know basic signs of pregnancy you shouldn't be having sex, if youdont know the person well enough to be comfortable with them then you shouldn't be hving sex with them
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 If he didn't cum inside you you're probably not pregnant, but the chances aren't zero. You're probably not, and a smaller period is probably a reflection on stress or something like that rather than a reflection of being pregnant. Size of period is not a way to tell. If you skip your next period take a pregnancy test.
Not sure about how to answer the second question. If you just to act like nothing has changed it could make it less awkward. Or it could make it more awkward...
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