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writes:Hello, is there something my guy mate isnt telling me?A bit of background info....We don't talk a lot, there's a group of 4 of us that usually go out into town at night. He's always acted strange with me, he's known me for quite a while and he only knows the other 2 through me. I admit they are more open and I'm quiet and shy at times. But one minute he will talk fine to me and the others but the next he just goes straight to them, talks to them, mess around with them and sits with them, only speak to me when hes got something to say. my mate has noticed and always said he's shy and nervous around you but as I say he's forever changing, one mintue he is the next he's fine so they just don't know.Anyway we went out one night and went to this club. My mate flirts with him just for the fun of it, she does with alot of guys, its just how she is she only means it in a friendly way and her bf knows that. We all sat down and he sat with them even though he had to squeeze into the smallest space, whilst next to me there was plenty of room. He was talking to them so i was just kinda being quiet. When that guy wasnt there my mates bf was talking to me. When he came back me and her bf were just messing around, not exactlly flirting but just playfighting and having fun like you would with any mate, and my mate noticed something that she found very weird.As soon as i started messing round with her bf my guy mate said to her "cummon! if they are we are!" which she found really weird and her immediate thought was "had he got a problem with it?" I also noticed whilst that was going on he was looking at me a bit as well. Was he getting jealous?Also afterwards me and him sat outside in the cold just talking which we have never done before and just before we parted he said "you and (name) were doing a bit of flirting tonight weren't you" which made me wonder if there was something more to it all. I just responded "not really more like you and (my mates name)" and he just laughed slightly and said "the joy...." in a kinda saracstic way as if he didnt really enjoy it.I have asked a friends opinion since and they both said sounds a bit like he was jealous. What do you think?
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reader, celestial  +, writes (15 June 2010):
You already know the answer, don't you?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Yeah, chances are he likes you and is weighing lots of stuff in his head. He sounds a bit like me. I have no problem when I'm in a group or something, but when I get time alone with a girl I like, I run out of things to say and get nervous and shy. I usually have so many things going on in my head that they cause me to freeze up.
I don't know if this question is spawned out of simple curiousity, or because you may like him back, but know this: Men don't typically go befriend women they aren't attracted to and wouldn't mind being "more than friends" with. It is part of our nature. If he wants to hang out with you (i.e. makes plans with you, walks you home, etc) then he probably likes you.
Do you have any feelings for him?
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