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writes:Hi all I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years we moved in together after 3 months and everything was going well.He was posted to Afghanistan as he is in the forces so for the next 12 months I was on my own with no family or friends around to help me get through it.He would phone up and abuse me over the phone and tell me it was only because he was frustrated and wanted to come home which I understood. When he came back we argued constantly and he ended up sleeping with somebody behind my back which he said only happened once but later found out it happened more than once and he took this girl out said he had feelings for her and no longer loved me. I said I would move out of our home and he cried and said he didn't want me to go as he couldn't cope on his own so we decided to give it one last try but he's been ringing sex lines up and doesn't see a problem with it I'm really confused as one minute he wants me and the next he doesn't I love him so much but just don't no what to do
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reader, katie72 +, writes (30 June 2010):
katie72 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Girls well currently my other half is on holiday and is duie back tomorrow his on a stag do. When he left last week we weren't talking or even together for that matter he has rang emailed and texted me every day saying how much he loves me and cant wait to get home and that he realises how much he loves me and wants to be with me and if i'm honest i have missed him so much the limted contact was as if he was back on tour again and i've hated every minute of it so hopefully who know's he may come back a different person or we may be back to square one with a bit of luck his sorted his head out and does want to be with me xx
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (15 June 2010):
Honey you love him but he's actions are not of someone who is in love and respects you.
He has a lot of issues, propably because of he's job etc. But you do not have to be the one to suffer.
He doesn't act like someone in a committed relationship, you are giving your all, if he's best is cheating. Leave and find someone who can give you the same level of love as you!
Good luck x
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (15 June 2010):
Honey you love him but he's actions are not of someone who is in love and respects you.
He has a lot of issues, propably because of he's job etc. But you do not have to be the one to suffer.
He doesn't act like someone in a committed relationship, you are giving your all, if he's best is cheating. Leave and find someone who can give you the same level of love as you!
Good luck x
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reader, raiders  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 The mistakes you made was that you probably forgave him to easily and quickly. I don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater but I I feel very strongly that if you make them beg and beg and play it super hard to go back after they have cheated they will appreciate you more...compare to going back right away he might feel he can do it over and over again and you will be right there just waiting for an I'm sorry. I would tell you not to take it and if he is cheating you need to kick him to the curb.
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