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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why Do I keep looking Back if he said he doesn't care?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I really Love this Guy. He is Emo. And I do not care what anyone thinks of it. I am not Emo, At all. We have Never gone out. He was Never My Boyfriend. He is thee Most Amazing Person I have Ever met. There is NO one who is even close to him. He knows th... (580 words)

Is he just being mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy like you does he pick on you and then says joks or is he just being mean???... (20 words)

How do I open his mind and heart so I can be more confident in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I have a problem with my boyfriend, he is not clear with me, if I ask him about something he never answers with a clear and obvious way, so everything is confusing to me, even when he says that he loves me, I can't help but thinking that he doesn't truly mean it...I find ... (107 words)

I'm scared to have sex with my girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey so I still have my foreskin on my penis, and my penis head the skin on it has been pealing off what is going on? I think it is this Lichen Scleroses. what do I do I'm scared to have sex with my girlfriend.... (46 words)

I feel he isn't into me anymore, Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help i am so confused and i really dont know what to do. i met this guy a few months ago at a club he spilled a drink on me and i danced with his best friend few days after that i saw that he was at my sisters house and i also found out that he is my sisters husbands ... (385 words)

Was it all innocent or does he have something to hide?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I worry my boyfriend has cheated on me when we first started going out, his ex girlfriend is also his best mate an they spend a lot of time together! If one stays round the others over night they will both stay in the same bed, I found this out after 7 months of him trying t... (187 words)

Is my boss encouraging me to leave my job because he wants me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age - "OPs Own Title" Is my boss encouraging me to leave my job because he wants me? For months he has been looking at me in a way that is obvious attraction. He has grown on me too. I hear that he has children but see my family pictures in his office and the ring he wears does not ... (211 words)

Torn between love of a best friend, and concern for her child

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a best friend who I have known since we were kids, so about 16 years. I love her to pieces, and would be lost without her friendship. she is 21 and has a 4 year old child. she also has a boyfriend, lets call him Dave. Well her and Dave have been together for around 4 ... (392 words)

Why is my ex using our old relationship to hurt his new girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - got a serious situation. My ex has been stating to his girlfriend that he's been seeing me and that i've been writting to him. Which is completely false. I found this out because his girlfriend called my home to tell me. The problem is that the ex is my husband's cousin and he ... (191 words)

I want to ask my boyfriend about his ex but I don't know how to bring up the conversation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! :) Ok so I want my boyfriend to be more open with me! He barely tells me anything! We just talk about our daily routines and updates on friends and family! The day before he was telling me how he had a fight with his fav. Aunt which happened ages ago! I wan... (165 words)

I am worried that my boobs don't look normal!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! :) Ok I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm very self conscious especially sonce I'm over weight! My boobs are kinda bigger compared to my friends and I know it's cuz I'm fat! But my nipples are really wierd! I don't know what its called but that area arround your n... (138 words)

Am I over-reacting to his remark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my lover were apart for a few weeks due to a row,anyway we just made up tonight by email because he was at work and he lives in another town from me,anyway he had finished work and said that all this emails had drained him tonight( we were arguing beforehand by email but ... (124 words)

He would date her if he was single! Should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! my boyfriend of 5years told my best friend that if he was single he would totally date this girl let's call her X! and he asked my best frend if this X is single! should I be worried?? and my boyfriend and this X text each other.and he really likes her nature ... (84 words)

He cheated and then almost killed himself! Do I give him another chance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. i need help.... MY boyfriend of 8 months has been cheating on me with his ex.. on day i was hanging out at home when his ex girlfriend came to my house and told meh everything. ill tell u the convorsation " Yeah. hes been having sex with me tellin meh that he lo... (362 words)

Will sex hurt the first time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok...ummm me and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon but im a little scared about it cuz i dont want it to hurt,,,,does it hurt????? will i bleed??? i want to know what im getting myself in to before...thanks... (41 words)

He cheated on me with his ex and I can't get over it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age - Hello...looking for advice...I must be stuck on stupid...Its been about 6 months ago that I started dating my ex boyfriend. We had a bad fight last year he said some horrible things. We had dated for 3 years, into the second year he cheated on me with his son's mother...she is ... (329 words)

I want to be with him but others will judge me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

- Hi, Okay so there's this guy and we were going to start seeing eachother, but then he drunkenly announced that he had a gf after 2 weeks of me going out of contact because i had no internet, or credit, so i got really annoyed and told him i hated him, then my cousin came down ... (259 words)

I think I'm in love my brother's friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i am a 14 nearly 15 year old girl and i have fallen in love with my brothers friend. my brother is nearly 5 years older than myself and his friend is just over 4 years older. as soon as i met him i liked him and tried for months to bury my feelings. then i saw him... (347 words)

He's flirting with other girls on Facebook!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - do men always talk to women behind their girlfriends back? i know i shouldn't look but i've had a bit of a snoop at who my boyfriend has been talking to on facebook. he's been inviting this girl round to a bbq (of which i never knew anything about) he also told her... (111 words)

My husband cheated and I know all the details! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - how can i get past the thought of my husband havin sex with an 18 yr old that i have know for a while now? i dont just know that they had sex i know details! where how what. all the nasty details no one wants to know. i trusted not just my husband but her as well. what should i ... (62 words)

He wants us to be together but there appears to be no love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and in a relationship with a guy I love very much. We met because we live in the same halls of residence at University. He doesn't treat me like a girlfriend at all and I tell him how I feel all the time. He says he loves me but he makes little effort to ever see me a... (207 words)

I'm unhappy! Should I just accept it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I'm a 22 year old female, and life is beginning to get on top of me. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together, theres quite a large age gap he has his own company and works from home and I work in sales for a phone company. I dropped out o... (606 words)

How can I be more flirty with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how can i tease my boyfriend, not too sexually or for it to lead onto anything like sex but just enough to make him want me more. but i aint gona play with his thing so dnt say that, but the other day i stole his jumper and he came running after me and when i dropped it he came ... (110 words)

I fantasize about guys! Am I straight, bi or just really horny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im a bit confused right now with my sexuality .I have always liked girls and i still do .I love them but i like anal n when i realy horny i thikn of a girl givin it to me then somtimes a ithink of guys but id only let them bum be . i couldent kiss a guy or bum him . im only an ... (113 words)

It's been two years but I still miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I went out with a guy for a loooong time and we broke up three and a half years ago because it wasn't working out. this was mainly because we were quite young and at uni so living in different places. we stayed in touch and i guess i've never really got over him. he went t... (317 words)

I haven't had an orgasm in 10 months and he won't give me one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and he is the ONLY person to ever get me off. Orally of course, but I got off none the less. My issue is that he hasn't gone down on me for 10 monthes. And his reasons vary depending on when I ask him why. He's said he has too much... (290 words)

I moved to be with him and now he only cares about himself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and we live together. He is a great guy, don't get me wrong, very generous, loving, affectionate, and kind. There is however, and I've noticed this more lately, a very selfish side to him. He's an airline pilot too, which ... (427 words)

Help! Is he having an affair? Or just doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for almost 9 years, actually our anniversary is june 9, I can relate to almost all of the women on this site, I have been having major problems within my marriage for years now, besides fighting with each other (mostly over finances) I feel like I am in ... (1057 words)

We were in love but he won't talk to me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Its been an entire month till i touched his hand, kissed him mouth and looked into his eyes. I need help, its like I cant function without him. What do i do? Okay it all started; I was in maths bored as usuasl when (lets call him, Noah) moved next to me. He made life so bri... (567 words)

My ex is seeing a counsellor and I'm worried he will do something stupid. And it is all because of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. So i have a little problem. i recently broke up with my boyfriend we had been on and off for about a year, we have known each other since yr1. we broke up because we are both jealous people, i don like him talking to the chick that he cheated on me with, i dont like ... (203 words)

I'm scared of my boyfriends father! He has a closet full of guns!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey internet users, I was wondering if you guys had some words of wisdom for my problem...i have a wonderful, amazing boyfriend who loves me very much. He's successful in school and has a very nice attitude towards everyone. But, his dad is everything except nice. He spends the ... (108 words)

I'm worried she will take our future children with her and leave me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Im from the UK and have a girlfriend from australia. we have been dating for nearly 4 years, we met in the UK then went to Australia for 2 years. now im back home and she is in OZ but coming to Uk soon. I am thinking about the long term(kids, etc) and dont think i want to keep ... (114 words)

Can I increase my sex drive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a low sexual desire and know that it is causing problems with my relationship. I am mad at myself for not wanting sex, but I just have a really low desire to be intimate with my husband. It is causing stress in my life and I want to know if other women have... (82 words)

He is 6 years older and been with over 50 girls.. Is he done with sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship now for over a year. We live together, love each other, things are great. EXCEPT I have a WAY bigger sex drive than him. He's not affectionate at all! He doesn’t like holding hands, making out in public, or holding onto me…which has been fine, ... (181 words)

How to go about kissing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im the worst person to live ever, i have been going out with this guy for about a week, we havent actually held hands or hugged or anything yet but today he walked over to me and tried to kiss me. I completely freaked out and leant away, he said to me that he felt like a right ... (191 words)

Do I have to marry my Turkish boyfriend in order to live in Turkey?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I was just wanting some advise. I want to move to Turkey to be with my boyfriend and before you all get on your high horse im 28 live in thr uk and have been dating him for 4 yrs. and hes 27. So my Question is do you now if i can get a work permit? or do i have to be marri... (81 words)

People need to try harder! Or am I just being harsh?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a single 20 year old man, about to head to university in september and I'm having trouble. I have trouble maintaing relationships with people...I mean I have friends, I'm well liked and very sociable, but I can be very negative. People think I see the world through a ... (100 words)

Our first time, and I want him to feel good too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend are both virgins, and I happen to be very tight. we were talking about taking it hard but slow the first time so he doesn't hurt me. he said since we'll be going slow, he probably won't cum. how can I make him cum while going slow? I want him to feel really ... (59 words)

Ex said "never say never", should I give it a go to win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 June 2010 (M) - me and my ex have been split up for 5 months now. I want her back. She says we should concentrate on being friends and i agreed at the time because i dont want to lose her. I have tried fighting for her , but when i asked her the other day if there is anything i could of done ... (169 words)

Can I find a guy who doesn't flake after being so loving? My ex'es can't stand me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice to feel better and see hope for the future. I've only had two relationships and both lasted about 6-8 months each. Both of the guys were so nice and caring when we were dating - literally, they would have done anything for me, and I thought that I w... (243 words)

Do I chase her or let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a co-worker for a couple of weeks now. We travel for work, and most of these past two weeks we have been at hotels and hanging out/hooking up there. Tonight is our first "date", I guess, in the city we live. I had asked her to grab some drinks and she s... (215 words)

How can I make my leg muscles stronger and bigger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm 5' 4'', female, 16 yrs old and about 90-93 pounds...my legs are sooo small like skinny and it honestly does not go with the rest of my body, so i figured i'll work out get some muscle cuz that makes you "appear" bigger, what kinda of workouts can i do to help make my ... (73 words)

Why did I look in his phone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I looked in my boyfriends cell phone! Big mistake I saw a txt message from a no name number which said "U Up". He did not reply. I asked him who is was from and he told me that it was a female that he was dealing with when we took a break last summer. My problem is ... (124 words)

I'm almost ready to end my marriage, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 3 years ago i cought my wife cheating. i forgave her and took her back. however she continues to lie to me about everyday things. and the biggest thing of all is she wont open up and behonest and share her thoughts and feelings with me. and i feel if it dont change soon it ... (70 words)

How can I stop my underarms sweating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im 18 and have a problem that has been getting on my nerves, my armpits keep sweating, it happens within 10 minutes of getting out the bath. i wash well and everyday, im very hygienic. the sweat doesn't smell, it just ruins me from wearing nice tops because it drips... (150 words)

Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he told me) was a lifeless ... (690 words)

Was there anyway I could have found out what this guy was like before I slept with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Sorry this is so long, I'm 42, and the bloke that has torn my confidence to shreds is 44. I have been single for a year now, i decided to have a complete break off blokes, which was going great, But then i met one that made my tummy flip, he was equally as 'into... (794 words)

I cant let him go and the lonliness of being in another country is like hell for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 25 years old n my bf 23. its 2 years we are dating first 1.5 was like heaven i acted a bit childish and he was the one who did EVERYTHING to make me happy and after that time i realized his true love and its 6 months we have corrected our relation but every day he is ge... (256 words)

How can I make him stop hating me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted things similar things to this so i would really appreciate any advice and sorry for the length. My ex and i seperated about 2 mths ago and im due with our baby in 5 wks. Our relationship wasnt the best we argued a lot and broke up countless of times. I didnt ... (286 words)

My abandonment issues are ruining my new relastionship for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys and Girls. I have recently started dating a really lovely, nice, handsome thoughgtful man who is treating me like a princess,and going out of his way to make me feel wanted and special, and doing eveything he can to make me feel good. He is fab. The issue is this. I... (397 words)

He isn't giving me enough sexual attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend stays stressed out. We have sex maybe once or twice a week and I am always the one that brings the subject up. He works up to 12 hour days doing outdoor work so I understand that he is tired.He tells me he loves me all the time but he just doesn't seem interested ... (107 words)

Should I stay or should I go???? He says he loves me but is not in love with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age - if a man that you have been with for 3 years tells you he Loves you** but, not in Love with you. should i stay or should i go. a man takes his shower soap to work and then says he is washing up after working in a HOT department in the warehouse and he washes up after he is... (174 words)

My boyfriend is still talking to his ex... increasingly. Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupid. :) I've been a member for a while and never really posted, but reading all the good advice you've given I thought I'd give it a shot with a problem of mine. xD So, I have a boyfriend whom I love and who says he loves me. We've been together for a little ov... (431 words)

Is my boyfriend possessed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've been in a world of hysterics, and I'd really appreciate your help. Lately my boyfriend has been acting very strange. He and I first started going out a few months ago, and he was really nice to me and was very loving. Things have since changed; he doesn't seem like ... (128 words)

I'm back with him after he cheated but now I don't know if I love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have 11 yrs married and my husband cheated on me. I found out and we split for 2 yrs and we are together again but i am afraid that he will cheat again. My question is that i don't know if I still love him? ... (49 words)

Why am I so paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello cupids how does one stop themselves from being so obsessed and jealous about their new boyfriend. I've only been with him 3 months and I'm jealous of him even hugging a cat! I'm not joking either. I also get really jealous when he looks at another girl, and when w... (259 words)

Did he act like a jerk to make me break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (moderated, there was no punctuation etc.) hi, i'm in a relation with a sweet man he's 27 years old i'm 24 years. any how we've knowing each other almost 6 month ,i feel safe and secure with him all the time except that the last period of time or lets say the last 2 weeks he's ... (517 words)

I know this is my problem and not his, but I really don't know how to handle this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for four months now, and it's the best relationship I've ever been in. I'm 23 and he's 31, but we have connected in a way that I've never experienced before and he says, neither has he. I was with my ex for four years and in hindsight, it was a co... (776 words)

He calls me his girlfriend but I'm not ready for that yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my problem... I have a "boyfriend" that I met in the net. I haven't met him personally yet. We send sms and talk to each other in the net. He already told his parents and friends that he has a girlfriend. He says that his heart beats for me and that he'll love me fo... (125 words)

I eat because I miss him, and gained weight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - John got together with my best friend again, and I just can't stop crying. When me and John were together it was like we were meant to be, electricity went off whenever we were together. But now that he's gone, I feel empty. I've gained a lot of weight because I'm trying to eat ... (65 words)

Night Violence... Should I see a psychiatrist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm writing in about a mental problem so it might not be posted as it's really the wrong place to enter such a problem but I'll give it a shot. The night before last, 2 good friends of mine and myself were all saying in a tent together. We were drinking energy drinks an... (622 words)

He wants a break. Did I hurt his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been going out with a guy for the last six years we spend only weekends together and met up once a week because he is in the army. now for the last month he was off and out of the blue he said that he wanted a relationship break to think things over and that. ca... (175 words)

How am I supposed to help my depressed mum with all this going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi all, this is a question about my relationships within my family my parents have been breaking up on and off all my life, they don't normally stay apart for longer than a few months and it's fine me and my sister can handle it because my mum couldn't get a job if her life ... (248 words)

I gave me him my number but he hasn't called. Does he not like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So there was this shy guy at school who I had a class with. And throughout the school year we developed somewhat of a friendship (as in we sat/talked to each other everyday) but to me (and it still does...it felt not like a conventional friendship.) At any rate, my question is ... (217 words)

He treated me badly and I terminated my pregnancy, Will I trust him in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Am 32 and by boyfriend of one year is 29. I accidentally fell pregnant two months ago but had an abortion. Things were ok before i got pregnant and we had intentions of marrying. The moment i broke the news, he started avoiding me, and was getting irritated with pregnancy ... (227 words)

Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two weeks since I found out he had... (521 words)

Will I ever get over my first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you get over your first love? I want to hear people's experiences and stories of their break ups. I'm going through one myself. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and we broke up a month ago. My biggest concern is my future in dating. I don't plan on a serious ... (95 words)

Friends, FWB, or more... I'm being used but why don't I want to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy about a year ago through a mutual friend. He had been out of a relationship for about 3 years and hadn't dated since the break-up. He and this woman had been together for almost 5 years. He had "f**kbuddies" but never really tried for more because he said ... (519 words)

As time goes by our relationship seems to be getting worse, how do I rectify this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

2 June 2010 (M) - Hi all, I'm in a pretty wierd situation with a girl I've only recently admitted to liking. She's liked me for a long while tho, but I have never seen her as more than that before. We have always been good friends, but since we both told each other we had feelings for each... (279 words)

Which of the two do men remember more - their first love or their first sexual encounter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Which one of the two do men remember more? Their first love or the person they had sex for the first time? ... (24 words)

How can I sort my life out and stop feeling ashamed of my situation?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my life is completely upside down i have had a rough start and have only met men who seem to believe i am not good enough to do anything with my life, including my dad who has two wonderful sons from his second marrige who have had everything they need to be sucessfull and ... (244 words)

How can I be civil with my ex? He doesn't want to talk to me, and I know I'll have to see him again...

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, so things with my boyfriend ended about 3 weeks ago i think...but they ended badly and i know i'm going to have to see him again cause we always hang out at the same place. there are two ways this ended badly. firstly it ended badly for me cause i was the one who was ... (996 words)

How can I lose weight in time for this family event? And has anyone got any adivce about tanning?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1 In about exactly one month I'm going to a family event with my boyfriend and I'm going to meet so many of his family members for the first time.. I've met a few before and believe me, ... (238 words)

I sent my ex an email telling him exactly how I felt but he has not replied, what should I do now?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what to do. i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago and had a pretty hard time of it since. i broke up with him because he can't give me what i want right now, we have been dating for 6 months and needed him to make a commitment to us or call it off and he reall... (233 words)

Why is my girlfriend behaving so strange ever since we have started getting intimate?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] 8 months into the relationship and I am starting to give her oral. She wants me to turn the lights out(even if we are the only ones in the building), and she won't remove her underwear. I have... (134 words)

She wants to wait to have sex! How do I change her mind?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months now. I ask her if she wants to have sex and her reply is "I think I want to wait". How can I change her reply to a "Yes!"?... (44 words)

He's not sure if there is an "us"

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I really, really need some input here. I have been with my current BF for almost 8 yrs.He's 31, I'm 40. He has a job that takes him away from home most weeknights, and when he is home he's too tired to go out and do anything together, which I can appreciate. We have no sex l... (220 words)

Too much tongue?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been giving my girlfriend oral sex for a few days now. She likes it but she sais sometimes I hurt her, I was going as soft as possible too. She told me I went in too far with my toung. She is a virgin still. Ok so here is the questions: How can I avoid hurting her? and... (73 words)

Should I continue to pursue him or let him go accepting that his heart is elsewhere?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old women who has never had a real relationship. For the most part Ive been ok with that, content with the thought that I was never meant to date around. Of course there has been men in my past that I would have liked to explore a relationship with but because of ... (242 words)

Is he trying to get me pregnant?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to make this short. Three years ago I was pregnant and had an abortion behind my boyfriends back. At the time I was 19 and scared and I was pressured into it and I do regret it very much. I KNEW when I did it that he loved children, and that he was against abortion... (663 words)

Does it sometimes take time and a long process to get back together with an ex?

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2 June 2010 (F) - Does it sometimes take time and a long process to get back together with an ex? such as not jumping back in as soon as you begin speaking again etc? My ex and I were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated and it wasn't an... (429 words)

How can I make her see that I am worth her love?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - its been months, the last conversation with her was through text. the funny thing is the longest conversation we've had was also our last. It all began last summer when I saw her working at an apparel store,I didn't take much notice as my and my friend were just browsing. She ... (737 words)

She still chokes me to death with her conrolling nature

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that God takes care of us, if we take care of ourselves. Somehow I've made dumb relationship decisions. I realize again and again that I'm a terrible judge of personality and that I end up with girls who are very controlling and jealous. I am one of the most ... (357 words)

Fallen in love but never met

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend gave me this guys number and we started texting and talking.well now we have fallen in love but we have never met before. We talk and text every day. But i have to go through my mom just to talk to him and she is geting tiered of it. I love him so much and truley ... (126 words)

How do I go from the obsessed girl to the girl that likes him so much he will give me a chance?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone!! If a girl likes a guy and she told him how she felt towards him and he didnt feel the same, how can she show him that she really cares enough so he can think "dam she really likes me, i should give her a chance" instead of him thinking "dam she's obsessed, get ... (86 words)

Husband left me after 10 years

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I have been with my husband for 10 years. We separated once before and then reconciled. Now we are separated again just when things seemed to be getting good again. His dad passed away in February and he has wanted nothing to do with me since. He is extremely hostile toward ... (120 words)

Is my bad gut feeling something I should listen to?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so my girlfriend and i had a brake up but we are trying to make things work up she lied to me and said she was going over to a friends how but really she she went to a party a languire party at that and she had a crush on another guy but she wont tell me if she had sex or did ... (110 words)

He wants kids but I already have them and don't want more...

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend. I want us to be together, but as time goes on I have begun realizing more and more that I do not want any more children ( I have 2 from a previous relationship). He has expressed a desire to have one or two children of his own. I told him in the beginning ... (208 words)

Tattoo of his ex girlfriend?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dated a man for the past year and he still has a tattoo of his X on his chest. The boyfriend said that he will get it removed but keeps putting it off. How much longer should I put up with this? Is he still holding on to his old relationship? He says he hasn't gotten it removed ... (73 words)

Was it confusion or manipulation?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf broke up with about a month ago but the truth is that it was sooooo sudden. He one day told me he loved me with all his heart and he even looked into my eyes and told me I was the one and that's he's never leave me ever that we were meant to be. (He said this cause he ... (558 words)

Should I send him a friend request?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do right now... I like a guy who's 2 years older than me and has graduated from the school I'm currently going to. I just recently found him on Facebook (I know, kinda creepy) and I don't know if I should send him a message, friend request him, etc... (129 words)

Is she ready to have sex?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My name is Danny and im 16 years old. I'm very much ready for sex, beleive it or not, and I want to have sex with my girlfriend. WE hang out a lot and she talks about doing all of these freaky things but i don't know if she is really serious or not. I want for us to have s... (151 words)

Is this the kiss of death for starting a romantic relationship?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - "I consider you my dearest and most important friend" Is that the kiss of death for starting a romantic relationship? Right now, there's distance between us. But, she's said that she's been considering moving. Could what she said be "temporary" (for lack of a bette... (62 words)

Is it relatively normal to be doing this in a relationship?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend that I love a lot and would never heat on her. I've never even thought about it or anything like that. I feel guilty now if I watch porn, or masturbate thinking of someone else. Should I be feeling guilty or is it still relatively normal to be doing this? ... (122 words)

What would you do with your crush if you only had one day left to spend with him?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do with your crush if you only had one day left to spend with him? I won’t get to see him ever again. Just at my friends graduation party and I already told him I liked him. Is it wrong for me to still have feelings for him even though I know he will never talk ... (250 words)

How do I deal with loving two women?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a male married 17 years now. I have a great wife and child. Our relationship is great and there is nothing missing. However, I have always felt an attraction toward a friends wife fir 3 or 4 years now. We are both big flirts and have a good time. Recently she expressed ... (334 words)

How should I go about this situation?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this guy(who is my best friends best guy friend) for a couple months now but I have tried to keep it quiet since I don't want things to be ackward. But after my prom He and I made out after prom then fooled around one night over the weekend but the second/last ... (108 words)

Is he likely to cheat again based on his history?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married 10 years and 2 young children. A year ago I found my husband had been on internet dating sites and had been chatting to dozebs of other women, having dirty emails and met up for sex with some of the women he met, all behind my back for about 6 years. I had ... (175 words)

In love with best friend and don't know what to do!

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like i'm going to make the biggest mistake of my love life, and maybe my life in general. I love my best friend. She has been my bestfriend for 2 years now, she makes me smile, and cares about when i'm upset. She means the world to me, and ive never had the courage ... (324 words)

If he used a condom and didn't go all the way in, am I still a virgin?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i don't know if I'm not a virgin or not. Me and my boyfriend got into this situation where he puts a condom on and tried to put it in, it kinda hurts but the thing is that he didn't go all the way in or even half way in! So what am i? ... (55 words)

Falling for his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's the thing. I'm 20 years old and the guy I'm dating is 17. I've been dating him for almost 3 years and he has changed since we started dating. He's a more depressed and angry person now and he goes off on me more often. He gets mad easy. Thing is though, I recent... (210 words)

Is she not texting back because she's serious about school?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, iam 18 and i have been liking a girl for 5 years now, and somtimes when i text she replies sweetly and sometimes do not reply at all. but she is a very studious student so i think thats the reason she is not texting me back. but what if i call her and ask her out? how will ... (95 words)

Two potential relationships but I can't decide!

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short. 2 girls, ones the ex, one I just met about a week and a half ago. Me and my ex broke up after 7 mos together a week ago after going downhill for about a month (more took a break, but we’re still single) because I can only see her once a month sometimes. ... (459 words)

I'm not a lesbian so why am I upset that my lesbian friend now has a b/f?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl, and as far as I know I'm not a lesbian. But, I know this girl, who does happen to be a lesbian. When I first met her I thought she was really pretty, but as I got to know her better I started to actually be attracted to her...and we'd hold hands often or lay on my ... (186 words)

He cheated and I need help!

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm ria. U may have seen my husbands post on here. He has about three posts but only one of them were our story. The first one. About him goin to a party and cheating. Its been past events that's why he has the three week noticed thing further below the story. It wasn'... (236 words)

He thinks he's too young to settle down!

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. we never argue and we are great together. recently he has been thinking that hes too young to settle down because hes only 17 and says hes bored. he tells me he loves me, but he wants more excitement in our relationship. ... (87 words)

My first time, the whole school knows and I think I might be pregnant!

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just had sex two days ago with this guy i have been talking to , he didn't use a condom but he swore he pulled out. im so scared that i might be pregnant. My entire school knows. it was my first time so im really scared. please help me.... (52 words)

Am I misreading all these little signals?

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2 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I haven't know that long and we've recently began talking a lot. I suspect that he likes me and need some conformation. I've asked him questions about who he likes and everything points back to me. Like I'd ask what ethnicity she was and he'd say asian, ... (162 words)

How can I seduce someone into falling in love?

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2 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I make someone fall in love with me through seduction. Nothing negetive ... (15 words)