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writes:hi I am freaking out bc my husband says he loves me and is good in ALL ways..BUT he ignores me with sex.......makes no advanceshe admits he masturbates a lot and has done so since he was youngerwe had a great sexual relationship in the beginning and for a while thereafter but it has been 3-4 years and we barely have had sex 3 times if thatI HATE him right nowhe did say he would go to counseling but he never followed up on itIf i do not bring up this issue, it will never ever be talked abouthe knows he has a problem but will not deal with ithe did say once when we had a big to do over it all that he did not know if he was attracted to me anymore..........he then later said that is not what he meant but only that he was confusedI want to hurt him i am sobbing all the time ..........i wan tto leave but really to punish him'I am stunned and sickened over it i have already been divorced once and had a breakdown when that occurred so i am ever so fearful of going through it all againI am soooooooooooo angry please help me
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 On theother side of your coin is me and tons of other guys; long time marriage with tons of 'up-front sex" but now it's NO! Never again! So if it's any consolation there are men being given the exact same tratment. try one more time by oral favors, if THAT dont work nothing will. lots of luck
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reader, smiley_1  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Hello,
Well its important that you speak up as you have been and tell him what you're feeling. Have u asked why he said he would go to counselling, and didn't go? Does he not believe this is a problem?
Ask him to cut back on the masterbating and satisfy your sexual needs,wants. He's being selfish.
Good luck
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