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writes:please help me! i am in a big confusion recently i fall in love with a girl, who is 10 years younger than me. please suggest to me that i am in a right way? it is possible for this much age difference? please reply.thanks in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, blondie_1991  +, writes (15 June 2010):
I agree with all of the other posts, if you are 22-25 then she is 12-15 and that is just plain wrong. A girl of that age has no real idea of what she will be doin in a sexual context and if you ask her if she wants to do something it is more than likely that she will agree as she will not know to say no. If she was your age and the age gap still existed then like the other posts I would say that is acceptable but not at bothe ages you both are.
I also but cant help but notice, you say you have fallen in love with her, does she feel the same way or do you have no idea. If she feels for you I would still say it must be left however if you are unaware of her feelings for you this is just creepy and disgusting. My younger sister is in thsi age range and I would ahtre for her to become involved with a man 10 years older than her, who in many cases i would consider to old for myself!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): OP please state your real age, only when we know how old you are can we say if it is not only feasable but whether it is legal or not.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (15 June 2010):
 As all the other answers have said - if your age range is really 22-25 and this makes her 12-15 then this is very very wrong and you could get into a lot of trouble with the law if you try and pursue a relationship with her.
When you are say 35 and she is 25, then it is not so much of a problem because you are both mature, consenting adults. But if she is 12-15 then she is still and child yet you are a grown man, and you cannot think about having a relationship with a child.
If you do really love her then you will leave her alone - an adult should not take advantage of a child, she will be young and impressionable therefore you could easily take advantage of her and ruin her life. Leave her alone and let her be a child, let her enjoy her childhood doing all the things that teenagers do. And you should focus on your own life, and maybe finding a girl that is at least 18 and mature enough to be in a relationship.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 If you're really 25, that means that the woman is significantly underage (not to mention that the WHOLE thing is very creepy). It's also illegal, even, I'm sure, in India. It's just...wrong.
If she's at least 25, then she may be mature enough to know what she's getting into.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 In your country it may be possible- but that does not make it right.
If you are 25 and she is 15 - it's disquieting.
If you are 22 and she is 12- it's simply horrible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Of course! Go for it! I know lots of people who go out the other people way younger or older than them. Like my parents are 15 years different. My cousin has married a guy 20 years older than her. (Yes, she's 20 and he's 40). My friend is going out with a guy for 5 years now, 10 years older than her. All of them live happily ever after! Best of Luck! :D
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Please tell me that you're not 22 and she's 12. Even if you're 25 and she's 15, she's in a much different place in terms of maturity than you are.
A 10 year difference is nothing if say you're 35 and she's 25, or you're 50 and she's 40. But 25 and 15? In the US, that would be frightfully ILLEGAL, and it's still too much of an age differene.
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