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writes:Feeling very guilty.Hi,I had sex with a guy few months ago, am feeling very guilty about it now.getting very scared to marry. I had sex only once for few minutes and i did not bleed.will my husband come to know that i have lost my varginity when he will have sex with me?? is their any way i can hide this truth from him,plz help me, i don want to loose my husband after i get married.am scared to tel the truth because am sure no guy would like to marry a girl who is not a virgin. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): Thank you for your valuable answers, am feeling better now.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 No he absolutely will not be able to tell. Not all women bleed and the tightness will be the same. You didn't have sex while with him, no one needs to know you're not a virgin.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Don't worry; he will not be able to tell. Like Auntie E said, all women don't bleed when they lose their virginity.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (15 June 2010):
 To answer your question NO. He will not be able to tell by feel or the fact that there is no blood. That (the bleeding) doest not always happen any way. Not everyone is even born with a hymen or sometimes if there it is a hymen it may become ruptured during athletic activities. So you see the only way your future husband will know is if you tell him. So don't. Put that episode behind and don't do that again.
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reader, JamaicanMeCrazy08 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 honestly the only reason it should matter is if you slept with someone else when you were dating this guy. but if not then who cares if you have slept with someone else. you aren't getting married just to have sex. you're getting married cause you love each other and sexual history should have nothing to do with that.
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