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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to regain a girl's trust (Please Help)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I like and been talking to for a while and she just got out of a bad relationship with her ex-boyfriend (he didn't love her anymore, stop caring) Talking to her for a while and i really do care about her. What happen is she was over my house one time and ... (163 words)

I need help understanding my wife!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the situation; my wife is about 3 months pregnant. 13 weeks. Lately, she has been extremely detached. She just started RN nursing school. So she says she is under a lot of stress. With the pregnancy and school now. She just seems apathetic all the time. Like not... (464 words)

What is this female manager's problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been working at the place for about a month now. But when I first started most of the people didn’t really like. And one day the female manger asked me if I wanted to work nights and she made sure to say that the male manger works at night and that I would be working with ... (185 words)

Is he cheating, gay, or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, please someone help! It's driving me crazy! Basically, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years... Things were so good to begin with, we did everything together. He stopped seeing his friends a few months before we got together because they all smoke weed and he d... (308 words)

People tell me I should just get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was younger I met someone in school. And I fell for him so hard. Even though I was only nine at the time I thought that he was the one for some reason. He was cute smart funny well mannered and I had that feeling inside me that I felt weak every time I saw him. Every ... (388 words)

Why does my wife lie?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why does my wife lie? This started a while ago, but it's getting worse and worse. For some reason my wife doesn't trust me. I've never strayed, never even looked at another woman in our 5 years together. She's given me two beautiful children whom I love very much. I sh... (810 words)

Long term relationship for 8 years but am thinking of others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to find out if this is normal or... something else? I have been in a long term serious relationship for the past 8 years but lately I have been thinking about other people. One person in particular. It is someone I used to like and we have been talking. I know we ... (148 words)

Confuzed And In Love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old male ..... Ok,, So here it is ,, i love this girl so much ,, well i love 2 girls so much ,, is that wierd ?? but my main question is if i love both these girls i dont know how to tell 1 of them that i love her ,, the 1 i love most is wayy out of my league,, i ... (98 words)

I made out with another girl drunk should she give me another shot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I got drunk... black out drunk and ended up making out with another girl. The truth is I dont know why I did it, It didnt mean anything to me, and I have no desiers not even to look at another girl. We have only been together for 5 months but she steal means eveything to me. ... (280 words)

I like her but I'm also friends with her b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I've got a massive proble i've really really liked this girl for about 4 months but she's going out with this guy but I'm quite good friends with him. I keep spending loads of time with her and stuff and she knows I like her, and her boyfriend even cheated on her and she's ... (76 words)

Can you please explain to me the meaing of mature love and settling down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello to all the relationship experts :) i am 24yrs and my boyfriend is 27yrs old. earlier tonight he said it's nice knowing we have mature love and is on the settling down stage of our relationship. Please explain to me the meaning of mature love and settling down. Thanks ... (56 words)

Am I imagining all of this attention, does it mean he wants me romantically or as a Am I imagining all of this attention, does it mean he wants me romantically or as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OPs Own Title" I'm Confused about this guys feelings!! This guy really seems to want to be close to me all of the time, watches me, checks me out from head to toe, remembers details about me,tries to touch me,finds ways to make conversation, Tries to make me laugh, laughs... (185 words)

She said she couldn't accept me, but I really love her what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - First and foremost is that first i saw her she use to stare at me every times and she live besides my relative house.I use to watch her also when i went there but when she heard my voice or name she use to come out to look and when she's outside she just look and stare at me ... (216 words)

Past relationships jeopardizing current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" I'm 20 years old, and I was became ill a few months ago and was bed-ridden. I meet a boy completely by chance on a chat room site. I never intended on finding a companion, I was bored and wasting time. After speaking to him, we discovered that we had several ... (621 words)

What do you think? I want to know if he likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok I'm not sure what to do a while back my guy friend told me that his friend liked me and I thought about it and realised it could be true he chose to sit next to me in re despite having a choice: me or a guy, I sit next to him in English twice a week, he chose his locker next ... (269 words)

Do you lose attraction to significant other the longer the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you find that you lose attraction towards your significant others after being with them for a long time, even if they would be considered gorgous? I don't think I do but I feel as though my boyfriend has towards me. Im not being conceded or anything but I am always being ... (152 words)

Is it in my best interest to continue on with this LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in quite a fix and can't think straight. I'm a male in my early 20's. Indian origin. I moved away for college. First year end, we start seeing each other. We got serious and decided to work out things long distance. We get to spend at least 3 months together ... (965 words)

Yes or no to sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im the jealous type to..i've been in a relationship from since 2008 october 6th n i still have the guy..yh we run out of things to say but eventually he always seems to find something to talk about at one point in time...we never had sex..i want to but im scared that it might ... (124 words)

Got myself into a dilemma but did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. He is a Muslim and I am converting to Islam. We have been together for just over a year and have been having pre-marital sex. I have been a bit upset and ashamed of this for some time as I know it is wrong. I first mentioned it in ... (579 words)

Insecure about my sexual performance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I admit I have an insecurity problem about my sexual performance. I never had one before, but recently, I started dating a woman my age who has had few partners (she was a virgin until 30), but the one's she's had (4) were almost all FWB...mainly for sex and friendship. Also, ... (274 words)

Feeling guilt over my relationship! Should I stay in it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend who has bringing up marriage a lot lately. I was going to leave him and go to another state to be with my ex whom i never second guessed that i wanted to be with him forever. I started dating my boyfriend when he told me my ex ... (144 words)

Does my partner still miss his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year, and we just started living together. He was with his last girlfriend for over 3 years and they lived together also. I sometimes feel a little insecure that he was with someone else so long, and I sometimes worry that he might... (292 words)

Is it bad to leave my girlfriend for another woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it that bad to leave my girlfriend for another woman? I've been with my current girlfriend for about 1 year, cohabitating for about 5 months. I had already been unsure as to whether I wanted to commit to her. A couple of months ago I came back in contact with my ... (250 words)

Helpful ideas on how to get wife to give me oral?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife refuses to give me a blowjob and will not even really open up healthy dialog about it. Now before anyone replies to this post here is some background. -I DO go down on her (cunnilingus) to completion and she has multiple organisms. It turns me on pleasing her. I ... (382 words)

Is there more to this friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the past few months, me and my slightly younger (by 3 years) male cousins have been getting to spend quite a bit of time together, and I've developed a bit of a attraction to both of them, both for different reasons... The first one, lets call him "Kyle", he's ver... (453 words)

Suggestions for last sentimental Summer together before I move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am moving away at the end of the summer. Leaving my best friend (a girl whom i'm in love with but she doesn't know). What can we do before I leave to have one last sentimental summer together?... (39 words)

Follow my heart or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There was two women I met off of craigslist a couple years ago, we texted occasionally, maybe once every six months or so, never met up, etc. (I should say as well, that the two women I met off of craigslist also met each other.) So, I was preparing to go on a date with the ... (1523 words)

How does someone go from caring to feeling hateful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me in Feb. At the time, I was five months pregnant with our second child. We have a 2 year old who will be three at the end of this year. We have had a rocky relationship. In the beginning things were great...we were the best of friends and i could ... (694 words)

Opinions on curved dicks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've seen this question argued before, but what do women think about curved dicks? I mean, I have one.. it starts out straight, then has a gradual curve downward, about 45 degrees. Is that a problem? I guess I can point it up, but the curve remains, and i hurts when made ... (77 words)

I am dying every moment! Please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - please help to get my love i am in love with my cousin for the last 7 years. we both love ech other but she was scared of her parents dying of shame if we marry because we are Hindu brahmin and such marriages are not acceptable in our society. I am here to search some one(... (141 words)

Terminate pregnancy by unknown father?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hope i can get some advice here as hav no1 to talk to and am a bit embaressed...i am a singal mother ov 2 kids who are 9 and 6 we have a great life go away all the time and very settled i work as an escort to pay 4 our gud life as there dad left us yrs ago i have just found out ... (128 words)

I'm still in love with my ex so how should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 7 months. We broke it off because i was just coming out of a marriage and needed time to think. It has been a year since our break. He did show his true colors which have not been great. He continues to maintain contact with me every month or so via text ... (565 words)

Can someone help me figure out how my strange partner's mind works?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im with ths guy 4 2yearz nw.we got a baby gal 2getha.my bfs ex tries everythng to break us up.cumn to my joint to bring maintanance letters 4 the kids he got by her.shes just everything bad.my bf whom i dnt knw is scared of her or sumthn, plays like a little kid weneva she ... (306 words)

Do I dig and dig and get to the bottom of it all, or leave it for an easy life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I tell my fiance what I know, or leave it? OK this is a bit convuluted so bear with me. I met my fiance James through a friend from work called Lisa. I knew Lisa for a few years before meeting her friend James and, as you do at work, she used to tell me things about ... (511 words)

Will I look jealous if I confront her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was best friends with a girl from 7th grade until about 11th grade in high school where she got somewhat popular and completely ditched me. She has had a lot of best friends throughout the years, I know she is a flip-flopper when it comes to having best friends so when she ... (466 words)

Does a child ever forget their sibling after they have been separated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My children were both taken from me after I had my youngest as I was going through postpartum depression. I was living in California and I was doing everything that was needed in order for me to regain custody of my children but, I kept running into road blocks. My children ... (154 words)

To dump or not to dump? This is driving me into depression.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Dear Cupid-ers, thanks for taking your time to read this and answer my question-sorry for making this so long. I have a boyfriend, we've been dating for nearly three months (he is my first boyfriend). I have had a crush on him around two years ago, but the flame died d... (410 words)

Am I weird or do I have problems dealing with people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in my early 20's and a university student. I moved away from home 2yrs ago and left my friends back there so i do not really have friends. i have people i can hang out with, laugh and chat with but no proper friend i can say am going to see for a weekend or even stay ove... (331 words)

Can I carry on with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I Met my girlfreind where( i was her first boyfreind) i work and we have been with each other nearly seven months since christmas.! the first few months were going well but lately i have seen her true self.! At first when we went out if ever there is a young girl or a group of ... (562 words)

.why so hot now so luke warm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a girl for the last four months, we have known each other 3 years. I am 39, she is 26. I have 5 kids , she has one but he is only with her during summer. She went really fast..pushed relationship for first four months...telling me she loved me , wanted to g... (197 words)

Boyfriend seperated for 5yrs and still no divorce and now we have a child. what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I been dating for almost a yr now and we have a 3month old lil boy together. we use to date before and he has been seperated for 5 yrs now and supposably getting a dissolution so we can start our lives together and still nothing has happened. It bugs me ... (101 words)

2 years out of college, where can I find a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Right now, all the girls I liked i n the past didn't like me back or it couldn't work out. What do I do since now I'm out of college for two years? I can go to bars, but I'm vary of that. I've met some cute chicks before, but I've shied away from them. It's like I'm confused, ... (124 words)

Affair prior to relationship but should I tell current relationship about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a married woman for about two years, but it's since over with and I've since moved on, but the girl I was having an affair with and I are still friends. I'm currently dating a woman - a wonderful, sweet woman with a big heart - who was befriended without my ... (151 words)

What would you do about the sister's visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age - Hi guys I have had a really tough time being with my man, although things between us a mirculously fine now. We have come through the storm! When you read this you may think I am a martyr or perhaps a fool, but now things really are OK. My man left his long marriage after y... (916 words)

Is he not interested, or doesn't have the guts to tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive liked this lad for 2years now. he knows how i feel about him and after 15 months of him knowing something happened bewteen us. I didnt have sex with him because i wanted to make sure i wasnt being used. This carried on for a couple of months but then at christmas he went ... (139 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I am still in love and longing for my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So before you judge me, let me just say that the guy I am with now is not a rebound. I really do care for him, and I guess you could say that I love him, but there is always this empty feeling with him. He doesn't feel like my ex. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend of about 4 ... (680 words)

I cant bear to see her with someone else...but she doesn't return my feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. A couple of years ago, I started talking to a girl that was in my class. She was in a relationship with a very controlling and hurtful guy. I somehow became the person she turned to everytime she felt bad, or was hurt by the guy she went out with. A year later they bro... (136 words)

My ex has a girlfriend and she is pregnant so I want to leave him for good, but I need advice on how to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i been being with my ex for a while and i just found out that he's still with his GF and that she's prego.. he doesnt know that I know yet.... what amazes me is that when he come over he act's like nothing we get along great, he doesnt try to fight with me or anything like ... (222 words)

My ex suddenly lost interest in talking to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. I implemented NC and a month later she writes telling me how she misses me incredibly and wants to know if I've been thinking of her since she's been thinking about me. She continued to contact me often on after that and I decided to take ... (297 words)

How can I make him realise I am the one for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been involved with someone for five years I love him soooooo much. He loves me too but we've never committed to each other. In the beginning we were amzing friends that grew deeper now five years later we barely speak. Ive been fighting for us because I know he loves me I ... (85 words)

Why wont my husband accept I just don't enjoy anal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is obsessed with anal sex. We've had it twice. He refused to use any lubricant and it hurt very badly. I told him that I'm not interested in doing it again. I only did it with him because I felt pressured. His female boss is apparently into it and told him that ... (137 words)

Do I have any right to say anything to my ex about his drug taking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. i'm in need of a little help. i am currently in a relationship but i've recently found out my ex boyfriend has been doing drugs. we've not been together for about 2 and a half years now but i still worry about him and to think he'd do drugs, is just so ... (93 words)

How can I stop masturbating?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I really want to get married some day. I know deep down that if I'm going to have a successful relationship with my wife, I have to be the best I can be. That is, I know I have to end my addictions, such as porn and masturbation. Parasites like these can destroy marriages. ... (70 words)

Is he getting sprung?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so my bf always wants me to give him head I give him head more then we have sex, he say's he loves they way I do it, Is he getting sprung????... (33 words)

I love my partner very much but I am worried he will never ask me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years we moved into together last Oct. I love him very much but I feel like he will never ask me to marry him. I know the past is the past but he was with someone for 8 years and never had any intenetion of marry her they bouhgt a hosue ... (215 words)

I hate seeing my mum like this all because of my step-father, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I came home from college for summer vacation. Since I have been back, my mother and her husband (who doesn't live in the house) argue more than they did before I left to college. Mind you, I was a freshman. Every other day after she leaves to see him, she comes back gravely ... (467 words)

Do you think you attract the same type of person over and over again? And how to stop it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you ever notice that you attract a certain type of person? I wonder about that, if anyone else seems to find themselves attractive to the same type of person over and over again. I won't describe the type I've been attracting just because I don't want to offend. BUT, a ... (176 words)

Should I try and find the spark with him or should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My bf has got everything I want in a relationship except... there is no spark, he can feel it but I cant! Should I risk all of this just to get that spark or must I live with it... a good man like this is hard to find. :(... (49 words)

Apparently I have made him paranoid because of the porn I have been watching!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello i am in need of some advice. My partner and i have been together for 4 years and have 2 children together, 3years and 6months, and recently we have been arguing a lot. Since having my second child i promised myself i'd get out more and have fun with my friends etc as i... (387 words)

How do you have a successfull FWB?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to have no feelings during a FWB ... (77 words)

What is this guy playing at? And should I invite him to my flatwarming party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help with this guy (lets call him andy) I first met andy when he came to my flat with two of his friends for a party, i spent the whole time getting a chat on with andy and eventually andy and his friend got up to leave but invited me and my friend to theirs. we went and... (838 words)

Cant talk to boyfriend about this because he said he will leave me if I do? Help please!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing a guy for about 5 months now, long distance. Ive always felt a bit untrusting of him. He voluntarily told me the other day that his ex who recently got out of a mental hospital contacted him and wanted to "get ice cream with him". He told me he said no to her a... (305 words)

Why doesn't my ex want to work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there . my ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me with no such good reason , she said she doesn't love me anymore one week we were in love then this , .. anywhoo i need some these questions answered 1. why would she say that to me out of no where ? 2. how come sh... (209 words)

Should I join this man I have just met on his bike tour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - A few days ago I met this awesome American guy who was in my city for a few days on a ciclying tour. Nothing happened, not even a kiss, nor hand holding, nothing at all. Just a lot of flirting and some compliments. We just chatted away and basically had a great time! I got next... (81 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am trying to decide whether to stay with my husband of 20 years. We have four children together, ages 4 to 13. I just am not in love with him anymore. I can honestly look at him and feel empty. When I told him this, he was devestated. He works away and when he would come ... (242 words)

How do I make the right decision? I have to choose between my boyfriend and caring for my mother

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I hope you guys can help... At the end of last year I had started living with my boyfriend of 5 years in New Zealand (he moved out there a year prior to me to get established) but then my Mum got cancer. I told my boyfriend that I wanted to come back to the UK as I was scared ... (374 words)

I'm worried the man I have met online might think I am a gold digger!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I hope you can help me out on this one. I got talking to this guy on a free online dating site. He is a decade older than me and just instant messaged me out of the blue. We talked for a few hours online and exchanged numbers etc. He told me he worked in equi... (320 words)

How do I stop this lust for my teacher?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My teacher is really handsome, funny and smart, he's about 40 years old (i'm 15). It started when I was 12, I had a crush on him for a year and a half. But when I was 13 and a half I started to have sexual thoughts about him and I was desperate for his touch and body,so ... (201 words)

Girlfriend not making contact - do I chase it or leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

9 June 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Here's the situation. My g/f of just over a year is finishing her college course at the moment, and pretty stressed by it. She hasn't been in touch for several days (and no response to messages). This itself wouldn’t bother me (I know what that stress is like, plus I need my ... (362 words)

I want to start a new life, be important, be something incredible. Can anyone help me?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i am like at a wall and this wall is very tall.....metaphore as in i want to start a new life i just want to move to the oddest place and get you know just a regular ol job just decent. i want to just do things i never thought i would ever do. i wanna be important. i ... (213 words)

He said he doesn't want to be with me again, but I was his first real relationship and the longest!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend broke up with me, and it was all because we were in the car with his friend and we were talking, and some stuff i said piss him off, i said:"don't act like you don't hang up on me" and and "i wish you were whooped" so im guess that piss him off!this all... (159 words)

She told me she likes us as friends...but then she was flirty with me! Very confusing!

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Very confusing for me... So two weeks ago, I asked my friend of 4 years if she wanted to take our relationship to the next level. She said she likes us the way we are - friends. Last weekend, my friends and I went on a retreat - she was there. During the trip she was p... (144 words)

I tell my husband 'size doesn't matter' but everytime after sex, he asks me if he is too small...

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9 June 2010 (?) age - Whenever I make love to my husband, he is asking me the same old question "Am I too small?" I enjoy making out with him and I often tell him that it's not the size that matters, it's the passion inside me that counts. Is my husband ashamed of his size? ... (53 words)

How do I know whether to believe my fiance?? I found 100's of porn and dating sites, but he blames a virus!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well basicly last night i accidently stumbled across porn that had been viewed on the computer...I had to know where it had come from so i looked and it was from my fiances acount...hoping i'd made a mistake i checked again and to my horror found hundreds of porn sites in his ... (209 words)

I'm in love with her but she's dating someone else which might be about to end! Should I step back or step up right now?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I really love this girl and I've waited for her for 2 years plus already because she is in a relationship. Actually she felt the same way as me while with her guy. She has hurt me many times because of her guy. She told me to move on and her bf told her to send me harsh ... (235 words)

He is wanting marriage, but with his cheating past I am so confused if I can ever feel safe!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts/uncles, I'm having tremendous relationship stress regarding cheating in my relationship. I am 27 and my BF is 36. He has treated me like a princess, we have lots in common and spend all our time together. Recently he moved in and we've been enjoying out day... (391 words)

How do you find out if a guy is a virgin or not?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hii!lemme ask a question.it might be silly...but there is some expectation about it..is there atleast a small clue to find whether a guy is a virgin or not.? ... (30 words)

He never initiates sex with me...could he be gay?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We have become such great friends and I confided in him that it had been 5 years since I had slept with a man My past relatioships have been with women bu that is over now. We have been intimate only a few times and only because I ... (169 words)

Am I giving him the wrong impression if I keep up the constant texting?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Some time ago (1 year to be exact) a guy from my grade 3 class contacted me. we were okay okay friends, not particularly close but we lost touch after i transferred school and moved away. eversince, we've been having these insane text messages conversations day and night. i've ... (95 words)

Girlfriend was unsure, I left her, but now I can't live without her

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old. ive been seeing this girl for about a year and a half now . on and off. we started off as friends . tried dating and she gave me the friend talk. I was cool with it because i liked her as a friend alot . and then she got a boyfriend in time . and I was fine ... (736 words)

Text dating drama, how do I proceed from here?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a diliemma here. I have met this guy about a month ago through a very good friend of mine, and the guy is also a very good friend of my brother. So we have mutual friends. We have all gone out dancing in groups for a couple weeks, until 3 or 4 weeks ago, that ... (436 words)

My sister's tragic death and my parents' misdirected blame at my bestman for it are causing me strife

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend was lived with my sister for three years. My parents never liked him and gave my sister a lot of problems over him. My poor sister died of a heart attack. It was tragic. She died in her sleep right next to him. He was asleep and woke up next to her. He was ... (496 words)

My wife left me and I want her back

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I want my wife back even though she has had an affair for 5 months. We have a 4 year old daughter, and she says she is in love with the other guy. She told me she loves me, but she is not in love with me. She told me she misses the family aspect but she hasn't loved me in 4 ... (102 words)

Are the good days worth the bad ones?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is becoming a jerk. Hes getting on facebook a lot changing his password and talking to some of his exes. Im not mad at all about it but hes lieing to me when i ask. I dont know if this is a sign but im scared to find out. I confronted hm and he turned everything ... (183 words)

The kids look like the cousin I slept with

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do. One night I got really drunk and one thing lead to another and I slept with my first cousin. I became pregnant with twins but i thought for sure that the father was my ex, turns out they look just like my cousin and I just know that they are his. They ... (114 words)

I know that no matter how much I love her she'll probably never love me the same way.

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Have you ever been in love with someone you know would never love you back. I've been in love with this girl for sometime now. About 2 or 3 years to be exact. I've know her my whole life and we hang out all the time and I can be 100% myself around her and you know all that ... (199 words)

Dating "out of your league"?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wondering what people think of the idea of someone being out of your league and whether you think being in different leagues can cause problems in a relationship. You see, I normally end up dating hollywood-looking guys, not because I'm very attracted to them, just because ... (255 words)

She's feeling like she doesn't have time to do her own things

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So for the first time, I (31) am dating a girl(33) that I am head over heals in love with. It has only been 4 months, but we have known each other for about ten years. Our relationship has been incredible. We get along so well, that I can't imagine being without her. ... (267 words)

Still in love with my ex and don't know what to do!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't know what to do. When I first met my ex it was love at first sight we starting going on great dates, and I lost my virginity to him but it felt right and he was comfortable with it. From the moment we met we were bf/gf and even though I am usually opposed to that I ... (347 words)

Can anyone interpret these dreams?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a dream about the person I like, one was where we were sat down in a public place, he was flirting with me (but this would never happen in reality) and I was touching what I thought was my arm but instead I was stroking his arm and he didnt mind (never would I do this)... (128 words)

Lost my first love after two years. Confused, hurt, and scared. What in the world do I do?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently the girl I've been with for two years, minus a four month period in the middle, left me. Up until a few weeks ago she was telling me she needed me, was in love with me, etc. Then one night, she just said we can't be together. The very next morning she said how much ... (517 words)

Single, pregnant and my ex hates me! Help!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to let everyone know that i'm not 13-15 but im unable to change it on my profile, i am 21. i am 5 months pregnant by exboyfriend (26 y/o). at the moment i live in california and he lives in argentina, he has not been with me during my pregnancy. he says things l... (252 words)

I feel helpless because my boyfriend has cancer.

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just found out that my boyfriend has cancer and isn't sure how long he has left. I don't know what im supposed to do or say. I feel helpless. I just wanna keep him here as long as possible. Please help... (46 words)

Why does my ex treat me like dirt and should I move on?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. And I know it was a good decision, yet I still think about him a lot. He holds grudges and it's so apparent in the way he treated me. I want us to be together. He has his good and bad traits just like me. But I've learned to let go of ... (163 words)

My sex drive is way up!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 1.5 years and have a great sex life, usually 6-8 times a week and we both are always satisfied. Neither of us masturbate because it feels better when we do have sex. Lately though, my sex drive has gone through the roof. It was ... (171 words)

Should I cry my eyes out or just act like I don't care?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing my ex again about 5 months ago and i found out a week ago that he is still with his girlfriend and she is now 10 weeks pregnant !! Wow i cldnt tell u how sad and devistated I'am... I really loved my ex and thought that maybe he came back cause we were ment to ... (161 words)

What's wrong with this guy?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i ask my man to send naughty messages..wont. i ask him to go down on me since im always down on him, wont...whats wrong im 4'11'' and hes 6'3'' and doesnt wanna do it missionary... HELP... (37 words)

What more do I have to do?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl have been dating for 11 months now and ive been doing everything i can to make her happy, but sometimes i feel like im doin all the work and she is just going along with the ride. For example im always the one going to see her, cos we r in a mildly long dist... (225 words)

My wife and her vagina.

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife's vagina seems to feel more loose than it use to.We have sex 2 times a week,she is lusing weight could this be the cause?... (26 words)

Part 4: pondering frequency of sex in marriage

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Should married couples really be having frequent sex if they actually want to enjoy the sex? I hear this advice for married couples all the time: "Make sure to keep the sex spicy and frequent." But this has always seemed like a bad idea to me. E.g., if I want to enjoy the tas... (231 words)

Am I that horrible a person to judge so wrongly?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, he is 20. I am 114lbs and 5' 1 1/2" tall, he is 250+ (somewhere around there) 6' 2". Already there are differences. What scares me, what really scares me, is the fact that recently I am pulled between two things I want. To be with him. To be single. He is a great guy. ... (247 words)

Should I keep ignoring an online casanova?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just stopped talking to a guy online because I realized he's a total womanizer, talking to lots of other girls as well as me and giving them the same lines. I've still got his email address. I'm tempted to email him one more time to tell him exactly what I think of him - or ... (86 words)

Love: what does it feel like?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This might be a strange question But what does 'love' actually feel like? Could do with a little guidence i suppose in a way :)... (32 words)

Part 3: pondering marriage in regard to libido

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Q: Should I be concerned about my decline in labido? Am I "chasing the dragon" by looking for a female mate to whom I'm as sexually attracted as I was to my first girlfriend? I had a long-term girlfriend all through high school and college. I was a virgin until being with... (267 words)

We are in an argument...how do I fix it?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and we've been together for a little over a year now. We have always had a very good relationship for the most part with only a couple bumps along the way. Lately it seems like she has been taking me for grantid and doesn't really show me much ... (248 words)

Help! We've been fighting lots!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot lately i love him and i want to be with him and he says he love me we've been together going on 4years what should I do... (35 words)

Part 1: pondering marriage

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Q: How much longer can the institution of marriage really last? People seem to forget that the institution of marriage is a relatively recent phenomenon in the history of human evolution. Humans lean toward semi-monogamy insofar as it helps in providing the child the resour... (239 words)

Is something going on with my husband and the woman he works with?

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had suspicions that my husband has been having a relationship with a woman he works with. They were texting each other frequently and she confided in him about her sex life and personal issues--he was happy to 'help' her with relationship advice. They met at certain ... (243 words)

Part 2: pondering my situation about marriage

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Q: For most people, when they decided they want to get married, is it OBVIOUS that they want to get married to this other person. Is there this strong inner voice going, "YES! YES! YES! Of course I want to marry this person!"? I'm 30 and in a relationship with a woman who... (256 words)

Every week she brings home a strange man she's just met!

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im really scared for my friends safety and i dont know what to do. i used to try the soft approach but ive now started telling her exactly how it is and she is still being so stupid. She is 22 and has had 67 sexual partners. we live together and every week she brings home ... (303 words)

Have you ever been through this and how did you know it was real?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls and guys have ever been in a relationship with someone and they loved being around you and a few months into it they broke up with you because they weren't ready for a serious relationship. Its not ony that, but whenever we were apart she would disagree with me over crazy ... (143 words)

Friends... Lovers.... Friends?

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9 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Q: Am I going to have to break things off COMPLETELY with this woman at some point if I want to have a friendship in the future? This woman and I started off as best friends. Fell in love. Been pseudo bf/gf for a year. But, because I don't want to get married until I'm much o... (213 words)

I'm a girl who met a girl....

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9 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so basically, im a girl and i met a girl. we got on as friends. i started having feelings for her and told her. she got all weird about it and started distancing herself from me. then all of a sudden she started wanting to hang out with me, just the two of us. When we were ... (502 words)