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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok cupid I'm havin a problem. I've heard of the clean break but its not gonna work for me. When you've already said that you would be friends with someone that you went out with and you want them back what should you do. She's single. I'm single. But she doesn't want a relationship now. She says she might want one in the next month. When I look at her bulletin on her myspace she still talks about me and says she knows that I care about her. Are thes signs I should be lookin for or what? Please help. Ladies only. I want your insight.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (15 June 2010):
Well,when people (both males and females ) say :"I don't want a relationship right now " generally what they mean is that they don't want a relationship with YOU.
But in your case it's much easier to find out what is what. She said she might be ready in a month. You have only to wait a month (not an unbearable length of time ) and check back with her. If she is still not ready ,though, I'd suggest you to move on for good. Life is to short to live it according to someone else 's timetable !
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