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female
age
30-35,
*mandanash
writes:My boyfriend and I almost broke up 2 weeks ago. I managed to convince him we should stay together. The 2 weeks following were very strained and draining. He then said again that he doesn't think he's right for me. In my anger of how much he has hurt me in the past month, I told him enough is enough. Him not putting effort into our relationship has got to stop. I told him that we end it now, or he accepts to put 110% of himself into the relationship and we continue. He said he hasn't been putting 100% into the relationship from the start. So he decided he wanted to take a 2 week break and try to work on himself. We won't talk to for 2 weeks, and at the end we will both decide if we want this relationship or not. Right now i'm so mad about being hurt and the lies he's told me to break up with him. But this could just be my anger talking. Is it worth staying together? Do you really think this relationship could make a turn around?
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reader, fishy fish  +, writes (15 June 2010):
Hey Amanda,sometimes men (and women) need some space and to distant themselves from their beloved one in order to realize how they really feel towards her(him).I think u need to give him his space especially that he had doubts about you too being compatible! ur anger was a normal reaction that followed his shaky behavior.pLZ DON'T try to contact him during the break as he needs to miss u and realize hopefully that his life without u is not as easy as he thought, Disappear during the break time, focus on yourself and remember that there are lots of fish in the ocean if yours decides to swim in another courant :) good luck. x
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