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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend slept with a guy I care about a lot -- do I drop the friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago, my best friend of 12 years slept with my long term boyfriend. I broke up with him, but eventually forgave her. More recently, she slept with a different ex of mine, who she knew I still loved and cared deeply for. She said it was a drunken mistake on both of their ... (107 words)

Separated since school ended and miss him terribly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a guy about a year ago for eight months we hung out together everyday and part of the night. We lived at a college for kids in their junior and senior year of high school so we lived in the same dorm but had strict rules and on floor times. He was a senior ... (233 words)

How can I tell for sure if I'm having an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 June 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi there! I realy need some peoples advice. Me and my boyfriend have dated for about a year and a half ( also the age on this is wrong I'm actualy 17) and when we have sex I don't know if I have an orgasm or not. I don't even know what it's supposed to feel like. I lost my ... (142 words)

We broke up over a misunderstanding! I didn't cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im jenny 18 , iv been with my bf for a year and a half, the other day on the 23/6 somethin happened, wen my bf asked me abou this guy i met in , there was a misunderstandin, he asked abt that guy who lived in germany, so in my head al i remembered about him was in 2008 we ... (311 words)

Embarrassing dilemma about undressing in front of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age - ok im 49 a young 49 and have a 40 yr old boyfriend.........my problem is im too embarrassed to undress in front of him!...........im on the tubby side and after 4 kids got a belly....(which i hate!) i was married to a drunk who yr after yr after yr knocked my confidence to the ... (113 words)

She says she wants something to remember me by?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My Girlfriend is moving to australia , we both dont want her to move , what can i do - if anything , to make her going away a bit easier because , at the moment we have decided on a make the most of it as long as we can but she said she wants something to remember me by, any ... (87 words)

They say girls don't care about penis size, but what about boys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so I've read all the questions and answers about penis size. And people say it's what you can do that matters and the girl won't care what size you are. I know that but I still feel insecure. And also..I'm a bisexual 15 year old and people are always saying that the ... (122 words)

Is this normal to feel upset after sex or a hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time this week with a guy who is three years older then me. I really liked it and he was so sweet about it but we aren't dating and there are storys of him being a player but I let him do it anyways. It's been two days since and he isn't really talking ... (145 words)

My wonderful wife won't indulge mild foot fetish. Any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a bit of a foot fetish. It's not excessive, I just like to see my wife barefoot, and enjoy it when she occasionally rubs her feet on my penis. My wife knows all of this, and isn't opposed to any of it, but she never indulges me. I've told her on a number of occasions ... (411 words)

I know he was a jerk, but I don't FEEL he was a jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have serious problems letting go of a guy, who I know (rationally) was a jerk! But I love him so much, and I feel bad all the time. I mean, he was jealous of my past, and because of that, he called me names and was verbally/emotionally abusive to me. Yet, I still see him ... (369 words)

Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age - Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) at everything, Best at Sex, ... (367 words)

How do I tell my ex I miss his company?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We both decided to move on. But after on msn it got out of hand and he said he never wanted to speak to me again. After that he blocked me. A month later he unblocked me and said "This is silly I want to be friends although you probably ... (117 words)

Is it okay to see a separated man or should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ok to see a separated man? They are not divorced but looking into getting divorced, he keeps asking me out, says its over, he went back to her a second time for 9 months, they had counselling too, but says he is no longer in love with her and cannot stay in an unhapp... (112 words)

I'm gay, and I don't want to be!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey Everbody, i really need help with this problem i have....im gay , but don't want to be...i feel that being gay was not meant for me...nobody knows im gay and itz killing me to keep this secret...itz taking a toll on my life and ruining whats suppose to be the best years of ... (138 words)

Is it okay to go out with her? No sex, of course!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, what it is there's this girl who likes me a lot and I like her back! The problem is, she's 15 in November and I'm 17! Is it wrong to be going out with a girl who's 2 and a half years younger than me? Nothing will happen in terms of sex or anything of the sort until she's 16 ... (77 words)

My boyfriend has Aspergers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. i found out today that he has aspergers i have tried to look online to find more information but find it diffficult to understand all of the medical terms that are used. some of the symptoms that are described though i cant seem to see that he ... (95 words)

Love? Infatuation? Lust? Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am studying in college and I have a problem. I am attracted to a teaching assistant in my college. She is 23 and very beautiful and has a great body. I know she likes me as we have talked a lot and sometimes when I have flirted with her and she did not mind and also fl... (230 words)

Is there a way I can find out the truth? Does he or doesn't he have a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way I can find out the truth? There is a guy (who I worked with) I really like him and we have flirted for about a year and have always gotton along and we have loads in common, we arranged to go out once but he had to cancel last minute, no explanation and ... (401 words)

I need a cute, but not girly, name for my man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i was wondering when your in a relationship what do guys like to be called? Alot of my freinds said they like to be called "daddy" is that true? My bf calls me babe, beautiful, baby girl, angel, love. I usually call him handsome or my man and i want to be able to call him ... (80 words)

I love my parents and I love my boyfriend but I can't have both!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 24, and i've been in a great relashionship wit my boyfriend he is 42 my parents hate him because of the age difference and they think he is wrong for me but to be honest he is wonderfulllll,i Love him so much he really cares about me and very serious he asked me to ... (104 words)

I want to be with her but she's in an LDR with another man, how do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been close friends with this girl and she knows I am interested in her. I had popped the question a couple of times and she without being direct had dropped hints that she was not ready yet and asked me to wait. Which was fine with me. She has had a bad past, ... (328 words)

Should I try to convince my close friends (girls) to masturbate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 16, and I wanted to ask if I should try to convince close friends (girls) to masturbate or should them discover that alone. Im talking about girls my age... PS: I know it is healthy to do it.... (43 words)

What does he mean? Is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i've been texting this guy for 2 months. I never see him much because we're both busy. When i do see him, we wave, smile, and talk for a few minutes. Anyways, when we text, we have real conversations- we ask eachother questions and really get to know eachother. Recently, ... (178 words)

How can you tell if a guy enjoys sex with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a question here somewhere about sex that I also want an answer. From a girl's perspective..how does one know if her partner enjoys sex. Can you see it physically? By body language? This is a question I don't have answers to. Can anyone give their insights?... (54 words)

Am I in love? Or just comfortable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've come to the stage in life where i'm wondering whether i'm in love with my boyfriend or just comfortable in our relationship. The thought of breaking up with him tears me apart at some times, but at others I feel like I want a relationship with someone else. We've been ... (402 words)

She threatened to kill herself, how do I end this relationship safely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm going to start this off by saying I never planned any of this well me a this girl starting talking on facebook manly because I thought she was my supervisor from a amusement park I work in well I thought that was over done well she sends me a message saying I... (194 words)

He doesn't know I exist, how can I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy I saw on facebook (: like... really bad. He goes to a school near mine. He's in the year above me.- And the same race. We have 25 mutual friends, and hes close to my cousin and her friends. But I cant ask her for help. My friend request is still going thro... (179 words)

I think like him even though I only met him once what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well a few nights ago I went too this party and long story short I had a bit too much too drink. I started talking to this guy, we spoke for a long time and danced and before I knew it we were making out. We almost slept together but he said that I was too drunk and he ... (163 words)

Is she just using me as a comfort provider?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age - I am a 66 year old male married to a woman 15 years younger,our relationship is becoming more and more strenuous.The main reasons are money and our sex life when it comes to money I feel that she spends way beyond her means.For exsample $2200.00 on a laser procedure to rid her ... (151 words)

I made a big mistake by having sex, my fling started to ignore me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - had a fling with a guy for 2months who recently chatting up a girl in front of me on the street 2 weeks ago, and has the cheek to call me asking if he can see me cos he wants sex. so i told to f off then he said don't talk be talking to me that, 20mins later he turned up at my ... (120 words)

I'm worried that he's not as in to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I am 25 and in my first serious relationship and have a few questions about sex: 1. When I am kissing my partner (he is 40) he doesn't seem to get aroused. He does when I do other stuff like give him oral but not when we make out..does this mean he does not enjo... (273 words)

Is he being sincere or should I be wary ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so im friends with this guy at work. i really like him a lot-not sure the feelings mutual but basically ive been there for this guy through thick and thin this last year. ive helpedhim through his work tests and stuff and was a rock to him when he had a near breakdown-in ... (166 words)

B/f went through my cell phone messages and thought I was cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I forgot my cell phone in my boyfriend's car and while he was driving back to return it to me, he went through my test messages. To keep it short, he found some messages that made him think that I was cheating on him in the early stages of our relationship, but then ... (120 words)

I refuse to be a walking doormat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I been dating a guy for almost 2 years. We had a lot of problems because of him. Recently, a friend of his asked him to let a girl from another country stay with him for a few days. She came here looking for a career, and it turned out a scam. So, after a few day staying with ... (151 words)

Ex will not give me permission to take our child away. Should I just do it anyways?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to take my child away for a few months but Ex will not give permission. Should I just go and face the consciences when I get back? We are seperated but not legally. He is on the birth certificate. If anyone has been in this situation it would be great to hear... (67 words)

From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just didnt feel like i fit in to ... (209 words)

Still a virgin at 19. Should I just lose it or wait for that "special one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and still a virgin. This is really getting to me in a really bad way now. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i just keep thinking one morning i'll wake up and find that im like 40 years old and still in the same situation. Im terrified it wont happen to ... (289 words)

Contraception question

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife had our baby 8 month and two weeks ago. She started using norigynon(injected contraceptive) 2 weeks ago. Can she still get pregnant? Will she see her period when she complete the month?... (36 words)

I gave him a love bite and now he's acting all weird

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so upset rite now, Im having problams with a guy im sort of seeing but where not in a relationship but sleeping together, anyway a few days ago i gave him a love bite and obviously he noticed it, it wasnt huge and could hardly notice it, Anyway last nite, i txt him see... (270 words)

My man is defensive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend i have been together for two years now and we just recently just moved in everything is good.i have problem with hem every time i ask hem why he gets so defensive whenever i ask somthing about hes exwife he gets realy mad he doesnt want to hear what i got to say ... (288 words)

Can I get pregnant despite everything that is going against us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am pre-menopausal for several years and maybe 1 period a year and my new companion is shooting blanks can i get pregnant. i am 40 he is 48 thanks... (33 words)

I dreamt I kissed another man, and the same night my husband dreamt about me cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i had a dream a couple of nights ago that i kissed a friend that i fancy, my husband also had a dream the same night that i might go off with someone else now i cant stop thinking about my friend, plus he lives in the same close as us. what should i do?... (55 words)

My husband feels more like a friend to me than a lover, and now I have met someone else....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 and have been married for 7-years. Our relationship is good – we talk, laugh and generally get on well. The problem is that I feel we are more friends than lovers and for the last 4-years we have not had sex. 6-weeks ago, I met another man and we really hit it off. It ... (177 words)

Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Another poll for you ladies: Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask? If not, how far off are you? A) Yes, I tell them my real number if they ask B) I tell them my number of "real" boyfriends or relationships, but leave out the one nighters... (113 words)

Is there any way I could make this work out with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am 25 years old. I met a guy through some online dating thing a couple of months ago he is 21 he was a very sweet guy and we still talk a little but lately hes been acting weird not talking to me as much. He still says he wants me to be in his life but I dont know. I am ... (164 words)

The sex in our relationship is too good to lose......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my boyfriend and i have the best sex i have ever had in my life. always passionate and honestly he is pretty kinky, bit of a freak. but.... i think we've broken up tonight.!! we fight so much now we barely have any sex, but is more intense that ever each time we do. i... (172 words)

I'm worried I'm not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know why but im worried im not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed. he seems happy with me, he gets an erection just by me kissing him and he never loses his erection, is that a good sign ? and he usually always climaxes when we have sex, but i cant read his mind and... (173 words)

I don't want to break up with him but I cant stand feeling like he has gone off me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and have been with my bf for about 6 months. I really like him but every so often it's almost as though he's gone off me but anytime I ask he says everythings fine. I feel like I'm just paranoid but a lot of the time I text him first and ask him to meet up, ... (194 words)

I feel guilty for kissing my friends boyfriend, espeically now they are having a baby together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend i use to go to school with and we were like best mates, we still are good mates (say hello everytime we see each other). she is 4 months pregnant with her first child, and she has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, she loves him to pieces and he does love her ... (255 words)

My feelings for my father are verging on hate and I feel nothing towards my mother. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of a strange question, and I feel awful about it, but I'm 18 and I don't think I've ever properly loved my parents. This isn't by any means just a recent thing, I've felt this way my entire life. Whenever either of my parents have shown and form of affection ... (554 words)

I kissed another man, but then my boyfriend found out about him! Do I keep the new man or try to get back with my boyfriend?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 19year old girl.i was in love with a guy for around 5years.he too loved me a lot.but now things are going wrong.nowadays our communication ends up in fight.he uses literally bad words at me.i hate it.but in some corner of my heart i feel that there is some love for ... (310 words)

Why is my girlfriend so secretive over her phone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Ok let's get into this straight away. I am in a relationship and its going well. We are in love and going to be having a baby in Oct. Not married but we are strong how we are. I Don't know why but my GF always has a secretive mind. For example when she says she is... (181 words)

My husband chooses porn over sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 24 years old and i've been with my husband for nearly 3 years. when we met i knew he liked porn, but it wasnt a problem for me at that time because we were having sex. but soon i became pregnant and the sex stopped. Even long after having my child, we still werent having ... (258 words)

Have I messed up with the girl I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Folks, I have known this girl for approx 4 years and we have been great close friends. A few weeks ago our friendship changed and with a planned visit out of town we had a very special day and ended up having sex. Shes got me bad under her spell now and I am b... (367 words)

I want this relationship to work but his age is creating a problem for us in the bedroom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 41, I'm 24. We've been together 2 years. I go to Uni so we see each other for a month or so at a time, then we are apart for a month or 2. I love him very much. When I met him i thought he is my perfect man in so many ways and i could happily be with him for ... (746 words)

Confused about my sexuality!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am a 19 year old male and have got all sorts going on in my head sexually, am I gay, bi, straight or what? I know people shouldn't label and I agree, and I agree that sexuality may be like on a scale type thing, I just want to see what people think? And its good ... (445 words)

One night romance with co-worker gone bad.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an office mate. He is my crush and I did everything so that he will knew it. One night. He invited me to join clubbing with his friends. After that, he took me back to my place. He wanted to stay for a while so I let him. We started to have a romance. He had it coming... (106 words)

2 years together. 3 years since she left me... Why can't I fully move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, my first love has come back to haunt me again. It's coming up to the time of year where me and her first met face to face after talking over the internet and falling in love. We met in her hometown on the 10th of July, 5 years ago this year. Our relationship las... (396 words)

Are these all good signs for us? And what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy, he's pretty awesome! Total package! I posted a few days ago to get advice on how to "catch" him. He's always on the road for work, not even from my same city. We talked on the phone for two hours tonight. He played music on his lap top for me, stuff he ... (239 words)

Girl thing gone bad? But why? Where do I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my, as of last week, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. I've been in bad relationships and understand most problems. I'm a very nice guy...and everyone says too nice...bringing her flowers just casue its wednesday, picking her up and ... (429 words)

Interferring mother making our relationship problems 10 times worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for over two years on and off. We are both 22 now. We have had our issues, he is a mummys boy, he thinks his mum is amazing. which is great, exept his mum hates me with a passion. We have had our ups and downs in the relationship, we... (1450 words)

How can I act wild in bed to satisfy my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i' m in a relationship past 3yrs , we get physical several times . but he is not happy with me , because i dont satisfy him , i dont know how to react wild in bed . please suggest me... (41 words)

I am worried my colleague is suicidal, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Afternoon aunts and uncles. I need some advice about a colleague of mine. Over the last few months she keeps talking about suicide and killing herself. She even asked what is the best way to kill yourself. At first I thought it was just attention seeking but now I'm not... (183 words)

I hooked up with my best friend! Only two problems, he is gay, and he has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "Joey" and I have been best friends for eight years. When we were younger, I had feelings for him, but about four years ago, when he came out as being gay, I completely moved on with my life. Around that time, Joey started dating his boyfriend "Brock" who had been an openly ... (433 words)

I'm scared of sex and getting married soon!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am 18 and I'm getting married soon. The problem is that I'm a virgin and I am scared to have sex. I have always thought of sex to be disgusting and I even tried to get over it by watching anime porn but I couldn't bring myself to do so. I'm not into the kinky stuff ... (114 words)

All I can think about is sex and I'm going desperate! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all,, this is a 19 year old guy, a virgin guy, yes I never had sex, because the gals in my town are not so open, well it's not too easy to get a girlfriend here. but since last few months, i'm just getting out of control. whenever i see a hottie, I get an erectiond. i ju... (91 words)

Do you believe there is any way to change what sex you are physically attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try 2 make this short! Basically I am a lesbian and always have been. I have never been confused about my sexuality, I love women. The thing is that my best friend, who is male, has been in love with me for many years now. We are great together, we always have such an ... (216 words)

I didn't mean to act uninterested; how do I make him come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. A guy liked me for about a year. Shortly after he started liking me, I realized I liked him too. As the year passed, the feelings grew but since I'm generally a shy person, I never really responded to his staring/attempts to communicate. From the start of the school ye... (334 words)

What did this dream I had about my boyfriend mean?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im an 18 year old female ,a few months ago i had a dream where my boyfriend who is 22 was just standing there in the pitch black with a heavy mist passing behind him , he looked lifless and pale.. he is a heavier guy about 210 lbs. in my dream he was very thin ,about my size ... (160 words)

Should I stay in this relationship and if so do you have ideas on what I/we can do?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have had a roller coaster of a relationship...we are at a point now where we fight all the time and I have resorted to reading articles about how you know you are in a toxic relationship or not...so i went through and answered some topics...jut looking for ... (1584 words)

I have found out my boyfriend has been lying to me for nearly a year, I'm scared there could be even more he is hiding!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a little lost as to which dirction to turn. My boyfriend lied to me. Everyday, for nearly a year. He told me that he lost his licence because he never converted his international licence to an Australian one about 1 year ago. I recently discovered through a third party ... (187 words)

How long does it take for genital warts to show up?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you have beed exposed to genital warts which i have (i knew he had them and it doesnt bother me because i love him but i still have to face the fact that i could have them) how long does it take to show up if you do have it and if you dont have no warts is there another ... (62 words)

Will he choose me in the end over his other girlfriend?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im dating a guy who has a girlfriend already he's been with her for about a year and i knew but i let my feelings get in the way and i told him i wanted to be his girlfriend too. so we been dating a while im really falling for him and want him to leave his other girlfriend and ... (141 words)

I'd do anything to be with him!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a guy i like and ive liked him for about 2 months but he already has a girl friend what should i do? ill do any thing to be with him!... (32 words)

B/f too possessive of me!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 19year old girl in relationship with a guy for the past 5years.we both loved each other a lot. but for the last few months we are fighting so often.he uses bad words like hell.i couldnt bear this.i know he is too possessive on me.he always remind me of the bad parts... (282 words)

My lover who told he will marry me after 2 yrs is now calling me sister

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm in love with my colleague for the past 8 months, i expressed him and he asked me to wait for 2 yrs, and he told he is facing some problems as of now so he asked me not to call or contact him for 2 yrs and i told him ok ,but we used to talk weekly 2 or 3 day... (109 words)

How can I fall in love with someone else when I'm in a relationship?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a problem. im 14 and i have a boyfriend hes 17 and ive known him since i was 12. i really love him and care about him and i dont want to leave him but ive been having this crush on another guy for the longest while and he likes me back,actually i feel like i kinda love ... (109 words)

Husband doesn't last long during sex and its my fault

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Once before I have come to you for advice or answers. Yet again I need more. Forgive me, and thank you. Firstly my husband and I have had many problems in our sex life. He does not last long and I feel as if it is my fault. In the beginning he lasted quit... (177 words)

I just can't seem to get a hold of my boyfriend!!!!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing this guy for approx 2 months now (physically, more like a month and half because I did some traveling in between). I don't want to pressure him or sound like one of those girls who freak out on little things, but there are times I feel like he just vanished ... (477 words)

Why did my ex treat me so badly but he's so good to his new g/f?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend was very abusive to me. In ways you would never want to imagine. I was such a great girlfriend ifelt like tho. I did everything for him too. Well now he has a new girlfriend and has never even threatened to do anything to her (not that i want him to im glad he ... (122 words)

My girlfriend is pregnate with another mans baby... what do I do???

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend really love eachother... A While back we split up.. and she was with another dude.. and didnt think we'd ever get back together, though she tried. We've been back together now for about two months.. and she just told me that shes pregnated with that other ... (166 words)

I don't want to fight anymore with my best friend over the guy I like!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm like kinda confused, and Sad and A little mad about this problem. My Best friend, Means everything to me, I would do anything for her. I like this Guy, that she doesn't like. And Honestly, she doesn't have to. it doesn't bother me that much. I love This... (206 words)

Will my second chance end before it has a chance to begin?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - After not talking or seeing an ex I cared about for over 10 years we recently reconnected with each other. By chance both of us are currently single but she is going through a divorce right now. We started talking and it as if we were never apart. The love I once had for her ... (276 words)

She keeps changing her mind how she feels about me

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - "O, swear not by the moon, the fickle moon, the inconstant moon, that monthly changes in her circle orb, Lest that thy love prove likewise variable."(romeo and juliet) I'm completely in love with this girl and i know she likes me but she's always changing her mind on how she ... (108 words)

I love her but I think she still loves her ex.....

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 and i know this girl since two years now. its been a while since her last boyfriend, around 5 months, (and way more handsome than me...) so i wanna try myself. the thing is, this girl likes to put on msn everything that happens on her love life. so i recently knew that ... (132 words)

Do the words mean something or are they just mundane pet names?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Stupid question maybe, but I'm very curious. I've been seeing a Peruvian man for the past few months and needless to say, the accent is unbelievably hot and I adore the language :p but, I wonder about the things he says in Spanish. I wonder if they're just common and ... (111 words)

I know he is no good for me and I need to stay away but I cant get him out of my head, what can I do?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i need help, or an advice maybe....i am tired of crying for this boy and i trully love him but something is wrong..few months ago he and i fought because he saw me talking with a boy he doesnt like but it is my friend...the boy i love was my best friend but since that ... (299 words)

Dating for 2 months but now he stood me up, what is going on here?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months and everything has been very well. He is very nice, takes me out a lot, to good places and stuff. I have been to his aptm several times and meet some of his friends. However last week I received a call from his phone at 2 ... (167 words)

I'm cheating on my lover but don't know how to chose between the 2 guys

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 19year old girl in relationship with a guy for the past 5years.we both loved each other a lot.but for the last few months we are fighting so often.he uses bad words like hell.i couldnt bear this.i know he is too possessive on me.he always remind me of the bad parts of ... (272 words)

How should I sound if we are just friends?

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30 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1533 words)

I came in between 2 friends without ever meaning to!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A former friend hated me when I started dating his best friend. I found out he had a crush on me which may be why he hates me so much. I've never done anything to hurt him but he blames me for my bf not wanting to hang out with him. My bf said he wants nothing to do with him ... (125 words)

Help - Relationship Falling Apart -I Love My Girlfriend, But She Is an Irresponsible Slob

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Help. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over three years. We have been living together in an apartment for almost two of those three years. I am 25 and she is 21. Things seem to be slowly falling apart. I almost feel as if I am not in a relatio... (1579 words)

Will I get a 3rd chance with my ex?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i have a problem with my ex.....We started our relationship april 2009...we both fell in love in a very short time...but i broke up with her over the summer because i was a jerk i made up a lie and we broke up i told her i was leaving back to my mothers country and not ... (754 words)

16 with a 7 month old baby, but my mum says I cant be with a guy who is 21! Is this true?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 16 and i have a child thats 7 months old and i really like this guy but hes 21 and my mom said i couldnt be with him is that true? i didnt know because im emancipated.... (39 words)

She says it just doesn't feel the same anymore!

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend says she loves me and loves hanging out with me, but just doesn't feel the same anymore, and she means everything to me and she knows it.What can i say or do to help her feelings. ... (38 words)

He won't let go of his ex!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What to do about a b/f that won't let go of his "ex"? I feel like I'm always living in her shadow, a continual ghost who still walks amongst us and he gets mad when I make references to her (usually during a fight) yet I know it's because I see the pattern in his behavior that ... (216 words)

Did he just say that to make me jealous?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I have like for about 3 years, but only really realized it a while ago when we both admitted we liked each other. We flirt a lot by making fun of each other. It was going great but then he said that he had been talking to this girl all year from camp and he's ... (123 words)

Boyfriend doesn't make my low self esteem any better!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a low self esteem but i don't think that my boyfriend makes it any better. My boyfriend is a beautiful boy. He's the kind of guy any girl would love to be with (on the outside of course) he's tall blonde with beautiful glossy blue eyes with a great body. He's almost ... (461 words)

Facing the consequence or live normally with this strange thought in my head?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I am a 18 year old male an have a crush on another male. But here is where the problem comes in, I am definitely NOT gay! For one, I am a Christian, two I have better values than that. And three, I do not want to even think about the thought of being a ... (237 words)

Ever since he brought up going on break I've been thinking maybe it would be a good idea?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 2 years now, I love him, and hes the first guy I have ever fell in love with. We used to talk about the future, and whenever I suggested something to do such as (movies, beach etc.) he would say yes. well, now that I dont see him as ... (175 words)

Why no sex for the last 3 weeks?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years off and on. The last year has been perfect. Just the last three weeks have been no sex. He got a new job with good pay and a new car. He just seems not so interested in sex with me right now. Is this something to worry about or ... (96 words)

Why isnt she telling me that she moved back?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex and i had been broken up for about 4 months already due to long distance. However i just recently found out that she has moved back in state to where i am currently living at. During these times she is still contacting me and still trying to talk to me but she does not ... (122 words)

I don't think she's going to let me be a father to my baby1

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I am going to be completely honest here. I was dating this girl for about 5 months but have known her for almost 8 years and she is now 11 weeks pregnant and we are no longer together. Before we broke up, she moved to west virginia to help out with her mom, but her and her ... (212 words)

My boyfriends brother is acting strange is he flirting wit me or just being nice !!!

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (1).we shall begin with the first time he saw me , well at the time he saw me he had no clue i was dating his brother but he still remebred me standing outside the pub smoking while he was talking to his brother .(2).from the time we were properly introduced he was asking us to ... (610 words)

I've lost so much respect for him because of his porn use

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 1 year and a half, I love him but I've lost so much respect for him because of his porn use. I find his internet history full of porn videos, with titles like illegal teens, incest, and other disgusting things that make me sick. We've ... (97 words)

I feel like this time around he's trying to get me back or something

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I went out to the movies the other day. He was supposed to bring these free tickets he had,but when we arrived he said he wasn't able to find them at home. I then told him I had no money, cause that was the truth. He have me a dirty look, and said "Awesome!" ... (151 words)

Could he be bi or gay?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and when I was using his computer I found his extremely extensive collection of porn. It is mostly quite graphic images of men receiving rough anal sex - both from women who have strap-ons and from transexuals. Although this ... (102 words)

Anger or abuse?

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everybody, i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now although i think we just broke up for real. and i think i want to break up but for some reason i cant bear to be without him and i have a panic attack and freak out when we're close to it. He is fair bit olde... (699 words)

I don't want my son to give the baby up for adoption

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30 June 2010 (F)

age - I have 2 very serious questions My family has ALWAYS questioned my parentling skills and has ALWAYS given me advice on my "out of control kids". When my oldest son was 16, he got into a little trouble at school, he started hanging out with the wrong kids, got into drugs and g... (329 words)

It's been rocky for the last while

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i met about 8 months ago and has been together ever since. Im his first girlfriend, so i feel kinda honored. But, the thing is, he lives in Missouri and I live in North Carolina. We've been so much in love and we never thought of breaking... (189 words)

I can't work out how I feel or what I want.

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, there has been good and bad points and on and off points. After uni I moved with him back to his home town in Northern Ireland. It was there that he cheated on me with an old school friend of his (apparen... (188 words)

Is our long distance relationship over?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My long distance girlfriend said that she doesn’t love me the same way as when we first met 3 months ago. My feelings for her are as strong as ever and ive also got a plane ticket to see her in October. Ive asked her to judge me in person when I come in October she said fine ... (221 words)

She's going back and forth about leaving an abusive husband

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a married girl for a few weeks now. She is roughly my age. When I first met her, I didn't know she was married. When I found out, I was ready to never speak to her again. I'm not a cheater or a home-wrecker; or so I thought. She went on to tell me how ... (917 words)

How do I perform oral sex?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have started experimenting with each other, we recently tried oral sex, me on her and her on me. I'm a bit concerned because I feel I'm very messy when I do it, like, all over the place. I know where everything is but I'm not sure what to do, I just sort of ... (146 words)

My girlfriend is refusing to eat properly, what should I do?

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30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles whom have helped me many a time, I have grown concerned about my girlfriend - she had eating issues before I knew her, she was constantly concerned about her weight, and now it's come back to haunt her. She's on a diet that involves having the smallest of ... (145 words)

His ex wife doesn't want the child to know about me

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30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for two years now we recently just moved in and everything seems to be good.theres just something that im tryn to understand better.hes ex wife doesnt allow hem to see there daugther unless i am not around or goin to be home for the weekend ... (286 words)