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writes:Hopefully you don't find this a really silly question but I'd like to hear your views.I have a lot of trouble expressing my feelings. I grew up in a house where we never hugged or said that we love each other.I'm now in a relationship with an amazing guy, my first serious boyfriend. 6 months into the relationship he told me that he loved me. I told him that I loved him as well but I think that it wasn't genuine from my side. I don't think that I meant what I said. He's known from very early on that I have problems sharing my feelings.Two months later I came to realize that I did love him and I so badly wanted to tell him but I had no idea how. So the other night I laid it all out and told him how much I loved him. He was so happy and he got a bit emotional. He then asked me to say it again. And again. I said it a few times and each time he would smile.Why did he want me to repeat the 'I love you' a few times? Was he perhaps beginning to think that I didn't and it scared him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Thanks for the answers girls...I just needed others' opinions. I guess I don't really believe that he didn't think I loved him...it must have been nice to hear those words from me finally :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Oh no. You touched him so much that he wanted to hear it from you over and over. You gave him perhaps one of the greatest moments in his life. He truly cherishes your feelings and emotions, and it meant more to hear that from you than you could possibly know. It was even more precious to him because you AREN'T liberal with your emotions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Hi darling
My boyfriend also does the same he tells me how much he loves me the whole day and also wants me say that back to him the whole day and sometimes when I express my love to him he just cries. So girl dont worry it's just natural some guys love being told that they are love and guys like when they say they love you they mean it. So relax girly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Everyone needs to hear they are loved and it sounds like hearing you say it and it meaning so much to him he just didn't want that perfect moment to end. I am sure he was just so excited and was like replaying and rewinding a tape over and over just to hear those words again. I am sure he didn't doudt what you was saying. Sounds like you have a great guy!
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