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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After 6 months he's not in love with me, does he need more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there My BF and I are together for 6 months. I am 36 and he is 47.We met at online dating and since the begining we were very much attracted to eachother. Sex life is great and we get on really well. I have met his family and friends. We always have lunch or dinner with h... (355 words)

The friend ultimatum: she either leaves her abusive boyfriend or I cut her out of my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This might get kind of long, so sorry in advance, but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend is dating a guy that all of her friends absolutely HATE. I know that sounds harsh, but she is unhappy 95% of the time. He's controlling and will not let her hang out with her ... (354 words)

Ladies, please tell me what she's thinking, is there a chance for us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies only please. And no negetive remarks. There's this girl. We were in a good relationship. We laughed, had fun together and had some good times. Like a month and a half back she broke up with me because she said that she wasn't ready for a serious relationship right now, ... (276 words)

Any advice for a girl who has such a big crush on a guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Crushes, ugh! It happens even to the best of us, but... one question still remains does he/she like me back? Only a few ways to find out... asking for his/her phone number, making the first move, hanging out alot more, or, simply, asking. So... I am actually crushing on someo... (274 words)

Can you tell if you have a low or high sex drive if your still a virgen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Can you tell if you have a low or high sex drive if your still a virgen? I like to masterbait alot thoe i would do it every night if i had time lol does that mean any thing? Also is it true if you use a toy or finger yourself you wont be tight any more the first time you ... (70 words)

Why does he keep making plans and then breaking them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I would really appreciate some help, particularly from a man's perspective. I have been seeing a guy at work and we have been getting on well until recently. I have noticed that he has become distant - he used to be the one who would email me in the morning and alwa... (452 words)

He says that when we meet we wont have sex but would I do other stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Started talking to this guy online...he asked me for my number and since I'm shy it took me a while to give it to him. He calls daily and 80% of the conversation kissing me and holding my hand...would I kiss him and hold his hand if we were together. Than he says that whe... (157 words)

The condom broke -- could I be pregnant?!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im am 15 and well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday on june the 4th and well today is the 5th, and well the condom tore:/ and the condom tore and he didnt know soo he came in me and im scared i might be pregnant? i was on the last day of my period...could i be pregnant? ... (65 words)

Possibly pregnant for the first time, I need help...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a little bit of help. I am 17, and...well...there is a posabillity that I may be pregnant, and I am scared to death. I don't know what the signs are, and I dont know what to do to find out if I am pregnant are not. Me and my boyfriend had sex two weeks ago, and my period ... (99 words)

Can't cum from vaginal sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a strange sexual thing happening to me that I want advice on. I have been with a girl for 9 months now after a 20 year relationship (14 married). The sex is great...I think, but I have a problem reaching orgasm from vaginal sex. Oral or handjobs I cum like crazy, but ... (327 words)

Seeing her with other guys makes me feel sick inside! Is that because I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl for about 4 years, we grew to be best friends and it has always been like that but I now feel that things could have changed. About a year ago she went out with this guy who I really didnt like and when I saw them together I couldnt look because I f... (257 words)

Is it wrong to want my ex-wife, to get laid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age - I have a dilemma with my ex-wife. We are still friends but I am concerned that she losing her vitality for life. She was full of fun and at her best during our marriage soon after an she had an affair (which I am not supposed to know about). I arrived home a week early from an ... (226 words)

Do you think..I might be a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im pretty positive that im lesbian. ive always been the one to dress like a boy and as my mom puts it walk like a boy. i never really new what a gay person was until sixth grade. for some reason in sixth grade rumors were going around saying i was gay. every day someone would ... (163 words)

Do I have any chances of getting back with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me less than a week ago. And the worst part is that in 10 days I have my final exams and it's affecting me greatly, but I'll explain why we broke up. We argued a lot, over the stupidest things. It was mainly his fault for being i... (240 words)

We broke up! What is a good way to win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, so im 14 and i really like this girl and we were dating for a while but then she broke up with me with out telling me why. so i just want to ask without all the crying begging and whining. what is the easiest way to win her back?... (51 words)

Why is she keeping me away from her friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and have a strong, loving relationship. We live in a small community (both work within the school corporation), so alot of people in the community know we're dating. Yet, she refuses to bring me around her close ... (116 words)

Is this cheating or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i have a girlfriend and shes amazing i love her, but this other girl kinda likes me and i like her back but thats not the point, with this girl i can talk freely because a few weeks back something happened and it stuck its funny but i think now its getting serious, i dont mean ... (104 words)

If he liked me, wouldn't he make more of an effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Recently I have been getting close to a good friend of mine. We've been friends for about a year now, and recently it's developed into something more. We have all the same friends and see each other at the same night clubs every week. We kiss and cuddle, he tells me how ... (254 words)

How do I feel more secure in the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Odd one this, involving more me than my relationship but there you go.... Okay so basically I've been with my girlfriend for 5months now, everything is so, so great, chat for hours, always have a laugh and what not: we're very serious. I'm always so happy with her, i've ... (339 words)

Why do most men like big boobs so much?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

5 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis - by the way, I don't prefer a... (489 words)

Blowjobs don't work! How can I increase sensitivity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this problem with being able to cum from getting a blowjob - I just cant! (cum, that is). For some reason I hardly feel her mouth when it's on me - handjobs on the other hand (no pun intended) are great. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything I can d... (91 words)

What is the fastest way to get toned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the fastest way to get toned? I have 2 weeks to get my entire body toned and I was just wondering what are the best exercises to do to target everywhere on the body, how long/many times should I do them? And should I run? Thank you!... (49 words)

Will someone interpret the Bebo dialogue I had with this boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there's this guy, well we would flirt a lot, then again he flirts with a lot of girls. So he texted me for the first time the other day, this is kind of how it went: W= him B=me W: hey B:hey W:how's your summer been? B: fun so far what about you? W: lame because... (279 words)

How do I tell him the child isn't his?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am expecting a baby. now me and boyfriend have been together a month. it IS NOT his child. i am scared about telling him. how do i tell him ?? thanks :)... (34 words)

Is her reaction to anal sex normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Just curious. I tried anal sex with my girlfriend but she said it hurt and couldn't stop shaking from it. She had uncontrollable shivering. Is this normal?... (27 words)

How happy is "happy" enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for almost six years. We live together and when we are not at work we spend all our time together. I love being with him and I know that we will have a long, happy life together. But over the last few years, I have been wanting to be single again. He ... (163 words)

Should I leave my cannabis smoking boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has smoked cannabis for some time now, and although he has not changed his habits, his attitude towards it has got much worse. He told me only a few months ago that if I asked him to stop he would stop, but recently I have got more concerned about his use of it and ... (162 words)

Boyfriend or Bestfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having this issue with my bestfriend right now. we've been Bffls for about 7 years now, but I've recently been dating this guy for about 2 1/2 months. I think he may be the one, and I've told her so. She thinks I'm being stupid. I've never really been successful in the ... (337 words)

Wondering if I could get a second opinion?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and thought it best not to say anyt... (184 words)

Does this sound like a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. I'll try to keep this as concise as possible. I was working on a photography project in Mexico when I met my girlfriend. I met her dancing - it was very romantic and intense. The relationship started almost immediately. I said "I think I love you" and she rep... (605 words)

Why is she like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just graduated college and I live with my brother. He's 5 years older than me. He's been dating this girl for 6 months. I would categorize her as obessive. She is always over, she is the most annoying person I have ever met. Her very being makes me cringe. My brother knows ... (262 words)

Why is she so negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I split from a girl over two years ago I found out she was seeing someone else where we worked. A year ago I got promotion with the same business, I could of stayed at the same location, but my choice was to leave. When I left I told her I loved her but it was best I left and ... (302 words)

My heart is bleeding... he wants to be with someone else...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my heart is broken . i love this man. we have a son . he has two girls with this trampy slutty drug usin woman and i dont know why he chooses her over someone like me, im totaley the oppisit of her but she may be dieing from a tumor we found out yesterday that she has 2 ... (168 words)

Should some part of me actually believe my ex???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a almost 4 years. We had a year of no contact after the break up. We have been talking for almost a year. He isn't the type to just jump back into a relationship. To him, I don't think its a switch you turn on and off so fast. He also told me he ... (336 words)

Feelings for my boss...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age - My boss is helping me to leave my job with dignity as it has not been working out witht he staff I manage. I personally would like the area really shaken up. One member of staff has made my working environment very unpleasant and has been issuing complaints about me despite ... (229 words)

Boyfriend fears...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 15 years old, and I am a girl. I am a virgin and I'm afraid of having sex, a little because I'm self concious, but more because I am afraid of the pain! I don't want to be scared of it, and I don't want to be old and a virgin. I knw quite a few people who have had ... (231 words)

Help!!! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really embarrassing and I don't really want to talk about it but I know I have a problem, it isn't normal. There is a guy I really like a lot, I think I love him, but there is a considerable age difference and I know it will never happen, but I do value his friendsh... (413 words)

Am I just afraid... and is my fear justified?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, I really need some independent advice. I broke up with my only long-term boyfriend two years ago. Since then, we had a lot of back together - breaking up (with me doing the breaking), then a year ago I went to travel the world. While I was away I found out that he h... (334 words)

Depressed in case I lose my friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as if all my friends are moving on and getting there own lives. I'm 19 and still at college and all my friends have jobs. they all have found a boyfriend and are settled down. im single and feel im losing everything, i feel depressed about not having a boyfriend but dont ... (72 words)

Do I take this job or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like some advice. I'm wondering if i should go for this interview for receptionist job at a backpacker hostel in London, and take the job if they offer it to me? I'll write the pros and the cons down here, and that might help. Pros - I am interested in working in a hos... (658 words)

If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me...? I was driving yesterday. and noticed a car sort of behind me and then noticed it was my ex with his new gf in the car. He was about to pass me until and get in the turning lane i guess he noticed it was m... (339 words)

My last attempt for this love.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a long post but my question is how do you start trusting a compulsive liar? My ex and I were together for a year and a half and 9 months of that she was pregnant with my son. I was supporting all of us so we didn't have a lot of time and money to go out and do things ... (464 words)

Cant get over my ex girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i have just broken with my gf for nearly one year . the reason was she didint love me , didint feel we connected like before. i still love her alot but she dosent she told me to get over it . well in a msg she wrote me was ''listen im sorry for what ive done and the pai... (421 words)

Why is my family so cold to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dearest Cupid and Everyone here, I don't exactly know what i need here. All i know is, im looking for a chance that somebody here can tell me why life is always like this. I have a lovely and understanding children, not living together with me cos im away abroad together ... (406 words)

I just broke up with my girlfriend. I'm sad... ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year and 6 months and i am having mixed feelings of regret, sympathy, anger, etc. The reason was because she is really insecure and jealous and possessive for no reason towards me. she is so irrational. We are pretty good together, but ... (176 words)

Infatuation gone crazy....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm massively infatuated with a guy I recently met. Oh yes let me mention that I'm in a relationship with a guy I have been with for 4 years, which isn't going great at the moment. This guy however was just gorgeous, the exchange student at my college and....German. So inevi... (160 words)

Told teacher I had a crush on him, what will administration do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay male, so recently I told my MALE teacher that I had a crush on him. I made sure to tell him that i did not intend to take in any further since first of all, he is straight and married (with a daughter). and obviously it is illegal. The reason I actually told him was ... (234 words)

Why is she hosting a party if shes asking us to bring all the food?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Morning all! I don't have a love question but I'm just intrigued to get your opinions on my question. A colleague of mine emailed us all on thursday inviting us to a barbeque at her dads house today. In the email she asked if we can bring food and booze- which is fine,... (188 words)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

This question has 92 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. She then lost her job in ... (308 words)

I can't understand why I am still single!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just cant understand how im still single, I really cant! Im a nice looking girl.slim ive got blonde hair. Ive got a really nice nature, Ive got a 5 yr old daughter, I dont smoke, do drugs. Go out getting smashed having one night stands. Ive never had one only long term ... (268 words)

Do girls even like masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, im going into my freshman year, and my friends and i are such pervs ( but im ok with it ), i swear every day at school all we talk about is masturbating. But when i asked my girlfriend about it she said she doesnt because she doesnt like to. She said " its nasty for a ... (92 words)

I graduated, he's still in high school, and I feel like I'm missing out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. I'm 18 and just graduated high school. He is 17 and now a senior in high school. I love him dearly with all my heart but i feel like i'm missing out on something like theres something else out there. Theres been a few ... (174 words)

Felt completely excluded among my b/f's colleagues; they made me feel like a loser

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! This is a social-relationship question, and I appreciate all comments and suggestions :) Last night I joined my boyfriend and a few of his work colleagues at a bar in the city for "Friday night drinks". I wish I stayed at home! It's been a while since I've... (435 words)

I want her badly, but I'm afraid of being turned down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl at work i would really love to date. I accually see her as someone i could marry but i am scared to ask her out. I have walked her home a couple of times and jokingly mentioned hanging out maybe going to the movies or something but she told me then that she... (172 words)

His mother works hard to keep us apart; how do I resolve her issues with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love my ex and its clear he still shares the same feelings for me. Here's just a brief thing of what happened. Recently my boyfriend of over a year ended our relationship due to the influences of his mum and friend. His mum thought we were getting too serious for our ... (536 words)

My husband thinks I cheat; why don't I just do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I´ve been married for nine years but together for 16. Since the beginning of our marriage, and because of our personalities we´ve fought often but have remained together (this mostly because before we got married I cheated on him once, and he found out until after we married)... (202 words)

I want him back, am I just a silly little girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - The father of my child and I were together for three and a half years. He moved to the city I'm in to be with me when we first got together (we didn't meet on the internet but he did live in another state) because I wasn't financially ready to move to be with him. We lived ... (398 words)

Why did we both have the same dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - o me and my boyfriend had the same exact dream, we both dreamed that he cheated on me.. why did we both have the same dream about him cheating on me? this isn't the first time ive had a dream about him cheating on me. its the third. ive been with him for 6 months and we had a ... (124 words)

My g/f wants to go to a party hosted by her horndog ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I let my girlfriend go to her ex-boyfriend's graduation/house party? First of all, let me start by saying I don't have a problem at all with my girlfriend going to parties or having guy friends. But I'm not so sure i can feel the same about her ex-boyfriend.. I... (497 words)

Not feeling it with my husband any more; being with my lover makes me feel better

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age - I have been having an affair with a married man .. Im married also. I have been married for 30 years and just dont feel it anymore... This man is 10 years younger then me and says there is no chemistry with him and his wife. We both agree that we have a lot to lose but need ... (143 words)

Is this really the practice in Ndebele culture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a ndebele.In my culture,if ur causin(women)past away while she was married after a year the elders choose another girl in the family 2 be the mans wife.Im afraid,cause i think they will choose me.I can see all the signs.I want u guys 2 advice me and let me know if this ... (76 words)

Sore throat, swollen, glands, fever etc after HIV scare - cause for concern??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Unexpectedly and very regretfully I briefly had unprotected anal sex with another guy (I'm gay). I went straight to the doctor who thought the risk was exceptionally low on account of the person, the time, just the once and because HIV and other STIs are low in Western ... (191 words)

I betrayed a confidence; how do I bring it up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've got a very good friend that happens to be a lot younger than me. He's in his twentys and I am in my in my fortys. I don't consider him a kid but as as someone on my own level. I am acquainted with his mother who is actually closer to my age. Even though I consider ... (226 words)

Developed feelings for my FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had more intimate fellings for my friend with benefits for a few months now and am unsure if I should let him know, when we began nearly a year ago we where both attached to someone else and now we are not, confussed about what to do mainly because I had imposed certain ... (81 words)

I'm married but am attracted to my co-worker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married and have been with my husband for nearly 7 years. I love him dearly and we have a great relationship. He really is my best friend and I can't imagine not having him in my life. However, I have found myself crushing on this guy at work. It's not even like work ... (142 words)

Do I ask him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I've been dating this guy for a few weeks but I'm not sure if he really like me like he says he does or if he is just interested in sex. He takes me out to dinner and movies. He always pays. But every time we get together it always leads to sex. I'm not complain... (121 words)

HELP! I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. I'm 13-years-old, and really like these two guys. the first one I have been dating since Feburary of this year. The second is a guy I met last month, and he is amazing! 1st guy: I really like him, and the butterflies have gone away. He doesn't show that much intrest in ... (174 words)

How can I seduce my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I kinda want to know how can you make a guy want you back cause I want my ex back I just rather not talk to him right now, but better said he has me locked out of his life. Our break up was a random one, he one day said he just didn't love me anymore and after that we never ... (98 words)

I really like him, but sometimes I need my space

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now. It's been a kind-of rocky 5 months, but we've still been pretty happy. Just sometimes, I go through these phases, where I just need space and time away from him, but I put his happiness before mine. It makes me feel bad, then I ... (253 words)

Says he wants me back but won't leave her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - {Moderator note: edited for punctuation and such} Me and my husband seperated in January of this year cause of somehthing i supposly done but havent. But he was telling me he wanted to get back together that he missed me and our kids. So well i found out from his facebook... (194 words)

What is it with men and pride????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I of two years - he lived with me for 1.5 years... We were perfect for each other.. We had our share of ups and downs but seriously we were the couple that everyone envied.. both attractive and totally lovey dovey smitten with each other. Problem #1: He's ... (653 words)

Is this girl worth pursuing at this point?

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a follow-up to my last question but since that was anonymous, that's kind of pointless to say but here it goes... When I was junior last year, there was a freshmen girl in my journalism class that I initially had no real interest in even though she seemed to keep t... (310 words)

How can you seduce a guy?

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5 June 2010 (F)

Will I ever love him again?

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5 June 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My husband had an affair...3 years ago..he is trying everything to make it up to me.... I just can't find the passion anymore, will I ever love this man again..?? He keeps telling me I will love him the same way just needs some time....Im lost.. :(... (49 words)

Help! I freak out when I feel good!

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5 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This post has turned out to be really long, I’m sorry, I just started writing and didn’t realise. I’m a 25 year old girl who has a mental block during sex/fooling around. I’m starting to think I’m not normal. I have the loveliest boyfriend. I should be enjoying being i... (727 words)

Is getting turned on by your reflection normal?

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick one: When I look at my body in the mirror (mainly torso) I sometimes get slighly turned on... (I have recently (read: last 6 months) been working out, so my physique is pretty good), but how common is that, I'm curious.... (44 words)

He says nothing's going on but won't let me read his emails!

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5 June 2010 (F)

age - should I be concerned if my boyfriend of 12 years will not let me see his emails? I just recently found out he was telephoning and emailing a female coworker and as he admitted became "too close to her". He insist nothing is going on, but when I ask him to log onto his email ... (74 words)

Help! Who do I choose?

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5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well.. i have a friend who is very important to me, and we are very very best friends, and we understand each other, make each other laugh and etc.. i have known him for 2 years, and the thing is few years back his girlfriend died in his arms. he loved her alot more than ... (187 words)

I think my son is having an affair

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5 June 2010 (M)

age - My son is 22 yrs old his best friend since high school has been a girl called Laura, everyone always said they would be the cutest couple if the both of them weren't too shy to make a move. We knew he always had a crush on her but they just remained friends. 2 years ago she ... (343 words)

A misunderstanding about which colleague I fancied has created an awkward situation

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5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well i have this BIG problem Its really complicated and hard to explain but its a tricky love triangle basically. Well i'll start from the beginning... Me and my Best friend work at the same place, and theres this guy at work i REALLY like and most p... (655 words)

How can I give love bites without actually hurting my partner?

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my partner asked me to give them a love bite as they gave me 3... But i told them not yet because im scared il hurt them how to i make sure i dont hurt them?... (36 words)

I don't know how to act normal in a relationship

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - three months ago I was really good friends with this girl and I decided to ask her out so I did and she said yes. This was my first girlfriend so I tried to be as normal as possible but I think by trying to act normal I changed. So two months after she breaks up with me. Then... (134 words)

18 and in love with my boss

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5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Please disregard my age and answer my question by the knowledge of a woman. I'm 18 and I have feelings for my boss. Not a crush, I've had crushes and I didn't want those to go anywhere. I literally mean I have deep feelings for him. When he talks I listen to every word he ... (124 words)

Single... or settle???

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5 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and me n my fiancee, who is 25, have been together for a year and a half and we just had a baby, we have been talking about marriage for over a year now and i am not sure if we should. i am doubting if he is the one for me. I'm not sure if i am truly in love ... (208 words)

Advice please! How can I get my ex off my back???

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can i get my ex off my back without hurting her too badly? We were together 7 months and i broke it off about a week and a half ago. Mostly she was becoming way too obsessive (one of the last emotional texts she sent me before we broke up was if i really want to break... (331 words)

Help! How do you let go of someone you love?

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't let go of her. For some reason, against all logic and against everything I've tried to do for myself, to get my life in order, I can't let go of her. We were together for eight and half years and in the course of 24 hours everything in my life was shattered. She d... (228 words)

Hurt, confused and drained... what should I do?

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5 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a 14 yr relationship. This has my first in every aspect. I was 18 and he was 19. During the 14 yr relationship he has lied and cheated several times. Each woman that he has been with has known about our relationship and still decided to be involved with him. ... (903 words)

How to be the one to be chased and not to become the chaser

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5 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In relationships I'm always the one to make the moves and to get hooked by the girl, but I've met a girl now, and we get on and that, but I don't want to come across easy to get, I don't want to be the person to text her, and that. She called me before first, and I want it to ... (112 words)