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*imipinford
writes:hi every1..i am 19 and have been going out with this guy who is 42 n we r very much into each other so on monday he asked me if i would go with him for a weekend to gold coast.so far we had not had sex n if we go away together then i know that we will cos he turns me on.i am sure that i want to have sex with him but am scared that he is more experienced as he was married before n my ex-boyfriend was only 15 n i was only 14 when ihad sex.for a long time(4years)i have not had sex.so will it be painful cos when i had sex with my b/f i felt normal n no blood came.pls do advise me on it
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reader, simipinford +, writes (16 June 2010):
simipinford is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the answers but i am really looking forward to this weekend ...cos i think that we r in love n he is a understanding person
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): I haven't gone more then six months at any one time without intercourse but it hurts me to some degree 90% of the time. I depends on his size and how much your hymen tore the first time. Good luck hun. Just remember to use a condom, having a baby would hurt LOTS more then sex.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Yes, it will probably hurt a bit, so you'll have to be prepared for that.
Actually if you're 23 years younger than him, that's not the only thing that will hurt eventually. Still, good luck.
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