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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If a guy mentions how attractive he is to you, do you think he likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need some advice. If a guy mentions how attractive he is to you, do you think he likes you? I was just wondering if this guy liked me. There have been other incidences, but I wondered about the attractive comment. Thanks :)... (44 words)

Should I break up with b/f, father of my child and never see him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i broke up with my boyfriend for 9 months and now were back togeter for 5 months now!!! we have a 2 and a half yr old son! his father doesnt take care of us both and i dont think i love him or anything like that but theres something keeping me from letting him go and ... (129 words)

He says there is "no spark"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over 7 months now, and lately we've been having a few problems. He says there's no 'spark' in our relationship anymore. when i asked him what he meant he said that he doesn't miss me as much as he used to when i wasn't with him. Is this ... (96 words)

How can I get him to overcome his principles and self control and give us a chance or am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age - Having been celibate for a long time, I met a guy I really like. The attraction between us is incredible but he will not give in to it as he thinks I have 'issues' (true!) and to see problems develop as a relationship grows is one thing but he feels it is pointless to start if ... (132 words)

How to get him to ask me out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I became friends with this guy a about three and a half weeks ago. Well we really got closer when we had this spring fling water day right before school ended. ( I just turned 15 and he is about to turn 14, I'm going to be a sophmore and he's going to be a freshman) anyway, ... (165 words)

Is it normal for lesbian porn to turn me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, recently I have had these "fantasies" with my friends. My female friends, and I love watching yuri/lesbian porn. The thing is that i have never had any reaction to another female. I've never had that tingly feeling inside when I talk to them. But for some reason lesbian ... (69 words)

I think I spend too much time with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a new bf and everything is going really well! but i feel like i spend too much time with him. im not one of those girls who has a bf and that's her only priority i need my friends. But i feel like they are all together without me and that im just there and the only ... (72 words)

Will an STD result come up in blood work or do I have to specifically ask for it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a horrendous few weeks. My boyfriend of 6 years (I am 20) we got together when we were 14 has cheated on me. And at first I thought I could get over this but I found out there was a hell a lot of girls (sexting, kissing, meeting up etc...) I'm not mad at what he has ... (303 words)

Does a relationship really happen because of butterflies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend told me that she wants to be single and we should just be friends. I can honestly say we have love for eachother but she doesn't think our relationship will go anywhere. She met a guy a couple days ago and she told me that he gives her butterflies and she never ... (175 words)

Do I try to stay friends or hope for more?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i recently met a group of people that allowed me and my gurls to join their lil click...we hang out with them all the time. then i met him he was so cool when i first met him i didnt excpet to grow feelings for him i just saw it as another friend but with time things started ... (295 words)

what sort of person would I look like faking a pregnancy and abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

- A few years ago i done something really stupid. I lied to my ex and told him I was pregnant to stop him splitting up with me for another woman he had met. I was totally in love with him and really didnt want to lose him. However, the plan didnt work. He still wanted to split ... (193 words)

Is he interested or not? 2 dates and things are still quite foggy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone! I fell for a 5 year younger guy at work (he's not my direct subordinate, but he works in the same department). Last summer we went out once and kissed/made out (after I said 'what are you waiting for' after he'd been staring at me for 10 mins on the couch). ... (290 words)

My friend is still angry 6 months later that I didn't meet her boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Back in January, my friend wanted me to meet her boyfriend. We made plans, but I got sick and couldn't meet with them. My friend got very upset with me and wrote me a long e-mail saying how I "flake out" on plans and so on. I apologized for not being there and said I look ... (217 words)

Do you regret losing your virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like to get some kind of an idea of how many people regret losing their virginity because of the person or your age or those who wish they'd lost it earlier? People who wish they'd waited until marriage and those that wish they hadn't? Im not looking for full... (91 words)

Girlfriend of 4 years left for ex of 4 months. PLEASE HELP

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a tricky situation here and need all the help I can get. I had been going out with this girl for more than 3 years. If you add the courtship period, it should be somewhere around 4 years. Last month, all of a sudden, she stops talking to me. I try to call her, text h... (1181 words)

PLEASE give me advice and opinions on older successful man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - would a successful older male ever be interested in a not-so-successful younger female?? we get on great, but its in his nature to be so friendly and pleasant. i only know him through work. he's ten yrs older, is divorced and has children. what do u suggest i do? he doesn't ... (74 words)

How do I help my depressed mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi all, this is a question about my relationships within my family my parents have been breaking up on and off all my life, they don't normally stay apart for longer than a few months and it's fine me and my sister can handle it because my mum couldn't get a job if her life ... (261 words)

Wife feels betrayed by husband's big mouth

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age - I made a doctor appoitment with a specialist at a very prestigous clinic for a chronic problem I have and I asked my husband that he please not tell anyone that I was going because I did not want any questions about it. I feel it is up to me to disclose any medical information ... (193 words)

I feel jinxed!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am like jinxed i swear i dnt know whats wrong with me! I had been flirting alot with him over the past week and then he asked me out, i said i'd think bout it and i said yes couple days later, but i wasnt sure coz it was mostly flirting and heat. and now like i do to all m ... (124 words)

How can we spend more quality time together alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance' works 7 days a week, owns his own business, has 3 children (2 at home). My only child is out on his own. Problem is, fiance' can't seem to make time for me. He's either at work, on phone with work, or on computer watching work. Then his kids require time, of ... (83 words)

Dating my son-in-law's mother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age - Hello. I would like to ask a question. I am divorced for some 5 years now. My oldest daughter is married and has a wonderful husband and two beautiful daughters. Her husband's mother is also divorced for now over 2 years. We have been chating and have been to dinner a few times ... (164 words)

I am scared that my partner might leave me when I get old.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am scared that my partner might leave me when I get old. I was 22 and my partner was 37 when we started dating. I am now 24. His previous girlfriend was only 20 when she got with him and he was 32. His first girlfriend however was one year older than him as was a wom... (161 words)

Getting married in a few months but can't get my ex and the sex we had out of my head.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age - Loved sex with ex girlfriend but am getting married in a few months. Have seen ex gf who I was suppose to marry. When I have seen her I think of the best sex I have had. Love future wife and sex just not match in terms of orgasmic frequency during stimulation. Vag... (119 words)

I can a woman physically cum over a male???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was giving my boyfriend a handjob the other day and he was talking saying dirty type things and he goes: 'mmm i want you to cum on me.' what does that mean ? do women 'come'/'cum' like men do ? i've masturbated for ages and when i orgasm or before i never have had a mal... (109 words)

Boyfriend worried about losing track... makes me think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a great relationship even though it is long distance. But he is very caring and loving. He is under terrible work pressure and last night he said he is a bit worried how to cope up with this phase...in coming days he might not be able to talk regularly. He was thus ... (312 words)

They're totally in love but it's driving me nuts!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. My best friend is in a long-distance relationship with a guy the same age as us (18) and they're totally in love. I don't have a problem with this. Her boyfriend comes to stay with her every few weeks and they're very happy together. The problem is that they're too in l... (237 words)

I am jealous of his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know my partner loves me and he is always saying how he can't wait to marry me BUT there is something in my mind that makes me feel 2nd best to his ex. When they split we were just friends and it got nasty between them, one night he found out about her seeing someone e... (290 words)

My boyrfriend has addictions to drugs and harming people and animals

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I have a problem that I'm coping with and I would appreciate it if you could help! Recently I hooked up with a boy from my team sport. He's fifteen, I'm sixteen, despite the age on my account. Anyway, I'm really into him and he's extremely into me. The thing is, he's... (141 words)

I feel tired of trying so hard and getting nothing in return.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, so I've been married for about 9 months Im 27 years old and my husband is 28, my husband and I rarely have sex, I'm lucky if it happens 2 a month. We dated for many years (11) and our sex life was great and as soon as we got married it all stopped. On our honeymoon I ... (257 words)

She is the only woman I have not been scared to love...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm in need of some serious advice because I just don’t know what to do. My ex broke up with me last January after 4 years together and 2 years engaged, the last 6 months were very turbulent, this was because I was working 24/7 trying to get money to pay the bills, because ... (599 words)

We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends and late that night we went ... (152 words)

Where did it go wrong and will she ever love me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age - My partner and I lived very happily together for five months, and you could not have met a better match. We balled and played and we’re so deeply in love. Our home was too expensive to run, so we decided to move to a cheaper place in the country. Money was tight, and the move... (227 words)

Would it be wrong of me to see two different men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was involved with a married man a little over a year ago. (His wife knew and approved of the relationship.) He went away for work so I began to persued another relationship with a different man. The second man and myself are in what can be described as a long-distance ... (197 words)

How can I tell if there may be "something" between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OPs Own Title" Hi Readers. I've posted some questions on here before, but I'm still looking for advice. I'm a 23 year old female, with a MAJOR crush on a 34 year old female. I don't even know if I am gay or not - I've only ever felt like this once before for a woman, the res... (322 words)

How do I get my ex-boyfriend back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I was just wondering me and my ex boyfriend broke up after a week of dating because everyone caused a lot of drama but he came over 2 nights ago to help me with my math home work it got done at 11 30 than he stayed and sat with me talking about nothing till 3 30 than we went ... (123 words)

Is he keeping me around until someone better comes along ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Have been with my guy for almost 3 yrs we broke up for 6 months and have been back together now fir 5 months . The problem I have is he keeps saying he isn't ready for a committed relationship he is trying to get to that point . We don't see other people . He gets upset if I ... (305 words)

How far will she go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 9 years now I have always thought of her as very sexy -- at times she can wear outfits that make me crazy. But as of this last year she has started to wear outfits that show more then the norm. At first it was fun, I never knew when or where, but ... (79 words)

I have a fear of eating with acquaintances!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I explain my problem, I'd just like to clear up one little thing: I don't have an eating disorder, I'm a healthy weight, and I love love love to eat, most of the time. With that in mind, even I'm finding it difficult to believe that I've got the issue that I have. ... (292 words)

I have been cut off and sit now like an idiot not knowing what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick and to the point, if someone is going thru a rough patch in their lives personally and emotionally and claims they love you more than life itself, then when they have a temper tantrum and slapped you of which they've never done before, then felt so bad that they acknow... (231 words)

Is it possible for a yeast infection to spread through sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an appointment with my gyno last Thursday. Well, I got a phone call back Friday with the results from my pap test I had, but I wasn't home to answer the phone so I had to wait until the Memorial Day weekend was over to call back. I didn't think anything of the call, and ... (162 words)

Bumped into my ex and he said he'd wished we didn't split up... oh noooooooo why did he say that???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

- I'm 26 years old and I have a 2 month old baby with someone I no longer have feelings for. We are both there for our baby but our relationship has become so bad that I cant talk to him without feeling angry or frustrated. Basically, alot happened when I was pregnant and I didnt ... (210 words)

Ex may have non-consentual indecent photos of me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age - Hi. My problem is this. I was with my ex for 7 years. Last April he left to be with someone else. Now he wants me to sell the house to give him money. Things have gotten a bit nasty but the other day he e-mailed me to say he had 'found' his old blackberry file and it containeed ... (207 words)

Dating felt more like hanging out with a friend than all the excitement of getting to know someone new. Should I risk a relationship with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice please on how to handle a friends turned more situation. I have been spending time with this guy as a friend for the past year and in the last couple of weeks we have both confessed that we have feelings for each other. He lives about 350 miles away and he ... (256 words)

I've met his friends and family... does this mean he's serious this time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my current boyfriend of 1 year has cheated on his 2 ex girlfriends with multiple one night stand partners. he was with the 2 ex girlfriends for 2 and 1 years respectively when he was 27 and 30 years old. they never found out he cheated. He is now 31 and his friends are all ... (98 words)

Setting the scenario for a break up???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - So, this is my second time posting. Last time i said i wanted to break up with my boyfriend and that i found an apartment that is ready to be moved into. Everyone thought i was being scared and didn't want to break up with my boyfriend. But, I'm not scared what i was trying to ... (93 words)

She tells me she loves me then sleeps with another guy the following night!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this girl for about 10 months, we worked on a resort together. After the season was over she went to another resort for 6 months that was 3000 miles away. I did not go with her because of some family reasons. But we remained a couple for that 6 ... (225 words)

Is she interested or is she just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, i am a 28 year old SWM, recently a girl that i have casually known for the past 2 years who is a good friend of one one of my close male friends was in a situation where she needed to get out of the place she was living in, i work away from home quite often and ... (419 words)

Sex is so painful with my new husband... how can I broach this subject with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi please i really need you guys to answer this and help me as i am becoming depressed and dont know what to do.. i have been married for almost a year now, me and my husband had sex only the first nite but not properly... after that i have been continuously avo... (159 words)

She's emotionally unavailable and it's killing me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age - Can anyone tell me how to handle a woman who is emotionally unavailable? I love her but she now just wants to be friends...... (25 words)

This guy has got me thinking I am crazy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to explain this but I'll try. Theres this guy I'll call Tom, that I like, and he likes/liked me. This all started less than 2 months ago. We got on well. I think it all went down hill when he saw this other guy Bob kiss me out one night. Tom saw me freak out... (314 words)

How do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age - Please help, I am open to any suggestions, I will try and keep it brief. My husband met up with his two half sister's from his dad's side of the family at his dad's funeral recently, he never really knew them at all in fact sheila he never lived with and the other one cynthia, ... (898 words)

How do I make him see I am sorry for pushing him away and I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I pushed my partner of almost three years away. I have anxiety issues due to the phobia Emetophobia which is basically I am petrified of being sick and others being sick. I went through a bad patch last year and I couldn't be without him. I was terrified to be left alone and he ... (506 words)

My boyfriend tells me he is too busy! Is he losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when your boyfriend tells you that they will be very busy (work) for the next month or more? They mean it in the way that you probably wouldn't see them. Mine did. I have barely seen him for the last month, sex once in the last 4 weeks. I personally think... (108 words)

I'm worried that sex is going to really hurt with my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - when i'm masturbating i can't get 2 fingers in, me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but im really paranoid its going to really hurt if i can't even get 2 fingers in, what should i do?... (38 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I have met someone else without hurting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a female of 24 years I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years six months now, the problem is that I have lost interest in him and have met someone I think I love, and he on the other hand wants to get married, how do I tell him all this without hurting him?... (57 words)

What should I say to the boy I like? I really struggle to find the words when I am with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - can you help me by telling me what to say to a boy that i like but he doesnt know that i like him.... everytime i call him i just say hello and there is a big pause after that because i dont know what to say. remember that he doesnt know i like him.... (55 words)

Why do I always keep running back to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid,i ve being in a flunctuating relationship that is almost lasting for 5 years now.we have not being able to keep it normal and cool, we always argue curse and then settle,untill it gets to a point of big obsession for me that i cnt let go of this guy even after we ... (290 words)

How do I control my jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So depressed don’t know what to do. Sorry this is long. Been with fella since Jan this year. He asked me out. At the time he had come out of an 8 year relationship whom he has two children, one 7 one 3. They had been split since june 09. She chucked him out because he... (1598 words)

My boyfriend's wandering eyes are making me wonder if he will ever cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my partner have been together for a year, we love each other lots and he has now moved in with me so hes closer to me, he treats me good and tells me he loves me all the time, we also have a baby on the way. i may be reading into this but the other night he took me to ... (140 words)

Is it possible for me to get a council flat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18. im 3 months, i still live at home in my 2 bedroom council house with my mum, dad and sister, me and my sister share a room... i have been bidding to get a flat but it has took ages, it looks like im not going to get anywhere with it, i need to move out really its just ... (168 words)

Please help - In love with two amazing men.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. Desperately. I am in love with two men. Two amazing men. They are both kind, loving, caring, funny, gorgeous and the problem is, they both love me. They both have asked me to marry them in fact. Now to an average person this would sound like a dream.. two great men ... (325 words)

I'm sick of lying to my parents about my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been going out for 2 years now and managed to keep it as a secret from my parents. My 2 year older brother(29 almost 30) met him and he likes him. The other older brother of mine (31) has no idea as he lives abroad. However, my 29... (695 words)

Why is my girlfriend behaving like this? Is it just exam stress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend and I are in the middle of our exams, i have about 6 left and she has a few more, however a while ago she just suddenly seemed to be off with me and when i asked what was wrong she just said; "i dont know whats happining to be honest" I then went down to her hous... (148 words)

I want my ex to be in the baby's life but he hurts me too much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to let everyone know that i'm not 13-15 but im unable to change it on my profile, i am 21. i am 5 months pregnant by exboyfriend (26 y/o). he was not the best boyfriend in the world but i was very very in love with him. at the moment i live in california and h... (356 words)

What is this thing inside my vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For at least a year or two now, I've noticed (felt) this small, penny size bubble on the lower side of my vagina. It's completely painless, and feels like bubble wrap when you push on it. Nothing has ever came out of it as far as I know. I've went to my gene. and had all the ... (133 words)

It seems like my ex hates me, but then he insists he wants to be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I started talking again and agreed that we both would like to be friends. The thing is I started realising that even though he brought up the friends thing it didnt really seem like he was trying to be my friend. He never asked how I was or anything or tried to make ... (261 words)

My fantasy about my foster mum's cousin is affecting my relationship with my girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

1 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I a have sexual fantasy about my foster mum's cousin. What should I do? Has it is effecting relationship with my girlfriend.... (22 words)

Should I tell him how I feel or tell him to work things out with his baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Omg. People, please tell me what to do. I recently just stared talking to my ex-boyfriend as a friend again. When we broke up we were friends for a while, then i changed my number, then the holidays came around so i wished him the best, out of love. He was my first boyfriend, ... (266 words)

Bleeding during masturbation, why did that happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i was fingering myself hard and there was some blood why what happed??... (14 words)

What should you feel in the early stages of a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What should you feel in the early stages of a relationship? I know it's not all butterflies and hearts racing, but my new boyfriend leaves me feeling almost indifferent and I don't know why. We've been together for a couple of months now and we hang out together nearly all the ... (85 words)

Am I in love with my teacher or is this just an infatuation?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was thought by a brilliant techer,who was in his late 20s, when i was 16. but i had to move to a different and far off place the next year itself. this guy i am talking about thus thought me only for about 6 months. By the time i left i realised that how much i loved being ... (188 words)

I'm worried my boyfriend may be losing interest in me!

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and i hadn't had sex for a month. He says its stress. We finally do and the entire time (only goes for 10min) my back is to him. I barely saw his face, there was no kissing. It was just sex in a spooning like position. Usually it goes for at least 20mins, a few po... (171 words)

Is the man I am sleeping with really into me or not?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm trying to get some insight into whether the man I'm sleeping with is really into me or not. Here's a little background. 1. He is my boss. He is the mgr of an upscale gentlemen's club and I am a dancer. 2. We've been living in the same house for about a year when i am i... (450 words)

How can I repair the damage done by fulfilling my boyfriend's fantasy?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I fulfilled a fantasy that I knew my boyfriend was desirous of. During it, there was an interruption whereby we thought someone was approaching. He drew himself nearer and said, "Don't move". As we stood still a moment in silence and close proximity, I gently kissed his ... (319 words)

Is this guy interested in me based on tonight's actions?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So today, my friend had a birthday party. He invited some people I knew (they're all upperclassmen; i'm the only freshman there) and there was this one guy who came late. We were all tired from the dancing and everything, so I saw down and I laid my head on his shoulder. He... (112 words)

My girlfriend cannot have children but I love her regardless, how can I help her through her pain?

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1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7months from today and a few months back she told me that she cant have children. At the time she was told by the doctor. She was young and she didnt really care. But a few weeks ago she fell pregnant and now she is really up... (175 words)

Middle Eastern girl wants to marry an American guy, does anyone have any advice?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please i need very serious advise. i am from middle east from muslim culture.i am not religious person.my marriage was fail last year.it was not my fault.i saw my friends who marry with different cultures and have very good life.there marriages are successful.now i am ... (94 words)

How can I confront my mother about masturbating?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and female. I have been masturbating since i was 12. I know i am too young to buy a sex toy and my mother and I don't have a very good bond. I'm afraid to ask her to buy one for me. Any advice on how to confront her without being embarrassed or her exploding in my face ... (77 words)

How do I make him understand I don't like what he is doing?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I dated for 3 years... he recently started to care... after 3 years! And now he thinks ive become the bad person. I mean no one is perfect, I know ive made mistakes, but hes cheated on me 3 times. And before he spoke to girls like he wanted to get with them. ... (216 words)

I have a hard time cumming when having sex, is something wrong with me?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a hard time cuming when having sex, is something wrong with me? My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now and it's getting harder to cum. When we first started it took a while, but now he cums twice before I cum at all. It's not that he is not good, no no ... (99 words)

Where do Broken Hearts Go?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend off and on for 2 years I was pregnant back in june but I miscarried in September of 2009. We had problems for the whole two years he never really wanted a relationship but I did, I guess after browbeating him so much he finally consented. When we were ... (537 words)

What is wrong with my boyfriend? I am so confused! Please Help!

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am hurting really bad right now and I'm really confused. My boyfriend and me have been dating for four months, and whenever we do not get to hangout we text all day straight , well i am on vacation right now and i asked my bf if we could not text just for a day so that i ... (156 words)

What do you make of this conversation between my ex and I?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what do you guys think of this conversation me and my ex had... mind you we've only been broken up for a week May 26 at 7:43pm me: why are you making yourself sound like i didnt give a s**t about you. your such a lame. i BEGGED ON MY KNEES for you to be with me... (1629 words)

My teacher texts me at least 20 times a day and I really like her, what should I do?

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1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm 18 and I just graduated from High school, my teacher is 26 and she constantly texts students, I dont know how much she texts the other but with me its atleast 20 a day, we talk all the time and we hang out after school, shes gone with me to colleges and to my ... (217 words)

Should I give up on her?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I give up on her? this older woman I been crushing on. shes a lesbian.when I'm around her and we talk shes stand very close to me.sometimes it seems like shes getting closer to me when we talk.shes always smiling when she sees me but when someone else around that she ... (329 words)

I miss him so much but he wont answer my calls! What should I do?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he doesnt want to answer any of my calls and he doesnt respond to any of my emails.... i know i sound crazy right now but i miss him so much. my life feels so boring with out him. everything reminds me of him. what should i do? how should i forget. i feel like him and i are ... (65 words)

He cheated and lied, where do I go from here?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently snooped through my fiancés phone and found an email from the end of April from a girl he used to date. It was clear they had been sleeping together and he asked her to email him some sexy pictures. I freaked and confronted him and he said the messages had the wrong ... (292 words)

Questions from a gal who's new to "everything but"

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Moderator note: three questions combined I’ve recently had oral with my boyfriend. It was my first time, but not his. He says he cares more about making me feel good than himself, and wouldn’t mind if I never touched him at all. I feel the same way. We talk about the future a... (870 words)

I'm worried because he's talking to this other girl

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So i been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years an things have been pretty good. The first 3 years since he tended to break up with me for some other girls. Only because his parents didnt have a good relationship an it freaked him out whenever it got serious. So anyway t... (202 words)

I've noticed the way the boss is looking at me

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1 June 2010 (F)

age - I had a meeting with my boss and he kept looking at my breast and was intentionally trying to keep me there for longer than necessary. I have noticed the way he looks at me and is trying to help me in my career. I am trying to work out how to handle this as I do fancy him b... (90 words)

Trying to re-connect with the ex, but was the pic a bad idea?

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1 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what i would do differently and ... (620 words)

Why do I lose interest after I've masturbated?

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1 June 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Why is it that every time I masturbate, as soon as I ejaculate I immediately lose interest. I mean i just stop, clean up, and go on about my day like it never happened. I don't like this because I...when masturbating have deep fantasies, but as soon as I ejaculate i completely ... (70 words)

Broke up because of distance, but family pressure is complicating things

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1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey here’s just something I wanted an opinion on. You can skip down to the questions if you want but here’s the background if you want to read it. **BACKGROUND** I was in a relationship for 7 months that was semi-long distance (us being only 17 made it so that we co... (674 words)

I still worry about him and other girls

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of two years knows A LOT of girls. Which would usually be fine. But we had a row about a year ago, cos he met up with an ex behind my back, but we sorted it through and I forgave him. But...the damage still remains and I find it tricky to STOP worrying. Like, ever. He ... (98 words)

He's amazing, but contacting him is nearly impossible

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a few weeks has already flaked out on me (without calls to let me know) twice. I really like this guy and when he spends time with me, he's utterly amazing. But getting a hold of him is nearly impossible. Should I stick with it and hope that once the ... (67 words)

Should I tell my friend about what happened with her brother?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I’ve managed go get myself into another difficult situation and I’m not sure how to proceed about it. About a month ago after a particularly difficult day where I had just ended an off and on again relationship. Not because I no longer had feelings for the guy but because ... (200 words)

I suffer from an anxiety disorder -- how can I help my b/f understand?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice....I'll listen to anything at this point. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two months. I suffer from social anxiety disorder, its hard to deal with because I think very negatively and always feel like something is wrong. He's a great ... (186 words)

Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?

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1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxiety, im over that now. but 2 and a... (374 words)

Is it true blowjobs taste awful?

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1 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf wont give me one because she says they taste awful, but could it just be because of the guy she was with before? She said he had hygiene issues so I was wondering if that could be it. Is there anything that could make it less disgusting if this is true, like flavoured ... (104 words)

Input needed here! What can I do to make him trust me again?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so the boy i lost my virginity to is acting kind of different now. First he says, that the sex wasnt good and now he has a girl. He hates me for lying to him(which iDidnt) He doesnt believe i Was a virgin. And he tells me all the time that he hates liars but im always ... (181 words)

Please put my mind at rest!

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1 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so my girlfriend and i were messing around. we don't believe in having sex, however the other day she gave me a handjob... and i got some on my fingers... about ten minutes later i touched her vagina.. Am i safe? Is she pregnant?... (47 words)

How can I win over his mother?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. He's Muslim and I'm Christian. I am learning Arabic and plan to convert to Islam. We have been together for over a year. We have been seriously discussing marriage recently. He plans to introduce me to his mum soon as the final hurdle bef... (126 words)

He's given me an STD, how do I talk to him about it?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that my boyfriend has given me an STD and I'm so upset but i would like to talk about. I cheated once and he took me back, but i have no idea of how to start this conversation.... (41 words)

How can I make my relationship with my boyfriend better?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year, and we still love each other every much. i am sure of that. it's just we're both busy, and stuff with our work. and i want a little more "fun" in our realtionship, like we used to have. there hasn't been any arguing or ... (92 words)

What's the best way to test if a guy is interested in me?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What's the best way to test if a guy is interested in me? in a subtle manner! so that if he isn't, i can walk away without a dented ego!?... (30 words)

I am in love with someone but the problem is that I had a relationship with his best friend.

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with someone but the problem is that I had a relationship with his best friend. I know it was wrong but the guy I had a relationship with is married. It just happened bu now it's over. Now I have feelings for his best friend and we had sex twice already. I don't ... (77 words)

Do I deserve this treatment? Am I the bad guy?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do I deserve this treatment? Am I the bad guy? (be prepared to read)? First off let me give you a jest of what him and I We’ve been together for a year and a half, we’ve known each other for about 4 years or so, we lived together for 4 months at his house, we fought about lit... (1098 words)

How does he really feel about me?

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1 June 2010 (F)

age - Four years ago I was very unhappy in my marriage and got involved with a man who was also in a relationship. This went on for 3 years and although we never talked about our feelings for one another it was obvious that there were very strong feelings on both sides. Eventuall... (866 words)