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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why am I a big secret???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I met this man who I fell in love with but there was a big problem and that was that he was always spending time at her house even though he was spending time with his little children. Fine he always came home to his own home but did a lot of activites together as a ... (159 words)

I'm in love with my best friend's ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, well im in love with my best friends ex, i've always loved him even befor they went out i just dont understand why he chose her over me, she had a boyfriend when he asked her out and then she broke up with her boyfriend for him and the day she told me this i was going to ... (349 words)

I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found out a bit ago, that im pregn... (338 words)

Prostitute girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I first met my west african 'girlfriend' in a lap dancing club last year (2009). Chatted a lot before anything and have to say I respected her honesty. That was that and 2010 I returned to the same club and guess what! she was there... I had a few dances, VIP room etc etc... (332 words)

Is she at all interested in me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i was talkin 2 a girl that i have known for a long time. i took her 2 the prom and we went on a couple of dates, she didnt think we were meant 2 b so she said she didnt know where this was goin. so a coupe yrs later now present day she wanted 2 hagout in the worst way lol, we ... (190 words)

Holiday pill popping!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on the Pill and have to take it at the same time each day (7pm UK time) However, I'm going away on holiday where the time difference is 3 hours ahead. So do I just take it at 7pm local time? Or at 10pm local time, which would be 7pm in the UK? Please help - I'm confused! :)... (60 words)

I'm ashamed of my body...

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I am a 15 year old girl and I am ashamed of my body, im too skinny and i dont like to be like that. All my friends have a great body and all developed but im not developed and i have the body of an 11 year old girl. Please Help me. It's three years that i feel really bad ... (88 words)

Is it weird that I want it to hurt during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Is it weird that i want it to hurt during sex? I like the thought of being handcuffed and forced to do what my boyfriend wants and give him all the control. Is that normal? I feel like a freak sometimes cause it seems like i get turned on by pain, not all pain but the ... (63 words)

Really depressed over this much older man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really depressed about this much older man! I first met him when i was 21, and he was 41. That was five years ago. We met in a club that he goes in regularly. I used to go in every weekend for a couple of years, but in the last few years, i have only been in every so ... (863 words)

I need yourhelp guys... Does he really love me... or not???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - HI everyone. I just wanna ask u guys for help. If my boyfriend really loves me or not. We dated 4 years already and we broke up 6 months ago. Now we just get back together 3 days. He seem different. we don't live together. He is in New York right now and I'm at Arizona. But he ... (258 words)

Is it wierd to not like kissing a lot of guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - IS it okay to only be able to really enjoy kissing one boy, like I liked him A LOT and whenever I kissed him it was like it was supposed to happen. And well I laughed a lot when I was kissing him... I have kissed and made out with a lot of guys but only one have I enjoyed, most ... (71 words)

The only way I get sexual pleasure is from using a vibrator. What else can I do go enhance sexual pleasure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my problem is that I only receive pleasure from vibrators. When I masturbate in any other way it is nowhere near as pleasurable. The problem with this is that when my boyfriend fingers me or does oral sex, I dont receive as much pleasure. I feel bad about it and dont want to ... (75 words)

Broke up and she's contacting me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there, I'm new to this site. Recently, about two weeks ago, my girlfriend broke up with me after two years and started dating another guy, two days after we broke up, they "did the deed" and I didn't find out until around 3-4 days after. I have broke contact with her... (184 words)

The real 25 year old virgin!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some comments and threads similar to min... (459 words)

I saw pictures of my girlfriend giving her ex a blowjob!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay I just need to get this off my chest as im cracking up with it! To anyone who'll listen I need to get some advice about this. I'm 25 by the way. Around a month ago I found my girlfriends old mobile phone, I asked her if I could use it as mine was broken. So I put my sim ... (428 words)

Husband not having conversation with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My husband is not making any conversation with me. We cannot speak about a topic.. We dont have nothing much in common. I'm feeling lonely.. He is a quiet type.. He has also friends.. But I dont know why I cannot converse with him as a friend.. Just the way I talk with... (119 words)

How would you react if you were in this girl's position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - To cut a long story short, I fell in love with my best friend, I'm male, she's female, we're both 26. She has suffered from low self esteem and depression for some time now and has major problems with her appearance (all in her head as she's really pretty). I knew she didn... (298 words)

Embarrassing sex life question... need answers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ummm i just turned 19 and im a virgin my bf is not.. he wanted to wait to have sex and so did i but somehow we tried to and ummm he kept putting things in "the wrong places" and i told him where to go... then when he found it we couldnt get it in... it was so AWKWARD!!!! a ... (132 words)

Am I his mistress???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

- Over 3 years ago a man contacted me on a dating site. he was in despair and lonely because his wife was having an affair and his first reaction was to find someone new himself. He soon realised he really loved her and through her manipulations, that even her family admit to,... (560 words)

Help me find a name for my baby boy...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm due a baby boy in 5 weeks.. and i have no idea whatsoever to call him.. please could i have some ideas? I know this site isnt for this kind of question! but im desperate!... (36 words)

How do you know if you still want to be with your boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for eight months. when we first met we both had a lot of free time and it was great. once things got more serious things weren't as fun. schedules were off and didn't have much time together for a couple months - like not even a whole day ... (249 words)

My dad doesn't want me to marry my cousin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I'm in love with my aunt's son, he loves me too but my parents dont want me to marry him... when i told my dad he said i dont like the family so i'll choose someone else for you... but i love my cousin, what should i do?? please help me out.... (53 words)

He cheated!!! What do I do now???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my names megan. My husband is very atractive. And me, I'm just a little on the chunky side. Not too big not too small. But its sad when I stand next to him (he's... Just that gorgeous) But as I expected I wouldn't have him long, I knew some better looking woman wou... (388 words)

Should I text or call him... and if so how long should I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy for about 2 weeks, but we hung out before that for a while. He always said he wouldn't never cheat on me because he cared about me too much. Then one night he stopped texting me, and I was at home missing him. The next day he texed me I think you have to break ... (613 words)

Love lost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 with a 8 month old girl and I'm 7 months pregnant. My boyfriend is 39, we met summer of 08 but I am no longer sexually actracted to him now that we live together. What does that mean?... (43 words)

Is it wrong to mess around with my ex even though it feels so right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex flirt a lot I tell him my dreams n fantasies about him, we dirty talk n feel each other up. We're both virgins we understand it’s a joke, he’s made it clear he respects me too much he says he doesn’t want to use me, he's s said many times he will never use me he ... (483 words)

Me and my boyfriend had a pregnancy scare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im so confused right now. Me and my boyfriend had a pregnancy scare. We bought a test and we were both really scared. I love my boyfriend and he loves me and we do want children when we're older but we agreed that having a child now wouldn't be the best thing. We bought a ... (154 words)

I like thinking on my ex but I don't want to go back with him, have I become crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Even after break up i like to adress my x bf as my bf only to my self. And i like thinking bout him and all.but im happy and relaxed.but dont want to go back and re-start the relation again. What is this i've become crazy now? I... (50 words)

I'm afraid my sexual experience will cause a problem with the next girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've been wanting to get into another relationship but 3 years back I had a bad experience with this girl and for 9-10 months we had sex daily. I'm just afraid that I might hurt any girl next due to my experience in the past. Or even hurting her over not being a ... (69 words)

True Love or Not ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is older than me by 4 years. i love him soooooooooooooo much and he love me too. He even prove that he do. He never pays attention to other girls. Should i believe him?... (36 words)

My co worker has a feminine odor problem. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone worked with someone that has a distinctive body odor and doesn't seem to get the hint that some better hygiene is needed? I share an office with a very cute, perky girl who is 22 and single. All of the young guys in our office hang around her desk all day flirting... (218 words)

My first orgasm... from having my feet massaged!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, is it wierd to be able to orgasm from having my feet massaged and rubbed but not from sex or oral or anything else. I'm 18 and in a realationship, the sex is good but not amazing, but I don't mind. The other day I got my bf to massage my feet an it was amazing!! What's... (74 words)

Can I win him back by backing off??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age - Been seeing a guy for 5 months, texted, emailed or msn'd most days, but only met 7 times... and each time had amazing sex. I thought he was a player... so set him up with a fake profile on internet dating site. He fell for it and arranged to meet her for sex. She was me... (245 words)

I've been dreaming about my former lecturer and now he's invited me to see his band! I have a boyfriend, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I'm living With my boyfriend and have been in a serious relationship with him for a number of years. Before we met I was at college and had what I would call a crush on one of my lecturers there. This crush kindof just fizzled out, and even though the same lecturer wa... (343 words)

Married to the wrong man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i married the wrong man for the wrong reasons. we have been married over 15 years and were high school sweethearts. we have four wonderful childern, however i knew the day i was marrying him he was probably not the man i should be marrying. i cried about it and even told my ... (341 words)

I never get an orgasm while making love with my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Helo, I'm 23 yrs girl,loves my bf truely. Recently we started making love,but every time i don't reach to orgasm,my bf make all his effort 2 statisfy me,but when it comes 2 orgasm i never get it,now m fedup of all this and frustrated....please help... (46 words)

I want a quiet relationship with him -- how do I approach him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i like a boy in high school, and i know he is AT LEAST bisexual. he didn't tell me, i just know from the way he talks and acts around me. im not out or plan to be out about my sexuality, and neither is he, but i told him i like him over messaging and he didn't reply. but i ca... (125 words)

I dropped a friend because she dated an ex. Shoudl I give her another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all Sorry this is quite long. i have this problem at the mo which im havin trouble solvin. Wot it is my ex best friend wants to be friends again, she contacted me through facebook, basically when we was mates a couple yrs back she told me she has started seein an ex of mine, ... (166 words)

How do I find out about his feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I spend all my time thinking abaut him and i cant sleep at night,cause he's always on my mind.I love him,but i cant tell him,because he will think that i'm a bitch.He was my causins husband,but my causin past away last year june.he asked take care of his house,i clean his house ... (115 words)

I'm clueless. My boyfriend is a virgin and wants me to teach him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a virgin, and I'm not. He wants me to take charge and guide him, which I totally understand and would be happy to do except for the fact that I'm clueless myself. I've been with one guy, who was really sexually aggressive and focused only on himself. Sex never ... (168 words)

Should I tell him about the secret bank account?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and we always talk about everything, we are totally honest but that doesn't mean we agree or we come to a compromise. I am the most financially stable thinker between the both of us, I don't bring home most of the ... (294 words)

How do you know someone loves you back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - if you love someone how you know they love you back... (11 words)

Why does he keep writing me if he hates me so much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OMG!!! my cousin fucked up my life!!!! she wrote to one of his friends under my profile (she has it to spy on her husband cuz hes my friend) and now he thinks i'm being a stalker!!!! Loook HIM: you have got some fucking balls you know that, i can't believe that you'd have ... (858 words)

What are some interesting topics to talk about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a new girl friend i really love her but i have nothing to talk about we always talk about the same things! i need topics please... (28 words)

Why has my sex drive increased?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F) - In the last two weeks my sex drive as gone up extremely. This is surpirising to both me and my BF since I already had a high sex drive. My sensitivity has risen, I can almost orgasm by just thinking about it. What and why could this be?... (48 words)

How to get over a crush when you're involved with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two years which isn't long but we do have a six month old daughter together. My boyfriend is my best friend and has been my first in everything - I had never been in anothe relationship before I met him. I'm 22, he is 24. ... (150 words)

Is he connecting with me for a quickie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry in advance if this is goes on abit! haha Well i'm in an online dating site and this one guy contacted me about 7 month ago just sent a hello then asked if i'm ever out (in the area we live) and i said i didn't go clubbing or anything he sent he doesn't either and i ne... (275 words)

Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying to do the things he knows he... (656 words)

Can you really love someone and never say "I love you"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anybody here love their significant lover, but never says "I love you" to them? Iv been in a relationship for 4 years and he used to say i love you a few times but he never does anymore. I know actions speak louder than words but it would still mean a lot to hear it. If ... (82 words)

FWB relationship has had a meltdown

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive fallen for my Friend with benefits but dont know where I stand. for 3 months we have been sleeping together and it is like nothing i have ever known before. Until a week ago everything was ok until he had some kind of 'meltdown'. I should start at the beginning. We we... (436 words)

Can someone help me out with this predicament?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently find myself in a predicament. Just before Christmas I was with a guy (A) whom I was falling for. It transpired he had just finished in the armed forces and was trying to adjust himself to ‘normal’ life. Unfortunately he found it slightly more difficult than he ... (203 words)

Is lying to your significant other to spare their feelings ever excusable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I just caught my long-term boyfriend (1.5 years together, 1 year living together) in a lie and am feeling disappointed and angry at him. He says he lied to spare my feelings, but is this ever a legitimate and forgivable reason for doing so? Here's a bit of background in... (465 words)

Should I let my husband visit his 1/2 sister whom he has a crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age - I have previously written a post under the heading "How do I handle this" on June 1st, so maybe if you read that first then this will make more sense, so my h keeps going on and on about how he thinks he upset this half sister called cynthia by sending her some pic's of our ... (405 words)

I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

4 June 2010 (F) age - My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with now grown kids.But what I ... (199 words)

Small penis is not satisfying my partner!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age - i am 47 year old having small penis 2.6 inch erected length. i feel i am not satisfying my partner fully is there any technic by wich i can satisfy my partner. ... (35 words)

Everytime he leaves the house for work, I always wonder what he's really up to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! About a year ago I found out that my husband had numerous accounts online -- from dating sites to webcam sites. He had pictures of himself on some of these sites in his profile. I have caught him several times searching yahoo personals. He doesnt seem to understand ... (189 words)

After 2 weeks he says he is confused, should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up 18months ago after over 2 years together. It was a difficult break-up in the sense that for a long time he refused to either commit to the relationship or say he didn't want it, and I kept hanging in hoping I would eventually get the answer I wanted. We ... (745 words)

"Over you" songs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi! I went through a rough break up, my ex traded me for another woman..and of course I was heart broken and all. A friend who has a major in psychology told me I should listen to music to help me heal. Music normally reflects our feelings and put us in a good mood (: Bu... (131 words)

The father of my baby has no contact and is so secretive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am writing to ask whether people think I have done enough for my daughter in making her dad be part of her life? I had her and another guy was thought to be her dad but in feb the dna results came back that she wasnt my ex but she was my ex before that we'll call him Mr T.So ... (423 words)

No Condoms = Bigger Sex Drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Might I get a bigger sex drive if I start having sex without a condom and use birth control? ... (19 words)

I find it hard to think of him as being a 'pervert

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I'll shorten this as much as possible, I don't have much time on my hands right now. Basically I've known this guy for about 10 months, we've met about 5 - 9 times I think, at parties and social gatherings etc, and between THOSE times we've also been conversing onlin... (576 words)

I feel I have made him my everything and I'm so scared of losing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend nearly 8 months and right at the start i was with someone else who i didnt want to be with and had gone to australia for a year. but when i met my boyfriend now i was due to go out and visit my ex which i had to go because i thought it was unfair ... (220 words)

How can I be so in love one minute - and have doubts the next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. I have a question. I have been dating a fabulous guy for the last few weeks. We have been on some great dates, and he is treating me like a queen. He;s attentive, romantic, kind, thoughtful and bright. However, we do have a language barrier difficulty - he is Hungarina ... (282 words)

She has a boyfriend, but I want to be with her! And now my friend is acting all jealous. It is overwhelming me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so im in quite a dilemma here. i havnt been with anyone in over two years as a self choice. lost the love of my life and been hurt to many times by others. unfortunately I work with a girl who im extremely interested in. something about her is so different. but she does have a ... (252 words)

Did I do something wrong? I'm finding it hard to get over this break up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (moderators note: users own title) okay...so i'm still thinking about my breakup, and can't seem to get it out of my head, and i just neeed to know if i did the right thing... my boyfriend (now ex), started to not pay as much attention to me, in the biginning he was so atte... (1600 words)

How do I tell my religious family about my abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, when I was 13 years old I started dating a guy , he told me he was a christian and that he went to church , so I figured he would be nice. After a few months , he started badmotuhing me and becoming controlling and bullying me.It gradually got worse , to the poi... (367 words)

I read his e-mails, and he's back in touch with the ex! Is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so this appears to be quite a common problem but would really appreciate some unbiased views on this... I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years and 6 months ago he moved in with me (he owns a house 100 miles away that he now rents out.) So I know that he is committed ... (818 words)

How to get my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I m a gay guy and like a guy in my own locality, I'm 23 years old and he looks around 19 or 20 years old.I don't know whether he's a straight or gay but I want to be with him, either as friend or a love.I really have feelings for him. Please guide me How to get him as friend ... (65 words)

Should I tell her about my obsessive ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

4 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was dating a girl for a couple of months. I realized that we didn't share much in common for things to work out in the long term. But she seemed very into me that I found it difficult o break-up, which I finally finally did. She didn't seem to take it too well and still ... (167 words)

My teacher kissed me! I know this is wrong so how do I move on and get over him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm going through a really rough time at the moment, and this teacher is so lovely and has been helping me through it, organizing councelors and just helping and stuff. One day when I had a breakdown in his class, he followed me out as I left the room, and he talked to ... (432 words)

How can I make him mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy and i are coworkers .. ive never really been in a relationship before this guy, but we're really close. we have been making out, flirting, etc.. last august he asked me to be his GF. it didnt work out in august we were never official cause i was shocked and i didnt ... (331 words)

I know he needs his friends but he gets so drunk each time he is with them! How can I get through to him?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, we’re 21. He’s the absolute love of my life and I could never imagine life without him. However… around his friends he has no backbone, he lies to them and tells them he’s going to see them then he actually comes to see me, all ... (682 words)

We are not married but she thinks she is entitled to half of everything, despite me already giving her a large sum of money!

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have recently split after a 10 year relationship. We were not married and have no children. Its clearly a very difficult time for both of us, and amongst everything else we are trying to come to some sort of financial settlement. This is where we seem to be ... (645 words)

How can I make him something other than my everything...without leaving him.

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 24, i am 18.. so of course he has done many things that i have not done, and i know this is normal. But for some reason i can not help but get upset/jealous when his friends bring up past times when he did this and that. Do you think me being in a serious ... (230 words)

Is an orgasm important in a healthy relationship?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, to keep it short and simple i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. when discussing relationships with my friend the other day she said that orgasms were needed to have a healthy sex life and considering i've never ever ever ever ever ever ever had one.. i was ... (129 words)

I've always had problems talking to girls I have a crush on! How do I overcome this and find out if she likes me too?

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, there is this girl from one of my classes at school. shes perfect, smart, pretty, artistic and has such good taste in music. i have this huge crush on her, and im wondering what i should do..? i have only started sitting at her table in class about 3 weeks ago, we often ... (243 words)

As a working mom, do I need a maid?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Moms, I was wondering how you can be a working mom and raise your child on your own without having a house maid or a nanny full time to help you.. Im a soon to-be-mom and hope you can tell me about raising children on your own , as well as commitiing to house chorus.. how ... (79 words)

Will my boyfriend cheat on me or am I just paranoid?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm going to be a senior in high school while my boyfriend is heading off to college. We've been dating for a little over a year and everything has been great overall. I know people may say we're young, but it truly does seem as if we're perfect for each other. But ... (456 words)

Help! How do I get over my abusive ex?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want nothing more then to have my ex beat to hell and I want to cuse him the f*** out soo bad. BUT we have kids together and that would be just the wrong thing to do. I dont know how else to get over him. I feel like I am at times when im with other guys, but when I have to ... (259 words)

Are my insecurities getting in the way?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy I met in a chat room for a little over 2 months now. He's in the usmc and when we started talking he was in training but right now he's overseas. He's the first guy I've ever had feelings for, and the feelings I do have for ... (488 words)

Does not liking French kissing make me weird?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello im 19 and ive had many boyfriends and im confident but when it comes to french kissing i always say no..because i dont know how and its embaressing to ask at 19...its makes me nervous..ive did it before but i didnt know if i was doind it right and i admit i didnt like it ... (66 words)

Friends with benfits? Yes or no?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody, i was wondering what your opioion on friends with benfits is. I have a male friend to who i am sexually attracted to, he shares these feeling as well. We want to start a friend with benfits type of relationship that includes everything from kissing all the way to ... (80 words)

How long before I should suspect he's not that serious?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How soon into a new relationship (approximately) would you expect things like love and commitment to come up? I know every relationship and person is different, I'm just wondering if there's a point when I should think hmm, maybe this guy isn't interested in anything serious!... (46 words)

Is it normal to have an orgasm just from being tickled?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I strange? My new boyfriend has a fetish for feet. A few weeks ago I indulged him for the first time and allowed him to tie me to my bed. He proceeded to tickle the bottoms of my feet for a long time. I’m a very ticklish person and I laughed and screamed. I couldn’t... (166 words)

What if my boyfriend wants a vasectomy?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't want marriage or kids. I don't know what I want. I think I more want a fairy-tale relationship / marriage, not the realistic kind. Since he doesn't want either. because condoms bother him and are very desensitizing (yes even the really thin kind...i... (208 words)

My ex asked me to choose between him and my baby's dad

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19 years old. i have a little boy. i am not currenly married but i am living with my boyfriend, my babys dad. we have been together for 3 years and i love him.he also has a good job and he supports me and his child. however, an old ex-boyfriend came into my life again.i ... (146 words)

How can you get over the feeling of being lied to from your boyfriend about his porn watching habits?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you get over the feeling of being lied to from your boyfriend about his porn watching habits? I've been obsessing over this for the past few days. I almost left him for me being suspicious of him lying after finding sketchy files on his computer that had been created ... (291 words)

Suspect boyfriend lying about porn/photos/etc...

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Real quick to begin in the past I was with a guy who was in my opinion addicted. He even was watching it while I was lying next to him asleep and would go to bathroom to relieve himself. Ever since then I've found it to be disgusting in a relationship. My current boyfrien... (752 words)

Where can I make out with my boyfriend?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months now. i am 14 yrs old. his birthday just passed so he is 14 as well. the first month was the best. he hugged me, kissed me, we held hands, and we made out a couple of times. we have not made out since before our 1 month ... (177 words)

Move or not to move?

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girl that I met in Berlin when I was there studying...i came back to the USA(where i live)...and then visited her in Italy(where she is from)....We have been talking for a very long time now and we are in love......I have a really good job in Washington DC and she is ... (188 words)

Will I ever overcome my eating disorder?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've suffered from anorexia and bulimia for about 4 years, i've had councelling and numerous aids to try and help me overcome my disorders and sometimes i can improve for a few months, but there is never a day where i don't think about what i'm eating or how i'm going to feel ... (100 words)

Why is this guy taking advantage of me?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel really stupid. And a little hurt. I work with this guy, he is and has always been very nice to me. The thing is when I told him I liked him, in more than a friend way, he didn't say anything, he just smiled and gave me a hug, which is the WORST thing you can do to ... (448 words)

Is it silly to feel jealous of my mates?

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4 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I don't know if I'm just being silly or anything but I am really starting to get jealous of my mates. Don't get me wrong they're great friends and I couldn't imagine my life without them but the fact that they can all go out and hook up with girls on a weekly basis and I can't ... (170 words)

What if his parents don't let him hang out with me?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for a really long time. He's my neighbor at my beach house and I see him every summer. This past summer I started having feelings for him. After summer had ended we texted almost everyday. We also hung out a few times, but then he told me it would be better ... (174 words)

Could he be in love and not say it?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this boy lets just call him (Javier) I held his hands also talk about dating and he acts like he is in love with my but doesnt say nothing what does this mean?... (39 words)

How should I deal with my abusive ex?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so puzzled by my bf..I just finally came to my senses and broke up with him after 5yrs of Physical and mental abuse. I want to clarify that he still believes that at least he has never beat me literally but has tried to choke me 2 times in the past. It has been a year in a ... (298 words)

Help me deal with girlfriends STD's!

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a very difficult situation that I have not been able to get any solid advice on. First, i will start out with some background on my relationship. I met her last summer, she was a mutual friend of a friend. We hit it off almost immediately, but didnt actually start d... (950 words)

Does my boyfriend still like me?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half are slowly growing apart. I really love him, and i know he cares about me, but Im just not sure he likes me anymore. Lately he's had to work alot in order to pay off some car damage, which i can understand, but when he gets ... (168 words)

Is it just because he's young?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a guy that is 7 years younger than me.I am 27. We have been together a little under a year. When I met him he was machanic and a student. A cpl of months ago he was let go from work and then took a semester off to find employment. I have just ... (209 words)

Should I tell my friend I want to spend the rest of my life with him?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i this guy i knew when i was like 13 in school we just started back talking and now i am 22 and i think i am falling in love with him. I think about him all the time 24 hrs a day, however it seem like he is not feeling me the same way. while he just told me that he was ... (162 words)

How do I bring him up in a conversation?

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - before any one writes it is none of my business or butt out, I am only looking out for the people I care about, with that said here it goes. 6 year ago my wife of 6 yrs and I got a divorce , it was a mutual thing,we care about each other but we are very different. we da... (347 words)

How high of a risk is pulling out?

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How high of a risk is it having sex with out a condom but not cuming in her and I wipped it off be for I put it in her ... (30 words)

Was he brushing me off?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Need Advice! Being talking to this co-worker for couple of month's, Were both interested in each other, So I thought, He ask me to the movie several times, but I never confirm a time or date, Since we are co-worker people have notice the time we spend together, woman have being ... (294 words)

Why do they suddenly stop talking to me?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i'm a teenager and i've had a couple of boyfriends. my first boyfriend was the only one i dont regret. i dont regtret it because the whole becoming a couple was so easy because we were good for one another. but since then its been fellingless relationships(if... (111 words)

Should I be offended by the comment he made about my appearance?

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4 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm quite offended by what my boyfriend has done, but i dont know if i should be. He noticed that i have some hair on my face, as some women do, you know the little hairs, and he pointed it out. Dont know why he hasnt noticed that before, and tonight, we were both sat down on ... (238 words)

I have no idea what she thinks!

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4 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i like a girl and have done for a while, we are pretty much best friends. there has always been speculation about us being together but nothing has ever happened. her friends always encourage that we should go out however there has never been concrete evidence of her liking me ... (130 words)