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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dont know what to do about this guy. I had a crush on him from when i was 14-16 years old at school. Back then, i never knew how he felt about me, but, he used to sit at my table everytime we had a class together, and once, when it was breaktime, we were sat in a classroom and he ran of with my school bag, pulled a book out of it, and said " it says ( my name ) loves ( his name ) on here ", even though that wasnt really written on there. He didnt know i liked him then. Another time, he messed around and got down on one knee and asked me to marry him, and once, i swore at him because he had upset me in class. He saw me later on during lunchtime. He was stood with his friends and he walked away from them, put his arm around me, and said he couldnt believe that i swore at him. He ahd never seen me act that way before, but it made me wonder if it bothered him. He also had a photo of when he was little. My friends were stood with me, and he said only i could see the photo, and they couldnt.Another time, my mum dropped me off at school, and his mum dropped him off. I got out my mum's car first, and when he got out, he was leaned over talking to his mum, but then he looked at me. I turned round to look at him a couple of times. Later on that day , he mentioned that i was looking at him so much that i nearly walked into a lamp post !. I was thinking, well, you must have been looking at me a lot too if you noticed that lol !.Another time, he got told off by the teacher because he was talking to me when he should have been working, and got sent outside the classroom, and he tried to blame it on me. It made it look like he was trying to get me sent out the class, as well as him.Another time i saw him sat with his friends. I said hello to him. He was wearing a hat and he smiled and pulled it down as if he was embarrassed or shy.I heard once that the was going to french kiss another girl in our year . For some reason some teenagers just french kissed people once but didnt pursue a relationship with them. I was devasted and cried my eyes out. He didnt see me get upset over it though.I got the guts up to ask him to the leavers dance in our final year at school ( they call it the prom in America ) but he apologised and said he wasnt planning on going to it.After we left school, my brother asked him out for me, but he said no. That must have either been because it was my brother who asked him, or because he wasnt interested.Soon after that, i was in a shop, and he and his friends were stood outside just hanging out. His friends came into the shop and told me that he wanted to french kiss me. At one point, he came in and looked really shy and smiled and said " no, its not me who wants to do that, its my friend ". I said no to his friends at first, as i thought they were winding me up, but they kept asking me over and over, I said yes eventually, and they looked surprised and went outside, probably to tell him. I waited a whiel to see if he would come back in, i didnt want to go up to him infront of his friends, but then, i felt worried incase it was a wind up and i just ran out of the shop. I was very shy back then and i was bullied a lot when i was younger, so i guess that was what made me feel that way.Anyway , i havent seen him for years, but we have been on each others facebook pages for a while. A few weeks ago, out of the blue, we were both online late at night and he sent a sexual message to me. He asked me to give him a blowjob and said " i bet you want to " , and said " why text ? " . when i didnt respond he said " hello ? " then went. I was really shocked by it. Now, i must admit, when we reconnected on facebook, i did start to have feelings for him again, and was tempted to respond to his messsages, but i didnt know how to respond as i was so shocked. He is single, by the way.He has a funny sense of humour, and he created a fan page about himself, as a joke, saying he performs stand up gigs, and all the people who joined the group are his " fans " . Now , this may just be a coincidence, but i found it quite strange, because, my favourite band is from Norway, and if he has checked my page, he would know this, as i post about them a lot on there. He put on his group about himself that the performs in his hometown, and of all the places he could have picked, he put Norway as another place he " performs " in !. He'd never mentioned Norway before. I actually feel like joining and writing something funny about that.I'm going to Norway to see the band this year, and i feel like asking him, jokingly, if he will be performing there around that time .So , what i am getting at is, how do you think he felt about me when we were younger, and what do you think he thinks of me now, and what should i do ?. I keep hoping that we will have a school reunion soon too, and that we will both be there. I'm also tempted to go to some places that i know he goes in ( i used to live in the town he lives in, and those places used to be my local, so it wouldnt look too unusual ).I live in another nearby town now. I wouldnt speak to him unless he spoke to me though. I am single too, by the way. I guess i just wish that something could happen now that we are older. I have dated other guys though, by the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): It sounds like he might be looking for a bit of sex.
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