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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I pull the disappearing act on my ex, or hold hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My exboyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago and it's been hard to get over. He still sees me on occasion and it's just like old times when we were together. I try to be cheerful and not bring it up. He wanted his space to deal with his personal issues. So I have just tried to ... (134 words)

My boyfriend's STD test came back all clear...does that mean I'm in the clear too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my ex boyfriend the end of 2008. After we split i took it really hard and slept with quite a few guys over the next few months but only used protection with some of them. Now please don't lecture me on protection, i know what i have done wrong. I then met my ... (95 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I'm still a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 years old and ive been dating my boyfriend for just over a month now and I really like him, he thinks ive had sex in the past before, he just thinks I have because of my age but I havnt. im not ashamed that im still a virgin at age 22 but im scared that my boyfriend wil... (103 words)

Does 'hard times,' influence people to cheat and say "I love you" to other girls...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my fiance cheated on by talking to another girl and telling her he loves her and i found out.he said he changed he was just passing through hard times.but im finding it difficult to trust him.i always disturb him and argue... (41 words)

Fiance can only stay for two days of the vacation with friends, is it ok if I stay for the full term without her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are going on a mini beach vacation about an hour and a half away from our home for a 3-day weekend with a group of our friends. My fiance has to work the following Monday and I do not. Should I have to go home a day early with my fiance because she has ... (76 words)

Help! How can I tell my Muslim family that I have a Christian boyfriend who I want to marry and start a family with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

14 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hi i have been with my boyfriend over a year and we been living together for a year. my family and i are muslims however my boyfriend is christain. me and my boyfriend are deeply in love and we wana get married and have babies. how can i tell my muslim family that i got... (68 words)

Want to meet desperately with my online friend of two years...but I have lied about my appearance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I play online RPG games. One of the ones I play, very little females play. I used some fake photos as these helped me advance in the game. The game has a close knit community, I have played for 2 years, and over this time, I got to know a man very well. We love each other,... (186 words)

Fallen for a famous DJ who gave me some friendly attention..and now I'm obsessively falling apart from it..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Two years ago, I sought advise regarding my tendency to fall so quickly for guys (I'm gay)who are totally not right for me. I received answers from rcn, tisha and peter. I am grateful to all three. Im in a slightly different predicament now.I'm 36 years old... (519 words)

Is it wrong to date someone who you have no intention of marrying? Yet they do..?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i am dating for 8 months but we haven't had sex yet. The reason why we didn't have sex is she wants to lose her virginity ONLY to someone she wants to marry. She is a virgin, I am not. And the fact is that she wanna marry me in the future. She loves me a lot ... (290 words)

Should I give a guy with a 1yr old baby a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 3 weeks ago my friend introduced me to her boyfriends brother and we got on really well. Since then we have texted regularly. After about 2 weeks of texting i finally felt confident enough to suggest meeting up. As i was about to do so he told he me he had a 1 year old ... (103 words)

I miss her , but she hates me and wants nothing to do with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl I fell out with badly 6 months ago and broke up with over December has recently said she hates me, and never wants anything to do with me etc to a mutual friend we share. She lives around an hour from me, and I was at once in love with her. Each month from when we fell ... (332 words)

Having an affair with a married woman who has started IVF with her husband

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14 June 2010 (M)

age - I have been having an on affair with a married woman for the last 5 years. Recently I was casually looking at my lovers emails and noticed she has started having IVF with her husband to have a baby. Naturally it came as a shock, not in so much on her wanting a baby but more ... (211 words)

Please explain this to me, I have no idea what he wants.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've come to the point that I just have to ask other people for opinion. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have been dating this guy for about 8-9 months. I mean, we met in october last year and since then we've been texting each other, IM-ing like for 3 hours a day, ... (371 words)

I can't find any single women my age, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I came out of a 10-year relationship last year and a few months back I felt ready for dating. I listened to everyone's advice on good ways to meet new people. I'm not the sort to chat women up in bars or clubs (at 36, that just isn't my thing) and I don't have a group of male ... (347 words)

I messed up, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a 2 year old son and have been living together for 2 1/2 years. For awhile it felt like we weren't in love. I moved out this past weekend and now I'm missing him like crazy. I can't stand being away from him and I think he ... (137 words)

Revenge or move on, what's best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well after hearing my boyfriend of two years needed time away and then being ignored by him without a break up I did the honors because he was not the best boyfriend to begin with. I know its for the best but I don't understand why he couldn't do it? He's not a man and couldn't ... (126 words)

I can't reconcile "being in love" with "making love"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - all of my sexual partners where people who weren't in love with me and i wasn't in love with them .. all of the people who loved me and i loved them haven't had a sexual relationship with me .. so now , i can't mix "love" and "making love" .. i have a bf , we lo... (246 words)

My boyfriend keeps reading my journal

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OPs Own Title" My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months, and we've grown extremely close to each other. He's a wonderful guy, and we've talked seriously about marraige. However I have a small problem: he's read my journal twice now. The first time he read it, he'd ... (268 words)

Is it a good idea to have sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for one month now, he really turns me on. Is it right to point out to him that he didn't finger me right yesterday? I think i am the first girl he has ever attempted this with but I don't know how to ask. He has been out with lots o... (271 words)

Ladies, I have questions about penis size.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ladies, for those of you who've been with a well hung (8-9") man, enjoyed it, but went to a more average (5-6") partner and enjoyed that too, which do you generally prefer and why? Is bigger=more masculine, or powerful or what? Do you long for the larger guy sometimes? I know ... (138 words)

Can you name all the infections I can get by having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Can you name all the infections I can get by having sex ... (16 words)

Am I reading her right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OPs Own Title" Okay, so I have kind of a tough question so I'll try being as succint as possible. There's this girl at work who I can feel myself falling for in a big way, the problem is I kinda get the impression she may like me back. Thing is, when we're together it feel... (366 words)

When does sex feel good after losing your virginity??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When Does Sex Get Good? I Have Had Sex Several Times So Far But Still It Just Feels Weird Not Nasty Not Nice Just Boring... Is This Normal... (28 words)

Is it bad that I have the urge to masturbate all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am 17 years old i masterbate all the time. i can not help it i love the feeling. but i have tried everything that i can think of to give my self an orgasam and nothing works anymore. can you please give your advice on how i can get that ultimate orgasam?also is it bad that ... (69 words)

If I touch myself it hurts, Is there any thing I can do to make it feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was wondering isnt it suppose to feel good if you touch or rub your clit? When ever i do it i dont get any thing out of it or some times it just hurts when i do it. Is that normal? Also my boyfriend wants to finger me (sorry if to much info)but im worried about when he ... (149 words)

Girl of my dreams

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" how do i forget a girl? this girl who happened to be in my access to music well ok, i fell in lovic class for about 2 years and she is everything i need but i seem to make a habit of freezing up when im around her- i cant seem to get my feelings across ... (241 words)

Do other girls rub there smell on the lips for there b/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I been dating my g/f for 5 months and we been intimate. She said she is bi and I knew that when we met. She had a long time g/f then but just broke up. On Satuday my friend text me and said he saw my g/f with her ex going in her house. I met my g/f later that night and s... (145 words)

Should I just go have fun without getting in a relationship??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well I have just came out of my first proper relation ship it was nearly a year long. She ended it because she doesn't think we are compatible but we both loved each other and she would talk about marriage and kids a fair bit. I still want to be with her but she doesn't ... (119 words)

I'm 28 but look 16 and people judge me for my young looks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A million thanks for this site i look so young for my age i always get offended by people always looking down on me. recently i found a similar thing on this site to which i even replied to,but i av been looking for that page to no avail, kindly help me find the question and ... (162 words)

I have gone from being this totally confident, happy, ambitious person to an emotional wreck!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, kinda new to this so it might be a long question but i'll work with it.. basically, a couple of years ago i had a short fling with my best friend (we're both girls) which lasted about 2/3 months and ended when she got a boyfriend. i'd always had feelings for her ... (420 words)

I haven't kissed my BF yet and we have been dating for 2 months

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" btw I am on my friends account . Me and My Bf Have been dating for 2months now and we Still haven't Kissed ! people are now saying omg why haven't you kissed?!? but no one replys just an awkward silence. My bf has kissed girls before and i don't want to loosed h... (119 words)

I'm a single mother of two, who has money problems - any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This a question for the aftermath of love gone wrong. I have two children with my ex. He beat me very badly and left us. My parents said to finish school and that things would be taken care of until my class has finished, as I have to travel for classes and I have no income on ... (313 words)

Was he following me or was I being overly cautious?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this isn't a love question but I need some answers.. I usually walk to work and back and this evening I got slightly scared because I thought I was being followed... This guy was on his bike in front of me he the spun his bike around and looked at me but I w... (218 words)

E How do we tell our friend that we're pregnant after her miscarriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that I am pregnant and my husband and I are thrilled! We are still very early on in the pregnancy but wanted to share the news with our best friends, who are also married and were expecting their second child. Unfortunately, the day we were... (172 words)

Should I pack up my stuff and grab my son and leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod note* sentence removed for clarity] i don't want to be with my man of 10yrs + is because he has taken me for granted, accused me of cheating for the past 5-6 years.and i was faithful the whole time...he is verbally abusive and self absorbed. i asked him years ago to just ... (286 words)

"Trying for a chance at love"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OPs Own Title" Hi Everybody...I'm new here so go easy on me...Where's my situation...I hope it makes sense to you all!!! I've been "seeing" this guy for 3 yrs next month...I'll call him "Hank"...We both have been through a lot of the same things with relationships an... (436 words)

Help needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" So I am 19 years old and I don't think that I have ever had an orgasm. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it still all feels the same to me. Just recently though, I was having sex with my boyfriend of almost a year now and I had this feeling that I had to ... (114 words)

In a new relationship, but not over ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" Ok first of all, i would like to say this a wonderful site that gives help to people who need it. I hope you guys take time to read through my story and let me know what you think of it. I met my first love about 7 years ago, when I was a freshman in high... (380 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend twice should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had cheated on my bf twice but not really had to boyfriends at once it was just a kissing thing that happens with two different guys in February and March.I was wondering if I should tell him or not. He's the love of my life I'm sure and I think it would just crush him! I ... (68 words)

I have been abuse for most of my life and don't know how to break this dreadful cycle

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. I was involved with a man for three years. We had what I thought was a good relationship and I trusted him. As time went on and I began to invite this man to my house my ex, my daughter's Father started to cause a lot of problems ie: told my daughter that th... (568 words)

3 years after emotional affair and we still don't seem to have moved on much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's Original Title* My partner had an emotional affair 3 years ago and it has been a rollercoaster since - she cut off contact fully perhaps 6 months ago and I have since discovered that she sent her an email during Easter. It's like living with a crack addict - I know the... (188 words)

Could I have gotten an STD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last Saturday night I met a cute guy at a club. We danced and drank until closing and I got pretty buzzed. He offered me a ride home and when we got in his car, I went down on him. I never did that to a strange guy before and when he finished I swallowed. Now I am nervo... (98 words)

I'm confused! Am I a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. i think im a lesbian because i keep dreaming and thinking about the same sex, but im really confused can you help me.... (24 words)

My new boss is my wife's ex-lover! Help!

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have an awful situation at work: My new jerk-of-a boss was my wife's former lover in college. My wife is mortified by the whole situation, too. My boss also jokes around quite a bit with me, saying things like, "Been there, done that!" and adds "You know I'm only kidding ... (350 words)

I need help finding a job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to find a job fast but its sooo hard! I'm 21yrs old and can't stand being on the dole, im so ashamed. I hate signing on, i have money problems. Bills i can't pay, its just awful. From the age of 13 till a couple of months ago i was caring for my grandmother sadly due to ... (590 words)

Help! My mother is forcing me to stay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 with less then a month before I am going to turn 18. I went to Texas with my aunt to visit my mother. My mother is now forcing me to stay with her until I am 18 and my family is doing nothing about it. I want to return to Washington so I can do my summer school, ... (89 words)

Am I reading into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i reading to much into this quote? i possibly am. Went out with a mate, well afew of them and me and this guy dont talk alot, we hadnt spoken much of the night but we just sat outside talking for ages afterwards. We were just talking and he said "how longs it been now s... (139 words)

Is the height and age difference between us ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and my height is 5'1 ( 153cm). My boyfriend is 26 and he is 5'10 ( 179cm). Is the height and age difference between us ok?... (29 words)

I think my gf wants to get back with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - HI, am confused..what to do... am in a relationship wid a girl from past 2 years, we both had a past and we broke up wid our exs respectively. Me coz she had to go abroad to US to make her career and she(my current GF) coz her parents didnt approve of the match. and w... (791 words)

I don't want sex to hurt the first time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never had sex before and fear that the first encounter will be painful.what can i do to prevent the pain... (22 words)

My friend hurt me bad yesterday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend for two years hurt my feelings real badly yesterday. I went to my best friend’s graduation party and he was there because they’re cousins. At first I didn’t’ mind him not being around me and he talked to me a little. I watched him play basketball with his family. Me ... (377 words)

Help! I'm in a loveless marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im woman married for four years now. Our relationship has been mainly long distant for the past five years. We have one child, a daughter who is 2 years old. The hubby does not provide for the family. If i try to ask him, he gets defensive and says that the daughter has a ... (160 words)

If I move on, she will too! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well kind of a long story, Me and My girlfriend got together at 16 and stayed together for 5 years. In that time we did grow up and become diffrent as I prefer going out on nights out however she is a more reserved and quiet person. We split up about 4 months ago but have ... (156 words)

HIs fantasy freaks me out!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

14 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I'm having sex with a 40 year old man. We met on the Internet and met up in a hotel for the night, we stay in hotels most weekends and have for a while. its really amazing and we are both sexually attracted to each other and have amazing sex. We don't expect is to ... (113 words)

What does this text mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im slightly confused by a text ive just recieved. Theres a group of 4 of us that usually go out. 3 of us said yeah lets go out this weekend so i text my guy mate who also comes out with us and said "we might be going out this saturday night, you cummin? x" and he text back ... (154 words)

Should I get back together with my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So, my husband and I are separated, due to me finding out he cheated on me. I asked him to move out, and he rented an apartment, and let the OW move in with him (along with her 3 girls she will be getting custody of in a couple months). After a few difficult weeks, I was able ... (857 words)

My ex totally messed with my head and left me an anxious wreck!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm emailing you regarding an obsessive, controlling and abusive relationship. To start things off.. I'm an 18 year old male living in Spain but originally from Northern Ireland. I had this girlfriend for nearly 17 months. We met when we were both 16, I'm now 18 and... (1335 words)

It hurts to touch myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 19 years old, i tend to finger myself when im arroused, in the morning i felt the need to finger myself, and so i did and also in the shower,couple of hours later i wanted to finger myself, but it hurts? why is this? what am i doing wrong? i make sure i cut my nails and ... (68 words)

What should I do when I go visit her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with an amazing girl for 4 months. We sadly knew it would end at some stage because she was out here in Africa on a gap year teaching at one of the local schools. She had to go back to UK to finish University and I was just starting out my career. Im 23 and shes 19 by the ... (403 words)

I'm not interesting in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, female and not interested in anything sexual, not even just kissing. I've never kissed or been kissed (or had sex), so could it just be lack of curiosity or is there something wrong? Should I be interested by this age like everyone else is or is it an individual thing ... (57 words)

Why do guys deny liking a girl to your mates? If he doesn't talk what more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Hey why would a guy deny to people that he likes you? I know with my situation theres a possibility he doesnt feel that way for me but the way hes acted EVERYONE thought he did. He was always really strange with me like he wouldnt sit with me, always m... (580 words)

I danced with a random guy at a club...now my boyfriend doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend doesn't trust a word i say. he can finish with me whenever he feels like it and knows that i will have him back. he finished with me two months ago because all we do is argue. he promised that there was no chance of us getting back together and he had had more then ... (240 words)

Does she want me back or is there no hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* First off. Yes, I'm in a long distance relationship. No, nothing you say pertaining to "oh its long distance, its not gonna work anyway" will make it into my head because I have been told that so many times and so has she. I was just having some que... (318 words)

Boyfriend with pornography addiction

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and recently starting to planning our future together. hes planning to build a house and buying the funiture while Im studying. When Im finished, I just need to get a job and then we wil get married.... (229 words)

Help! I don't want to be a friends with benefits!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a second part to my first question that i had asked before. So I dated this guy for a month..broke up..went out as freinds had a good time..next thing i know where in the bedroom. I woke up left his house wrote the note had a good time don't be a stranger. Anyway I did ... (160 words)

Tell me about an aries-sagittarius relationship please..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I am sagittarius girl. My boyfriend is aries. He is too strange. Sometimes he is warm and deep, and says he loves me, sometimes he doesn't text me and says he is busy.He plays some mental games with me. I don't know whether he cheats me. Is there anyone who knows ... (79 words)

Has my relationship with this guy run its course?

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14 June 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have a situation that I need help with please. I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 and a half years and we have been living together for over a year now. At first it was great fun and we were both so happy, now it is not like that at all. Firstly we ... (524 words)

If a girl says "size doesn't matter, It's fine don't worry," does she HONESTLY mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't want to get into detail but my ex left me because my penis was apparently too small for her, and I guess she told her friends because now it's gotten out that I have a small penis...A lot of girls ridicule me for it and after a while it's really hurtful. My penis ... (265 words)

I love the new guy, but I can't help fearing he's just like my ex..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I finally completely cut off all contact with my ex in April and the whole thing ended very, very badly to the point where I hated him. About a week ago I went out for a friend's birthday and I met this really sweet guy from Montreal who was in Toronto for the weekend. We ... (310 words)

Don't know who to pick..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok basically i met this guy about 5 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4 months, everything seemed perfect. his family liked me, my family like him, my mum loves him, he comes round for tea and stays till quite late and my mum really comfortable with him here etc, we ... (504 words)

I can't seem to 'enjoy the moment' when dating..instead I worry constantly..

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi so I've been dating this guy..well technically we've gone out twice if that first meeting counts. Anyhow, lol he's a very new person in my life..still a stranger. The thing is he isn't from this country and will only be staying for four months. I haven't ever been in a rel... (229 words)

Is it wrong trying to court someone else's wife?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Through the searching and hunting i have finally found a good chemistry and connection with someone. One problem, she has a husband. I have also met him and he's such a cool guy! I met her through a friend that both her and i are close to, met her husband after (and he's such a ... (207 words)

Older men dating younger women

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 40 y/o guy and I find myself attracted to much younger women...like 18 to 25. I am currently a grad student at UW and I am always thinking about dating girls in my classes. I feel like a creepy old guy alot. I am attractive (so I am told), I certainly look much younger, ... (163 words)

Lost in confusion...I'm 15 and pregnant!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 and pregnant. I guess I should be happy that I'm caring a new life, but my parents they are really honest with me, but I cant be with them. Not with this. My parents I know wont kick me out, but they will get upset with me... Same with my friends and family... Like ... (231 words)

We're engaged but she doesn't want to talk about our wedding, should I be worried?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for over 8 years now, since we were both 16. I have loved her since I met her. Over the years she has become my best friend, my partner, my lover... she is everything to me, everything I could ever dream of. So a few months ago I proposed to her, ... (316 words)

How do I get him to take the next step and committ?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I want to hear from anyone out there who has dated a commitment phobic. I've been with the same guy for many years now. I'm crazy about him and I have no doubt that he loves me too.. but nothing more has ever happened with us. It's never even progressed ... (213 words)

It is night like tonight that I get lonely and miss my girlfriend..

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm feeling a little depressed. My ex gf dumped me 9 months ago and in a nutshell I havent had any physical contact with a woman since [Just to clarify I've been over her for a long while now]. The reason I say this is because I just miss the feeling of having someon... (285 words)

I think my gay male friend has feelings for me!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my friend may have feelings for me, in spite of being attracted to men. We've been good friends for several years, but during the past year or two we've become even closer, and I've started to get the vibe that he might have feelings for me. At first I dismissed it, but ... (223 words)

I suffer from depression and self harm, but no one can help me! What can I do?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, im 14 and i've gone through tons of hard things like; step-dad in jail, had sex then he left and im still in love with him (it was 7 mts. ago),might move,guys try to take advanage off me, all my boyfriends in the past treated me bad and i cant find anyone nice and when i ... (153 words)

He wants me but thinks we should take a break because he's curious?!!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years. He left for basic training for 10 weeks. But before that, he's been telling me how he's been curious. (He's very honest) He says that he feels bad for wanting to know what it's like to be with other girls and I don't blame him ... (224 words)

Almost had sex with my brother in law and my sister caught us!!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do, me and brother in law almost had sex and my sister walked in and saw us, now my family hates hates us!... (26 words)

Period is a few days late, could I be pregnant??

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend was in his boxers and my hands were on his upper thigh but never went into his boxers, i'm not sure if i got any semen on my hands. my period is a couple of days late but im quite stressed about exams and stuff at the moment so im not sure if its that. could i be ... (61 words)

Would you wait for this man to sort himself out?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, thanks in advance for anyone who reads and/or assists me in solving this difficult relationship. I finally ended it with my ex abuser of 3 years and met a new guy. He is great, nothing like my ex. I fell for him quite quickly, we text very often and the first time we ... (415 words)

What do I do when I love my ex but I am dating her ex?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (OP's suggested title) Alright so if this get a little bit complicated I'm sorry but bear with me here... 1. I'm Riley, I used to be dating Chris. 2. Chris cheated on me with Rose. 3. Chris and Rose broke up. 4. Rose and Lissa got together, then broke up. 5. I'm now ... (300 words)

I'm in need of hope that this heartbroken feeling won't last forever!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's the worst when you've come to realize that the guy you've loved for so long doesn't even care anymore... It feels like you'll never be able to move on from that one first (everything) love. I need some hope that this feeling won't last forever and in time the pain will be ... (54 words)

What's wrong with my relationship?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is probably going to be a long one. im so lost. i feel like im going out of my mind. i really need some advice from someone else on what to do stay with him and deal with it or leave or better yet how to fix it. first off some background on us. Iv been dating my boyfri... (864 words)

I know I'm happy with him, I know I love him, so why am I so worried and obsessed with thinking things will never work out!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've found myself a really great guy. We met in a bit of a sketchy way, and it was completly by chance. I was ill one weekend and needed to kill some time, so I went on a chat site and started talking to him. We both shared a few similar interests, and I decided to give him my ... (397 words)

Worried about our age gap down the line..

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for two years. We've been talking about getting married in the future, and I'm want to be his wife, but there's one little thing that worries me: He's 18 years my senior. Now, I've told him about this and I'm a little bothered... (130 words)

Don't know which guy I actually like more..?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive known these two guys for 4 years now and one is my bestfriend of all time. We share secrets that we wont with anyone else and we really like eachother and he says hes in love with me. But my ex was the one i thought i fell for. We are still close and used to kiss and say i ... (91 words)

Stay at home mom living with a cussing, indecisive drinker..

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and dh decided that i would stay home with our son and take care of him and the house i keep the house clean have supper on the table when he walks threw the door and i do everything for my son when dh gets home he sits in front of the tv everynight until its time to go to ... (324 words)

Parents' statement "you can do what you want when you are 18 but til then..." seems to have been all a lie!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having major issues with my parents right now. I turned 18 last month and they have always said (in passing, and seemingly without conviction, as you will find) "you can do what you want when you are 18 but til then..." Now, my two best friends and I have been discussi... (752 words)

My boyfriends a little too honest with me.. I'm not as attractive as this other busted model like chick..

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14 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi guys. I have a very sweet, sincere and over-all nice boyfriend that I've been dating since last November. We immediately had a great connection, and I've only once caught him in a lie and it was utterly petty. Recently, I've come to think maybe he's being a little too ... (369 words)

Should I take this pregnant ex serious? or just move on?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all ok so i could use some advice,, Basically this girl i was really close to we where knda sorta togather n a long distance relation ship,, well things where going good for awhile but she started goin with this guy she fell in love with him got pregnant and the relation... (518 words)

I still feel weird about almost having sex with my step cousin, should I talk to her about it?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 im a guy ok my step cousin is 12 almost 13 a girl i feel weird when we are alone but i dont know what to do. 2 years ago we almost had sex because we were alone in my room. we were humping eachother but we had clothes on. we also kissed 4 a bit then we almost went a step ... (110 words)

Need some outside opinions on my relationship...

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and lately things have changed. In the beginning it was all good of course then a couple months ago it started to seem like he always chose his friends before me, which I'm all for him having a social life but everytime, ... (398 words)

Is it possible that we will eventually have a relationship?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to know if you probably will end up with someone at some point? There's this guy who is one of my best friends and I know him incredibly well, like, including all his wank fantasies and alternative methods of wanking and we've read his diary together and there is... (453 words)

Is this guy bad news?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have a situation I like this boy a lot, we are not going out but he walks me to all my classes waits for me after school and stuff like that.We are not together because we just met and want to be friends for now and get to know each other more. Well one day during ... (254 words)

Why do we not talk much anymore?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a long distance relationship and im supose to be moving in with him in about a week but now hes saying that his guy friends supose to be comeing down the weekend that im supose to move there and he wants me to wait an extra week before i go and im kinda upset about it but ... (211 words)

Was I just seeing things? An aparition, perhaps?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i was walking home from a friends house it was about 3:20am it was quiet, as i was walking i heard some laughing, so i walked on then i notice a girl who was quite a distance away from me at first walking behind me a few minutes later i heard her running behind me then she ... (274 words)

How do I properly surprise my girlfirend with flowers?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20 yrs old and I am dating my girlfriend who is also 20. We've been dating for 8 month but I never gave her flowers except for once on Valentine's day. And she sometimes gave me a clue that she likes to have a romantic gift like flowers. I want to show her how much I ... (254 words)

Pleaseee help me!!! was she a virgin or she lied to me?? I'm really confused

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Allrite, im kinda freaking out right now.... I was a virgin until today... Supposedly my girlfriend was too and i really believed that. Right now I am VERY confused... We were gonna have sex soon because we were very comfortable wit each other and everything and there was no ... (266 words)

Did his friend really influence him to masturbate, or did he change?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently caught my boyfriend of 5 years masturbating to porn on his PS3. He said he had only been doing it for about six months, when he was friends with someone he was "influencing" him to be a..."pig." He says that other than those six months, he had NEVER masturbate... (145 words)

Boyfriends libido is much lower than mine, don't know what to do next!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, we fell in love instantly and I moved in 8 months ago. The problem started then for me. In the beginning we were having sex at least once a day and usually more. It was brilliant and I remember saying to him how happy I was to ... (530 words)

Don't know how to act, seeing as my ex who I have feelings for, just told me he will be having this 'summer fling for 3months'

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14 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1382 words)

They psychic said to stay with this guy but I'm confused!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this person for a year now he has yet to call me his girlfriend or introduce me to his friends or family, this is a long distant relationship and he has deleted me from his facebook page to save frustration because of my insecurities, I have seen a psychic ... (126 words)

I'm asking how to get him to kiss me before he leaves

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend I've always wanted finnally asked me out a 2 months ago...we went on a few dates...and we spend alot of time together. He told me that hes moving half way across the country. I have alot of support from my friends to help me to deal with this...and I don... (139 words)

Take the dive or soldier on?

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14 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Ok heres my situation and I need advice on what to do. I like this guy (lets call him M) in college. I got to know him around march because he was my 'friends'(lets call him Y) room-mate. There was this big ball/disco in the college bar and M and I ended up making out. I st... (750 words)

Why did this shy girl get so scared?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was over her house Thursday to hang out with her brother. Her brother and I were in the family room watching a DVD and she was in their computer room surfing the net. Their dad had just gotten home and he was walking by the computer room. She stopped her dad dead in his ... (387 words)

Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If so, why? I was thinking ... (73 words)

I don't know if he wants me or her

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OP Own Title"I met this great guy back in April at a party and we had a really good time together and kissed a few times, but I live half way across the country but I always go to his town every summer to visit my realitves and I am going in a little over a week and we had ... (220 words)

"No hair down there"

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - "OP Own Title" What is the deal with women shaving their pubic area? I don't mind it being trimmed up and shaved on the sides, but all of it? It use to be a sign of maturity. What gives?... (42 words)

I want my mom, my best friend, back!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an issue, with my mom.We use to be the best of friends, but recently, shes been drinking- a lot. i tried to talk to her about it, but we just end up fighting i love her so much and i'm scared that her alcohol problem is getting out of hand, i really don't know what to ... (173 words)

Almost no sexual contact in 8 months of dating, advice?

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I met my lovely girlfriend a few years back, and we dated previously, but i can hardly call it dating, it was the middle school flirting type of thing, never anything sexual, We recently started seriously dating, (This being many years later) I am a recent high school ... (454 words)

Is it okay for my cousin to ask her if she'll be my friend on facebook?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i was just wondering do you think i should become friends with my boyfriends friend? When he had a facebook i saw that hes friends with this girl "b" and now i just found out my cousin is friends with her, and i kinda wanna be her friend to sence she is friends with my bf. ... (133 words)

Why was he so hesitant to take my key?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age - I have been involved with a man for nearly 6 yrs and recently has started leaving some of his things at my place. Nothing special just a couple of changes of clothes for when he chooses to stay over. When I saw him over the weekend I told him that he would need to start ... (133 words)

Splitting the bill on a first date?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on a first date with this guy and we went to see a movie, then had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. We're both students. He is a year older than me. So, he bought the movie tickets online, then announced the price out loud - "so it's 22.50 for both of us" he said. Aft... (241 words)

I really want this threesome!

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey im 26 and my girlfriends 20 . we have been together for 3 years we had our ups and downs but we are pretty good now. we have a baby together. i wanna have a threesome. perferably another girl. but i wouldnt mind if it was another dude. im not gay or anything but i watch my ... (104 words)

I'm obsessed with my cousin!

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I met my cousin for the first time last weekend, and the moment i saw him i have been obsesed with him. i think its wrong by law but i cannot help it. he was so nice when i met him and has been everseen (on facebook) but he lives miles away and i wont see him again for a ... (113 words)

I'm wondering if I'm asexual?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I wonder if you have any help that you could give a twenty year old girl who is worried that she is asexual. I can tell you a bit about myself - I have only ever been further than kissing with two boys, both of which I backed away from when I realised that they couldn't... (336 words)

I want him back -- should I give him this letter?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i was dating this amazing guy for a few weeks. he loved me and i loved him. he told me he could see his life with me and that he never felt that he could love someone for forever before. but i broke up with him because he did something and didn't tell me about it. i felt ... (259 words)

I'm a person, not a sex toy -- how do I find a guy who wants that?

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if I'm attractive, even though people say I am. I'm 17 and I've only had one boyfriend, we lasted for 3 months and nothing even happened, not even a kiss. I have braces, and people always make comments about how no one wants to kiss someone with braces (not to my ... (131 words)

Don't want to move with my parents -- can I get a new guardian?

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14 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My parents are moving and want me to go. I really don't want to! is there a way I can pick my gaurdian or have some take over my gaurdianship. ... (30 words)

I like him, but have been bitten by the age difference in the past

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so there's this guy. He's really sweet, a total gentleman, and we're friends. His sister is also my best friend. And, I think I could really fall for him if I let myself. The thing is, he's a couple years younger than me and he has a really strict mother, and the last boy I ... (98 words)

Looking for wife's love

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14 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am not happily married. It is my wife. She has no interest in sex. She never touches me. She has no reaction to my foreplay. She never let me kiss her and has no desire for making love. I have not ever experienced a kiss in my life before. I believe in sex after marriage and ... (123 words)

Terrible Twin Trouble!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and I love him dearly, and I feel so guilty for this but he took me to his family reunion back in the carribean islands and introduced me to all his family I met his twin brother, who is the epitome of the bad twwin ... (122 words)

Obssed with my boyfriends ex!!

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i went through something with my boyfriend and we love each other and i know that for a fact. Ive been the only girl hes been going out with that has met his parents just the biggest problem is his ex at the beginning he mentioned her often i asked him if he still had ... (115 words)

Worried that the cramps haven't gone away yet

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14 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Had sex with a friend, now developing into more. He used a condom for the first time, but didnt 'finish' and the second time was without one, where he didnt either. I got my period 5 days later. I have had cramps for 3 days (before, first day and now still). I started going on... (159 words)