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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he just using me for a free vacation, or is it really long-distance love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in a long distance relationship with a man in istamnule turkey.he is younger than me but he grew on me .he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever and says i am his woman. but i dont know what to think the language barrier is stoping me from asking what i want to ... (233 words)

Should I tell him I think she's bad for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Please help me. My best guy friend is in 'love' with a girl who I'm worried about: My current boyfriend's ex. She cheated on him for eight months in a argumentative relationship before they finally split up. My boyfriend stills tells me about her, despite how long... (203 words)

Test says negative but still no period, am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem i have missed a period by about 6 days and i am never late and i have a few pregnancy sign like a few days ago i had a spot of blood and i have been haveing cramps and really sore breats, needing a toilet all the time and i keep getting breathless and tired ... (76 words)

What are these embarrassing sounds during sex..?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my vagina make farting sounds during sex? It usually happens after penetration and he withdraws his penis, when I resume standing position I hear these embarrassing sounds.How can I lessen it or stop it completely from happening?... (41 words)

Need help with shy guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't tell if he likes me or what I should do. Any suggestions? And why would he suddenly stop talking? I recently fell for a painfully shy guy who is giving mixed signals. The closer we got (which he often initiated on his own) the more distant he would become. He seeme... (262 words)

I found out my boyfriend received oral sex from a male years ago... is he gay???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - well about two months ago i found out that my boyfriend of 4 years got oral sex from a male about 4 times,, he says they never had sex only oral.. and the reason he never told me was because he was ashamed. this all happened when he was between the ages of 15-19 years old.. i ... (95 words)

Is he too much of a flirt for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf have been together for 1 year and some months and he has a flirting problem. I broke up with him because of this. Am i being stupid or did i have a legit reason for breaking up with him? his flirting is online (well atleast that i know of) and he got caught. We ... (155 words)

I can't count on him for too long...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused and frustrated, I don't know what to do, my boyfriend and I have been having a LDR for a year and a 1/2 now. Been together 10 years. He just relocated a few months ago, to another new area and job. We have lived together in the past and I recently lived w him for a few ... (409 words)

He wants to have sex with me... to practice!!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 17 year old straight girl, and recently one of my male friends, who is gay, was telling me about how it's common for gay guys to have sex with their female friends sort of as 'practice'... He didn't directly ask me but I'm inferring that he was hinting towards ... (176 words)

I love a girl who is a lot younger than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I don't really know how to start but a while ago I fell in love with a girl. But: she is a whole lot younger than I (12 or something) and I'm 16. And then I'm really shy so I haven't really talked to her. (At all, actually.) And I just love her! If there only was a ... (268 words)

Wetness...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i was wondering is it normal to get wet by just thinking of sexual stuff? Also is it normal to get in the mood out of nowhere like just laying in bed doing nothing? Lastly do guys get turned on finding out their girl is wet? Thanks.... (48 words)

Help!!! Any ideas how I can get him to ask me out???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey There is this boy at school who i met, caz my mate was going out with him. They broke up ages ago and she hates him but is going out with someone else now. I really like him but he is always messing me about by saying he will go out with me soon. My friends say he's not ... (95 words)

Will I be able to continue living on my own...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't exactly a relationship question, but I'm wondering if anyone has any advice? I'm 19 and just moved into my flat. Previously I lived with my parents but moved out due to problems I was having at home, then with my ex-boyfriend but left when the relationship ... (219 words)

Natural women verses porn...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have a question... I know there is A LOT of porn out there, many different genres, featuring a lot of different types of people, amateur, alt porn, etc. But if we talk about mainstream porn, which is the most common type, we'd all agree that the basic female star look... (310 words)

Friendship with the ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up a year ago, was very messy, we were together for a year and a half. I have a new boyfriend, everything is great, I love him to pieces. I don't think about my ex in any way other than a friend but my current boyfriend has a problem with him because he hurt ... (236 words)

What is the average height for a 14 year old female?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hello i was wondering what the average height for a 14 year old is nearly 15 i am currently 5'5 and wanted to know how much more i have to grow as well my goal height is at least 6'1 i have being going through pubirty for about 2 years now and have only grown about 5 inches ... (108 words)

How do you know if she is having a real orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you know if a woman is having an orgasm? Ive heard alot of women fake it. But how do you know if its real? My girlfriend likes it when i lick and finger her at the same time. While doing it, she pulls my hair and presses my head against her vagina. I usually look at ... (135 words)

His excuses don't add up, but I don't have the courage to leave him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age - I am 60 years old and married for 25 years. A relative saw my husband with a woman at theater. I found a motel receipt (paid by cash, not credit card) registered under his name. When asked, he said he saw homeless couples and let them stay in that motel. Yet I do not have ... (63 words)

Why do guys get so strange when they are with their friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im so freaking depressed right now, i dont know what to do, the one i love just joked me around on the phone when i called him, just because he was with friends, he is never like that when its just me and him, and i really dont know what to do, i get depressed so easey. So my ... (96 words)

Is it normal for your period to be late after losing your virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him around June 1st, and we have had protected and unprotcted sex a few times since then, but he never came or pre ejaculated. My periods are always on time within 2 days. I haven't ... (83 words)

How can I overcome this fear of being close with people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really need help to overcome a fear I have. For some reason it only started about a year ago and I just do not like people in my space if you get what I mean. I don't mind if we're just friends but if I know they like me or I like them I just cant hug them or give them ... (249 words)

He's insisting we become friends with benefits, but I'm worried he'll end up wanting more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that insists he wants to be a beneficial friend. He has remained in constant communication with me for over 5 years. When we are on the phone, we talk about everything for hours on end. I am concerned if I cross that boundary and allow him to have benefits, I ... (112 words)

He hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend and is 14 years older than me, but he treats me like one - whats going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this man I'll call Mateo and I have been seeing each other for four months and I'm extremely confused. He has all these pet names for me, he's always offering his help when something comes up, we can't seem to stop kissing or snuggling closer to each other at times, we have ... (198 words)

Do boobs really matter that much? Feeling insecure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 2 weeks. He is talking to this girl, I checked her FB profile out she has a son, has big boobs, big ass, she's like a muslim or something, she gets around, has a filthy mouth, she's fat. Why is he screwing her or even ... (103 words)

We're in a long distance relationship and he's paying for porn, should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and have found ourselves in a long distance relationship where we see each other every second month. This is not a permanent arrangement but will be for 8 months. We keep in touch regularly everyday when apart via text, te... (176 words)

Why am I so crushed now we're apart, when I know he never treated me properly when we were together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dumped my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago because he lied a lot and there was a lot I didn't know but would find out. I didn't hear from him for about a week, I saw him one day when I drove by obviously he saw me too because he texted me telling me that he wasn't going to argue ... (274 words)

What do these incestual feelings mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I'm only after hitting puberty, I'm a girl and I've recently been turned on by incest - I read it but I wouldn't act it out. Then I noticed i felt weird feelings towards my dad but I shrugged them off. Now they are back and I don't know what to do, I can't see a shrink a... (84 words)

I'm shy, how can I approach him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i ask a guy for his msn ? am a very shy person ... (15 words)

Is it normal to feel obsessed like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i was just wondering, everythime i meet a boy (i'm 14) that im attracted too, i get almost obseessed? i look for him in the same room as me, i cant help it, thats all i think about. is this normal, and what should i do? its weird and i dont like it...x... (57 words)

Don't want to go after a guy while I'm feeling all self-conscious and ugly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im in the athletics team at school, and theres this other boy from a different school that i see at the matches. hes really cute, and ive met him and we've chatted a few times. the thing is, i really like him, from what iuve seen, and i think (?) he likes me too, but at ... (134 words)

Does it sound like I could be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My period is supposed to start on 3 days from now, but today Im having some spotting. I also experienced spotting around the day that my ovulation was supposed to take place. But since I'm on the pill. I'm not supposed to have an ovulation. This is my second month on ... (168 words)

Time is running out! How can I get more friendly with this boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi in my computing class i hit at the same table as this boy how is very quiet and shy but around his friends hes a bit of a trouble maker ! i want to get more friendly with this boy before the summer hoildays please help ASAP :(x ... (50 words)

We decided to separate but have recently become closer again, what should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Have been with my wife 13 years, married almost 10 and have 2 wonderful children. About 6 months ago I noticed her "turn off" emotionally with me. Gradually it had come out that she no longer felt the way she thinks a wife should feel about her husband. A little background, I ... (271 words)

Scared I'll end up pushing my boyfriend away, am I being too clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so in love with my boyfriend, that i think i'm pushing him away. I am just so devoted and stuck to him, and i can't help it!! I can see myself doing it, but can't stop myself. He never tells me how he feels about me, he just wants to be intimate all the time, don't get ... (129 words)

How can I get his attention without looking a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have somewhat of a dilemma here; I'm on a sports team with multi-age and co-ed players. I'm fourteen years old as the site says and I've almost fallen for a thirteen-year old boy. He's absolutely divine; he is tall with long dark hair and big, brown eyes. The thing is, ... (125 words)

I just found out I'm pregnant and my parents are ignoring me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone heres the thing ive been with my partner for 2 and half years we just found out im pregnant and my mum has kicked me out im 28 and hes 26 im now living with my partners parents and on the council list . i wanna talk to my parents but they just ignor me what ... (67 words)

Boyfriend told me to move on while he sorts out his issues, but I just want to be with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years and lived together almost all of that time. He's been wonderful, supportive and caring... basically, I thought he was the one and I love him with all my heart. We are both in our thirties so we're old enough to think about long ... (444 words)

How can I help him see me as more than a 'Friend with Benefits'?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I know that many of you are going to say this is wrong, i am sure it is but what is done is done. We started as a harmless flirting, talking every day and making silly jokes. We do not even live in the same town but he manged to come here and we went out. Everything... (238 words)

Did I blow my chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So i work with a girl, we've been very good friends for a long time and we had been growing close but i hesitated to make a move before i was more sure so after a night out she offered me the chance to crash at hers. I said no thinking it meant just that - sleeping in the ... (120 words)

My friend is being threatened by her ex! What should she do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - two months into a new relationship my friend started texting her old boyfriend asking to just be friends, he kept saying that he 'missed the sex life they had' my friend replyed saying that it use to be good, he took this as she wanted sex, showed up at her house and, even whe... (158 words)

Is love a good enough reason to stay together, despite our problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ive used this site many times and i know if anybody can help me with my problem its the dedicated people on this sit. ok so here it is ive been going out with my g-f for nearly 3 years and i love her to peices. but for the last year it seems all we do is fight over the dumbest ... (366 words)

How can I prevent my mother from finding out I have a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My phone bill has come and my mu has applied for the call list!I've been calling up my guy!I don want mum to know that I'm in a relationship!How do i save myself?... (33 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I was intimate with another man after we'd broken up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've grown intimate with a guy when i'd broken up with my ex.the guy happened to be my best friend.Now i don wanna tell this to my ex since we're back in a relationship.But he knows that i had a best friend and we were good friends.Now he's really possessive about me. What d... (72 words)

I think losing my virginity ruined my life! Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i had sex for the first time, and i loved him and i thought he loved me, but i guess not he used me and its been about 7 months sence then. i wasnt ready but he talked me into it, i cry myself asleep because of him. and now i feel like a whore, and im scared that someone will ... (106 words)

Does this 'friend with benefits' now want to be exclusive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here goes nothing!!! For the past two years I have had a friend with benefits. I know I know I should have dodged the dang bullet two years ago when I ran into the guy at a dive bar. One thing leads to another and here I am...two years in and possibly even more confused ... (493 words)

Is it normal for men like me to want to spice up marital sex life with an escort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 15 years took a remark I made the wrong way. She got really upset and I said it did come out the wrong way. She is the only one I have been with in 15 years. The truth is the sex isn't like it used to be. I suggested having an escort join us and after some time my ... (98 words)

Did he cum on my chest because he didn't enjoy the blow job?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old married woman. Recently, I was giving my husband a blow as he really likes that, when he had me stop, lay on the bed on back, and began to rub his penis over my breats and then shot on my boobs. We had never done this. I had never even heard of it. Does ... (105 words)

Am I gay or is this a fetish?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a young lad an iv always believed i am straight ive slept with quite a few girls an never really questioned my sexuality until the last year or so. it started when i was told by a friend about his girlfriend slipping a finger up his bum during foreplay an i got curios ... (187 words)

I have to overcome my trust issues or I will lose the father of my baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All I Have a few Dilemma's in my life right now. Been with my Boyfriend for a Year and Half, And it has been the best year of my life. Im now Pregnant and Looking Forward to becoming a mum. We get along great,Always tell eachother everyday that we love eachother, there... (455 words)

How can I turn down advances and maintain a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is a recurring problem, I meet someone from a website for an ambigious date/meet up/hook up to see how it does. Commonly, from very early on I've decided if I want to take it further or not, a bit of fun, friendship or something more meaningful. If I decided its only a ... (163 words)

My boyfriend is visiting dating and teen porn sites and its ruining our intimacy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf does not think dating forums and porn has anything to do with me. I feel unsexy and not good enough. He cant stay of teenporn sites. I hate it it affects our sex life. He does not even try to satisfy me. He is using cipralex which makes it worse. The problem is I love him ... (63 words)

Am I terrible if I am secretly happy when my ex encounters a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does feeling like this make me a bad person I feel so happy when my X gets a problem and feel very bad when he achieves something i hate how i feel..but its something that automatically comes about... however i dont show it to anybody that i feel like that. in fact i alway... (84 words)

Help! My religious beliefs prevent pre-marital sex and my boyfriend's demands are so scary!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - hey The guy he loves me he is not from my country,,,well i luv him and he luv me alot he said 2 me he want 2 have sex with me and i was shocked because he knowing that i cant have sex before marry its forbidden in my religion then he said ok (i will just kiss u and touch ur... (118 words)

Does my girl love me or does she secretly prefer another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am totally lost. I just had six months of great passion with a great girl I met. She's 23, smart like the devil, and a pure beauty. It's not the routine yet, but we know each other very well now. Recently she told me she had a one-night flirt with a guy (livi... (175 words)

What does it mean if my husband is lying about another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not a jelous person and i've never been, until recently - we went to watch the soccer with friends and i wasn't feeling gr8 so i went to lie down, when i woke up i went to the bar got a drink and danced a bit then the party i was with wanted to go home - on exiting the ... (211 words)

What do people think of the 'Rubber Band Theory'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age - This is for both for both guys and girls. Be good to hear both points of view. Do you believe in the Rubber Band Theory that men need to pull back after intimacy? How do guys feel during this period of needing Space? ... (51 words)

How can I let my boyfriend know I'm hurt and its over, without looking like its affecting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "I was supposed to tell you last time, that I have something of a girlfriend. She likes to throw fits and, since she's a pretty jealous and paranoid creature, demanded that I make it clear to you that, yes, I am somewhat taken." "I guess she thinks you're some kind of a threat ... (204 words)

Forgot to take my tampon out before sex, now it smells realy bad!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have this problem well you see i had intercourse while there where a tampon inside me and it went really rought so i did manage to get it out but somehow it still feels like something is in there, it hurts very bad now everytime i want to have intercourse with my husband it ... (173 words)

I'm think my ex-husband is using me, but don't know how to break the cycle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am really confused I need some advise. I got married and all was well, we have a 3yr old daughter and I realized my husband is cheating, even so after we spoke about it I forgave him but I do not think he changed. I am the breadwinner and he is not doing well financially, his ... (319 words)

How do you know its safe to go back? How can you tell if you WANT to go back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have separated after 2 years of marriage (together for 7). We had been unhappy for about 7 months. He felt I was nagging when I tried to address issues with him. I felt he couldn't control his temper and it led to verbal and some physical abuse. After much ... (214 words)

My ex doesn't want to be intimate anymore. Am I wrong to share my pain with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and half years....on and off. We officialy broke up on august last year but we still see each other and we still talk and are intimate so nothing has really change. Earlier today he tells that he thinks we should "stop being inti... (322 words)

Can I qualify for council-living?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this may sound like a silly question, just wanted some information. I Have bidded on a flat for 2 days now and im still in 1st place although i have bidded on alot in the past but never reached 1st place like i have now which is great news, the bidding ends 22/06/2010.... (207 words)

We have had various arguments and fights. Should we date again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is going to be really long....... Me and my girlfriend recently broke up after 10 months of dating. In that time we have had a couple arguments and a couple fights. We went on a break about 3 months ago and she kissed another guy, then she came back to me. We broke... (227 words)

My overbearing mother is ruining our new parenthood experience

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. This is very long. i am 21 and expecting my second child in 5 weeks time. My daughter is 2 and I live with my fiance, and childrens' father. I live 5 minutes from my parents in flat attached to my fiance's uncles house, it's the only rent we can afford so we can't move ... (635 words)

Does the number of her previous sexual partners, make her an unsteady person?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, There is this thing that's been bugging me for a while now and I will appreciate any honest answer to my question. I've been involved with a girl for the last 7 months and at one point we actually discussed one of the 'not so good to talk about in a relationship' subje... (323 words)

If she really loves me, wouldn't she completely ditch her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello! i just red an article here so i just decided to make my account, hoping i would have a much better judgment or opinions. The thing goes, I met a girl which is my classmate "MISS D" (college) at first we didn't speak to each other that much.Until one night, the last day ... (662 words)

I'm I just paranoid and reading into things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my bf for 5 years now. Last year June, he proposed and i said yes but since then we haven't gone ahead with anything as I'm 22 and I fear that marriage is a huge step, I just wanna be a little more older. So we've been going through a rocky phase every now ... (426 words)

I still love her but the romance is gone, how do I get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I met a girl 2 years ago and fell deeply in love with her. Unfortunately, she had an ex partner who has been a nightmare. She had a child by him too. The problem is that due to all the stress and drama caused by her ex, the romance has been lost for me. She became quite ne... (256 words)

Should I bother waiting for him, or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story. I met this guy at work about 2 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 29 I’m 38); he said thats not a problem for him. I’m very much in love wit... (229 words)

Made out, emailed but no replies

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17 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just broken up from a long relationship and was not intending to meet any one. However whilst dancing in a club and a bit tipsy I met a guy. I flirted with him and refrained from giving him my contact details and name, likewise he did the same as he is very cautious due ... (457 words)

How do I change and get him to notice the changes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of almost three years broke up from me as I was anxious and emotionally demanding. I had panic attacks and anxiety. How do I change this about me and get him to notice these changes? Also his friends didn't like me at all and he didn't see them. How do I change ... (96 words)

It's been three years, how can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I make him miss me so much it physically hurts and he'd do anything to be with me again? So here's the deal. I'm anxious. I had panic attacks. He didn't go out as he volunteered to look after me and I had emotional break down's a couple of years into our relationship and ... (308 words)

Sexy stuff to do with your boyfriend?

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What sexy things can i do for my boyfriend...and like what sexy things can i say to him...i dont want to have sex with him..just sexy stuff i can do for him. ... (32 words)

Why is his ex always brought up when we argue?

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone, anybody tell me why me and my boyfriend argue constantly about evry little thing possible? and when were in the middle of an argument he'll bring up how us arguing reminds him of how his past relationship with his ex girlfriend was. He brings his ex up alot when ... (76 words)

How can I make him forget about my past and focus on the present?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is finding out all about my past relationships and what i've done. these things im not proud of at all and i honestly don't have a reason why i did the things i did. he always gets mad at me whenever he remembers something he was once told, or if some jerk decides ... (179 words)

What flatters guys the most?

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17 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I've been quite in love with him for 3 years. We've admitted to feeling affection toward each other quite a few times in the first year we'd met. It never worked out though and ended up us agreeing to be friends--which really meant never talking. We were those perfectly ... (640 words)

Can someone on meth really love anyone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does a person on meth feel bad for things they have done wrong? If on meth do you black out and for get things you do or later remember and regret? If doing Meth and hurt your loved ones does the drug make you not care? Educate me please and tell me how this drug affects ... (113 words)

My ex girlfriend and I got back together but she's pregnant with another man's child

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with the same girl on and off for about four years, and things arent getting much better. During one of our longer break ups, I was starting to really move on, it took a really long time for this, for me to even stop crying at her name. Now we're back together and shes... (205 words)

Effects of abuse?

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So when I was younger like 6, I had a sexual experience with a boy who was almost 14. Then I had another with a couple ppl who were like family to me. I am a pretty strong person so I delt with it silently for many years. A good friend of mine who experienced something similar ... (123 words)

Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to be equals and not ... (119 words)

How do I let go after 4 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with this man a little over years now. In the beginning he told me all he wanted was a friends with benefits kind of relationship. well, i just had a baby so i was in no rush at all to jump into a relationship. so i agreed to it. as time went on i ... (505 words)

What should I do? Should I stay with him?

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he likes me A LOT. we've been close friends almost 2 years. I love him, but the fact that he still has feelings for his best friend (aka ex girlfriend) bugs the Hell out of me. I know that he's in love with her and he admitted that he will always have feelings ... (125 words)

My boyfriend says he'll always have feelings for his ex

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he likes me A LOT. we've been close friends almost 2 years. I love him, but the fact that he still has feelings for his best friend (ex girlfriend) bugs the hell out of me. I know that he's in love with her and he admitted that he will always have feelings for ... (124 words)

Is he turned off by oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a 43 yr old man for almost a year now. Since our first sexual encounter I realize he has some mild ED. I notice that while going down on me he never has an erection. My question- is this related to the ED or is my BF just not turned on by ... (74 words)

Should I start talking to him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help..He dumped me once, then came back, then dumped me again, and I found out he had kissed another girl during that time. Now, he's back again,saying he made a horrible mistake, and that he realized what he was missing out on. The reasons he dumped me were because I ... (244 words)

Is it normal to want a baby at my age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and I love children. I think that sometimes they are the cutest ever. I have been having weird thoughts lately though. My parent would kill me if it ever happened at my age though, I would have no support what so ever. So here is my question: Is it weird that at my age I ... (79 words)

My sister is pregnant with my ex-boyfriend's child! How can I get over what they've done and learn to trust again?

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Well here it comes, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. I love him dearly, but i am extremely jealous and insecure about myself. I am always thinking that he is at work cheating on me, or he is texting other girls behind my back. About a year ago, i was ... (349 words)

I had sex with my best friend!

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with my best guy friend, we took it to the next level and had sex, now he is all I can think about, we both still flirt and do stuff together, but we still see other people, I get jealous when I see him with other girls and he does the same with me and other ... (68 words)

How can I cut ties with the man I share a child with?

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge problem. Well, it's huge to me. Me and my son's father aren't together anymore. I found this site on my search to find out why women keep going back to the same man. Insecurity, doubt, fear... whatever. Endless...I cut all ties with him a few months ago, but the ... (350 words)

Why doesn't he reply to my texts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for 5 months. We really like each other but I have a concern. Whenever we text or talk on the phone, the either doesnt reply or it says things like "K" but when we see each other in person, the fun is nonestop. Does this mean somethings wrong or? A... (92 words)

I'm 22 and in love with my friend's 14 year old sister!

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17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im 22 and i've fallen head over heels in love with my friends 14 year old sister, it wasnt intended and i cant help how i feel, I wont act on my feelings even tho i know she loves me, but when shes older(16-18) if she still feels the same then i will ask her out and in the ... (175 words)

I'm always sad and lonely!

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why do i feel so empty most of the time? i work three days out of the week, which my husband drops me to work in the morning and a stay home mom the other four days. he gives me two hundred dollars spending money every week. we have a beautiful little girl three years old. but ... (216 words)

Will she think my penis is too small?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My best friend and I decided that we should have sex, just to see if we should be together. I'm worried that she might think my penis is to small. I measured my penis and it is 4 and a half inches. I just wanted to know from a females opinion is that too small? BTW she's not a ... (63 words)

I'm obsessed with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I really need help. Im...im suffering from obsessive love and I need to know where I can get easy and simple financial help, along with some advice. Here is my situation, I have fallen in an obsession with an 18 year old women( and i've been obsessed with her ... (87 words)

Did I handle this in a mature way?

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17 June 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1400 words)

I have a crush on my mom's doctor!

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17 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hi Guys!!!i have a crush on my mom doctor and he's 26 and last time i check he was single ! but i notice that he was little shy and nerdy But(nothing wrong with that!!!)because i'm nerd!but anyway i try to have a conversation with him because my mom went to the restroom and he ... (203 words)

Can anyone else not see how my girlfriend has provoked my jealousy?

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17 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When my girlfriend tells people about how jealous i am she leaves out a good bit of details that actually lead to the jealousy or well made it worse. There are 3 main things that made it worse and drove me to the point where i questioned her about stuff like how she thinks a ... (188 words)

I'm only attracted to men in the military!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an attraction to military guys and that seems like all that I want, why can't I seem to like/date anybody else?... (23 words)

What should I write in my message to her???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Everybody, So about two weeks ago at my brother's prom in Mexico I met a girl and we hit it off really well. She is 22 years old, like me. As it turns out, she actually lives near Los Angeles (where I live), and visits there frequently. As the party drew to a cl... (296 words)

I'm so angry, I thought he was genuine but now feel he's fed me a load of bullshit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm still angry and cant seem to get rid of this anger. I dated this guy for 3 months. We had fun together but he had issues he needed to work through - excessive drinking, tryin to rebuild his life (get a car/job etc), family member dying and having to fix up their ho... (480 words)

How can I get his attention again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help yet a second time, im in love with this boy lets call him Casper, and i love him very much, i want us to be together, and he says he wants that too :) and we have been talking for over 4 months now, and we are very fond of each other. at least i know i am and he ... (151 words)

My girlfriend seems to have feelings for another woman! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now im 25 and she is 21 recently shes been acting a bit weird lately being distant from me and didnt want to get close to me or anything i came home early from work one day she was in the shower and had her laptop left on on the ... (469 words)

My irregular periods.

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I think this is my period but I really am not sure. I have PMS im feeling grumpy, irratable, cramps and wanting to cry over stupid things. ITs a pain really. I know I am not pregnant because about 18 or 19 days ago my period started (May 28) and ended the 1st. Bu... (158 words)

My best friend's boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This past weekend i just met my best friend's boyfriend and oh my is he a cutie, But i realized that he was thinking the same thing about me, He started to text me the following monday after we first met... he told me "Your gorgeous, your eyes are the like sun and your lashes ... (137 words)

Stuck in a love triangle, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have this huge crush on this guy im 14 hes 16 i practicly love him i jus met hiw this year and he keeps telling me he wants to hang i want to but idk if my parents will aprove and there is another isue he has a girl friend which he loves but is in foster care and she wants to ... (97 words)

I told him I'd wait for him... but I'm already married!

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17 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 24 years, he is very controlling with me. to make a very long story short this guy started talking to me at work, we got to really enjoy each others company. the only problem is that for one he's only 27 im 41, but he thought i was 32. he has a ... (139 words)

If he loves me, why is the ex still hanging around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

17 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys...I really need some advice! Its quite a tricky situation and none of my friends or family know what to do. Recently I started seeing a 25yr old guy i met in a bar, I have to be honest and say i wasn't attracted to him at first, but as the night wore on he was funny ... (535 words)