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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If he likes me, why's he so quiet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my question is pretty simple. I have a friend and all my friends from the way hes behaved are sure he likes me. The thing is he doesnt speak to me much, sometimes he will and others he wont so they cant tell whether hes generally shy or not. But he is rather quiet wit... (157 words)

Why don't I love him? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is hot,cute and honest and loves me like hell. And here is the turning point. I dont love him. Why why why wont any one love some one like that? And thats why i broke up. But he still loves me and i still think why dont i love him? I want to love him but i just cant. ... (63 words)

Help! I feel uneasy when I'm out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and have an 18 month old son with my boyfriend. I had changed my whole life for him. when i was going to college i invited him to visit me but never did he come so we descided that i was going to transfer my credits to a college in nyc. A couple months later i ... (146 words)

I'm shy! How do I flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i need abit of advice. How do i act more interested and flirty with my friend? Its strange but people think he likes me but is to shy. hye fines with any other girl or person he will join i9n talk to them but me...nothing. People have told me to act mroe interested and jsut ... (153 words)

I freaked out my friends and now I have to see them again. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys ok so heres my problem - sorry its a complicated one . so like i hadnt had a very happy life . at school i was severly bullied then at my first college i left due to jealousy in drama . so i spent about six months in deep depression and then i applied to a... (413 words)

How can I get my husband to stop being so emotional about money and our finances??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

- My husband gets very emotional when it comes to finances. He's not very good with handling money - he doesn't spend excessively, he just doesn't focus on how much he has and doesn't make plans or schedules. He's been this way for as long as I can remember - he just doesn't ... (408 words)

I don't get why and when I squirt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I squirted before during sex but I didn't know I was it just happened but now when I have sex I dont why do you think so? ... (27 words)

What's gotten into him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* I met this guy last year, who I got really close to and in a way, fell head over heals over. He isn't the nicest guy you could meet, he's the cocky, douche, player, immature guy who happens to be really hot! (haha) So during spring break, we hung out and ... (195 words)

A major decision to make...move on or get married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a major crisis. I am 31 yrs old about to be 32. I have always had trouble making decisions in my life and I have struggled with this and know I have to work on it. My crisis now is regarding my relationship. In a nutshell, I have been dating my bf for about 3 years. ... (734 words)

He sitll has her number. What does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when your boyfriend of 1year and 4 momths still has his ex girlfriends number in his phoe,but say he dont call them... (26 words)

I love two guys who should I pick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's Original Title* wll i have been dating my best friend for 4 months now and i can say that i love him so but i have been liking this guy for two years and he beraly let out his true feelings for me i have been hanging out with him often and we share a really close bond we ... (95 words)

Strange relaionship with my ex-teacher...how to explain her behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's Original Title* Well...my story is quite long but... I am one of the happier people who once fell in love with their teacher. I am a woman, my ex-teacher is a woman too, 30 years older, so in fact she should be more mature than me. And yes, she really is but... In o... (316 words)

She's a virgin. Will she get used to foreplay over time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay I have a few questions, I dated a girl not to long back that I lost my virginity to, she was a whore so I never really liked sleeping with her, but because of that fast, I got really good at using my fingers on her and bringing her to a gushing orgasm within minutes, so my ... (496 words)

Does he love me or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's Original Title* Its just coming up on 3 months of us kicking it. The last month has been totally different. First let me say he got laid off about a month ago and his aunt just before he found out about his job. Now we do not talk that much, he texts way more, avoid... (400 words)

My girl likes them more than she likes me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I believe a topic like this was opened except my girlfriend has been "best" friends with these 2 guys her "whole" life...We've been dating for several months now, but I really feel like a second-class person whenever they talk on facebook about good 'ol times and that they love ... (121 words)

Going commando?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, 25 y.o. straight male here... A strange question really. Hope you can help! Over the years I have found that going commando (wearing no underwear) in jeans is a real turn-on, for both myself and in women. I love the thought that that sexy woman I see dancing in a clu... (167 words)

Help! I'm self-conscious of my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - every time im alone with my boyfriend he tries to take off my clothes, when he does i start to feel selfconscious about my chest and the area between my legs. he has seen my chest before but i cant fight the urge to cover myself. i dont want to be selfconscious because he tells ... (78 words)

Should I let this guy come between me and my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a close relationship with two guys I have known since middle school. We have been best buds thru high school and now in college. I'd say our relationship is best described as comfortable and easy. I am not dating either guy, but we have all been intimate on a regular ... (274 words)

My depression and stress is keeping me from conceiving.. how can I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I m looking for tips about how to conceive while coping with stress and depression and also looking for ways to overcome the stress and depression... (26 words)

Is it normal to become wet when aroused?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm a virgin. I've been with my boyfriend just over 8 months. Whenever I'm with my boyfriend and we are making out or whatever you like to call it I feel myself getting really wet. So when he starts to touch me (outside of clothes) I feel really awkward because I'm ... (197 words)

Can I forgive and Forget

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Family, I have a situation that I really need some comforting words and advice on. I will try and be concise. Please be patient with me. I dated a guy in 2008, we had a very bad ending which resulted in him seeking revenge by assisting my work colleagues and HR, driv... (789 words)

He lied about where he was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have know my boyfriend since we were 13 years old. I have had a very close friendship with him on and off. We are now 23 and have been dating for 4 months steady. we had dated for 7 months last year and broke up because we weren't ready to be as commited. We have now ... (296 words)

Should I show my exboyfriend my support through his difficult times even though he broke up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need your advice. I am in my forties and have been dating this wonderful man for 10 mths. He recently broke up with me because he is financially broke and he says he feels less of a "man" since I have been paying for everything. He says he's need to get his life in order ... (182 words)

Is talking with an old ex to see if there is any feelings left considered cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Did he cheat on me with his ex and actually admit it too? Boyfriend and me have been arguing a lot lately. We stopped talking, during our week break, we were still together but just not talking. He told me in his anger for me, he went to talk to his ex. The whole reason we ... (152 words)

Online levitra?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am going through some stressful times right now, and quite frankly, it is affecting my libido and my ability to maintain an erection or just have strong erections. I've gone to the Dr, and he concluded it was phychologically-based. He prescribed some Levitra, and that works ... (128 words)

Is my ex a sociopath?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - to begin with, please ignore my age, i messed it up when i signup online. i am really 21. i dated a guy for 2 years and im 6 months pregnant by him. he left me when i told him. 1. he never regrets anything or feels guilty about the bad stuff he does. 2. during our ... (276 words)

Should I confront her or trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi to anyone out there. Hopefully you can help me with some advice. I just registed to use this site as an outlet for some of my thoughts and pains. I need some advice as to whether or not my gf may be cheating on me, and how to discuss the subject with her and what to ... (761 words)

To text or not to text him - that is the question.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i know this guy and sometimes we flirt over text. about three weeks ago i texted him (he only replies when i ask him a question such as: are you going anywhere cool this summer?) he doesn't really ever reply when i just say "hey". so anyway three weeks ago we were text... (195 words)

Enough with the "Mr. Spock"! I want some Spark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This may not sound like something to complain about but it seems as though my boyfriend is too logical or practical or something. Its taking away the romance from our relationship. He doesn't think the romance part is very important and ive told him how i think it is impo... (118 words)

Amnesia stole four years of my life and what I am learning of my boyfriend now, is not promising.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right this is quite complicated and long so please bear with me i need advice. In April of this year i ended up in hospital having had a seizure, it turned out i had a small blood clot on my brain. the main side effect was that i got retro grade amnesia, meaning i lost f... (391 words)

Should I trust the boy who's been hiding his very dark history from me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I hooked up with a boy two years younger than me...(I am fifteen.) He was really sweet and passionate, but I just found out about his more-than-unusual past. My mum approached me about it, and let me know that he'd spent quite a bit of time in juvi for threatening to ... (157 words)

Am I in a dangerous relationship or am I over-reacting?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im starting to worry about my boyfriends behavior and it he has the potential to become abusive in the future with our relationship. we have been dating for about 3 months. he is almost twenty and im sixteen. he always wants to be with me. we hang out basically everyday. he is ... (600 words)

I do not want to play second fiddle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - i am new here, i am going through a very complicated situation and i need advice. I know this seems so wrong but i really need constructive comments. We met four years ago and we always get along very well but as we do not live in the same country we never got really... (354 words)

I think I'm a clone now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here's the problem, my friend wont stop copying me, and the thing is i dont even think she knows shes doing it! throughout the time weve been especially close she's copied my style, my music, things i say and do. She gets the credit for things i do, you know like, say i... (191 words)

I tried to give him my virginity, but couldn't. Now he won't text me anymore!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i am chelsea... well i went to my friends house and i met her cousin jake. we had been talking for the past month on myspace but we really hadnt met. he seemed very sweet and he used to txt me everyday first. well we talked about the day i was gonna go over to his house ... (190 words)

My ex is blackmailing me with threats to my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , Iam from India and recently got married it was an arranged marraige , but before marraige i had a boy friend but later part i felt that he is getting things done out of blackmiling me , (he had some photos where we were togather ) and i wanted to break up in that relat... (397 words)

No french-kissing and no foreplay makes this woman unfulfilled.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I, have been dating for 6 months. We have known each other for over 10 years but never dated. We are intimate and spend almost every night together. However, he doesn't really likes "french kissing". I have suggested and discussed this issue and how important ... (100 words)

If you were kissed by a man in the 'just friends' category... you would...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Girls, how would you react if your best male friend kissed you? As in we are both 26 and she does know I like her but on this day we were just driving and I suddenly pulled the car over, and she said "what are you doing", I said "this" and leaned over and kissed her on the lips ... (275 words)

Why does he say I am difficult and how can I stop being attracted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this guy i think i like not sure if its my mind playing tricks on me but i have liked him for the whole of 2009. i dont want be with him becuz of his past and he knows this. but the physical attraction is incredibly strong between us. I took this guy to my high... (859 words)

My boyfriend is never in 'the mood' for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years doesn't want to have sex with me! When I say sex I mean intercourse and giving me oral. I go down on him regularly and we both enjoy that, but that's where our sex life seems to linger. When I try to initiate sex one of three things happen, one:... (206 words)

How can I help support my boyfriend and rebuild his confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so my boyfriend(23) and I(20) have been together for a while and love each other very much. We have been having sexual intercourse but have been having issues..he can't seem to keep his erection. His doctor has said that it may be a reaction to his medication(which he ... (164 words)

Is it scarier to be a Grieving Widow, or to know one?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so confused by the behavior of certain men. My husband killed himself about 4 months ago and I have been trying to deal with this loss and helping to heal myself and my two young boys. What I do not understand is the way that certain men have reacted to me since. I thou... (262 words)

DearCupid has helped me with this online lover before and I need your help again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy on the Internet who lives in Sydney and am feeling unsure about his latest antics and am wondering whether things may be changing for the better or whether he is still out to exploit me for his own gain. I'm aware that I need to protect my emotional health and ... (739 words)

Pictures of my girlfriend's chest are on another man's phone!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What should I do. I have found out on a recent night out my long term girl friend allowed one of her friends boy friends to take pictures of her breasts? I only found this out when I read some messages he has been sending her on facebook about how he still has them on his ... (68 words)

He doesn't ejaculate often. Is it me or him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone ive been sleeping with this guy on and off for a couple of months now and only once has cum and that was from a blow job, Anyway sorry to sound disgusting but last nite when having sex, he kept saying he wanted to cum inside me, and he was close, he keept say... (178 words)

Is this my baggage or am I right to be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Im feeling very anxious in my current relationship. I have been with this girl about 2 years now and all can be pretty well in the main. We were both single before we met but had previous relationships in the past. We went through the conversations of past relationships wh... (396 words)

He says we're good friends, but I feel invisible near him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This maybe long but i need to get it off my chest and put a stop to it. Me and my friend(a guy we'll call him Jay "not his real name" to save confusion) I dont know what to do. he says we;re good friends and all but honestly i try to talk to him and i;d get more conversatio... (642 words)

Should I be reading between the lines?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for over a month now. She has no parents(hasn't since she was 16). She is very closed off and also very cautious which I understand. I am leaving for a month and we decided to try to stay in contact and we will see how it goes. However she did say that... (142 words)

What happens in Las Vegas... Really... What's happening in Las Vegas?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We have only been living together for 3 months, and I even moved across country to be with him, as we were long distance for a year and a half. So, one morning before he left (for a boy's weekend in Las Vegas), I walked the bedroom and heard him at the drawer with the box of ... (304 words)

Hiding my feelings for my friend is tearing our friendship apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About a year ago, I moved to a new city to take part in a new training course. I knew no one and the nature of the course and my job makes it hard for me to meet new people. However I was fine because I struck up a really good friendship with a guy on the course. I've always ... (357 words)

Around the world in 80 naughty stories....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ok this is the thing, I was thinking my bf is going overseas on a business trip but his going for 90 days :( any ways, last year I just wrote him a letter and told him he can only open it when he gets there, which was sweet he like that. Now I was thinking more of a little ... (128 words)

Are these signs that my partner is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - do you think my partner could cheat on me already caught him texting other girls, suppose to be getting married soon but think something is going on he wont come near me if you no wat i mean and looking at condoms in a shop even though we dont need them please help or am i been ... (59 words)

Don't know what to do, our relationship spark has gone and I'm developing feelings for someone else..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in a very confusing situation at the moment. I have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly two years but the spark has gone and it has got to the point where neither of us will break up with the other one, but lately I have been wanting to break up with him as I have ... (146 words)

How much should you forgive before giving up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend kissed another woman, a co-worker. I never even got mad, I never yelled. I just asked him if he wanted to be with me anymore and he just said he didn't know. I cried for a week solid. He changed his story and said of course he wanted to be with me, and held me ... (425 words)

How do I ask him if he has sexual difficulties without offending..? or should I let it slide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age - Hi Maybe someone can tell me if there is a problem here. My boyfriend doesn"t cum when we have intercourse but he comes when i give him a hand job.he always loves me to cum while we are having sex and i do' but i don't understand why he doesn't. I am wondering if he has some s... (126 words)

He left me and says he doesnt' miss me, but his actions say other things? Which should I go by?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of six months broke up with me. He told me not to worry because we'd always be friends. He was working in the next town over at the time and had planned on moving back but the break up just came back, got his stuff from his place and left, and wouldn't find time to ... (308 words)

I'm out of control and sleeping around because I can't handle being rejected by my bestfriend and boyfriend..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, me and my boyfriend of 14 months are very shakey at the moment. We're constantly arguing and hardly talking! Secondly my best friend is no longer talking to me because she got involved with a drug dealer and i told her dad for her own safety! I cant take the rejection ... (136 words)

She says she is not looking for love right now, I don't want to scare her away, but I'm interested!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I like a girl, she's 23 and I'm 31. I really want to be more than friends, but she says she is not looking for love at the moment. (I think I read on here that women always say the opposite to what they really mean!) Has anyone got any tips on how to 'speed it up'? I don't... (70 words)

We use protection, so is it possible her stresses right now are making her period late?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's period is about 6 days late. could this be due to stress, because she just quit her job because of some drama and she is going to court about a restraining order violation soon as well. plus we used a condom. so what are the chances its just stress?... (58 words)

What am I not understanding here? She says I'm not supporting her but that my support is "just words"..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Thanks for reading my post. Hope you guys can help me. Well, straight to the point. I had sex with my girlfriend. The last time when we did that was last week. I know by doing that, I have a risk impregnating my girlfriend since it was unprotected. Things were goin... (306 words)

My boyfriends behaviour is very confusing...not sure what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship, usually. We have a 2 year old little boy, a fab house and we're currently planning our wedding for next year. When he's had a drink, he gets loud (which I can deal with) but if I don't want to continue drinking wih him after a ... (176 words)

I have made a deeper connection from a three-way. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem. I started a casual relationship with a couple. They contacted me about having a possible three-way. They've been together for eight years and they have never had anyone new in the relationship at all and had never done a three way. Well we ended up ... (218 words)

How should I handle all the cheating in my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After i forund out that he was cheating i decided that i should try to work it out first b4 walking away,he suggested that we get a neutral person whom we can talk to like therapy, i agreed.The following week he gave me money and told me to go and give his mother, i went there ... (354 words)

Our we just prolonging a failed relationship?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are really really close. She seems to never want to lose me (This is a high school relationship so not sure how accurate that is). She likes me a lot and I like her a lot. But just a couple of days ago she gets really angry at me because I got jealous that ... (401 words)

Should I give up on him and find someone my own age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and the man I'm in a relationship with is 52 and divorced he and his ex-wife share custody of their 14 year old daughter. I really feel a connection with him but all my friends judge me for our age difference. All I ever hear is you have more in common with his ... (194 words)

Should a blow the whistle on an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known for a couple of months now that on of my friends is cheating on her husband, and that he is none the wiser about her adultery. Both of them are great people, and I know that neither one is truly satisfied with their marriage the way they should be and that they've ... (121 words)

Would it be better to forget her despite how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A long time ago i met this girl who over the years dated quite a few of my freinds, i liked her alot but everytime i was going to ask her out a friend beat me to it or she was already with someone. After about 4 years of knowing her i finally asked her out but she said no(she ... (355 words)

Recently girlfriend cannot orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Normally oral sex will work every time. But recently it seems she can't orgasm. I've tried different techniques (including the ones that worked before). She will get close but can't get over the edge. She'll rest for a minute or two, then ask to continue but she complains after ... (490 words)

How do I get over a fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im finding it very hard too forget about this guy i had a fling with for 2months, the last time i saw him he was chattin up a girl in my face, i cant even move on cant stop thing about it. no guy in my past never done these things in front me knowin how i feel about them. i ... (100 words)

How should I feel about my husband looking at other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My hubby recently told me he likes to look at other womens bodys and prettiness when he is with his friends they stare at girls and comment and when with me i see hem look at women also what should i do and how should i feel (confused here) ... (49 words)

It's killing me not telling her how I feel so should I?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I ask this a lot and I never get many results but I really need to know what to do about this. There's this girl, we'll call her Carly. I'm really in love with Carly. I see her almost everyday. I hang out with Carly, her brother, and one of her cousins. Carly is one of those... (309 words)

Will I always push guys away out of fear?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had a boyfriend and yet I have had sex; I feel horrible about myself. I've had plenty of chances to be in a relationship and I've always wanted to be in one but when it comes down to it, I get scared and I push them away. I become distant and I act like I never liked ... (155 words)

Should I ask my ex to take me back?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so my exboyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and i still can't get over it. At the beginning I felt relieved because it wasn't such a good relationship but then I started to get more and more depressed to the point that i have no interest in school or exercising like I ... (174 words)

I married a much older man. How do I deal with his impotence and still get what I need from a marriage?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age - I married a man 18 yrs older than myself. 2 decades later and a child I'm regreting my choices but feel obligated to stay in the marriage due to religious beliefs. My husband has been impoent for years and I have never cheated on him. I was 38 when we got married and he ... (160 words)

What's the point of giving him oral sex when he doesn't cum?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I asked a question before about being nervous of giving oral sex http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fear-of-fellatio.html Okay I got over my fear and gave him a blowjob last night. He had his eyes closed through out and was moaning. My fear of what would happen came true... (131 words)

Will she value me more if we take time apart?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay. So heres what i'm going through. My gf and i both have minor trust issues. In the past it has happened where we both have gone through eachothers stuff such as email, texts messages etc.. many ppl do this i guess to make sure.. Personally, i have nothing to ... (797 words)

Why do some people play mind games and act immature with others?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some people play mind games and act immature with others? I recently had a "fling" with a guy who was married and had a baby on the way. From the beginning, this guy almost knew exactly how to my feelings and emotions. He gave me attention that my own husband wasn't ... (218 words)

I think my boyfriend might be gay! What signs should I look for?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a bit worried about my boyfriend, as i think he is gay, been together 2 years and he tells me everyday that he loves me, he always wants sex with me most the time and he mainly makes the first moves, he kisses me alot and holds me all night, when we have sex it only takes ... (202 words)

Should I trust him even though he's talking to his friend about having sex with other girls?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just found out my partner of 2years has been textin his work mate talkin about how he wants to have sex with some of the girls at work he said nothin has happened im reali confused because we have a daughter and i want to do whats best for her aswell as myself... (54 words)

Is he being fair?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I have a problem with my bf whom I met online last year. I'm 31 and he is 43. When we met he knew I had 2 kids, 1 who is 14 and the 18mths baby. The problem I have with my bf is he does not want my daughters father to be anywhere near his child. Two months ago I to... (413 words)

Should I pursue him?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'd like to know how people think about this topic: sex lol I recently lost my virginity to a man I thought I loved but, we're going nowhere so I walked away...I met another man (fake name Jay) and both times we've seen each other, the kissing was intense. He told ... (154 words)

Last week he wanted to marry me, now he says he isn't happy!

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me.We are both 25 years old.He has had a few long relationships but was never able to picture a future(marriage,kids) with them like he could with me.He LOVED discussing our future.He showed me every day how in love with me he was, I never ... (449 words)

What is the meaning behind the dream I had?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. I'm not sure if this has anything to do with my current situation in my relationship. I don't really dream, but when I do it has a meaning to it, specially when I can remember what happened. Last night I dreamt I was travel with a oldish old man, around about 50. We wer... (267 words)

Clear fluid before ejaculation -- is this normal?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Scared Shitless When I am aroused(fondling etc and I have a hard-on) and I/or my partner squeeze my penis(that is before actual intercourse) there is a clear fluid(painless) which comes out. Is this normal? Also, I take forever to come during intercourse but come easily w... (52 words)

Business disagreements vs. treating your partner well

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. We run a small business together, live together, and many of our friends and loved ones refer to us as married. We try to communicate well with each other, and we believe in complete trust, and always being able to come to the ... (460 words)

Was my teacher "attracted" to me?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* I'm just curious because I always took it as being nice, but now that I've graduated my friends keep telling me that he always had a bit more of a "soft spot" for me than any other student... oh, and I've been really close with him for all of high school..... (468 words)

Any men on DC who don't like porn?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Are there any men on DC who don't watch porn? Or never have? If so, why not? Ii'd like a tally please. I've only ever met one man who doesn't. ... (36 words)

My husband isn't circumcized and it really turns me off!

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's Original Title* My husband isn't circumcized, and sometimes it turns me off. When I first met him, it wasn't really an issue, because of all the nice things that he used to do for me. But lately we have been trying to get pregnant, and Making love is a priority. Oral sex... (132 words)

I'm having an affair with a man 3 times older than me. I am 23 and he is 53.

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's Original Title* I am having an affair with a man that's 3 times my age. I am 23 years old and have been married for 2 years, and he is 53 and has been married for 13 years. He actually went to school with my parents. I had sex with him the first night that I met him, and... (275 words)

Should I just give up???

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - *OP's Original Title* i really like this guy. he has tons of friends and at least half of them are girls. he has a great personality and everyone likes him. i dont know if he has a girlfriend right now. i at least want to be his friend but he doesnt really pay much attentio... (91 words)

He added the girl he cheated with as a friend

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well my bf nd I have been together for 3yrs...Within one of the yrs he cheated on me with this girl from where he lives..But I cheated on him within that time too...Well he had jus added her as a friend on myspace...When I seen it I flip out..I told him I suggest he delete ... (66 words)

I'm a bit hurt that he's hooking up with others too

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a college student, and I've been hooking up with this guy for the past few months whenever we are near each other (he goes to school across the country but lives near my school) and he's made it seem as though he likes me as more than just a convenient hook up. However, ... (121 words)

I want to have oral sex, she doesn't, what can I do?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. We have a very good sex life and I've always been (and still am) extremely attracted to her. The only problem is, she won't EVER let me go down on her. I have been trying since the day we started hooking up, and ... (277 words)

Should I take the chance with her??

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, here is the story. My buddy has been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years with a girl from different state and he has never meet her. In total the distance is 700 miles!!! She is 15 and he is now 19. At first i thought he was nuts and it would never work out ... (637 words)

I feel that I am not good enough, how do I stop that feeling??

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five months now. We have gone through a lot that I believe most couples wouldn't have in such a time frame. I have a history of being hurt by men and I find it hard to trust although I do trust my boyfriend more than my friends.... (847 words)

My boyfriend cheated, had a child, I don't want to be a part of the child's life, am I wrong??

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and last year cheated on me with another girl and got her pregnant.I decided to stay with him and told him that i understand that he has to be in the childs life, but I told him that he can count me out of the family outings ... (107 words)

My husband has to have his friend around all the time, is this normal?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when your husband is with his friends every day even when we go out as a family their with us? how do i handle this? should i get upset because it's normal or should i just let them go every where and just take my daugther and go? I don't hang out with my friends ... (263 words)

Both like the same guy, she's my friend, he likes her better? Should I move on?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend likes the same guy and he likes her (as far as I know). My friend feels sorry for me(I feel sorry for myself) and I just feel sad. I know we are only in middle school but I feel like I never can get a guy to like me... I realize middle school love only last for ... (103 words)

Should I worry about him watching youtube's big ghetto booty shaking??

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my bf 10yrs....we were supposed to get married this year. He lives in San Diego. ..they just moved like1 yrs ago. .they bought a business as a family. ...n in Nov I went to India. N during my vacation. ..he was busy taking care of his mom. .she was diagnosed with ... (152 words)

At 18 his father took them to a prostitute, I can't seem to get over that??

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not looking so much for an answer as advice from people who have maybe been in a similar situation. My bf and i have been together almost a year now, in that time i found out he had slept with a prostitute, before he was with me. I find this really hard to deal with, its ... (180 words)

Is hugging another woman after making a fidelity promise immoral?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age - Is seeing and hugging a soul mate woman immoral when a husband made a fidelity promise to God?... (18 words)

We aren't we having sex as often as I'd like?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months and we're both 18, but our sex life is just no more really. we only do it every so often, but i want more. we love eachother so i dont understand why we dont do it any more :( can someone help me please :) ... (60 words)

I've had a crush on her for years, but don't know if I should pursue a relationship!

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me start at the begining. 5 years ago I was working at a local grocery store. I start walking down one of the isles and I spot a young girl that I, for some reason, can't take my eyes off. From that day on for about two years she comes in and out of the store far more often ... (419 words)

What could this mean?

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i finished my period three days ago and now im getting brownish pinkish discharge....what could this be?... (18 words)

Unappreciative husband!

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24 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for close to a year now and I dont know what is going on in my marriage. things are not as blissful as I thought they would be. I have always tried to go out of my way to make him happy, but everytime i do something for him he complains and complain... (259 words)

What's the hang-up on swallowing?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - It probably has been answered already, but what is the real hang up on women not wanting to swallow a man's ejaculation. Taste? Contents? Etc. Also, if you are going to let them cum in your mouth, what's the difference? Men go down on women and swallow there fluids. I've ... (68 words)

Chatting with my boyfriend on msn and need some tips!

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24 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Okay. So I like to chat with my bf on facebook and stuff. There are times when I just want to talk to him, but I don't know the answers to the following questions. It kinda bugs me, and it hurts to be away from him, so I like to at least talk with him when I get the chance. Q... (96 words)

I'm only 21. Why do I refuse to believe I will find happiness?

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24 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm beginning to worry about being alone. But the crazy thing is, I've been single for just over two weeks! I recently came out of a relationship that lasted for 9 1/2 months. It was an okay relationship, but I've know for a long time that me and her were not compatible. ... (190 words)