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writes:I am 17 and a lesbian...I was tlking to my gf and I was joking about how she's always actn like she's flirting with her cousin and she told me that like 3 of her cousins said if she wasn't related to them shed fuk em and she was like WTF....and I'm frm Europe and kissing ur family on the lips is quite common...but on of my cousins (who's a girl) is like one of my bestfriends and she's my age too....while talking to my gf I wondered if she was attracted to me I asked and she admitted yes and now I think that I am to her....my gf doesn't seem to be bothered by it but I'd never cheat on her with anyone never the less my own cousin but now it's like since I've recognized my feelings I'm even more attracted to her.. What should I do.? Am I wrong for feeling this way.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks :) y'all for not judging
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 I'm glad you understand this and I still think that this is fine. It happens to alot of people, even I have thought that my some of my cousins are attractive. It's even more common if you don't see them all too often because they feel like just a new person.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 I was in love with one of my cousins for ages. He's still my favourite cousin but I don't think of him that way anymore I just love him as a cousin. It will pass for you too.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 apparently this is quite common...because these types of 'being attracted to a cousin' questions come up all the time here. My advice to you is to leave it alone and let these feelings pass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know &' I will I can't see myself actually being involved sexually with her...........it's just an attraction we've kissed plenty of times on the lips but nothing sexual and nothing more.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (15 June 2010):
You can't help who you are attracted to, no one can judge anyone for that. This is something I reccomend not pursuing because she is family and the whole family would be involved if anyone ever found out. I would leave it as a fantasy and stay with your gf or move on to some who can fill that desire that you get from your cousin.
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