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writes: I was having sex with my fiance, and yes, I was incredibly turned on. I was incredibly wet, even through the many different positions. I had two orgasms, back to back after we had been in one position (a variant of missionary,) and then I got very dry. Now, my boy and have our own fantasies, and I enjoy being given orders and following them. Well, I had an orgasm without his permission (which I understand is nearly uncontrollable, but this is for the sake of the roleplay) and he grabbed me and turned me over. We had sex in the doggy style position and immediately I was in pain. I could tell I was drier than ever and I was in excruciating pain. I began begging him to stop and finally when he did, I was shaking and in tears. It took me nearly twenty minutes to calm down. We were using a condom.(Trojan Ultra Ribbed)Also, in general, when he goes quickly and gets rough when we are in rear entry positions, it tends to be very painful. When he is leaning over my back and going slowly, it feels pleasurable. So I ask you is it normal to get dry after orgasm, or during intercourse? I love rear entry positions, but they are uncomfortable and/or painful, is this normal? And lastly, could my discomfort in the rear entry positions be due to lack of natural lubrication? How can I help this?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 It's a product of the condom, unfortunately. And in the rear entry, it's a whole different kind of friction, especially if you had been using a variant of missionary beforehand.
You might need to keep some KY jelly on the standby for this bit of rough play. Also, you need a SAFE WORD, a word that when uttered during rough sex or bondage or S&M, you utter it and the MOMENT it's said just once, everything stops. That way you don't have to beg and scream.
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