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anonymous
writes:I'm a 15 year old girl and me and my boyfriend have been dating for eight months. It started out rough with me and my boyfriend because my parents weren't a big fan of his because of thingsthey heard and family history but I finally got m parents to realize how great of a kid he is and they now after a few months respect us dating. Well I was using my moms phone the other night because mine broke and I was texting him. My periods really late this moth and he was asking me about it and said something sexual. Well my mom saw it and she's been crying for days. Well me and my boyfriend have been sexually active and we have done about everything together. My mom thinks that something happend between me and my boyfriend by reading the texts and she is asking me about it she asked me if I have ever done anythig with him before and I lied to her ): I honestly thnk she knoes something happend but she is devistated me her 15 yeAr old daughter is lying to her and more importantly did something with a boy. My mom thinks that me and him are too serious and she doesn't want me missing out which is understandable but I think she thinks he is pressuring me into sex bu he isn't. His brother has a baby and he is in his twenties and I think that scares her. But my boyfriend is alot different then most guys and he really cares about me and stuck with me through everything with my parents thst happend in the past. I lied to m mom saying I didn't do anythig with him but I know I did and I know I dot want to stop. But it hurts me I lied to her and i'm so scared to talk to her about it. She's afraid I'm pregant cause my period hasn't come yet. But I don't remmeber doing anything having my boyfriend cum in m vagina so I should be fine? An advice or help?Also, Me and my boyfriend want pleasurable sex but it reall hurts me. Like I can't take the pain cause it hurts but I just want it to get lose up there so we can have nice relaxing sex. Any advice?[MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions by the same poster have been combined into one.]
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): If you tell her the truth and are really mature about it she might think you are mature enough for sex :)
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (15 June 2010):
Firstly you need to do a pregnancy test to put your mind at rest. If you are adult enough to have a sexual relationship then you and your boyfriend must protect yourself. Having a child at a very young age is life changing and not the easy to deal with.
Secondly your Mum is in denial about your sexual relationship, you are her little girl and she can not handle this new stage in your life. Not every girl talk to their parents about their sex lifes. You will have to judge how much she can handle.
Thirdly, you and your boyfriend when you are ready for a full blown sexual relationship need to concentrate on foreplay and make sure you are at ease and wet before penetration but only with protection.
Good luck and keep us updated x
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