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Why can't I orgasm after masterbation?

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Question - (15 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2010)
A female Bahrain age 36-40, *143k writes:

My problem is I cant get orgasm or cum while masturbating what is the reason?? Or it's something natural??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010):

Ask yourself:

"Why do you want to orgasm?"

Step 1: Be genuinely turned on. Some women get real turned on just before period - just wake up horny. You can watch porn or flirt to develop this further

Step 2: You are enjoying yourself not having an exam. Dont get anxious or expect anything to happen. Just explore yourself slowly... if you get stressed or impatient nothing will happen.

Step 3: Go for it. You dont have to go all in one go. If you are getting there, you can hold it, stop then continue again a few minutes later.

If you are not dripping wet you shouldn't even gently touch yourself - it wont harm but means you are not ready. Focus on your clitoris - but you could do both.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (15 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntA lot of women have trouble reaching orgasm (not uncommon to be unable to with just your hands) and a vibrator can help and or watching porn. It's natural. Also, you are stimulating your clitoris right? That's generally more important than what you do vaginally.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010):

Try watching porn or thinking about something really sexual to get you in the mood, the longer you can hold out your masturbation, the better the orgasm is in the end.

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