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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like anime girls does this mean I am bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - It's strange for me being a female but.. I have an attraction to anime girls. I like them a lot. I really really like yuri, which is anime girl on girl, as well. I am straight though! I mean.. in the real world, I don't like girls that way. I do find some asian girls cute, but ... (93 words)

My friends think he fancies me so why did he tell me to stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hola cupids I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and well i had this best friend in school, a guy mate. And anyhooo i fell in love with him and at the time he had a girlfriend so i didnt interupt them. But they broke up after about four years. I told him how i f... (316 words)

Anyone been married to a serial cheater, what did you do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How many times can one person forgive another for cheating? I have been with my husband for 5 years now and in that time he has cheated on me 4 times that I know of. Twice before we were married and now twice after. I have raised his daughter as my own since she was 13 months ... (198 words)

How do I make head way with this girl I really like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and I realy liked this girl since like year 8 and now I'm in year 10 I have noticed I like her but I'm shy and have no courage every time I get up the courage she dates another guy and people say she's out of my Leuge because of my weight has anybody got any tips ??... (61 words)

Fiance's brother has befriend his ex. I HATE THIS!

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22 June 2010 (F)

- I need advise!! My fiance's brother added my b/f's horrible ex-girlfriend to his facebook page and I am absolutely beside myself! When they were together, she used the whole family for her own gain. She stole money from my b/f, hocked the very expensive engagement ring he gave ... (294 words)

How do I get him to come back without coming right out and just asking him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seperated from my husband for 19 months now. he lives with his parents and i live with our 3 children. i really really want him back and i dont know what to do. i dont want to come right out and ask him. how can i let him know i want him back or how can i make him ... (66 words)

Boyfriend takes pictures of other girls! should I forgive him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age - I found out that my boyfriend of over a year has been taking pictures of other women. Most recently while we were at the beach he took about 20 pictures of young women from all angles in their bikinis. I'm very upset over this but he says it will never happen again and I ... (63 words)

Odd mildly lumped genital rash?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (OP's own title) I've had a rash round my vagina for quite sometime now, I went to the clinic about it and they diagnosed me with some mild form of thrush, gave me some tablets on a 2 week course and a cream, it seemed to subside but the red-ness of it never completely went... (103 words)

Help.... no call!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy online. He initiated contact ;seemed very interested ;asked if we had things in common and all.He asked for my number after 3-4 emails saying he would love to talk and maybe go to lunch.I replied the next day ;gave him my number and told him I looked forward to ... (105 words)

Gay guy in relationship with divorced guy with grown up kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a guy for 6 years, we have never lived together and there is a 21yr age gap. I am 43. He used to be married and has two grown up kids in their early 30s, both in straight relationships, one with a kid of their own. Although we all accept each other, ... (725 words)

Do you think he's positioning himself to be 'waiting in the wings'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My guy friend recently bought me a present, nothing too expensive, but something really cool and meaningful to me. Also he knows I like wine and will often buy a bottle and, after he opens it, if it's especially good he'll insist I take the rest to enjoy myself. Last time I ... (165 words)

Is she just using me for childcare, or is she going to have me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been with my partner for 12 years and have 3 kids she started seeing somone behind my back when i found out she kicked me out and moved him in. i want her back and she said she thinks she wants me back and asks me to come round every day when he is at work to help with ... (103 words)

No idea what to do, I'm a mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, This isn't entirely to do with a relationship, but as i'm a member i thought that I would post here and see what answers I get anyway. So, as you've seen in the title, I need to know what to do, I think I am depressed. I've been researching symptoms online and ... (284 words)

How do I stop being so dependent on my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am dating this guy. He's pretty darn amazing, I must say, but there is one problem... Everytime he is busy or is hanging out with his friends, I get upset and frustrated. I don't know if it's a jealousy thing, or what, but it sucks and I really want it to stop. ... (314 words)

I don't doubt that he loves me, but his behaviour is just so selfish!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello and thanks in advance for reading my situation is that im a married, have 3 children and i left my partner nearly 1 year ago. i left because my husband completely lived a separte live from me and the children. he would go to work return from work heading straight... (448 words)

I haven't had a serious relationship since I was fifteen and feel like I'm going to be this way forever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im getin fed up ov being alone. when i go out dont get me wrong i do "pull" bt it never leads to a realtionship. all my friends have no problems in getin one but i havent had a serious boyfriend since i was 15. i feel alone and feel as i am goin 2 be like this forever. i ... (96 words)

Should I just give him space for awhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months ago and he seems okay. We lost contact for about a month but recently we've been talking and things seemed to be going okay for a while since we've been talking the entire month and a half. Recently whenever I text him it takes him two hours to text ... (405 words)

Not sure about what we have, are we friends with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm hanging out with my ex boyfriend again. I don't know if where dating or not..I haven't asked that..At this point where just having fun...Does that mean where friends with benefits? He hasn't said anything either. He's not the best communicator. I enjoy being with him ... (124 words)

Why did he ask me out then not show up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just met this guy since i moved and he was really nice. Now i dont like him i just want to be friends but yesterday he asked me to hang out and i said sure. the day before he asked me out for a date but since i dont really know him i said no i just wanted to hang out plus im ... (150 words)

He just doesn't want to listen to me, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [MODERATOR NOTE: PLEASE BE A LITTLE MORE SPECIFIC. WHAT IS AN EXAMPLE OF 'GIVING HIM YOUR HEART'? WHAT DOES HE THINK HE IS MISSING WITHOUT 'HAVING YOU LOVE HIM/HAVING YOUR HEART'?] well, the problem is that i have a bf and we've been dating for almost 2mths now. he wan... (317 words)

Am I being used as a doormat? Is something going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 i have been in a rocky relatonship for almost 7 yrs,my partner has a 24 yr old son from previos relatioship and we have 2 little ones together. i recently suppected there maybe a interest in him with his ex as he had arranged to meet her one afternoon without telling me ... (267 words)

I see her as the woman he had an affair with and not the mother of his children

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I split up (He left me) after he had an affair w/his x-wife, it lasted approx 2months when realized a big mistake. We reconciled and now engaged for about 1 yr. I really love him and we are building a life together. They have grown children together with whom ... (126 words)

My ex is playing games, I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here it is..! I broke-up with my x for cheating on me. How I found out isn't important except to say that I noticed a lot of changes and little lies. This happened 1yrs ago.. We wanted to have a break first..then get back together cause this was a 10yr relationship tha... (647 words)

Should I ask my friend to take my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've just turned 22 and I'm still very much a virgin. The most I've ever done with a girl is a snog and those don't come around very often. I'm not particularly embarrassed about my v-plates, I hardly keep it a secret, but the longer I remain a virgin, the more... (358 words)

My girlfriend's reason for breaking up doesn't make sense!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend recently dumped me but I can't seem to understand why. Her reason was that when she was with me she was happy but when she was not she was really down. This seems really strange and sounds like she is not giving me an honest reason why she said she won't be dating ... (90 words)

Why does he ignore me for porn, when I'm perfectly willing?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I seem to be having problems with my boyfriend and have no clue what to do. We have been dating for nearly a year now. Deep down, I know he's a good man, but for reasons I cannot understand, he prefers watching porn instead of doing anything sexual with me. I know ... (290 words)

Whats the best way to break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm in a relationship with someone. the relationship is almost a year old now and i am not sure how to end it. I would like to not hurt her to bad but i can't quite bring myself to just say "This isnt working out." Her family is well downhome hillbilly and have no qwames about ... (297 words)

Why are my 3 sons so painfully shy?

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22 June 2010 (F) age - Do weak ,shy fathers cause their son to be weak and shy? I have 3 sons,and none of them ever had a girlfriend,or not really even a friend. They also have other serious confidence issues,and they are all painfully shy. What is hard in every direction, like job ,relationship,etc. ... (207 words)

Why am I having this dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having these recurring dreams...all about my boyfriend. Its about us cuddling, kissing, or him shushing me to sleep. I also realized that I always sleep on my pillow like its a person...like my head on someone's chest and my arms hugging them. These dreams are preve... (102 words)

How can I 'really wow' my soldier boyfriend when he comes home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok,so my boyfriend is in afganistain and i want to really amaze him when he gets home... how do i do so?... (23 words)

Am I overly sensitive or is my wife's behaviour with this friend inappropriate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age - I have been avoiding asking this but I am up to my bald spot with this! My wife car pools with a man, about her age, with no one else, just the two of them. Five days a week for 45 minutes to 1 hour 15 minutes EVERYDAY. They meet at our house, (everyday - his wife does not... (525 words)

Why can't my boyfriend see sex is not important?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8-9 months and we have sex occasionaly but my boyfriend is always horny but I have trouble getting wet. He thinks that I don't want to have sex with him but I really do. I just can't. When we do have sex it hurts me because he is huge ... (136 words)

My ex doesn't return my calls. Should I just let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating a guy. we broke up almost four months ago and will he drinks a lot and parties to much. His 10 years my senior and he gets really crazy when he drinks. I have been there through everything and when he was in jail and he has a child. I don't get to see him that ... (103 words)

How can I begin a friendship with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a guy Id literally liked for years but I messed up big time. I was just so nervous and had just come out of a bad relationship so really didnt show him my best side. I was so scared of it going wrong that I couldnt relax and be myself. The more I behaved like ... (322 words)

My friends and family never join the events I plan!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling really down. One of the main reasons is that 99.9% of the time that I ask friends/family if they would like to go out somewhere with me they have an excuse why they can't go or else I don't even get the courtesy of a reply. I have been feeling very used lately. ... (560 words)

Can I bring back passion in my marriage or should I get divorced again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I know people will think I'm crazy but there is my drama. I have been divorced for 5 years; I have been with my current BF for 6 years (see the connection). My BF and I have lived together for 3 years. I divorced my husband because he was always working; we did not spend ti... (268 words)

Is this depth of pain after a break up normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid-- I've recently been broken up with. The world doesn't feel right anymore. I can feel my heart swelling in my chest and find myself physically ill. Driving home was almost impossible. I had to pull over to the side of the road to sob and throw up. Should I be ... (127 words)

Which country would you choose to live in? Germany or the US?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is not a relationship question, but I am just wondering which one would you choose US or Germany. I am 22yrs old and I have lived in US most of my life, but I am currently living in Germany. I have family in both countries and I think that is whats making it hard ... (77 words)

I know you can't tell me WHO to choose, but HOW can I choose between two great girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I've got a "happy" problem; there are two girls who like me. Some time ago I asked a girl out. We'll call her Brunette. She couldn't go on our first date; she had work. She couldn't go on our second date; she had to babysit. And she couldn't go on our third date; sh... (408 words)

Why do guys only pretend to like me until we have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why do guys pretend to like me, but they only want sex from me. then they start being rude and disrespectful.... (21 words)

Twisted relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Twisted r/ship - I broke up with the father of my son an he got married, recently I got a new bf who has a galfriend, we visit each other but on the other side my former bf came back, not for good but he pays rent and fees, claiming that he will one day come back for good! I ... (84 words)

Meeting a girl I came across online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Any advice on how to approach meeting a girl I came across online? I've done it once before, but it was a different situation. We've been talking for seven months, and we both want to meet. I am more enthusiastic than she is (at least I try to show myself to be), but I am ... (87 words)

Somebody... please tell me that what I am doing is the right thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19 and my ex is 22. he never got his high school diploma or ged. he doesnt have a car still lives with his mom and has a hard time saving money. we have broken up off and on a lot. recently he went over his brothers and when he came back i found 2 klonapins in his bag he ... (202 words)

Do women keep it honest or do they have grey areas like men do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am really curious and need women to be honest here. I've been dating this girl for about 4 weeks and we are starting to talk about making it exclusive. She's amazing, and I am pretty sure she thinks the same about me. So she asked me the infamous question. "How many gir... (441 words)

I am in a relationship I know I need to get out of.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship I know I need to get out of. The problem is I don't have any where to go. I guess I've gotten comfortably miserable over the past 4years. I used to be so happy and care free, I made funny statements all the time and people would laugh. I don't do that any ... (327 words)

Parental love...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old.. i have serious issues with my mother. she's too dominating and doesnt allow me do most things the way i want to. shes EXTREMELY strict with me and in general and interferes a lot too in my personal matters. she has a harsh reaction to most things that dont ... (357 words)

The long and the short of it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17, he is 6'5 and i'm 5'1... i love him so much but when we hug i have to put my hands around his waist... i love being with him but it is so hard... i want to put my arms around his neck when we hug and kiss but it is so hard... what to do ?... (66 words)

I like being with him and all but sometimes I get the feeling that something is missing...

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22 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - hey guys First of all thank you so much for taking your time to read my post. Me and my bf are in a complicated situation. We have been going out for just over a year now. I think that he's one of the sweetest guys I know, the thing is that I like being with him and all b... (227 words)

Is this really cheating, I feel cheated in my marriage.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age - Two friends, a man and a woman, both married in their late 40s, the marriages are sexless and in trouble. We became sexually attracted from the lack of any intimacy at home. We talk often and sex is a hot topic between us. She asked me to have sex with her. I was not ... (256 words)

What do you think of this gift idea for my boyfriend's birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I didn't really know what to get him and just had an idea and just wanted to know what you guys think of it. So, like most guys my boyfriend love playing games. At first I thought of buying him a game but then remembered that ... (163 words)

I have an irregular period but doubt I'm pregnant. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am going to the doctor tomorrow. My period stopped yesterday then last night it was spotting and i have some brown spotting this morning. I am positive I am not pregnant. My last 2 periods (May 28th and June 16th) were irregular. First one was a few days late (I... (227 words)

Can anyone give tips on how to give a love-bite?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now, but its a long distance relationship and we see eachother every 3-4 months. Weve been talking about next time we meet, and he mentioned love bites. I was ok with the fact he wants to give me a lovebite, i dont have a ... (81 words)

Is my boyfriend bi? Should we break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! I'm a seriously confused, stressed teenage girl. I'm 13 years old, mature for my age, and I have a 15 year old boyfried. Let's call him... Alex. Well, Alex thinks he's bisexual, and has considered kissing a guy to see if he is or not. I on the other hand think I'm ... (266 words)

I was telling him about past relationships and he got offended!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i started getting along really well with this guy who i never thought i would. time passes and we got closer and closer and we started to develop feelings for each other. he told me about his feelings and i told him that i felt the same way so we organised to go out for a ... (108 words)

Is there something going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age - I have a long time female friend. We went through all through school together. We hadn't seen each other in over 30 years, until about 5 years ago. We meet for coffee once in a while. She's married, I'm separated. I asked her to set me up with her girlfriend who we also went to ... (363 words)

Unmarried break up law in state of Indiana??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a guy for 1 year and 6 months the lease was in my name and he moved in with me. He ended up abusing me and hit my son only once it took and I called the law and he was put in jail. I had bruses and so did my child. He is looking at prison time and is trying to scare me ... (273 words)

Why does he keep dropping me and then come running back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in college for three years now, and have dated many guys throughout the years, most of them being the typical tool frat guy, but last fall I met someone I thought was totally different. He treated me like no one else, he was the country boy I never dated before. ... (609 words)

Divorcee, having a terrible time meeting a boyfriend. Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age - I am hitting rock bottom once again. After a brutal divorce, I am having a terrible time meeting a boyfriend, that is the right match for me,. I am sad as I try to do everything right. I take great care of myself, I am fit, have a great job and house, do not sleep around, yet , ... (235 words)

I keep explaining things over and over again but he just doesn't get it!

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22 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend has been going out for 2 months and things seems pretty good at the starting.But,few days ago,he's treats me totally different.He just ignore me,i tried to get things better by telling him the problem we're having.Ijust explained everything over and over ... (252 words)

I can't forget about her...should I wait or forget about her completely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year I was over across the earth to Hong Kong for my dad's business trip. I attended an international school for a year where I met this girl... lets name her X. Before I met X I never really fell in love with anyone, I've had various crushes and whatnot, but X, I can admi... (380 words)

What should I do to make her notice me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I live in Singapore, it's different from the U.S where I think most of the users are. We are just, not so open.. I'm 17 and I really like this girl. It's my first time liking a girl so much. I met her in school. She said I was different and interesting. I confessed to her after ... (200 words)

Was he just using me for my body?

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22 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Background: I just finished my senior year in high school dating this guy David for like six months now and it's been great. I'm not always an easy person to deal with owing to my bi-polar adhd-ness but he's been the only one to make me happy. But I can't stop thinking about my ... (245 words)

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've decided to take a break from my bf of almost 3 years. I was sick of him not being too honest with me with the people he's met and accused me of being too friendly. i went through his phone and saw alot of girls he seems to be close to , nothing seems to be going on, but ... (501 words)

Did he just use me for that one night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with this guy we are not committed but we know each other since elementary. i know im stupid doing that but for me and to him its just for fun. after that night he go back to wisconsin coz he lived there. im not inlove with him but why im feeling this? i cant get him ... (187 words)

I'm 18, he's 36. Is that wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound like another 13-in-a-dozen age gap question. But I need some advice. Sorry if this is long and boring, but I need someone to read through it. I'm a normal girl and I used to date guys my age. I had a couple of boyfriends, and my last relationshi... (868 words)

Could he have a child with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone l'm 22yrs lam in a relationship with my bfd 4 2yrs now l need some advice me and my bfd we stayed for 2mnts without seeing each other but communicating over the phone.last week he came to my place then we went to his place.everything was ok.he was watching soc... (272 words)

Is she using me to help her low self esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner have been together for almost two years, and while on the outside everything looks fine on the outside it truth its not. The problem comes down to intimacy, we have no sex life to speak of, and even if we are just lying there, alone, holding each other she c... (267 words)

Could these be symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my girlfriend are 21. We had sex last tuesday 2nd time in our 3 years relation. We love each other to bits. It was a protective sex and the condom was on. Since then she is feeling tired, has pain in legs and back and has fever. Yesterday till now, she is having semen ... (175 words)

He says he doesn't want sex, but gave me a full on kiss ... why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok guys, this is a strange one really but need sum sort of advice, ive basically i hate 2 say it have got myself a fb, well i said used to have one, The other week once a week i pick him up from his local pub and we have a little chat and stuff, then out of nowwhere he s... (313 words)

How do I end this friendship without making him feel bad?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is just your typical *** hag/gay guy situation according to everyone else, which it probably is. So we took some time apart to distance ourselves, everyone felt our relationship was unhealthy, it wasn't like we couldn't function without each other we were just a little too ... (314 words)

My hubby has a crush on my besty! Help!!!!!

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so my situation is really weird. I met this guy who is now my husband on May 26th 2009. That same year in August I lost my virginity to him. a month later I found out I was pregnant. So we got married that same year in november. Everything was going good we got an ... (390 words)

Why did I cheat on him?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys. Firstly sorry for this being so long, im just so confused right now. I previously asked a question which was titled 'Playing with fire...' In that i basically said that me and my bf are in a long distance relationship (a very long one) and although i love my bf and h... (493 words)

Why do ex-wives always blame 'other women' for the dissolution/destruction of their marriage?!

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me he was single when we first met. Then pretty soon I get a phone call from a woman claiming to be his wife! I confronted him- He said he didn't tell me he was married because they were already separated. He hasn't lived with her in months. And before their ... (1505 words)

Not sure he has the same interest in me as he does his dream

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Male advice on this one please or wise women... Xxx Please help so I can just understand my feelings a little better. I am really very confused right now. Ok, this man age 31 that I have been seeing for the last 2 and half years has always had this big dream of moving o... (246 words)

I would like to kiss a boy, but my parents watch me like hawks

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! well, im 15 and i have NEVER kissed anyone. i have someone in mind but im too afraid that my parents would find out some how or someone would tell. im not aloud to date yet so that means no dates! what do i do? do the guys tell people or their guy friends? my mom ... (83 words)

Fear of fellatio

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female and this is about my boyfriend. I am 19 years old so over legal age. His my first b/f and we been seeing each other for 5 months. He's gone down on me and we have had sex but I'm so nervous about going down on him! In my head I think, "I do it today" but then ... (122 words)

Why did my ex-boyfriend do this to me?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to get this off my chest and apologise for the write up. My boyfriend broke up with me almost 4 months ago and disconnected his number 2 days later. He has never contacted me since. The story is way too long but here is some. He has been married before but he le... (660 words)

Watching anime porn...is it normal to be getting wet down there at my age?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fourteen years old, turning fifteen this year. I am a female. I watch hentai every week. Hentai being anime porn basically. I enjoy it a lot. What I am wondering though.. When I watch hentai, I just sit with my laptop on my lap with my legs spread apart a bit. Is it norma... (91 words)

My girlfriend keeps telling me about all the guys who like her

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - me and girlfriend broke up beacus two resons i asked my best friend out a year ago and she said no but she was not my best friend at the moment i asked her and after i went out with my ex and ever since then she has trust issuse. also she move away and a problem is that i s... (118 words)

My husband has moved in with an ex friend of mine, is it possible that they are really in love??

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my husband, who moved out a couple of months ago, has just moved in with a woman who used to be a friend of mine. I ended my friendship with her about a year ago because I felt she was behaving inappropriately with my husband, swimming topless when the... (258 words)

Why does my boyfriend not want me as much as I want him?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now, and our sex life has decreased quite a bit. For the first two months, we were having sex at the least once a day. Ever since 2010 started, our sex life has taken a major decline. Now, we have sex every 4 to 5 days. I ... (398 words)

Boyfriend wants a BJ all the time, but I'm not enjoying it...

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..i love my boyfriend to death and i waould like to give him what he wants but...he wants to get a blow job all the time..i dont like the taste of cum and i dont want to use a condom...what can i do??... (43 words)

How can I safely pursue a relationship with my best friend's sister?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so just recently I have really noticed my best friends sister hanging out alot and being very flirty towards me but just last night we spent a considerable amount of time together and she told me she "kinda likes me". I have actually liked her for some time, but i dont want ... (115 words)

Is my body changing or am I getting fat?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old girl. I play sport and I have been skinny my whole life .. until now. the past few months I've noticed I have stretch marks on my inner thighs, my hips, and my boobs. I also gained bad love handles and a small gut. I weigh 121 lbs and im about 5'2. im pretty ... (160 words)

How can I increase my chances with this girl I just met?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, My quesion today is very important to me! The situation im involved in consist of these events. I met a 17 year old girl at a Party on Friday night, and we just conversed among ourselfs for about an hour. and I mentioned remembering her comments on one of my Mypsace ... (426 words)

If he won't agree to a threesome with a guy, then why should I agree to one with a girl?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive been with my boyfriend for a year so far and were very sexually active. on a regular basis we have sex about 3-5 times a week. and were open enough to talk about our fantasies in life n stuff, but i believe theres a HUGE problem. ive asked my boyfriend befor... (213 words)

Period issues?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats up with my period? It ended yesterday but just a minute ago I found more blood. I still have cramps off and on. Im on Yaz.My laster period was a a few days late. The one before that was on time. I took 2 HPT. One on the 27th of last month and one last week. Both negative ... (93 words)

Dating, Age, Time, and Celibacy...Recipe for being Alone Forever?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been alone- without being on a single date- since 1997. When I was younger, out of college I worked 8 years, 7 days a week, year round, 10-24 hours a day. The only time I had off was extremely rare and I was normally mentally exhausted. Therefore, my entire 20's I co... (820 words)

Second chances after a break up?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone ever gotten back together with an ex and has it worked out? I just wonder because I mean, you and the guy (or girl) broke up for certain reasons... And later when you meet up again and feel the attraction and end up having feelings for each other again...is it be... (89 words)

Is it wrong not to tell someone you plan to sleep with?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how wrong is it to not tell someone you're going to sleep with that you have genital warts? i mean is it that big of a deal?... (27 words)

She says she's against abortion, but has already had one in the past!

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have a question with which I desperately need some help. I love my wife very much, but I have found out some information recently that troubles me. I found out, totally by accident, that my wife had an abortion before we met. The thing that is really distressing to me ... (585 words)

He puts me down but says he loves me!

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for little over 5 yrs. We have a baby it was perfect when we first started we've been on and off. We now have a baby he treats me really bad at times and puts me down yet says he loves me sooo much that I have to understand him because he has anger ... (78 words)

She's doing a really good job at keeping me guessing

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just really quick. Im 17, girl in question is 16. I met this girl and her friends maybe a month ago at a graduation party, about a week before my 7 month relationship ended. Since we broke up, we only hung out once (were supposed to hang out another time, but i felt it ... (742 words)

No one compares to him. Do I risk the friendship?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a best guy friend for over 14 years now, we have been friends since I was in Kindergarten and I am now going to be a Junior in college. For every christmas, valentines day, or birthday he would always buy me such beautiful gifts...i.e. sterling silver bracelet saying ... (226 words)

Boyfriend blues

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 5 years in august. The two of us have been through it all. Apart from the silly arguments I still am attracted to him. But recently he hhas had very premiscuous behavior. Cell fone. Hiding, internet trafficking, he says I'm crazy and that I harass him. No arguiing, yeah I a... (101 words)

Difference between "love" and "in love"?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was always wondering wat is the differnece between "loving someonne" and "being in love wif someone". My best friend says that she loves her boyfriend but she isn't in love. I don't know what it means to be in love at least i don't think so. So wat is the difference? And wat ... (70 words)

Should I believe my husband?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, I need some help and I HOPE someone out there offers advice. back info*** my dad always cheated on my mom. he was abusive and left wen I was 13, since i started dating my hubby 7 years ago i have ALWAYS had issues with insecurity and cheating, I constantly acuse... (423 words)

Give up or hold on?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this seems really elementary but I like this guy who just recently graduated. He's sweet, he's liked by everyone, and he's a wrestler. Only problem is he has a girlfriend who he doesn't speak of to his closest friends, and when I talked to him last, we brought up a ... (152 words)

Should I forget him, he couldn't forget her?

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22 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Okay well, I just broke up with this amazing guy. We were only dating for a month, but he made me feel special, he made me feel like I was worth something. Anyways, I broke up with him because he was talking to his ex and he started talking to me less and not wanting to hang ... (267 words)

What are the sympthoms of pregnancy?

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22 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - i want to no if i am pragent... (8 words)

I hate him looking at porn, how do I get him to stop?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i've been reading some of the posts in the pornography section and i have a question to ask myself. I am a 17 year old girl. I have been with my partner for 2 years now and we have a 10 month old baby together. I haven't got the best body i won't lie. (I am not fat bu... (354 words)

Being with him is killing my self-esteem, with an excuse for everything I don't know what's going on here?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. I'm 21 and he is 27. For the past year he hasn't been wanting sex as much as usual. I know that sounds common but he is a very sexually active person and we went from having sex almost every day to once or twice a month! Othe... (330 words)

Are there reasons why he sometimes orgasms quickly and at other times takes a while?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes my husband finishes really fast during sexual activity and sometimes he takes a really long time. Are there any facts behind how fast and under what circumstances a guy should orgasm? ... (32 words)

Tips on kissing and whether we should try when my dad is nearby..

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: Two questions combined Ok im going my first movie with my boyfrriend and my dad will be there and we want to makeout should we risk it? Also I dont know how to makeout and me and my bf want to makeout at the movies! how do i do it?????... ... (54 words)

I am 15, want to be a porn star, any suggestions?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and i want to be a pornstar so bad any tips?... (14 words)

Pregnant by the brother of my fiance...

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22 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 20 I've been dating this guy 'Jake' for 3 year now and about 2 months ago he proposed. I said yes. later that day though I had sex with his brother 'Cody'. Jake and I have NOT had sex. Point is that I'm pregnant and the only person I've had sex with is Cody. How do i ... (85 words)

Is he really trying to get closer to me?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i got to experience a very strange thing one night. i was with this man, and he said/did a series of things which made me wonder if there was something between us. the relationship between us is: he's married, i've got a boyfriend. we're friends. first he noticed my earri... (210 words)

It's so difficult to forget and comprehend why this married man lied to me and then left me?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going out with a guy and everything seemed so perfect. He looked happy with me. One day he told me that he was divorced. I didn't freak out because I understand it happens but what really happened was that he was married. His wife called me. He left me and although he ... (88 words)

Seemingly serious problems here, any ideas to solve them?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. So my girlfriend and I are having a rocky situation at the momment and its driving me mad. Through our relationship, we have fought a lot, and she has cheated on me often. That has stopped now and were trying to move on. Lately it feels like she can do no wrong, and... (411 words)

We like each other, but she acts strange, suggestions?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i like this girl and she likes me too ..whenever we are together we both cant stop smiling or looking at each other but every time we don't see each other she is a totally completely different person so i don't know what to do ..should i stay fighting for her attention or ... (56 words)

I want to forget her, but I've done everything I can think of. What should I do?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About 5 months ago my gf at the time and I broke up. She initiated it but we both agreed it was what was best. It had been a long way coming. About a week later she starts dating one of her close friends, who I had been slightly jealous of because she spent so much time with ... (607 words)

I went all out for her, but she's gravitating back to her ex

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have gone all out for her and showed her what her past relationship never showed her and now I feel hurt.I don’t know what to do anymore I need help. I have met my junior high school sweet heart almost a year ago. I found her on face book; we were apart for a number of years. ... (463 words)

Torn between a 'perfect' current partner and an ex who I cannot forget

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for just over 6 months after splitting with my last boyfriend after finding out that he cheated on me. Things with the current boyfriend have been good but I have never really gotten over my ex and its beginning to taint my current ... (549 words)

Does it look like she's interested too?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl from I know from my childhood [my primary school[ who used to have a thing for me at one stage in grade 7, and having not spoken for 5 years, I saw her working at the gym and we talked for a while and finally exchanged numbers. She has suggested on more tha... (139 words)

Should we make out if there's a risk my dad might see us?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a week and a half and we are going to see our first movie this weekend. he wants to makeout in the movie but the thing is that my dad will be there and it is a horror movie. should i let him makeout with me or should i ... (65 words)

Should I just forget about him over the summer?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, alright so I've liked this guy for two years already, and I'm in high school... last year he was in one of my classes second semester. He used to walk me out of class, and always turn around and say my name and smile at me (etc.) So, I was beginning to like him, ... (355 words)

Embarassed after anal sex!

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi am 29yr of age, an married, i have been for the last 11yrs.. but my husband got sick an he is bed reined. i recently got involed with a younger guy like 26yr of age an we have been seein each other for a yr.And he an i did tlk much about anal sex but jus did it an it felt ... (130 words)

How am I supposed to make this relationship great when I can hardly ever see her?

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22 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship with my girlfriend has been going downhill lately. In this relationship im a jealous guy and thats new to me. I would never have figured myself to be a jealous guy. My first big problem is when I noticed my girlfriend take an interest in a guy called Dan. Wha... (667 words)

How do I attach a guy really deeply to me?

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22 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - just wondering how can i attach a guy to me really deeply?... (12 words)