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*wnthimback
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a 2 year old son and have been living together for 2 1/2 years. For awhile it felt like we weren't in love. I moved out this past weekend and now I'm missing him like crazy. I can't stand being away from him and I think he doesn't have feelings for me. He says he still loves me but he needs time to clear his head. He was never the emotional guy. I turned to another man (emotionally) who was there for me. My boyfriend found out about this and is very hurt and upset. He is coming over tonight to see our son and to talk. Please help!! I know I messed up, but I love him and I want my family back together!
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (26 June 2010):
Dont tell him how much you love him & that things will be different bcuz once they've lost the feelings hearing that only makes them feel uncomfortable. Instead try to get back into his life slowly but steady, you guys have a baby, therefore you must spend time together so use that time to your advantage, do special things for him idk some lunch & ask him if he wants to join you , SHOW him you've changed & that things will be different dont tell him, no matter what you say he wont listen.
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reader, iwnthimback +, writes (24 June 2010):
iwnthimback is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt didn't go so well..He still doesn't want me back. I have tried for 2 weeks now. I have done everything I can think of. I have tried talking to him, explaining how much I love him and how things would be different. He doesn't trust me. He wants no parts of a relationship. He has told his friends he is happier alone and that he doesn't think it will ever work out with us 2..I dont know what to do now!!
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reader, Waiting for an angel +, writes (19 June 2010):
If you love him, fight for your love. When you share such a special bond as a baby, i think and i hope this is true that love never dies. I love my ex as well but he doesnt love me anymore but hopefully when our daughters born he'll find his feelings again. Show him you love him, and if there were problems in your relationship before try to change those bad habits he didnt like try to change. If you love him dont go looking for another man , otherwise he'll really lose interest in you. Let me know if you need to talk k good luck:)
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