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female
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41-50,
*uriousLady
writes:I have something that is bothering me. I have been seperated from my husband for about a year. I have recently had sex with someone whom I used to be partners with and we have a long history. The sex is fantastic and I enjoy it completely. I do get wet and I do want more from this man. I honestly can not tell you the last time I had an orgasm.My question is he keeps returning, he however says that since he isnt pleasing me that he is not going to let himself feel the same pleasure. What could be causing this? And I know that men can not just keep holding on and enjoying something they are not reaping the benefit from right..
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Wow that's pretty selfless of him! Try having him add in a finger or do oral on you. If that doesn't help, try adding in a small vibe. That should do the trick.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (15 June 2010):
 I've read that something like 85% of all sexually active women don't or can't achieve orgasm through penetration alone. The "cause" is most likely due to lack of extra, external stimulation. Just hopping on and doing the wild mambo usually isn't enough. Perhaps encourage him to touch you. Some men are truly gifted in the art of strategic touch. Maybe your guy just needs to know you need it!
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