A
female
age
51-59,
*hippy2
writes:My bf from long ago (24yrs) called me several months ago because he was having trouble in his marriage and wanted advice. I helped him suggesting books and such and then after several calls told him I didnt feel comfortable helping him thru this because it was obvious we still have some feelings between us. It is possible that my son is his child. Although he asked me to marry him then, he was younger. He ended up marrying someone else, divorced, married again.Ok so after a few months of not hearing from him - he calls TODAY and leaves a message.Kindof a I am doing ok and I hope you are too and will talk to you in the future and thank you and dont call back on this number - Why did he even call? My friends and I are thinking that he wanted to have a conversation w me but when he didnt get me he just said niceties.Any opinions?
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reader, mscharm  +, writes (16 June 2010):
it looks like he was looking for support from an old love, we all do it.. something that is familiar but i think he was planning to have an affair but realized there wasn't a chance after you rejected him..
he said not to call back on that number cause he's prob reconciled with his wife.
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reader, lsickle +, writes (16 June 2010):
im sorry but the biggest piece to this puzzle is the dont call me back on this number...not to be vulgar but the smell of BS is definetly in the air. First sets u up by giving u a sob story about marital problems. (now because i dont know the answer i ask you has he ever called you in this capacity before like during the divorce mentioned...oh and why did that divorce take place) i dont respect this type of dude. Sounds like he is trying to soften you up with a sob story that will turn into him needing your support and not with a phone call then low and be hold he is coming on to you. Dont be surprised if he mentions he needs a drink to relieve stress then ask if u can come and talk because he doesnt want to drop a tear into his beer alone. Im sorry if this seems rude but i wouldnt be the least bit surprised if the marital problems arent the run of the mill everyday things that all married couples go thru. So my take on it is watch out...because it turns into a fling its fun then all of a sudden him and his wife are goin to reconcile....i apologize for being blunt but no one deserves to be takin advantage of
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