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writes:Is she into me?Hi there, thought id gather some people's (objective) opinions in a matter.This really cute girl at my work has only started work here for a few months now. When we first spoke she seemed to give off the vibe that either she was shy or slightly promiscuous.Since then Ive been talking to her at work and she is always eyeing me if i walk past, and if i look at her i end up giving her this little flirtatious smile, to which responds as well. A few days ago she went out to one of the office rooms and amounted to 'what are you doing. ill help you' and then we hung out there for a while and always seem to be teasing each other, and i dont know if its just me but theres definitely a sexual tension there. She also has a boyfriend, so i dont know if that changes things..What do you guys think? Ill mention this though before you respond, I dont really want to hear Opinion regarding how wrong/not wrong it is to be involved with a girl who isnt single. Thanks guys!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 You are very young and maybe you have not noticed yet that many "taken" girls flirt as much as the single ones,in fact they flirt more. Because it's "safer ".
They can enjoy the attention, and feel good about themselves, and spice up a boring day at work- without having to mean anything or take things any further. They can always bat their lids and say : Oh I was just being friendly. I was just joking.
Every woman likes to be liked. And likes to attract. The kind of mild flirtation you notice3d does not necessarily means anything in particular.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 From a girl's point of view, I'd say that she's flirting with you because you're attractive to her and you give her attention. It doesn't have to mean anything more than that.
But it could, we just don't know enough about her and her situation to guess what she's after. She could be insanely attracted to you and love the attention but she wouldn't do a thing because she's in a relationship.
Main question is, what are you after? If you're after a solid relationship, she's not the girl for you. She's already involved and that never ends well...mostly for you.
If you just want some fun, you'd have to make a move and find out if she's just flirting to pass the time at work or if she'd actually get with you.
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