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writes:Ok so.. Been married for 3 yrs.. I have 2 kids by him.... He has been physically abusive in the past... Last time was new years.... But lately he been saying alot that if he goes back to jail it wont be for domestic vioelnce it will b for murder.... But wen he calms down ... He says he wuld never do that to me... Will he really hurt me... Even kill me... Or do he be mad? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): It sounds like he has a few mental problems. I would take it serrious and not ignor the signs. Mad or not to say that means he has thought it. You may want to seek help through a help hotline before it is to late and he does do something. I have been through this also and its not a joke. sooner or later he will hurt you. If he truley loved you he would be your protector not someone you have to fear. He only cares about his own needs not yours. Men like that are never wrong and blame you for everything. No one deserves to live like that nor do your children need to think that is how men are suppose to behave. Good luck
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reader, Sailing_bye +, writes (15 June 2010):
 yes it is a good chance that if he is unable to controll his anger that there may not a next time you'll hear his threats. And you say he's been abusive in the past? If you still strongly love him enough to try to make this work i suggest to make a way where you can have him go to conseling or seek some kind of anger mangament class without upsetting him. but i see it as already an unhealthy relationship. Real Men don't hit women!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 June 2010):
 You have to assume that he is serious, especially if he has hurt you in the past. Violence is always a cycle, and if he's implying that he'll only go back to jail it's because of your death, take it very seriously.
Maybe you should get away from him and get the kids away too. I would hate for you to get hurt even worse by him.
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