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Help! Should I be trusting my boyfriend?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (15 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im utterly confused over where to go with my relationship of 9 weeks. Im only 19, so many of you may think im too young to be thinking as serious as i am but ive been in a abusive relationship before and i cant do that to myself again as i ended up in a mental health hosiptal with depression.

My new boyfriend recently went behide my back and began sending his ex girlfriend messages behide my back, argeeing to be friends behide my back and meet up without me knowing. I wouldnt of minded if id be told, and he told me what they were saying. She is a nasty person and from the messages she's sent him, she's just messing with his head. But i keep thinking about whether of not he would of let her fool him into cheating on me. Sometime she made clear she wanted.

I love him, i really do, he supported me though the worst possible time of my life. But after 9 weeks he went behide my back. I know he's sorry, he's begging for another chance and even asked me to marry him to prove he only wants me.

I have no money at all after all my bills, which i dont mind, but she told me he gave her half his wages after bills. I just dont know if i can trust him. Please help me and give me some advice.

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A male reader, jmsoco United States +, writes (18 June 2010):

If he hasn't cheated on you, you have nothing to worry about. He may just want you be jealous, or vice versa with the "ex-girlfriend".

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