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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want so much more in life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I pretty much going through a LONG stage of depression. I don't get a long with my family including my annoying lil sister. They don't understand me and never will. They only have one mind set, they always think of the negative happening, and they think that what ... (310 words)

There's always little things in every relationship that don't need to be said.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend and couldn't ask for anything better, we tell each other everything. When it comes to our past partners I have told her the truth (3 people before) but have lied about who they are. Just about ages, because I was kind of embarrassed one of them was older, ... (124 words)

Why do women fake being pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do women fake being pregnant. Twice in my life (not now) I've had girl fake that they are pregnant with my child. I've called them out each time. One was normal girl, who I would never expect that behavior from. She was a fling of sorts but a cool chick....and I know she ... (190 words)

It takes him so long to ejaculate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is unable to ejaculate, we have tried various methods but to no avail, it takes him over 2 hours to make himself ejaculate through masturbation. Could this be medical problem or is this just natural for him? ... (39 words)

Why does weight matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I was wondering about this for quite a while. Why do guys typically avoid girls who are somewhat overweight? I am perfectly average for my height and age, but I was asking on behalf of my friend. She is fifteen pounds overweight, but she isn't obese. Her height is 5'8" ... (100 words)

How can I let go of the man who would be completely perfect if it wasn't because he's too jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm having a hard time letting go of my ex. We had many issues concerning jealousy (mostly his) during the relationship. The problem is, I was very patient during our relationship, and I put up with his distrust, jealousy and anger. I never cheated or anything, I think it was ... (428 words)

She blew up in my face out of nowhere and now I want to end it with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 26 and my girlfriend is 24. We have been together for 2.5 years and have been living together for 2 years. She had a bad ex-boyfriend who abused her physically and mentally and unfortunately brought a hell of a lot of insecurities to the relationship. I put up with ... (173 words)

Tips for my camping trip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, Ive invited a few of my friends to come camping with me at the beginning of the summer hols and we're all REALLY excited! I need some tips so that it will all run smoothly! What if get out of control? Some of them are dating each other.... What if.... Ya know.... Th... (101 words)

I have a new boyfriend but I'm scared of being hurt again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I had my heart broken by a guy i was in love with, i loved him from the moment i saw him, for months after i spent all my days thinking about him, talking to him, each time falling deeper, but all this time he was hurting me, i didnt realise how much it upset me at first, he ... (277 words)

I feel terrible and don't know what to do!

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I ask that you don't judge or write mean things because I already feel terrible about this. My best guy friend (i'll call him Brandon), he's practically my brother, started going out with one of my good girl friends (i'll call her jenny) and they were happy. Then he s... (284 words)

How long until making out and making love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When you start dating a guy, how long should you wait before you start making out and before you start making love with him?... (24 words)

I need someone to tell me that two people can love each other and it last forever.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old. An orphan, dumped into the arms of grandparents when I was 12 after my mother died. My sister lives in London as a pediatrician, so I rarely see her. I've learned the way of life on my own, and now I've fallen in love. I met my girlfriend by mistake in October ... (561 words)

The condom broke

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, ok so today my girlfriend and i had sex for the first time. We were both virgins and I had protection during intercourse. Before i came i pulled out and the condom wasnt broken or anything. So she said to put another one on. So i rinsed the cum off my penis and dried it... (326 words)

Whenever my friend is ill, she disappears. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My close friend of mine is carrying a lot of baggage. She's been to a psychologist, a shrink, has borderline and a handful of other mental disorders (written down on what she calls her "declaration of insanity). Anyway, despite all this she's a good friend to have and she ... (240 words)

What's this boy up to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 and i got out with a boy in my year. he is so sweet and weve been dating for about 3 weeks now :) he chats to me for hours everytime he is on facebook or msn or anything, and we talk about everything. every time he has to go he says i love you etc. he ses we are meant to ... (293 words)

I want to rekindle our romance. Should I ask him to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hey my boyfriend broke up with me because we are going around in circles and he feels the love gone and he says we never get back together so no point talking about it. but hes the one for me he was always the one for me but i guess i never really showed it cos i was afraid i ... (143 words)

I'm confused about my feelings for this boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I fancy this boy. This boy is my auntie's boyfriend's son, so kind of my cousin. He is also four years older than me but I can't stop thinking about him. I know it's wrong and I am underage but it's not illegal in the uk. I couldn't possible tell anyone let alone him. He also ... (92 words)

Please help me to write my letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, There is girl in our company which I really like but there is also a big problem. She is my boss and I'm too afraid to say anything to her. We went out a few times for drinks and lunch, I think there is connection between us, we had eyes contacts and you know…any... (270 words)

I am confued if I still love my boyfriend or am I falling for his best friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend broke up and his bestfriend is always there to comfort me and helping me mending my broken heart secretly. He reveals that he is attracted to me but i am his bestfriend gf that time. Now i get back with my xbf but i am very sad coz we need to cut off our ... (128 words)

I said that the outset that I only wanted a sexual relationship, but now I'm wanting more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When i broke up with my boyfriend at the end of last year i started meeting up with this boy who had also just got out of a long term relationship.. at first we used to go out for drinks etc then we eventually slept together and i said how i was up for something that wasn't ... (260 words)

Who do I pick -- the baby mama or the sex slave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im 21 and i have sex alot. the condom split when i was havin sex withmy girlfriendand she got pregnant. a few nights after i got her pregant i went to a party and had too many beers and got another girl pregant i didnttell one about the other my girl friend is hot and okay ... (131 words)

Took emergency contraception, but feel like I'm pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my period last week for five days,finished on thursday.However,im feeling a lot of nausea everyday,and i puked 3days ago right after having breakfast...Which is a similar thing to morning sickness.I had unprotected sex 2weeks ago and i took emergency contraception but i ... (55 words)

Feel so alienated from my family since they found out I'm a lesbian

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well, hello. heres the story, questions at the end. the other day, my mother found out i like girls. there was no question about me being lesbian (which i am) or bisexual. she was just pissed and all depressed about me liking girls. anywho, my mom went through this depressi... (210 words)

Does having your nose pierced hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this aint a relationhsip question or anything but i need some advice. do nose pericings hurt? Ive always wanted it doing since i was at school, im now 19 and i really want it doing. some people say its so quick you cant feel it and others say it does. What ar... (98 words)

How do I continue on after a bad break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get over a bad break up? it was a one sided thing, and i wasn't ready to let go, and he did a complete 180 change as a person suddenly, which has hurt me immensely. he went from telling me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me to saying he thinks about other ... (133 words)

Tired of lying -- should I fess up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I gave my husband (now ex husband) oral sex and he gave me oral sex and then we had a long and wild sex session that evening. After my husband (ex) fell to sleep, I called the police because my husband (ex) had traffic warrants. I wanted my husband (ex) out of my life because ... (244 words)

Is it safe to skip the condom while on the pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm taking birth control, I've been on it for about 3 months now, never missed a day. I haven't been active, but I'm curious that if I have sex, is my boyfriend able to finish in me, without the chance of getting pregnant. We don't want to use a condom, it's just much better ... (69 words)

Why would my new friend lie about being Italian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My post will probably seem odd but here goes... I have been at my current job for about 4 months and there's this 1 girl, Claire who befriended me recently. It all started because she found out I was Italian and said she was too, she wanted to know if we had any fri... (208 words)

Should I give it time or let him go? I'm getting too old for flings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now, he is 38 and I am 37. we spend two to three nights a week together, talk and text all day everday, go hiking, play tennis, etc. I will sleep in at his house when he goes to work and he will come home on his lunch break for a quicky. I ... (144 words)

Jealousy for attention, what gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Continue from the last, question. she is 33, and I am 40, we have known each other for 6 years, i have always kept up on her birthdays, we really didn't see or talk within the last 6 years which was just a week fling. So we been together for 4 months, someone I feel like she is ... (482 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with him over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my co-worker for over a month now. We went through nine weeks of training together, and became pretty close within the last few weeks, and started dating - which is completely unlike me for many reasons. He has a 2 year old daughter, and a baby on the way - ... (522 words)

Is he gay if he likes anal massages?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just curious about something. been with my partner 2 years, we are really happy together and have high sex drives (we are at it everyday most of the time) the other night he guided my finger up his bum, while he led there masturbating and he cum alot, he obviousl... (158 words)

Is trying to make me jealous a "dump-able" offense?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He tries to make me jealous, Is this a dump able offense? The guy I've been seeing for a month or so constantly comments on other women, be it the girl from running club, a co-worker or even the newsreader. He's very complementary of me too and has even called me "perfe... (191 words)

He's gay, doesn't know I'm gay, but I'm afraid to tell him how I feel!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im really need you guys opinion on this ok. Well, i Have this friend we'll call "Marco", who I've known for 5 years. We have alot of things and common and basically get along really well. Im gay (but not openly) and I think he's cute. i think i love him but dont know how t... (206 words)

I've come to have feelings for my wife's older sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm a married man for 6 months and my problem is i came to like my wife elder sister very much and sometimes lost interest in my wife. My wife elder sister is a simple person with a soft heart, she seem 2 like me as well but as i'm married to her younger sister she's feel ... (85 words)

How can you tell if guys are getting jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey how can you tell if a guy is getting jealous? I dont mean your bf or husband or anything but just a guy that may like you, such as a friend that might get jealous because he likes you? How can you tell? Any behaviour or anything? What are the signs?... (55 words)

My mother is a nightmare to live with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi aunts, i really need your help.my mom and i dont get along at all and sometimes i feel like she wants me out of her house. am 23, married with a son, my husband is abroad, making preparations for us to go there too. so until then, he left us to stay at my mom's place. the ... (395 words)

So my mom caught us having sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm 14 and he's 17, I had lost my virginity to him a couple months ago. I don't regret it, I loved him with all my heart. We broke up 8 weeks ago because I saw messages and pictures of him with this girl and they "really ... (239 words)

Makes no sense to me, why he texts without actually meeting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What's with texting? I met this guy couple months ago.He is a little younger than me. He started texting me few days after we met, first as friends and then flirty messages all the time. He is still in college, works as valet during summer. He started texting me for 3... (235 words)

I'm supposed to go on holiday with him and his mum tomorrow, but I don't want to go!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been having problems with my boyfriend lately. I'm supposed to be going on holiday with him and his mum tomorrow, but i dont want to go. he said " you're dead if you dont come " because his mum paid for the rooms. We only have to take spending money for food and ... (403 words)

Can he have feelings for you even though he makes fun of you with his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think a guy can have feelings for you even though he makes fun of you with his friends? Guys will be guys, they love picking on girls to get a reaction outa them (esp. with his boys) but when this guy is with me alone, he is THE SWEETEST AND MOST CARING PERSON ever! ... (61 words)

How do I win him over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a female, im 17years old and im love with a guy whom i have been seeing for almost 10 months, he is 23 and i don't know if he has feelings for me.but from the way he does things when im with him makes me feel he does. When i told him i love him he said im to small. So im ... (107 words)

We hooked up and now he says he wishes we hadn't done that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - During the last 8 months or so of my unhappy, abusive marriage I met up with someone I "knew of" many years ago. He expressed an interest in me but with me being married nothing could be. We stayed in contact and even flirted with each other. I started developing feelings ... (312 words)

He broke up with me because we argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on what to do :( I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and I love him so much. He's adorable, caring and funny and everything I could want really although we argue quite abit. It used to be about doing stuff like sexual stuff and I didn't really want to ... (368 words)

We're both married but while drunk I told colleague how I feel about him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do? I have a crush on a collegue who I have worked with for over 2 years. We have become good friends and sometimes there is chemistry which we both ignore as we are married. Last year he had a one night with another colleague of which he really regretted and co... (238 words)

Why would he want a clean break if he cares about me and thinks I am amazing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with a couple of days ago stating that he could not do this anymore because it was not fair to me that he was so busy and never had time for me. I told him that I understood that he is under a lot of stress right now but that I was here to support him and ... (402 words)

Should I Give Up on Boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on and off with my current boyfriend for about five months now. It has been a really rough few months. There were two breakup periods but in the end I gave in and went back to him. He never once contacted or tried to be back with me, it was me that did all the ... (523 words)

Relationship blues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - A 4 month relationship, and she is very spiritual, tarot cards, and I am very confused. I think she is trying to get me jealous( lookin 4 attention), but I am not sure. She doesn't talk to me over the phone, but only text me. She has told me its up to me to carry this ... (79 words)

Does anyone have a real chance with winning his heart if he isn't over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend was with his first girlfriend for six months from september 2008 up until march 2009. He kept telling us about how awful the relationship was after the first couple of months and to this day he still talks about it. All of his relationships only last for two months a... (148 words)

He's cheating on me with porn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a few days ago i found out that my boyfriend, who i've been with for 6 months, has been watching porn on a regular basis, it hurt alot. mostly because he made a point for 5 months of telling me he was proud because he hadn't watched porn or masturbated as what i did was enough. ... (240 words)

What can I do, I've fallen for someone who lives abroad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is quite simple really. What do you do if you have fallen for someone who lives abroad? Basically I finally met a guy who is perfect for me but I only get to see him for like 1week per year. I speek to him over the Internet and we have spoke over the phone. We ha... (182 words)

The test was negative, but my period is nine days late!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 9 days late and have took a pregnancy test last week that was negative but it feels like iv been having period pains for the past few weeks, could the test be wrong or is there something wrong with me, i also feel tired a lot and exhausted i had abit of blood for about an ... (64 words)

My daughter's biological father is a bad influence, do I have a right to keep him from seeing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm probably in the the wrong place, i need legal advice really... but i stumbled across this site and everyone seems so helpfull, i guess i just need to know if i'm doing the right thing or not?? I'm 22 and when i was 17 i stupidly got drunk and slept with a guy i'd o... (1446 words)

We broke up two years ago, but I'm miserable and still miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - i feel pretty miserable..my ex and i broke up about two years ago and ever since then i am just not happy. I still miss him dearly. We have been talking for almost a year now on the phone. I am 25 and still live at home..i'm sure there are alot of people who do..things can b... (655 words)

I can't fall in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I want to have a boyfriend but why I can't fall in love. How to fall in love with a person?... (22 words)

Am I a slut? Am I easy? Or are these two guys just been annoying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well, lately i have had a big boy crisis. 2 weeks ago today this guy who i knew, had asked me out again and i was going to meet up with him that day, when we met up he kissed me but then when i got home he rang me up and dumped me again. i didnt eat for about 4 days, just ... (279 words)

Does he want a relationship or just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so i'm in a relationship with this lad about 100 miles away, and i go to where he lives about 7 times a year and love him so much. Ive always liked him for two years but never thought we could have a relationship, as when i have asked in the past he ahs always been like... (266 words)

Will I get pregnant if I stop taking bc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dont understand why i cant find my question. So i will try it again. I need some emergency answer if that is possible. I start pills 2 days after my period. But now i think the pills is not fit to me. I feel always angry and easy to get bad mood. I think pills makes me not ... (87 words)

I want so badly to tell her I love her! I can't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and i have been out of high school for about a year now. when i was in 10th grade i meet this girl and she was beutiful she was in 9th grade at the time i began talking to her and we became close after a month i finaly got the courage to tell her i wanted to be more ... (562 words)

He cheated on me with a prostitute! Will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been now dating for 3 years, he cheated on me with a prostitute but told me everything that happened straight after and asked me for forgivness. Ive been trying so far to forgive him and move on but i just feel our relationship is so fake, i love him ... (201 words)

He said he wanted to marry me but now he wants me to marry someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my boy friend is in other country im in dif country just we start to talk for our marriage with our parents permission he explained about his past love life and break up i accepted everything i love him truly he used to talk with me more than six months and he said he l... (121 words)

He likes my hugs but how do I get him to ask me out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay there's a guy at church he's really cute I think he likes miibut I'm not sure. I give him a hug and he likes mii to cuz I asked him if it was ok if I was giving him all these hug and he said it's ok wit him. I just want him to ask mii out on a date just for one nite. His ... (106 words)

Does he find normal sex boring?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i are having issues with sex. I want sex alot but he says that he hates it to often as it gets borin! Im gettin frustrated as im always the 1 givin oral and bring in toys etc to spice things up but i get hardly any input on his part. We are only havin sex ... (100 words)

Issues with boyfriends friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends friends are really horrible to him and they use him. i hate seeing him unappreciated and it's driving me mad. i'm having loads of issues at home, it's a sensitive subject that i don't really want to talk about but my mum wants to leave my dad. my boy... (120 words)

Does it feel the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

20 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hey, up until now I've only had an orgasm through simulating the clit without intercourse, out of curiosity is the feeling of a vaginal orgasm the same, I mean through intercourse?... (31 words)

I can't help being possessive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm becoming overly possesive and very, very paranoid. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, a for the first year it was bliss. we spent a nice amount of time together, but giving each other enough space. now, i hate him not ringing me everyday, when he talks to ... (150 words)

Could he be sleeping with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF and I have been seeing each other for a year. We live quite far apart so only get together most weekends. when we started seeing each other, we both went for an STD check up and got the all clear. Recently I had an unrelated problem with my IUD and ended up in A an... (173 words)

Should I take my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - sooo... i split up with my ex boyfriend at october time 09, we split up because he wouldnt meet me, we never saw eye to eye (literally) and i had enough of getting strung along so i ended it, i deseverd better since i put myself out there, made myself vulnerable, plus the 7 ... (148 words)

How can I get rid of the feelings I have for my friend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey fellow Aunts; some of you might know me, some not. I haven't really been on for a couple months, but came back on today and decided to ask a question. I'm going to give a bit (well TBH, more than a bit) of background so you understand everything and can fully put yourse... (1122 words)

He dumped me, but says he doesn't want to lose me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...I just got dumped and was with the guy for almost a year it wouldve been a year next month on the 16 :( but me and him still keep in touch he tells me he loves me..I say the same but he tells me that he feels like i'm getting hurt to much by him but also says he don't ... (69 words)

How can she end this ordeal?

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a friend who is 19 and she has a bf who is 22 years old. They have been together for 5 years, but this 5 years of relationship was unhealthy. She broke up and patched backed so many times. They often quarrel and once she told me he have slapped her. She herself admits ... (220 words)

I feel like I can't make him happy!

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fifteen years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. He is my first boyfriend and I love him very much. Some days he will be happy and talkative but on other days he gets in bad moods and seems really depressed. I understand people have bad days, but his bad ... (172 words)

Do you think the sex problem could be part of the reason he didn't stay?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend has been sleeping over every Saturday for the past 4 months. This is embarrasing, but I have a lot of difficulty having an orgasm. I don't know why. I am fine with it not happening for me, but he always insists on making sure it does. This involves a ... (352 words)

His ex refuses to leave us alone!

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I need some advice on my current relationship and what is the norm in regards to when enough is enough when your constantly arguing over his ex partner. I met this guy 1 year ago in June, he had been living seperated from his wife for 6 months. Prior to that he ... (614 words)

Is he using me? He tries to force me to be in the mood for sex when I am not and we never make love.

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been having this feeling for a long time now. i have no idea what it is or where its coming from but its really bothering me. for starters, im in a relationship with a guy that ive been with for a year now... and we are sexually active but sometimes i get the feeling that... (402 words)

Is he dumping me and looking for someone else?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to think? I met this guy online a few months ago and thought we hit it off. For the first month, we just texted and got to know each other and then met up and had a few dates. We then slept together and then things started to get weird- he texted less and ... (158 words)

Should I take this guy seriously?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 weeks ago I met a guy and we started seeing each other. We are both living in the same country (not our home country). We've been on 4 dates and we both said we like each other. we both agreed not to have sex as it's too early and we don't want this to be just a fling. w... (247 words)

We broke up, we keep in touch as I insisted but he treats me badly. Any help?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend broke up with me 1 month and a half ago. We were both pretty new to dating (he was virgin, not me though because I was engaged before but I rarely saw the guy and the relationship was very abusive) I loved him dearly but I did some stupid things like I was very str... (559 words)

Found photos of his ex

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Following a female intuition-thing, I snooped through all the thumb drives my b/f has in his briefcase while he was asleep. When he goes on business trips, he always takes photos of the job site, the people he works with, I don't know what I was searching for (female intuition ... (274 words)

Finally got a date with her

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Today, the girl that I have liked for almost 4 years agreed to go on a date with me. I don't know if she is just humoring me or what, but I want to be able to show her that I could be a great boyfriend. Can anyone give me some ideas on how I could show her this?... (60 words)

Our relationship is great, except for her past

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know other people have had similar issues so I'm hoping maybe someone can help and suggest ways to deal with it. My fiancee and I have been together almost a year, she means everything to me and I truly do love her. Anyway, she is the first person I have ever had any sexual ... (533 words)

He's falling in love with me, but it's complicated

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently starting a serious relationship with a guy that I never thought was going to work out. We are doing well and he tells me everyday he is falling deeper and deeper in love with me. The problem is that I am in love with someone else. When he tells me he loves me I say ... (340 words)

Can't stop blushing! Any advice?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - whenevr I talk to a boy my cheeks get SUPER red! I was talkin to my crush and he said why are cheeks so red? I lied and said I just got out of gym. but then he ask to hang out! of course I said yes! but I know that I can't lie and say I just got out of gym this time. how do I ... (72 words)

Why might a virgin not bleed?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl of 19yrs,i meet a boy of 29yrs whom i hv being dating for 2years.recently he has being making life unbearable 4 me because there was no spill of blood or pains as he was the first man i ever had sexual intercourse with.so,what causes a virgin not to bleed and feel ... (63 words)

Saw a teacher at a strip club

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im just turned 18 and im a senior in high school. a few weeks ago i went to a strip club for my brothers bacholor party.one of the stripers was 1 of my teachers.who is like 24. durin the last 2 weeks of school since she been given be signs like lookin at me and rubbin her ... (84 words)

Farewell from an aunt

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

- After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the friends I have made: You ... (90 words)

Can anyone make sense of this?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to think of this guy, or what to do about it. He used to be my uncle's best friend, but they dont keep in touch now. This guy is only 11 years older than me. He first met me when i was 14, at my uncle's wedding. He said he liked me then, which i didnt like at ... (480 words)

SOS!! boyfriend VS parents!!!

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - umm...okay, my bf wants to meet my parents, and we been together for 2 years and 5 months. he really wants meet my parents, because he is serious about our relationship (he is 20 in college already and im 17 still in high school) i'm going to the same college as him (hopefully) ... (103 words)

What causes me to to have an intense tingling sensation buzz through my body during sex?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What causes me to to have an intense tingling sensation buzz through my body during sex? This doesn't happen every time, but I am curious to know the name of the nerve responsible or condition. I liken it to being electrocuted or intense "pins and needles" feeling, of course, ... (52 words)

He asked me to marry him, then said he no longer loved me

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for 3 years. We have a 2 year old child together. A few weeks ago he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes and things were great. Then a few days ago he started acting distant to me and one night he decided to sleep in our spare ... (249 words)

Snap at my friend because I'm jealous

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep snapping at my friend every time he mentions his girlfriend to me. I have feelings for him, so obviously my reason for snapping is because I am a bit jealous. But when I snap at him, I sometimes really hurt him or make him mad. I need to stop. I hate making him upset ... (102 words)

Boyfriend went on a jealousy rampage..how do I convince him it is unfounded?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. I have fallen madly in love with him. We have been talking about getting married after he is done with basic training for the military, and want to be with each other forever. He was staying the weekend at my house (i live alo... (348 words)

I don't want to take her from my friend but if she likes me???

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I went to a party the other day for my friend we decided to prank call people we ended up prank calling his girlfriend. At first we kinda pranked her then we just called her back and was being stupid but anyway after that i started talking to her i had met her once but she was ... (92 words)

What does it mean when she says "It was a shame I left you"

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i need to know if my ex still loves me. because today we were taking on facebook and she is coming up to visit her parents because she lives down south. and she wants to meet up with me and she also said to me it was a shame i left you. she even wants to see my parents and ... (104 words)

I have an oral sex fetish which I find unnerving and am morally against..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm bi, and in the last few years I've realized that I have a fondness for women who are submissive in giving their male partners oral sex. Male submission doesn't do it for me, and neither does lesbian submission. It's only when the woman is doing it for the man, and in terms ... (253 words)

I'm lost and destroyed by the lies of our post baby life, but still love her..what would you do?

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am lost. The past two months have been the worst in my life. For these two months my wife and i have not lived at the same place. It was forced upon us. About a week after i was gone my wife just put her fiendness in full throttle. Now times have been very rough after the ... (441 words)

Does my teacher like me as a friend? Or am I just his class favorite?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He has a few seniors in his other classes but I was the only one in my period. Apparently he didn't do this for the other seniors but on my last day of school he made the whole class get up to clap for me and they all rushed to make this arch so I can run through it. He s... (380 words)

Great sex, but weird side-effects?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex 6 hours ago and the sex was great with an even greater guy but now it feels like my vag. is leaking though when I go to the bathroom and wipe nothing appears on the tissue. I was even having brief minor cramping in my lower abdominals after the sex but I don't think ... (103 words)

What sex toys do women prefer?

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is game for any kind of sex and is really open to whatever sex toys I buy or new things I want to try. I'm pretty kinky and get off on some things that I suspect she only enjoys because I enjoy them so much. I asked her what her kinks are and she said she doe... (151 words)

How do I stay close to my mom, when she is calling me a traitor because I am moving out for study reasons...?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I'm going off to college soon (this fall), and my mother has been freaking out for a while. She and my father are divorced, and because neither of them ever saved any money for college for me I'm on my own (although I understand - we had some hard times when I was ... (297 words)

He's one of my best friends! Does he like me?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I find my one of my best friends very attractive, and all of my friends are very touchy so i normally dont think to deep into things when he is being sexual towards me. But today we were coming back from a vacation with our friends and when everyone else was sleeping he leaned ... (135 words)

He acts like he likes me, but does he?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So there is this guy, let's call him Mike, who acts like he likes me, He's two years older than me and super popular, and a huge jock, we are nothing alike but hes really sweet(ex. I use smiley faces a lot when i text so one day he asks me why i smile so much and i replied ... (592 words)

We seem to be opposite and argue all the time -- should I leave?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21. My husband is 23 we been married for 3 yrs... But it seems like we have had more fights and arguments then laughs together... We are constantly arguing... It is literally evry other day if not daily... I luv him w all my heart. We have 2 kids 2gether. We are complete ... (123 words)

Problems with oral sex

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I love my boyfriend very much and I love being intimate with him. There is, however, a hitch in the get-along. It really turns him on when I swallow, but honestly, I very much so don't like the taste. I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I'd like to be able to get ... (80 words)

Won't have sex with me, but I catch him watching porn??!!!??

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I see a lot of this "boyfriend/husband watches porn" topic on on here. So what's the deal when he says he's never been interested in porn, you've been together 3 years, living together for 2, and maybe had sex a total of 10 times--no, it wasn't frequent even in the beginning of ... (253 words)

He wants dirty pics and I don't want to lose him

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey my problem is i like my friend and i told him that i liked him alot and we just stayed friends but a few months later he said he would go out with me only if i send him dirty pictures of me and i don't want to but i really like him and i don't want to lose him plzzzzz... (71 words)

How can I fall in love with a man I've never met?

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen in love with a boy that I met online in Mid March. Never once have we chatted on msn...For the first 3 months of knowing one another was through emails, pages and pages worth of emails... Then we moved onto phone conversations. For the next 3 months we contin... (366 words)

Spousal loyalty...

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20 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out yesterday my 16-year old step-daughter whom I have raised since she was 6 months is dating an 18 year old. The kicker... my wife's known for 2 months and kept it from me. How did I find out? I happened to ask the right questions and my daughter had no choice but ... (612 words)

He's 30 years older than me. Should I make a move on him???

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20 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So, I have a situation here... I am doing an internship and it ends in July, so I have ten more days. The thing is, I've fallen for a man there. But he is 30 years older than me, has been with his partner for 13 years, and has a son - who is older than me. I wanted to ... (101 words)